What if I could tweak your talents even higher? From everyday lover to Clitoris Connoisseur? How will she thank you—after the biggest, strongest heart- poundingest orgasms of her dear life?

As America’s Pleasure Coach, I’ve uncovered surprising truths about female orgasms. Easily, the orgasmic upgrades that’ll turn your hands into living sex toys are often simple tweaks to what you’re already doing!

In fact, look at this one surprising truth:

Your clitoral moves are mostly sound. But these guided tweaks are your passport to ecstasy.

Really! With the few hints you’ll read below (and maybe even try tonight!), I guarantee you will take your girlfriend or wife by storm, bring out her TRUE orgasmic potential – then feel her passion come roaring back to you with erotic pleasures you’ll love, time and again.

But first, a quick word to every woman curious enough to be reading this! If you find yourself cheering and applauding the sensual touches I am now revealing to the guys in our lives we love so much (and want to love more), that blue Tweety bird at left will gladly carry your orgasmic tip-offs to all your adventurous friends (including one in particular!).

Okay guys, try this tweak next time you’re in the heat of foreplay: Do Nothing.

That’s right. When was the last time you got good advice, and that advice was to Do Nothing. Yet here’s what I mean: As you’re gently fingertipping her clitoris, and you feel her excitement on the rapid rise, instead of rubbing faster and faster, simply pull back your fingertip ever-so slightly and do Absolutely Nothing!

I guarantee you will drive her insane with lust. In fact, her clitoris may actually begin chasing your fingertip in search of the intense pleasure of your touch. So enjoy the chase – then resume giving her what’s now become a matter of urgency!

But what if her clitoris is still a bit of a mystery to you?

Try this:

Too bad they don’t teach this in school. Bet you’d pay attention then!

Knowing the “how” of clitoral touch works best when you know the where. And while every clitoris is as different as every snowflake – some hiding and others easily seen – you’ll always find the clitoris atop your lover’s two inner vaginal lips, cradled just below where they gracefully arc together (see illustration).

So how does it feel to her when you caress her clitoris just right?

Pretty close to how the head of your penis feels when she touches you just right. (And that’s a BIG clue to controlling the pace and pressure of how you touch her!) Now, the moment you try on your lover the technique I’m about to share with you—I guarantee you will magnify the sensuality of your touch so much, you will easily send her down that slippery slope to splashdown in Orgasmland.

Here you go:

The BIG secret to delight her with the biggest orgasms EVER comes in one 4-letter word.

That word is Lube – as in personal lubricant – which I guarantee will light up every one of the THOUSANDS of clitoral pleasure receptors packed into her tiny pleasure button!

Some may say that the natural lube provided by Mother Nature is all that’s needed. True… for some women, some of the time. But vaginal dryness, caused by medications or dehydration or bad timing will cause your gentle fingertip to feel like SANDPAPER on her clitoris. (I speak for all womankind when I say, “OUCH!”) Next time, try a little drizzle of a slippery water-based lube you can easily get at any pharmacy, or online, and you will QUICKLY glide her to sexual ecstasy.

How on earth do you think she’ll reward you??

Whenever you learn a cool new move playing your favorite sport, you probably score more, right? Same goes for sex. I hope you’ll try these moves I just shared with you, and I guarantee you’ll run up the scoring!

To sum up: Passion is a two-way street. Being a giving, generous lover always comes back to you in unexpected, erotic ways.

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Could it be her orgasm isn’t playing hide and seek after all? Maybe Mother Nature’s just playing a harmless little tease on the two of you.

Why is it that many women don’t climax from pure penetrative sex? It’s because a whopping 80 percent of women need some sort of clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm—either directly or indirectly. This means standard missionary-style penetration often misses the mark from Mother Nature’s little flaw of design. Thankfully, I have the resolution to your non-orgasmic sex woes. Let’s beat Mother Nature at her own fun—by creating an abundance of orgasms for your lover, and even simultaneous orgasms for you both!

All it takes is a little CAT, or coital alignment technique. That’s textbook talk for the pleasurable sensations of aligning her clitoris and vulva with your pubic mound and shaft during missionary-style sex. Now, you can go from barely sideswiping her orgasmic trigger, to directly rubbing and stroking her clitoris for glorious orgasms while deep inside her.

You just need to make a small adjustment to what you’re doing now. Here’s the scoop:

Start in traditional missionary position, only with a small pillow under her hips (this’ll give her some lift along with support for her pelvic angle). After you gently glide inside, shift your body up several inches, so your pelvis is directly atop hers. You should be higher up on her now, with your chest near her shoulders (and no longer face-to-face). With this new alignment, your shaft is now providing pleasurable friction on her vulva and clitoris with every stroke.

Now amp it up: While staying snug and pressed against her, slowly grind and gyrate your pubic mound in small circles as you press against her vulva. Try visualizing her clitoris as you press on it, and resist the natural temptation to lift off and thrust in and out. Just keep your penis snugly inside her, and sense the rhythm she needs. You’ll know you’ve found it when you feel her holding you tighter and pulling you closer with her legs!

Here’s how it works: By simply sliding yourself up slightly, you’re giving her all the clitoral contact and delicious friction she needs to come. And with only that tiny position adjustment, you’ll advance from “good in bed” to “super-generous-five-star-giver-of-orgasms-good-in-bed lover”—and who wouldn’t proudly wear that merit badge?

Now that you’ve got the hang of it, take it to the next level: try incorporating a subtle sextoy like a luxurious vibrating penis ring along with masterful clitoral fingertip touching to keep the orgasms coming and coming…

You’d think Mother Nature would’ve set all this all up for you with CAT-like precision, but it seems she’s left a few fun things for you to still figure out on your own. So next time: Shift > Contact > Come!

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Once you’ve got the alignment down, spice up your bedroom fun with sex toys from  TickleKitty.com:

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You may already know this, but chances are, your girl uses a sex toy (or several). Pretty dang hot to think about, right? And although she’ll always enjoy using them alone as an essential and healthy part of her sexual release and discovery, she’d probably love to have you join.

Sex toys are super efficient and amazing and will probably take over the world one day. But they lack in one crucial area: emotion (for now). My friend, that’s where you come in. Along with your undoubtedly magical body, you bring laughter, affection, and unforgettable memories the two of you will never be able to stop talking about. If that wasn’t enough, here are five reasons sex toys will lead you to better and more frequent sex.

1. It exudes selflessness

Some fellas have it in their head that using sex toys is cheating as if sex was some kind of game fueled by the ego. Without getting too poetic on you, sex is so much more than that.

Therefore, the man who can check his ego and enhance bedroom activities for the selfless reason of improving his lover’s experience is the same man who will not only be considered an ideal lover but also receive admiration and reciprocity sevenfold.

2. It helps you, like, get to know yourself, man

It’s all about self-discovery, man. So spark a joint, put on some smooth jazz or that other stuff you’re into, maybe light a few candles… Sex toys will help you map out your body, unleashing the unique and surprising things that make you feel really good. You’ll be all like, “Whoa! Hey now, what the heck was that? I kind of like that.” Then, you can take your newfound body awareness to your lover, so she knows exactly what you like. This will make you a more confident lover (which is one of the hottest things a girl could ever want in the bedroom).

3. It’ll help you last longer

When you practice alone with a self-masturbater like the Hummer, which is as close as it gets to the real thing, it will feel awesome, while helping you build up your sexual stamina for your next encounter with a real-life woman.

And when you use a penis ring with your lover, it can help you go the distance in two ways. First, when applied around the base of your penis and testicles, it can effectively prolong ejaculation via the “squeeze technique.” Secondly, it will trap blood in your penis, so if you have trouble maintaining an erection for an extended time, cock rings will help your erection compete with your appetite (and your cardio). The Tammy Couple’s Ring is the perfect choice because it will help you last longer, while making her come quicker, so you can hopefully orgasm at the very same time.

4. It leads to more orgasms

Sexual pleasure, in its many forms, could not be as accessible as it is today without sex toys. Whether you’re physically disabled, single, or have trouble climaxing, sex toys will ensure you don’t miss out on all the fun.

There are even sex toys if you’re in a long distance relationship. The Moxie gives all the power to the person with the remote, so even if your lover is across the globe, you can still give her orgasms.

5. It will enhance her experience

Guys, you’ve probably already noticed this because you’re totally on it, but many women have trouble climaxing if the clitoris is neglected. It’s biology. So what humanity did was create toys for the clitoris like vibrating wands and clitoral suction toys and vibrating cock rings to more effectively give the attention her clitoris deserves while you’re able to focus on your penetration game. This combination of pleasure will drive her wild, and possibly more so than any other item on this list, make the sex better and more frequent.

Even after reading the points above, some may think introducing sex toys in the bedroom will only benefit her. But who do you think benefits the most when she benefits from something in her life? First her cat, and then… YOU. That’s right, man. If you’re ready for your life (especially your sex life) to reach new levels of greatness, I highly recommend surprising your girl with a new toy.

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Spice up your evening with surprises from TickleKitty.com:

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Giving great oral pleasure is an art, and if you want to create a masterpiece, you’ve got to equip yourself with the right tools. Even the most talented fingers, lips, and tongues can level-up their oral expertise with a drawer full of sexy accessories. Tickle Kitty has got you covered on the best vibrators, lubes, and sensation-enhancing toys to play wing-man (or woman) to your mouth, and we’ve listed the best ways to play:

1. Keep it Wet and Slippery

Wetter is always better, especially when it comes to oral lovin’. Even the wettest and wildest babes will feel the difference between plain ol’ body fluids and an extra dose of moisture from a sensual lubricant. Spring for a tasty delight like with flavored lube for an added bonus. Once you’ve drenched your partner’s penis or vulva in strawberry sweetness, enjoy lapping it up with your lips and tongue as you explore every inch of their nether regions. For vagina owners, always double-check your ingredients, especially when flavor is involved. A healthy, hypoallergenic lube that’s safe for your insides and outsides—like Slippery Kitty—will be pH balanced, water-based, and free of glycerin and paraben. Drizzle on the wet stuff like you’re making an ice cream sundae and go to town!

2. Suck and Stroke

Just when he thought it couldn’t get much better than a warm mouth and soft tongue, introduce your new secret weapon: a men’s stroker. Penises love texture, and a squishy oral-friendly sleeve, like the Hummer Penis Stroker, brings a new dimension to your head-giving game. The Hummer is full of soft bumps, twists, and turns that feel incredible as they bob up and down his erect penis. Lube him up and alternate between licking and sucking his member with your mouth while stroking him with the masturbator sleeve. If you’ve got a sensitive gag reflex, use the sleeve as an extension of your mouth and suck on the tip of the penis while using the masturbator to stimulate his shaft. No matter how you choose to play, he’ll be in ecstasy with his two favorite things: smokin’ hot oral sex, and a new toy just for him.

3. Pulse and Play

Men’s sex toys have been catering to blow job lovers since the invention of the wheel. It’s about time the ladies had the luxury of top-of-the-line oral delights. Thanks to the Womanizer, vulva owners can now experience all the body-tingling sensations of the most skilled oral giver, all in the palm of your hand. The Womanizer uses tiny pulses of air to recreate the feeling of a gently sucking pair of lips. Although this unique toy is awesome for solo time, we think it also makes the perfect addition to couples’ oral play. Hand it to your partner and use it during foreplay to jump-start the sensitive nerve endings in the clitoris. Once you’re warmed up, move the Womanizer’s suction cup lower on your labia while your lover gently licks your clitoris (or vice versa with a tongue on your labia and the toy on your hot button). This little oral wonder is also a great way to reach your big-O with the helping hand of your partner if you can’t always climax during oral. For tireless lovers (and the occasional tired tongue), the Womanizer hits the spot every time.

4. Jump, Jive, N’ Moan

There’s nothing like a blended orgasm—that toe-curling combination of clitoral and g-spot climax in harmony. Bring some good vibrations to your oral session with a wearable internal sex toy, like the Warming G-spot Swirl. Insert the Swirls curved, bulbous head into your vagina while letting the flatter, outer piece rest on your vulva and clitoris. The internal G-spot shaft will rock you like no other while the vibrating pad simultaniously carresses your vulva’s sensitive nerve endings. Before you get down to sexy business, make sure you’ve got your cell phone handy. This sex-tech vibe connects to an app on your smart phone, where your partner can easily control the vibrational patterns with a single swipe. Givers, take note: to drive her absolutely wild, change your tongue technique every time you click to the next vibration setting. As an added bonus, the Jive teases your partner across the bedroom or across the world. When you can’t get a taste of your lover, the bluetooth connection enables long-distance play time.

5. Booty Rockin’

Oral connoisseurs are always looking for their next thrill. If you’ve tried every sex tip in the book and are looking for a truly unforgettable orgasm, anal stimulation can be a mind-blowing new addition to your oral repertoire. Start slowly with a beginner-friendly small plug, like the Little Zinger. This gently-weighted anal toy is comfortable to insert and offers a little extra fullness as it’s shape stimulates the nerve endings in your anus. Wear it while receiving oral sex and you’ll immediately notice those extra tingles that can only come from teasing your tush. Once you’ve fallen in love with the delicious mix of oral and anal pleasures, spring for a pyrex anal toy like the App-Controlled Ditto+. Let your lover buzz you into orgasm as they take control of the Trio’s remote and three strategically-placed motors while working their mouth over your vulva. If you love blended orgasms, simultaneous clitoral and anal play take pleasure to the next level.

Just when you thought oral sex couldn’t get any better, add a vibe, lube, or stroking tube to bring an extra zing to your tongue skills. There’s no better way to blow your partner’s mind than with some spine-tingling toy tricks!

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Explore our favorite oral love-enhancing toys from  TickleKitty.com:

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Sexy gifts? Yes Please! Pleasure is the gift that keeps on giving, and believe us lovers — we are experts in pleasure. In fact, you’ll probably want to be extra naughty this holiday season to get a very sexy gift!

We’ve compiled our top 10 favorite sexy gifts from our NEWEST collection to keep you or a partner on your toes this holiday season.

Self-Lubricating Lucy

Sexy gifts like the Self-lubricating Lucy is every penis owner’s dream. She’s soft, warm, wet, and always ready to embrace your erection with a loving grasp. Simply add some saliva or water and she’ll moisten up for immediate action, with every ridge and curve ready to please. Even better? When you squeeze her to open and close the air valve, the powerful suction strengthens to send you over the edge. We recommend giving Self-Lubricating Lucy to your lover for long distance pleasure, or to use together for and extra hot addition to foreplay.

California Dreaming Pasadena Player

Can you handle some dual-action? We totally think you can. Come play with this soft, contoured cup on your clitoris, and feel the hidden silicone tongue slowly dancing everywhichway on you. Now, as the shaft swirls, grooves, circles and vibrates your G-spot—try clicking your clitoral flicking pleasure up to the passion speed that races you to orgasm. Enjoy Pasadena Player solo with a good water-based lube, or show your partner how to pleasure you in absolute style.

Finger Wand

A dream is a wish your wand makes, and the power is in your hands! Get naughty this holiday season by getting handsy with the Finger Wand. Use the soft, silicone sleeve to guide the bullseye tip to your clitoris, nipples, or other sensitive spots — better yet, make it a public experience. Have your partner slip on Aria and caress your clitoris while driving, on a date, or in public — discretion is key with a bullet so small, yet so mighty! Maybe that secret trip to the bathroom during Christmas dinner may be more exciting than anticipated, lovers.

Wearable Vibra Plug

Ever worn a butt plug in public? Now is your chance with this sexy gift, daredevil! The Vibra Plug’s silky smooth feel and anchor base are made for play, or if you’re brave enough, wear it all day long. We recommend heating up the festivities by asking your partner (or yourself) to wear the Vibra Plug in thrilling occasions. Think cooking Christmas dinner, opening presents, or even building ginger bread houses. Let’s see if you can handle the heat!

Glam G Bullet Vibe

Love vibes but always longed for a more intense, pinpoint curve? We got you. Made exclusively for women who crave STRONG, intense, rumbling vibrations, come ramp-up the buzzzz from one to ten (although you’ll swear it’s ten to a hundred!). Use on the clit or reach inside with the perfect G-Spot curve, it hits the spot everytime. Trust us, your partner will be entertained for a VERY long time with the Glam G Bullet Vibe.

Two way pleasure: Wand for you, stroker for him. A true gift for two people to enjoy, the Masturwand is the future of couples pleasure. Grip this vibrating stroker like a handlebar, lube up the sleeve, slip inside, and gun the engine. Feel the open-sleeve design rattle and hum you in ways you’ve not yet imagined. Race it up and down— or hold against your partners clitoris as you stroke your way through – thank us later for the versatility!

Butterfly Arousal Kiss

Say hello to your partner’s (or your) best friend! Sleek, cute, and oh so flexible —the Butterfly Arousal Kiss hugs every curve. Tantalizing your G-Spot and teasing your clitoris with gentle butterfly flutters, self-pleasure sessions are going beyond the clock! Going up up and away with the strength of each vibration, you and your partner will be absolutely delighted.

Tushy Beads

Whether you’re curious about anal play or an experienced anal lover, this delicately sized plug stretches you gently with each bead. Pairing with a water-based lube, tease the Tushy Beads into your partner slowly, enjoying every ridge and pop. Who said your holidays couldn’t be a bit… eye-opening.

Silky Smooth Nöje G-Vibe

Want to hit that magic spot every single time? Look no further, lovers! The elegant Silky Smooth Nöje G-Vibe is the perfect pleasure tool for internal G-spot stimulation and exciting external clitoral play. With a perfectly curved length and bulbous tip, this joytoy was designed to specifically target the g-spot with deep, rumbling vibrations.

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The holiday season has our heads spinning! We scramble to organize ourselves, clear our schedules, and think hard on what we can give our significant other. Will it be a fancy new piece of jewelry? A gift card to their favorite shop? Perhaps a dream vacation or a puppy? Let’s think BIGGER. Nothing comes (and cums) close to the joy that is giving your partner relentless, undying, forgoing pleasure like a sex toy. Compiling some of our newest and hottest products, we’re here to guide you on the juiciest options for giving your lover a sex toy treat.

Why get my partner a sex toy for the holidays?

If you’re in a rut wondering what your partner will truly be head over heels for, consider gifting them a sex toy. Sex toys aren’t just an item we keep stashed in our drawers for nighttime. They are the gift that keeps on giving, and will last quite some time.

When you give your lover a sex toy, you are truly gifting your relationship additional fulfilling experiences. We recommend using new sex toys together, while you’re apart, or to facilitate new experiences. Novice and looking to add an element of “new” to the bedroom? Long distance and want to keep your sexual connection strong? Curious to try a new form of stimulation together? It can all be done with the sweet, buzzing, squeezing, and humming love that sex toys have to offer. 

Where do us naughty people start with sex toys? 

Lovers, don’t get flustered on where to start! The greatest recommendation we have for figuring out the magic selection is going off what your partner may already like. Think…

• If your partner likes oral sex, they may enjoy toys that mimic the sucking or flicking sensation of a tongue. We recommend the French Kiss Sweet Talker for women, or the Self-Lubricating Lucy for men. Add to partnered sex for some mutual masturbation, or use the toy on them — we promise you’ll fall in love with this experience.
• If your partner gets off on internal stimulation, try a vibrating dildo like the Noje Rechargeable Slim G or curved dildo like the nJoy Pure Wand for ultimate G-Spot stimulation. These toys are great to use solo or coupled, being a great asset for squirting! 
• If your partner likes to touch their clitoris during sex, try a rabbit vibe! Jumping to a rabbit vibe will stimulate them from the inside and outside with ease. We recommend our newest California Dreaming Pasadena Player for vibes and thrusts that never disappoint. Buckle up though, these are powerful toys that will make your lover squirm!
• Does he like a tight grip when you stroke him or blow him? He may totally love a masturbation sleeve like The Head Honcho, or a cock ring. Many cock rings like the Charged Big O not only keep him rock hard and sensitive, but have a vibe attached to give your clitoris the attention it deserves. 
• Been playing with fingers for some exciting anal play? Level it up with a butt plug! We love training kits like the Luxe Beginner Plug Kit and plugs like the Sassy Vibrating Booty Plug that can be worn during sex by your lover, but also a comfy prelude to anal sex. 

Don’t like guessing? Just ask!

Taking your partner by surprise by giving them a sex toy is usually a fantastic idea. Above are great examples, but sometimes the best course of pleasure is to ask your partner. Let them know you would like to get them a sexy gift for the holidays, there’s no shame! Tell them you would love to know more about what interests them to help pick your selection. While this builds amazing anticipation and shows that you care about their pleasure, open the platform to find out:

• Is there a specific toy they’ve been eyeing or thinking about?
• Have they had fantasies they can’t get out of their head that can be fulfilled with toys?
• Is there something new they would like to try like BDSM or kinky activities?
• What kind of sensations do they want more of? Perhaps more G-Spot love or clitoral vibrations?

Sure this may spoil the initial “surprise” of a sex toy gift, and that’s okay. This can put you at ease knowing you’ll get them something they absolutely want and love. 

Get a sex toy you can both benefit from

We’ve heard it all! “Sex toys take away from coupled experiences”, “Sex toys are replacements” etc. We don’t believe in replacements, we believe in added benefits. Many sex toys are created strictly for couples or with couples in mind, and here are our faves!

Some of our favorite options include:

• Cock rings with a vibe. Equipped with a vibrator to feel good for both parties, and are a small addition to a steamy session. The vibes not only hum the shaft, but gently graze against your lovers clit with every pump and stroke. Rings like the Tongue Her—Couple’s Double Ring Vibe are uniquely made with soft silicone to feel like a wet tongue, giving your woman an experience of a lifetime. The squeeze of the cock ring keeps you rock hard, and sensitive enough to feel every little move.
• Plugs anyone? Anal play is an equal opportunity employer, with all parties being able to enjoy its love. Your man can greatly benefit from some thrilling prostate stimulation, making sex ultra sensitive with powerful orgasms. For your female lover, she will experience heightened sensation in her vulva. With every touch, move, and technique many women report experiencing anal orgasms. We recommend our Tushy Beads for easy to use, and sensational anal beads that can be worn during play or plugged n’ pulled gently by your lover.
• Toys like the Masturwand double as a vibrating wand for your partner’s clit, and a vibrating stroker for your partner’s penis. Incorporate this into your sexy sessions, and watch how much you can both enjoy TOGETHER. 

Watch them smile with joy

You’ll never go wrong with a sex toy for your lover! On the contrary, you may just land in their naughty (and nice) list this holiday season! Opening the door to pleasure, we can’t wait to see what adventures are in store for you. 

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We’re dead smack in the middle of “No Nut November”, and truly, we aren’t holding up. If you don’t know, “No Nut November” is an internet trend started to challenge people to avoid “nutting” or having an orgasm for an entire month. Crazy, right? Primarily this trend has been aimed at men and avoiding masturbation — but is it just another gimmick? 

We’re debunking 5 common masturbation myths, helping you (and your self pleasure) stay strong, sexy, and healthy!

“Masturbating reduces testosterone levels”

A common argument against masturbation, and used heavily when asking men to withhold from orgasm and masturbation, is the idea of reduced testosterone or lower sperm count. This myth about masturbation has been found to be untrue, with masturbation in males having no long lasting side effects on hormones. A study that took place at a sex club found that “In both men and women, testosterone levels were highest after intercourse. Levels were lower before sex and on days with no intercourse. These results suggest that sexual activity influences testosterone rather than testosterone influencing sexual activity.” 

In many ways, we can actually predict that no sexual activity perhaps keeps testosterone levels lower, which doesn’t sound like much of a benefit to us. Keep cumming, lovers!

“Masturbation lowers sex drive”

While masturbation can help curve our sexual appetite when we are craving it, it most definitely doesn’t wipe out sexual desire. Ironically, regular masturbation can actually help us stay sexually hungry for more with ourselves and our partners. We highly recommend masturbating regularly even when you’re in a relationship, as it’s a lovely time for self-care and heating things up for when your partner(s) isn’t around. If you feel your sex drive has been off, set aside 15-30 minutes each day to self pleasure for a sexy boost in your routine.

“Don’t masturbate in a relationship”

A common misconception is that masturbating in a relationship means you aren’t satisfied with your relationship — on the contrary! Masturbating regularly is some well deserved “you time”, and keeps your sex drive thriving. Make it fun by having some mutual masturbation, watching each other get off and seeing your partner’s reaction. We recommend bringing some sextoys to the mix, or ones that you can control from afar to see them squirm with excitement. 

“Masturbating desensitizes you”

Ahhhh, the age old idea that if you masturbate you may desensitize your genitals! Back in the day, this myth was used to scare off people from engaging in some good ol’ self pleasure. Technically, you can’t get desensitized but, you can get used to the same sensation and seek more. 

If you’re masturbating often and feel like it’s lost its spark, try these few tips:

• Take a few days off in between masturbating. While some of us can masturbate easily 2-3 times a day, perhaps it becomes routine or doesn’t feel as exciting. Allow a few days in between to build anticipation, and see how good it feels  “cumming” back to yourself.
• Slow down: As we said above, masturbation can become routine for some. Instead of quickly slamming out the big O before work or bed, slow down when you pleasure yourself. Taking your time while you masturbate can help you build more sensation and anticipation — try popping on a film you love, or reading some erotica to get your imagination going. 
• Shake up your touch! Do you masturbate the exact same way, every time? This can get repetitive, and lose its magical sensation. Experiment with different strokes, rhythms, and pressures. If you have a penis, try using a sextoy like a masturbation stroker or cock ring to enhance the experience. If you have a vagina, consider switching your sessions between using hands and vibrators to keep every experience new and varied with sensation.
• Try using a lubricant like GoLove CBD Lube, which can help calm anxiety, decrease inflammation, and add a kick ass glide to your masturbation routine. 

“Masturbation is addictive”

Just like anything in life, masturbation can become a problem for some. But, this isn’t to say that frequent masturbation is any cause for concern, in fact it’s pretty typical. It’s totally normal to masturbate frequently, and yes, multiple times a day. If you have time, why not? Remember to shake up your routine when you masturbate so it’s not repetitive. Try varying with how much time you take, and take a couple of days off to see if that varies your sensation. There is absolutely nothing wrong with touching yourself, and doing it often — we strongly encourage it. 

It’s best to listen to your own body, and needs

Bottomline — don’t worry so much about masturbation myths or fad internet challenges. Masturbation is completely normal, healthy, and in many ways an essential in keeping us sexually vibrant and satisfied. The key is finding the best ways to make masturbation work for you, and your lifestyle. You are your most important (and safest) sexual partner!

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From clitoral erections to whether the G-spot is a myth, here’s 6 surprising sex facts you probably didn’t know:

The first electric vibrator was invented to treat hysteria in women.

The electric vibrator was invented in 1869 to treat women with “hysteria” or “female disorders”. This steam-powered massager was designed as a medical tool for treating “hysteria,” a medical term developed to describe a woman’s display of mental or emotional distress. This behavior was considered a disease in need of treatment – and was viewed as the most common health complaint among women. Physicians used these massagers for genital massage treatment, with the goal of inducing “hysterical paroxysm” (better known as orgasm) in the patient.

The G-spot is not a myth. And every woman has one.

The “G-spot”, named after Dr. Grafenberg (the doctor who discovered it), anatomically, is the urethral sponge. Every woman has a urethral sponge, which serves a biological purpose. This small, rigid, oval area of the spongy tissue surrounds the urethral cord and engorges with blood during excitement and intercourse, protecting the woman’s delicate urinary passageway from her lover’s pleasure-pounding. And when stimulated, it can provide great sexual pleasure for some women.

Women get boners, too.

The phrase “Lady Boner” is accurate. The clitoris is made up of the same spongy erectile tissue as the penis, which expands and engorges with blood when aroused. So, women can get adorable little lady-boners. The clitoris can double in size in some women! To observe this for yourself, simply look at your clitoris and vulva in a mirror when aroused, and you should see the difference. You can touch and feel it too – your clitoris may be bigger and more firm. But please note, every woman is different and clitoral erections come in all forms. If you don’t see or feel a huge difference, that’s totally normal as well.

If you don’t keep your clitoris active, you can lose it.

Use it or lose It. It’s incredibly rare, but there is a medical condition known as “clitoral atrophy”, which occurs when the clitoris doesn’t receive enough blood flow for an extended amount of time. This can cause the clitoris to retract into the body, or even result in the clitoral hood fusing to cover the clitoral head. So, it’s not just a good mantra, but good practice: “an orgasm a day keeps the doctor away!”

Contrary to popular belief, Cowgirl is the best position for a woman to orgasm.

The best sex position for a woman to orgasm isn’t Missionary, as many think. It’s actually cowrgirl, or girl on top. This is because she is in complete control of the speed, depth, angle and positioning, and can tailor it all to exactly what she needs to gyrate herself to climax! Pro tip: if you tilt your pelvis forward so your pubic mound and clitoris is pressing against his body with more constant contact, you’ll get more of the friction you need, and be able to create that amazing orgasm you desire.

The #1 thing men say makes for a 5-star BJ is enthusiasm.

When it comes to blow jobs, people often think it’s fast, deep stroking with your mouth that he wants, and that will bring him to orgasm. But the truth is while many men love the feel of your mouth, they also desire the added stimulation of incorporating your hands. And most important, being enthusiastic about it all. The combination of good technique, desire to please and enthusiasm is the winning combination. To learn about the popular “Double Twister” illustrated hand-stroking technique, pick up a copy of my bestsellnig book Tickle His Pickle – Your Hands-On Guide to Penis Pleasing and turn to page P. 71.

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They might look odd at first glance, but penis rings – also known as cock rings, love rings, couples’ rings – can be really easy to use, super FUN, and offer you the ability to achieve hands-free orgasms with your partner, during intercourse.

What are penis rings?

Penis rings are sex toys designed to be placed around a penis, usually at the base when semi-erect. They can offer an incredible feeling of pleasurable tightness and pressure and offer other amazing benefits too.

Some styles are available with two rings, so you can place one around his penis and testicles for enhanced sensation throughout his entire erogenous zone. Penis rings come in all shapes, sizes and materials that range from simple, super-stretchy silicone for newcomers to stainless steel for the experienced penis ring aficionado.

This is how they work

Penis rings slow blood flow from the erect penis, making it easier to stay hard for an extended period-of-time. This incredible men’s pleasure product can help with endurance and prevent premature ejaculation, while enhancing his every sensation. And with a now slightly thicker, larger penis! Plus, the built-up pressure from the snug ring at the base of his shaft can set off even more explosive orgasms. What guy wouldn’t want that?

The skinny on vibrating penis rings

These brilliant little sex toys turn a regular penis into a real-life vibrator. Not only do they feel great on his penis and testicles, but they offer the powerful vibrations needed to stimulate her clitoris that can lead to orgasm during lovemaking. Special features can boast multiple and rhythmic vibration settings, special clitoral ticklers, enhanced comfort shapes, waterproof designs and charging capabilities—to name a few.

Top voted bedroom accessory for lovemaking

When working with couple’s, I often suggest they have a vibrating ring in their pleasure chest. They’re a true game-changer for women’s pleasure, since about 80% require direct clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. For newcomers, a great place to start is with a disposable model like the Screaming O—it’s cost effective, comfortably stretchy, easy to use and has a powerful micro-bullet that’s sure to get you off.

Enjoying a vibrating penis ring

When selecting a vibrating penis ring, it’s important to choose a model that has the right vibration, features and best clitoral stimulator for you. For example, The Wave is a vibrating penis ring with a larger clitoral pad that effectively stimulates the clitoris’ 8,000 nerve endings.

Apply some of my newly formulated, water-based GoLove CBD Intimate Lubricant to yourself, and the vibrating penis ring, and make sure its snug and in-place on his penis. Then position the clitoral vibrator so its comfortably aligned against your clitoris. Ask him to try and keep the vibrator in constant contact with your clitoris as he gyrates during lovemaking. Or, if you want to be in control and navigate the vibrator positioning, gyration style and pressure, hop on into Cowgirl position!

More pleasure for him: Spin the ring upside down, so the vibrations are felt under his shaft and on his testicles and perineum. Many men enjoy the ultra-pleasurable vibration sensations and some even wear vibrating penis rings during solo-loving!

Keep these important tips in mind as you explore

Keep His Bits Trimmed

To avoid getting his pubic hair torn and tangled up, be sure to encourage he keep things tidy downstairs. An added benefit will be the enhanced sensations, because the nerve endings on his skin will light up from the all the heightened stimulation.

Don’t Overdo It

Try to limit your penis ring usage to 20 minutes per session. You might want to consider less time if it’s his first time until you get the hang of it. And be sure to remove it immediately if there is any discoloration or discomfort.

They’re Not For Everyone

Avoid cock rings if he is on blood-thinning medications, is prone to blood clots, is diabetic or suffer from any vascular diseases.

Unlimited Pleasure

There are so many options to choose from when it comes to penis and vibrating penis rings. It’s all about having fun exploring with your partner to find the style(s) that work best for you. Where to start? Grab your partner and peruse though the most comprehensive line of penis rings and beyond at Tickle Kitty and see what tickles your fancy.

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1. Lover’s Foreplay Dice Game

2. Crystal Chain Nipple Clamps

3. Stretchy Couple’s Vibrating Climax Ring

4. Manta Men’s Vibrating Stroker

5. Clone-A-Willy

6. Flash Star Erotic Pasties

7. Pump Up The Love – Couple’s Suction Kit

8. Stay Hard Adjustable Loop Ring

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1. Change things up…

2. Focus on her…

3. Take a break…

4. Throw on a rubber…

5. Squeeze your lemon…

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What Are Kegels?

The Gift That Keeps On Giving

But Really, That’s Not All

No Pain, All Gain

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When it comes to the realm of expectation versus reality, shower sex has a way of ranking pretty high up there. The slip hazards, the awkward shuffling around, getting soap in places it shouldn’t be…and let’s face it—we all know there’s really only room for one underneath that glorious stream of hot water.

Needless to say, it’s a lot harder than it looks. But the truth is steamy shower sex can live up to the fantasized hype. With the help of a little strategy, practice, and handy hacks to keep in mind, you and your partner both can make all of your wet and wildest dreams come true.

Bath-Time Basics

Everyone loves a deliciously soft bed, but mixing up the scenery is a great way to keep the throes of romance alive. Here enters the shower—a super sexy option for getting it on outside of the bedroom. It’s the perfect chance to exercise your spontaneity and squeeze in a good impromptu romp before the day’s hustle and bustle even begins. But with it also comes a list of practicalities you can’t ignore.

Keeping your balance is first and foremost the biggest feat, since precarious positioning and wet porcelain don’t always mix well. Finding things to hold onto like a towel rack or shower door can help keep solid footing, along with a retro non-slip shower mat. Once you have that down, also remembering to simply relax is another crucial point, since performance anxiety of whether you’re “doing it right” (or about to crack your head open on the side of the tub) sure can ruin an orgasm.

Shower-friendly Positions

If you’re used to doing the deed in bed, having sex while standing up can feel like unknown territory. But the good news is there are plenty of variations to choose from, depending on whatever makes you feel the most comfortable.

Propping one foot on the bathtub’s edge can help stabilize yourself while setting up a good position for penetration from the front. With this stance, you don’t feel the pressure of needing pretzel-like flexibility and can help control the thrusting power—all while being able to maintain that ever-important, irresistible eye contact, too.

If you want particularly steady footing, standing doggie style is another solid shower-time pick. With one person using the wall to stabilize while the other holds onto their waist and enters from behind, you get a super-hot recipe for soaking success that feels comfortable, plus provides quite the arousing view.

And for the lucky ducks out there who happen to have a hefty ledge or full-on bench, opting for a woman on top or lotus position can bring shower sex to a whole next level as well. Considering you have the sensation-filled splashes of hot water on your naked bodies in a naturally relaxing yet erotically confined space, it’s easy to see how the senses become enhanced in virtually every way.

The other notable thing about shower sex is that it doesn’t even have to be about penetration in the first place. You can tap into just as much sexiness in savoring all the alluring appetizers, like mutual masturbation, oral, sensual massage and, for the ladies, shower head fun. Besides, you can always hop into bed and get to actual sex once the shower is over.

Toys & Lube

Even though we don’t typically think about mixing our electronics with the bathtub, the slew of waterproof sex toys on the market these days allow you make toys a part of your shower play. Regardless if you’re more of a rabbit, clitoral or even mesh sponge kind of gal, the tried and true vibrator is always a great place to start; but if you’re up for the joint fun of a vibrating couple’s ring, backdoor exploration with anal beads, or amped up sensation of stroking a la sleeves, they can each add just as much excitement to the unique play space as well.

And although you’re already in a wet environment, never ever forget that lube is still your best friend! Although it sounds counterintuitive, water alone doesn’t work well as a lubricant, so you need all the extra help you can get to ensure smooth, pleasurable action chock full of slips and slides.

So when considering all the ways to make the most of your next shower romp, keep these tips and tricks in mind to ensure a safe and sexy experience. 

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Ah, February the 14th is upon us again: a day of romance, love, and of course, boinking like furry little bunny rabbits. Whether you’re new to this whole dating thing, or you’re a relationship veteran, we all know about the traditional gifting of flowers and chocolates on a day like this. But sometimes it’s nice to get weird when worshipping your lover. So allow us to help you not only sweeten but also spice up your Valentine’s with the following creative tips.

1. Have it her way.

After you’ve adequately spoiled her, perhaps with one (or some) of the ideas presented in this list, you may find yourself poised for a very special type of intimacy. If you happen to be so lucky, remember that women are interested in more than just orgasms; they’re in it for the journey as much as the destination!

To this end, having a bit of a naughty conversation which focuses on what she wants, not only informs you what to do when it’s go time, but also shows you care, increases intimacy, and is super freaking hot.

If you’ve been dating for a while, you probably should’ve already had this talk by now, anyway. But if you haven’t, this day is a great day to start fulfilling all her wildest fantasies.

2. Sexy massage with flavored lubricant.

Unfortunately society hasn’t recognized Valentine’s Day as a statutory holiday yet (I blame lonely lobbyists). This means she’ll likely be working during the day, which could take a toll on her sexy body. Therefore, a little sensual massage will go a long way.

It could be the perfect prelude to something more because it builds physical intimacy. So after you perform this meritorious service on her body with luxurious massage oil, clean it all off with a tongue bath. Make sure to really get in there and work all of her erogenous zones, of which include her nape, inner thighs, back of her knees, and if she’s into it, her feet.

To make the foray from massage to sexy times more fluid, try using our strawberry Slippery Kitty lube, which performs as both a massage oil and intimate lubricant.

3. Themed hotel room.

Maybe you have roommates, or perhaps there are kids in the picture—either can be total cockblocks. Why not book a themed hotel room?

These establishments boast room furnishings ranging from the typical beach getaway themes to more niche ones like Star Wars-inspired rooms. Go for those unique motifs. Valentine’s Day doesn’t always have to be about forcing romance down each other’s throats.

4. Heartfelt meal—and then some.

Want to know why women find partners who can cook sexy? Simple: because anyone can make a reservation at a restaurant, but not everyone will put the time and effort into preparing a dish served especially for her (with foods you know she’ll drool over).

We’re just getting started here, too, because when it comes to a proper home-cooked Valentine’s meal, the dinner is just the appetizer; dessert is the main course. Once you’ve popped open that bottle of wine, it’s time to bust out some bedroom-appropriate delicacies, like chocolate-covered strawberries and whipped cream. You don’t have to limit yourself: get creative and try out drips of ice cream or maybe a little honey. The possibilities are delicious.

5. Valentine lovebox.

There’s no better gift for your lover than one that fills her with excitement before she looks over at you with playful and suggestive eyes. If you want that kind of reaction, while injecting a little more pleasure into your love life, check out the ‘Shot of Love’ Valentine Kit. It’s been curated with six luxury sex toys, along with a few free bonuses, to ensure this is the Valentine’s Day she’ll never stop thinking about.

Just remember, you don’t have to put on a big-budget celebration which ends in sipping wine before unlatching the clamps at the back of her bustier with the dexterity of a Shaolin monastery-trained lingerie Dalai Lama.

Please. Valentine’s Day should be a fun celebration for couples; a holiday meant to bring romantic partners closer. It doesn’t need to follow a script, and the above ideas are just that—ideas. Celebrate this day however the two of you see fit, even if it means passing out in the middle of a Netflix and pizza binge at 7pm. The important thing is that you do it together.

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With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, we all know the epic debate that never ceases to spark. This year, my boyfriend and I made a pre-game pact to start spreading special love leading up to the 14th’s debut. And in our case, that was hardly a chore when our ‘Play With Me’ Valentine Kit has been sitting pretty since its arrival. Although it was hard to pick just one thing from the kit at a tantalizing time, tonight we knew the super sleek set of arousal gels were calling our name.

‘His & Hers’ in every sense of the phrase, ON’s Clitoral Arousal Gel for me and ON’s Arousal Gel for Men looked like a match-made in heaven. But slowing our rolls for just a hot second, we decided to get cooking dinner out of the way before jumping into our even more carnal dessert.

As the temperatures rose and aromas began to waft…who were we kidding? It was way too tempting to put off! Already the suggestive back caresses were in full swing, when mid-chiffonade of the basil he began tracing his hand up my skirt. At that point all bets were off and we burst into a powerful make out sesh that brought us away from the cozy kitchen and straight onto the plushy couch.

Exchanging nibbles to the lips and ears, I grabbed ahold of his hair as his warm palms glided from my ass to waist, up around the ribs to both of my breasts. The kisses grew hotter and fondling stronger as we swore with each minute the heat of our bodies grew more intense—which is when we knew it was time to crank things up a notch.

By that point we were already half-way stripped down, so we reached for the gels to elevate our already steamy pre-foreplay. He took the lead and slid down my lacey leopard thong to mist my clitoris with a few slippery spritzes of the arousal gel; and not but ten seconds later, the sensations hit like a titillating tidal wave. The natural excitement, the warmth that enveloped my labia, this gel I could feel was drawing all the blood to where it mattered most. I wanted my boyfriend more than ever, and once he started massaging my tingling clit, I knew I couldn’t keep him from joining this heightened pleasure party for much longer.

As I laid on my back and he continued to swirl his fingers around inside me, I snatched up his arousal gel from the coffee table and squeezed a few drops onto my own fingertips. We made eye contact and he saw that I wanted to give him the same seductive joy, so I grabbed his already hardening dick to slather on the cool (and very concentrated) gel drops.

Just like my experience, I could tell in his subtle jaw drop that the effect was nearly instantaneous. I continued softly stroking his penis, which felt like it was getting harder and so much thicker. When he was able to pry open his eyes in between similar rushes of ecstasy-filled sensation, he couldn’t get over the elevation of feeling as well. It was one of the most solid, multi-dimensional erections he had ever experienced—which we both knew was ready for a lot more than just a hand job.

As the increased arousal continued, I pivoted myself around and assumed one of our favorites: 69. With so much feeling building up in our precious parts, we thought it’d be the perfect pairing with such passion-inducing elixirs as these. And boy, were we right!

The second he slid his tongue inside, my world was officially rocked. It was electrifying and totally satisfying in every sense of the two words combined. It already took a lot to edge myself away from orgasming just seconds in, because without a doubt, I didn’t want this pleasure train to end any time soon. At the opposite end, he was just as enthralled. Once my soft, wet lips simultaneously began sliding up and down his still incredibly hard dick, it was taking him through a whole new world of oral-fueled delight.

Of course this position always feel amazing, but combined with the power of the arousal gels, it magnified absolutely everything to planes of pleasure neither one of us had ever experienced. After a few minutes passed, we both were overwhelmed with sensitivity. Finishing a few minutes apart from each other, we got to watch the rousing rush come over one another’s face and lay there in the residual buzz that each of our semi-throbbing bottom halves were still experiencing.

So regardless of how you like to play, we can pretty well guarantee a few dabs of his & hers arousal gel can be just the thing to get your Valentine’s Day party started. Whether busting it out when getting down to business with a partner, or simply your own bad self, there’s no way you’ll regret the punch these little potions of pleasure can deliver.

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One of the most common times we bust out our sex toys is for a bang-up solo sesh. A single toy can heighten the sensations from any other super-hot stimulation you throw into the mix—so would you believe turning to more than one toy at a time is just the thing that can take your self-pleasure to a whole new level?

Say hello to dual stimulation! It’s kind of like multi-tasking, except…for your body. And it’s a lot more fun. By doubling down to simultaneously stimulate multiple erogenous zones at once, the sensations can intensely play off of one another and send you into a tantalizing tailspin of full-body ecstasy before you know it.

After all—it’s always the more the merrier! So you too can make the most of your masturbation in some of our favorite pleasure pairs…

Internal & External Vibes

When the rabbit vibrator exploded onto the sensual scene in the ‘90s, it didn’t send shockwaves through the zeitgeist for nothing. Stimulating both the clitoris and vagina at the same time was revolutionary to the world of self-pleasure—and something you can easily replicate by switching between clitoral and g-spot vibrators within the same solo sesh. Showing love to two totally different hot spots will not only kickstart a pattern of pleasure that’ll radiate between them, but also help bring on multiple types of orgasms within the same sexy stint.

Nipple Toys & Dildos

Another way to capture the dual-action power is by wearing nipple clamps, suckers or even stimulating ice balm while going to town down below with a dildo. Since they contain more than 800 super sensitive nerve endings, the nipples are an understated yet dynamic entry point into a deeply euphoric state of mind. And by unleashing even more oxytocin to flood throughout the body from all the squeezing, rubbing and thrill-filled chilly touch, all the additional pleasure brought on from penetrative excitement can only strengthen the already seductive storm.

Butt Plugs & Penis Play

If you’ve ever test driven a butt plug, you know it feels as if they were made for dual stimulation. They’re great on their own, but all it takes is one additional sexy move to enhanced the incredible sensations that they bring. So go for the gold with a plug in tow and break out a luscious masturbation sleeve or vibrating stroker to make every stroke of the penis feel like leaps and bounds toward orgasms with dream-like intensity.

Finger Vibes & Anal Beads

If backdoor play really is your thing, using a small yet persuasive little finger vibe while toying with the tease of sliding out anal beads can play up the heightened sensitivity as well. Just like any plug, anal toys in general stimulate a whole other world of internal pleasure spots. So tag-teaming to reach the true depths of these sensations with potential held in external erogenous zones like the clitoris or perineum can bring you to ultimate erotic delight. And whatever you do, don’t forget to lube them both up, too!

At the end of the day, toys bring new experiences to our sex lives. So if you know and love the power of what one can harness alone, why not go the extra mile by maximizing each and every sensation with a voluptuous variety of multiple toys and erogenous zones.

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Sugar, spice and equipped to entice, erogenous zones are the building blocks of all things sex and pleasure. They’re always with you in any moment, and ready to deliver in the blink of an eye, but how can you be sure you’re harnessing the power each one of these blissful little spots contain?

Best defined as majorly sensitive areas of the body that yield sexual arousal when stimulated, erogenous zones go hand in hand with sensual satisfaction. And even though there’s not an “official” list of them, nor does everyone react in the same way, there’s no denying the erotic impact each one can have when effectively pleased.

The Go-To’s

When it comes to getting turned on, everyone knows the obviously nerve ending-packed areas like the clitoris and penis. They’re some of the most sensitive parts of the body, plus they stand front and center to any good time between the sheets.

Yet when it’s the art of arousal we’re talking, there’s a host of other places to focus on that contain just as much pleasure-charged potential…if not more.

The Butt

Of all the pleasure-filled zones to choose from, the backdoor offers some of the most fulfilling and exciting sensations. Regardless of how soft or intense your partner likes it, everything from a sensual massage full of kneads and caresses, to tight squeezes and spanking (whether with a hand or crop) throughout your intimate journeys are solidly sexy ways to guarantee a tickled tush. And while at it, don’t forget the lube either, which is essential for an even more smooth and sensual experience.

The Lips/Mouth

Arguably the most exposed of the erogenous zones, your lips actually have a great deal of nerve endings as well. Since the heat begins a lot of the time with an extra sultry make out session, kicking things off with soft kisses that ease into other sexy activities is typically a foolproof plan. From there, playing with different amounts of pressure and intermittent nibbles and sucks on the other’s bottom lip can coax the allure more and more; and best of all—the mouth is also a great way to double down. With lips being one erogenous zone that can be used to stimulate many others, could it seriously be any more of a win-win?

The Perineum

The bridge of skin connecting the anus and scrotum (AKA the perineum) is its own little secret of male arousal. A richness of nerve endings equates to being full of orgasmic possibilities; so whether it’s a soft stroke, deeper rub with a knuckle, or vibrating ring to it he prefers, the pressure can stimulate the prostate and trigger a regular, or even p-spot, orgasm in return.

The Inner Thighs

Extra soft and insanely sensitive, the inner thighs are one of the most fundamental yet forgotten erogenous zones. They’re the perfect grounds for soft kisses, licks and nibbles that can lead to where all the big action happens; and trying out different positions like lotus and cowgirl can give a lot more (and easier) access to them in general. Then if you really want to get the synapses firing, the thighs are a great platform for temperature play as well. So using things like ice or a massage oil candle on them can be a big help to get those limbs warmed up for all the leg-thumping festivities to come.

The Nipples

Nipples can bring on the same sensations as any other genitals on the block. Containing more than 800 nerve endings alone, they can be crazy stimulated by countless acts. From gentle massaging and light brushes with a feather, to kissing, sucking and busting out the nipple clamps or suction toys—there are so many ways to get the blood flow rushing, depending on however mellow or intense your partner likes.

Keep in mind, it’s also not just for women. Plenty of guys find nipple play strikes their fancy too, so it just goes to show they can be just as erogenous of a zone as any other. Actually, make that times two!

The Brain

While it should come as no surprise, the brain itself is also one of the largest sex organs in the body. Saddled with the responsibility of connecting visual, physical and imagined touch, it single-handedly produces our natural responses when other erogenous zones are stimulated. So if you’re looking for the golden ticket to pleasure starring our good old friend the brain, take the big picture into account. Going for sexy ensembles paired with passionate make out sessions, or springing into super-hot spontaneity in the middle of a candle-lit dinner for two—it’s these types of external factors (and more!) that can really get you in the mood, all thanks to the magical mind.

As per usual when it comes to pleasure, there are endless ways to bring it on. From discovering sweet new sensations you may have never before experienced to growing closer with your partner in the process, chances are you won’t mind the side effects from this erogenous journey at hand. So in the end, let’s make the most of our awesome biology and not be afraid to explore more.

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If you play with nipples just so, you can signal all the same marvelous parts of the brain as the genitals do when they’re aroused. You can even trigger orgasms (for some lucky women). Nipples contain more than 800 sensitive nerve endings, and nippleplay can release the happy hormone, oxytocin, making these headlights a go-to erogenous zone for incredible sensual pleasure.

But how to play?

Some like licking, but can’t stand biting or sucking. Others like rougher play, like clamps, flicking or flogging. Some deem nipples a straight-up no touch zone—and that’s OK. Open communication and experimentation is key.

If you enjoy having your nipples played with, and find the possibility of nipplegasm intriguing, below I’ve included some wonderful pleasure techniques to request from your lover. I’m sure they’ll be happy to oblige:

Use breath. Get close and breathe hot breath across the nipples. Add a sloppy lick of saliva for the wetness then blow on them, which’ll then feel cool and breezy.

Light, gentle fingertip touches. With a feather or light touch, and some saliva, glide up and over nipples, then circle around the areola.

Focus on one nipple at a time. Incorporate a massage on one breast while stimulating the nipple with the other hand. The longer you focus on one nipple at a time, the more likely the elusive nipplegasm will be achieved.

Kiss, lick, and suck with your mouth. Make out with the nipples like you’re giving a french kiss. Wiggle your tongue quickly back and forth. Lap it like dog kisses. Suck each nipple alternatively while massaging the other with your hand and watch your lover become overwhelmed with pleasure.

Slowly drip or drizzle hot candle wax on nipples. Pouring warm wax on the nipples sends waves of intense pleasure straight to your southern region, as the nerves in your nipples are connected to your other erogenous zones. This is why some women can even be triggered to orgasm when breastfeeding.

And here’s some other quick tricks sure to surprise n’ please your lover:

• Flick the nipples for a hurt-so-good rush, or slap them with a flogger
• Tap slowly and quickly, or use a vibrator to achieve the same effect
• Gently squeeze nipples in mini pulses
• Roll the nipple back and forth gently between the fingers
• Gently tug and release, then try a squeeze, twist and release

Things to add that can help achieve nipplegasm:

• Add tasty treats to the mix like syrup, whipped cream, honey, and melted chocolate. Or use a fun lickable nipple product like Nip Zip Ice Balm – Strawberry Mint.
• Nipple toys like the T-Cups Nipple Suction Duo or the NipplePlay Vibrating Suckers offer added sensations to send your lover over the edge.
• Nipple jewelry like the non-piercing Chandelier or “Squeeze Please” Nipple Jewels add fun and playfulness, as well as provide some breathtaking eye-candy during playtime.
• Flavored lube can be the right scent to get her feeling saucy. My own glycerine and paraben-free, water-based formula, Slippery Kitty – Strawberry is popular for women who have an erotic affinity to the strawberry scent.
• The Tickle-Time Feather is a light, lovely joy to have brushed across your breasts—and your entire body!

There are many fun and exciting ways to explore nippleplay. Toys, candle wax, lubricant, and a willing partner are great to have, but all you really need is an open mind and some nipples. From there, just go at your own pace to blissfully navigate what’s right for you and those two magical erogenous zones that drive everyone wild.

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There’s a sex position out there which is not like the rest. It’s been handed down by sexual gurus and has been perfected through the ages to become what many consider the most intimate position created. If you’re a fan of closeness and effortless orgasms like most of us are, I highly recommend the Lotus Position.

This position takes your passion beyond traditional girl-on-top positions because you’re straddling your man while you’re both sitting up, which provides a world of intimacy and touch at your fingertips.

With the face-to-face juxtaposition, you can connect in deeply intimate ways. You can comfortably kiss and make-out, stare intensely into each other’s eyes without losing contact, caress hair, hug tightly, and even whisper sweet nothings into each other’s ears. It also offers more yummy skin-to-skin contact, and you can fully embrace each other, which is difficult to do in other positions.

While some positions lend themselves perfectly for full penis in-and-out thrusting, the Lotus is excellent for receiving him fully and deeply inside, while also being able to gyrate your hips, to stimulate those hard-to-reach sweet spots. It’s ideal for slow, sensual lovemaking and more for your enjoyment than his.

Lotus allows him to ‘thumb’ your clitoris in Figure 8 strokes while you sensually gyrate. A tried-n-true way to achieve orgasm while enjoying intercourse.

It’s also perfect for G-spot play. Not only will you feel your G-spot being stroked, but he can also enhance that by gently pushing inward on your lower abdomen (with 3-4 flats of his fingertips side-by-side) at the same time. This action will put more pressure against G-spot from the outside. Think of the G-spot as now getting “squeezed” between his penis head on the inside, and the pressure he’s putting from the outside.

By now, you’ve probably had enough of the foreplay, and want me to divulge how to experience this yummy position. It’s very much like traditional Cowgirl, where you’re on top of him. With the Lotus, he’s sitting up, and your legs are wrapped around his waist. Prop pillows behind him against the bed’s headboard for comfortable support. He sits with legs crossed (or straight out if that’s more comfortable for him). Then you gently mount him, so you’re face-to-face, slide him deep inside, and wrap your legs around him. Bingo, you’re in Lotus. Now enjoy all that grinding friction action on your vulva and clitoris!

Note, make sure you’re tucked tight up against him so you’re not leaning back putting weight on his legs or feet/ankles, which can hurt. If you tend to start moving back with motion, ask him to hold you tight around your butt to help keep you in place.

Intensity tip: after mounting him, arch your back a little so your vulva and clitoris shift forward and lay flat against his lower abdomen and pelvis (like CAT). Once you’re both perfectly positioned, gyrate and grind against him in small circles, and feel the orgasmic rush of pleasure from the sensitive nerve endings of your clitoris and inner vulva being stimulated. Ask him to grab your hips tightly, and to help you gyrate—the extra strength and speed he can offer can do wonders for your orgasmic pleasure and make the difference between getting “oh so close” to “YA-HOOO!”

So if it’s intimacy, orgasms, and a little more control you’re after, The Lotus Position will treat you and your lover very well. The best part is, you’ll be able to see the look on your lover’s face to witness how much he enjoys it. I’m sure he’ll love it just as much as you will.

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It’s often said that a woman can decide who they’ll fall in love with based on the magic they feel from the first kiss—no pressure, fellas! In fact, many women believe kissing is more intimate than intercourse. Time to listen closely, because I’m about to teach those lips of yours some new tricks.

First, you can’t go wrong with tried-and-true techniques like wet, gentle pecks, sucking and biting her lips, sensual tongue swipes and neck suckles. These are scrumptious ways to create a mutually awesome kissing experience that can easily get juices-a-flowing. But to take her kissing experience to new heights, I recommend incorporating the elements of surprise, mental titillation and touch.

I call this trick “The Tongue Lover” and I have a good feeling it’s going to do more than make her mouth water:

After a good amount of warm up kissing when everything’s hot and steamy, and you’re both ready to head to the next level, place your hand tenderly on her cheek and swiftly suck her entire bottom lip into your mouth—use your suction to hold it there.

With her bottom lip snug inside your mouth, use the tip of your tongue to tickle, swirl and lick her bottom lip. Lick in circles and figure eights, go real slow, then speed it up. Spend a good 10 seconds tongue-teasing this area of her mouth.

While you’re teasing away, let your other hand travel south and ever-so-gently cup her entire vulva in the palm of your hand, and lightly knead and squeeze it, teasing her silly as you lick her lip inside your mouth. Observe her uncontrollable reaction to your simultaneous kiss and touch. You should feel her breathing getting stronger about now.

Next, slowly release her lip from your mouth and immediately look into her eyes and whisper in her ear, “That’s how I’m going to pleasure your clitoris next.” Then pull away while still gazing into her eyes and stay locked. Enjoy her blushing with excitement.

That, my eager pleasers, is The Tongue Lover. And whether you’re looking to make a whopping first impression or to spice things up with your lover, it’s definitely something to make her lips smack with joy. Just don’t be surprised if her mouth wants to kiss you somewhere other than your lips afterwards.

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While Kegels first came to popularity with women in order to tighten things up down there after giving birth, men have been increasingly drawn to these pelvic floor exercises in order to improve sexual performance. But do they work? Trust me, if you commit to adding Kegels to your daily routine, you’re going to absolutely blow her mind!

First, let’s examine the muscles involved, then how they correspond to sexual experiences. This network of muscles begins at the base of your penis, and keeps numbers 1 and 2 from escaping before you reach the bathroom to release them. If you’ve ever had trouble peeing in a public bathroom because someone else was around, it was because these muscles tensed up. Science, yo.

But bladder and bowel control aren’t the only things these pelvic floor muscles are good for, of course. When it comes to sex, strengthening and controlling these muscles can be a huge benefit on several levels. But chances are, these aren’t the ones you’re typically working on at the gym, so we’ll need to locate them before we go any further.

Step into the bathroom. If you’re like me, it’s not unusual to unleash a fart when you pee, as a result of these muscles relaxing. So try to find these pubococcygeus (PC) muscles when you’re taking a leak by trying to stop or slow the flow in midstream, while also doing that thing you do when you have to fart, but necessity requires you to hold it in. These are the PC muscles you’ll focus on when doing Kegels. And now that you’ve found them, let’s get to work.

Kegel exercises can be done while sitting or standing, or even when walking. You’re trying them already as you’re reading, aren’t you? That’s good! The key is being able to isolate the PC muscles from the others surrounding them. They can be strengthened by simply tightening them and holding it for several seconds, releasing, then repeating.

While you’re doing these exercises, be mindful to avoid tightening your buttocks, abdomen and thigh muscles. This is all about taking control of the PC muscles that are basically used to working without your conscious involvement. Avoid the temptation to hold your breath. Keep your breathing regular, as with any other exercise or activity. Three sets of 10 reps per day will provide results you’ll notice within as little as one week. But if you want her to notice, stick with it.

So, why are these muscles so important when it comes to sex? Well, these are the same ones that contract when you have an orgasm. So if avoiding premature ejaculation is important to you —and it should be—being able to control them on-command will prevent you from climaxing too soon, so you can understand why this is such a huge benefit of Kegels.

Don’t make the mistake of doing Kegels during sex, though. Remember that you want the muscles down there relaxed, not tensed, which triggers the ejaculation you’re trying to put off. In fact, it’s impossible to ejaculate when they’re relaxed.

Most of us will experience erectile dysfunction at some point in our lives, if only temporarily. But after our sexual peak around age 18, the older we get, the greater the chance that we’ll be affected by ED in some manner. Kegels have proven to be an effective tool in combating forms of ED, including often being credited with increased blood flow in order to produce and maintain stronger erections.

All of these are great reasons to start a Kegels regimen and really take things up a notch for her in bed. But if providing her with better, unforgettable sex isn’t enough, there’s a selfish reason why you should give them a try—better orgasms for yourself. Makes sense, doesn’t it? By toning your PC muscles, those orgasmic contractions will become stronger and more intensely pleasurable. But only after you’ve sent her through the roof, of course.

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By now we’ve all heard of the gender pay gap, and how women typically make only 80-percent of what a man earns during a lifetime in the workforce. I know what you’re thinking: “I’m not even an employer. And if I were, I wouldn’t be short-changing any woman who works for me.” That’s good. But what you may not be aware of, however, is that women are being cheated in the bedroom, too—and that means some of us aren’t doing our jobs, guys.

The National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB) revealed that, although 85-percent of us apparently believe we gave our partner an orgasm during our last sexual encounter, only 64-percent of the women surveyed said that was true. Meanwhile, 91-percent of us came during that most-recent romp. That, my friends, is an orgasm gap, and here are some ways we can close it.

1. Open dialogue

If there’s one thing these numbers tell us, it’s that our ladies are being too kind, letting us believe we’ve adequately performed, when they actually faked an orgasm for our benefit. Make sure she knows it’s important to you that she’s satisfied—and not to let you off the hook with a fake orgasm that essentially means, “Finish up, and get off of me.” Every woman is different, so don’t assume they all like the same things. She may be too shy to tell you outright, so ask her what it takes to put her over the top.

2. Become cliterate

If you don’t know where the clitoris is, or what to do with it, you’re failing. While it’s easy for us to come during vaginal intercourse, women aren’t built the same way, and that clit needs stimulation if you’re going to satisfy her. Just bangin’ is not going to be enough to do the trick. The clit is where all those wonderful nerve endings are, and you need to work it. Protip: Most women prefer having the clit indirectly stimulated through contact with the hood or labia during penetration.

3. Ask her to masturbate for you

No, seriously. Because 64-percent of the women surveyed did not orgasm during their last sexual encounter, it stands to reason they may have had to pleasure themselves while we reveled in our believed prowess. In fact, according to the NSSHB’s findings, 60-percent of women are masturbating alone before the age of 20, and the numbers rise from there. If she’ll let you, you’ll pick up a lot by watching her reach the Big O. You’ll notice that she’ll alternate speeds and intensity. Don’t just watch—learn.

4. Oral sex

We’re not alone in enjoying getting head, fellas. If you’re worried about your ability to make her come during regular vaginal intercourse, you sure as hell better be going down on her to get the job done before you even think about finishing. Again, know how to stimulate the clit, and remember to switch up your speed and pattern. You know, like spelling out the alphabet with your tongue down there, instead of incessantly up and down, or side to side, only. When you do something right, she’ll respond, so pay attention.

5. Foreplay

The NSSHB study found that variety really is the spice of life for women when it comes to sexual satisfaction. In other words, don’t just drop your pants and jump on her. She doesn’t want to be rushed. Take the time to really get her worked up. Think of it as building steam until she goes off. Findings indicated that the more acts involved during an encounter, the better the chances are that she’ll climax. While more than 90-percent of us guys have no problem reaching an orgasm by jumping right into intercourse, barely half of the women surveyed said it was enough for them. It’s wasn’t until five different acts were performed that women’s orgasm rates approached 90-percent, so be sure to try different positions.

6. Bring in the toys

Honestly, guys, this is the easiest and the most surefire way for her to orgasm. And this isn’t an “if all else fails” idea—you should be using toys, anyway. Supplementing your lovemaking with a sex toy is what Batman or James Bond would do. They use cool gadget all the time. So should you. I recommend using a small vibrator to stimulate her clit while you penetrate her with your penis (if she can handle it).

In most cases, it’s not that difficult to help her climax. I do not doubt if us gentlemen put in a little extra time and care, we can finally close that gap for good. Who knows, women might even start having multiple orgasms. And then, for the first time probably ever, we can see a surplus. I mean, if women aren’t getting paid as much as men, they should at least be getting more orgasms.

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If you’re reading this, bless you for giving oral sex the respect it deserves. Sadly, some people are unwilling to take the time and effort to properly to reciprocate oral sex with their partners, though they are enthusiastic to be on the receiving end. Enter the orgasm gap: the statistical fact that in heterosexual encounters, men orgasm more than women. Statistics show over 80% of women require clitoral stimulation to orgasm, which is why oral sex can be critical. Aside from your cunnilingus capabilities, developing a compassionate mentality is a way to tip the orgasm equality scales. Here is a breakdown on becoming the best (oral sex) partner you can be.

Act (and ask) selflessly.

It’s no secret that communication is a challenge for lovers during intimacy, whether we are worried about hurting someone’s feelings, sounding pushy, or killing the mood. Cultural conditioning leads us to believe that staying quiet is easier than speaking up, or learning each other’s love languages. However, there’s a simple solution to remove the guesswork while taking pressure off your partner. Just ask! Let her know how much you love making her feel good, and you want to know what she loves best. Instead of asking “How does this feel?”, be more specific. Tell her you will perform a series of techniques that she will assign with a number. Example: 1 for “Meh” and 5 for “Eff yes!”. This game is an opportunity to demonstrate that you’re not just going through the motions, rushing to get your piece of the action. It will equip you with the knowledge of what works, while empowering her to communicate what she wants. (Why this concept isn’t the Golden Rule of Pleasure, I’ll never know!)

About those tips and techniques…

To start, never overlook the importance of a comfortable environment. Believe it or not, the lights off can make or break our ability to orgasm. Ask if she prefers the lights on or off before getting down to business. Next, grab a pillow or two and slide it underneath her pelvis, to give you a better angle while easing pressure on her back.

As far as oral sex techniques, slow, repeated ice cream licks on the vulva and the U-spot (the opening to the urethra, just above the vaginal opening, above the lips) are a crowd pleaser. Once you get into a rhythm, practice writing the letters of the alphabet with your tongue…in cursive if you’re fancy! Don’t be afraid to get up close and personal, either. By that I mean—use your face. All of it. Big noses are a plus. If you’re nimble, ask if she’d like internal or external finger or sex toy stimulation. For women who like simultaneous stimulation, there is nothing like the gift of a blended orgasm (G-spot and clitoris at the same time). Truth be told, what it really comes down to is dedication, and attention to detail. If all else fails, stop and ask for directions!

Don’t stop, get it, get it!

If your partner is expressing verbal or physical signs of sexual bliss, keep the same motion flowing. It may be an innocent knee-jerk reaction to abruptly switch up the tongue techniques when your partner approaches the edge. Their pleasure is peaking, and one might interpret that as needing to up the level of intensity all around. I have been guilty of this in the past. When their orgasm approached, a voice in my head would whisper, “Lights! Camera! Jazz Hands!”, at which time my hands and mouth would operate frantically with no rhyme or reason. (Just…why?) I ended up learning this later, unfortunately, as each partner was too coy to tell me otherwise. Repeat strokes aren’t boring; they are the stairway to orgasm heaven. If you are experiencing symptoms of lockjaw or carpal tunnel and your partner is enjoying that technique, just stay…right…there.

The female orgasm is a bi-product of something bigger than fancy techniques and vibrators combined. It is the result of mental clarity; thoughts free of sexual expectations and daily stress. There is a ways to go before equal pay in the workforce, but in the meantime, orgasm equality is attainable. One small step for man, one giant leap for mankind. One blog at a time.

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Few things can ruin the moment during sex or foreplay like an immobilizing leg cramp. If you’ve ever experienced it, you know the feeling—and the series of events that immediately follow like clockwork almost every time. A cramp will come out of nowhere, shoot through your leg, cause the body to freeze in place, and leave no option but for you to declare a timeout.

If you experience a mild cramp attack, sometimes all it takes is a quick break to stretch your legs out, then get back to business. It’s OK to pause and handle cramps so you can relax the muscles and be comfortable to get  back into the groove. It’s best to walk around so blood can flow evenly again throughout your cramped muscles. A little hand massaging on the muscles will help, too.

To prevent leg cramps, staying hydrated and stretch regularly will keep your muscles primed. Then consider these few cowgirl adjustments to keep you feeling sexy and flexible, and without leg cramps:

• Pillows make great props. Place a pillow under each of your knees for some elevation while on top. This variation in comfort and height could be the perfect solution to avoid cramps.
• Like speed dating, give yourself 3 minutes in cowgirl, then switch it up. Move your body north so your pussy’s right above his face and let him go to town with oral loving for the next 3 minutes. Then, then switch back! You can enjoy cowgirl again, or even spin around for some sexy 69. Choose your pleasures and enjoy the variety too.
• Take cowgirl to a chair. Give your lover a kiss then turn around for standing reverse cowgirl. This position allows you to be on your feet with legs only partially bent. There will be less of a chance of pesky leg cramps from folded-at-the-knee legs.
• Adjust to reverse cowgirl with your feet on the bed beside his legs, and lean back onto his chest. Arch your back and have him hold your hips to guide and help as well. This way, you’re not sitting on your bent, crunched legs, which can cause cramping from lack of blood flow.

If you do find yourself in the leg cramp situation, it doesn’t have to be a deal-breaker. In fact, embracing the opportunity to stop, slow down and take a break will likely lead to a more intense orgasm when you get back up and continue the fun.

For more information on pleasure and positions, get a free excerpt of my bestseller, “Ride ‘Em Cowgirl! Sex Positions for Better Bucking”—an extensive, illustrated anthology of 100 positions that will keep you moving all night.

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Guys, ever wish you’d last longer and feel stronger during sex or masturbation? Introducing the cock ring, also known as a c-ring, erection ring, or penis ring. These performance-enhancing toys achieve universally-desired benefits of increased stamina, a bigger penis, enhanced sensitivity during lovemaking, and more explosive orgasms. As a natural alternative to pills and supplements, they are heavily marketed to those with a penis, but they also offer titillating stimulation for any sexual partner. For example, cock rings increase the chances of simultaneous clitoral and vaginal orgasms for her. Physical benefits for him range from transforming the look and feel of a penis, while providing a boost in sexual confidence. How sexy is that?

How they work: during an erection, the penis fills with blood, which keeps it firm. A cock ring, secured around the base of the penis, keeps the blood strictly in the shaft, resulting in an engorged look and feel. Wearing a penis ring doesn’t completely cut off circulation; it just slows it down and keeps it localized. The restriction of blood can help endurance, prevent premature ejaculation, and enhance every sensation on a thicker, bigger shaft. Having a cock ring wrapped snuggly around the penis also leads to more intense orgasms, as the ring squeezes the shaft, forcing built-up pressure to be released during an explosive orgasm.

For those new to cock rings, the first step is to determine the right size and fit. Beginners usually opt for a set that includes multiple sizes like the RingO Pro X3, giving the option to pick and choose a comfortable size while achieving rock-hard results. Regardless of material, any ring will easily slide on with a spot of lube; just a little dab will do ya.

For those who want something a bit more complex, c-rings frequently come with a vibrating bullet. The genius of adding vibration to a cock ring is that it turns the penis into a real-life vibrating sex toy. A fitted vibrating ring provides a snug fit for him, and an attached vibrator stimulates her clitoris, no matter what position. The Ultimate Lasso is a fully adjustable design, resembling a bolo tie for the cock & balls, with side strands that loosen or tighten with a sliding attachment. This soft, pliable ring has a removable bullet for mutual pleasure if you decide the ring itself isn’t your thing.

The simple yet stylish Tux is a stretchy, studded vibrating ring with an unassuming look, effortlessly outfitting the penis. Grind on it while on top or ask him to push it harder into you during missionary. Similarly, the Duet Passion Enhancer is also a snug-fitting ring featuring a bullet with a raised texture to tease ‘n tickle the clitoris and labia. A decadent vibrating ring like The Wave features a waterproof design, with a thick, cushiony clit stimulator and ripples that deliver all-over sensations for her and him. When flipped upside down, it will externally tickle his prostate for a truly surging finish. This type of ring is an awesome introduction to mild prostate stimulation without penetration.

A good intermediate option is The Tongue Lover, with two well-fitted loops, and a strategically placed mini tongue to hit the clit. The small inner ring wraps around the shaft, and the larger ring wraps snugly around the balls. This extra-secure fit keeps blood in the penis and enhances every sensation for him, while letting you enjoy clit stimulation and penetration at the same time.

If your desire is maximum firmness, a weighted ring will ensure the tightest possible fit. A weighted ball hangs and tugs from the Weighted Lasso, keeping the ring cinched as tight as possible without causing pain. The fully-adjustable ring promotes a rock-hard feel and explosive climax. Since the design is adjustable, it accommodates any size!

Think you’re too advanced for a cock ring? The versatile Couple’s Reversible Ring will make you think again. This ring has two different shaped vibrating clit stimulators on each side, making it fully reversible to flip around or upside down. Once fitted around the penis, the top loop becomes a finger-sized steering wheel, giving you 100% control to put the clit stimulators where you please. To pleasure his cock, balls, and everything in-between, place the larger ring around the balls and the smaller ring around the base of the penis. The vibrating bullet will rest on his taint to create a magical triangle of pleasure.

With a world of design options and hardly any sex toy experience required, there isn’t only one cock ring to rule them all. This quintessential couple’s toy is the total package!

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For some men and women, the nipples are an extremely pleasurable (and preferred) erogenous zone for stimulation. The reasons aren’t just physical—it’s science! Studies show that nipple stimulation activates the same part of the brain as the clitoris, cervix, and vagina.  When stimulated, nipples release oxytocin, also known as the ‘love hormone’. This neurotransmitter is directly connected to sexual pleasure and orgasm release, which is just one reason to indulge in nipple action. Incorporating nipple stimulation techniques and toys are a fantastic gateway into the world of pleasure products, deeper intimacy, and even the elusive nipplegasm. Here are a handful of nipple toys and techniques to tickle your fancy, ranging from mild to wild.

Accessories

Simply drawing attention to your nipples is a great place to start. The Burlesque Classic Pasties are a necessary striptease accessory. Discreet enough to wear under a blouse for a sexy surprise, these pasties stay in place with reusable adhesive backing, and fit all nipple sizes. Your lover will be pleasantly aroused to see them when the rest of your clothes come off! (Bonus points if you make the tassels spin.) For a fierce and fancy touch, try non-piercing jewelry, like  The Chandelier or “Squeeze Please” Nipple Jewelry. Both of which are adjustable and comfortable, requiring zero commitment. This type of nipple accessory comfortably slips around the nipple and tightens to your liking without pinching, providing a mesmerizing sparkle as you move.

Edibles

Men and women have the same amount of nerve endings in this erogenous zone, so nipples are fair-game pleasure playground. Licking up, down and around will make the toes curl. Sweet treats like syrup, whipped cream, honey, chocolate, and even all-natural flavored lube double as body toppings. Take note of your vagina’s response when your nipples are being licked—does it tingle or throb with pleasure? To make your nipples tingle too, Nip Zip Ice Balm-Strawberry Mint will send chills of delight from head to toe. Then, lightly blow on the area for an extra arctic thrill. Incorporate hot (wax, breath) and cold (ice cubes, cold water) to build up and release sexual energy throughout foreplay.

Good Vibes

Nipple clamps ignite pleasure by applying pressure to restrict blood flow. The restriction of blood flow intensifies physical sensations when applied to the nipples, even more so by releasing pressure. Tighten a pair of adjustable clamps like Purple Nipplettes, which clip on securely when applied at the base of the nipple and are attached to little vibrating bullets to tease the nipple. Clamps feel so good because they mimic the erotic sensation of light nipple tugging that we love so much. Not to mention, the added vibration tickles the nipples simultaneously, creating waves of uncontrollable pleasure.  Hands-free clamps leave your fingers free to roam and stimulate your clitoris (or your partner). Don’t wander too far—the trick is to remove clamps at just the right time. When a nipple device is released, the blood that has built up is released too, sending a rush of pleasure from head to toe. You can also use a handheld vibrator like the Heart Me Vibe on its own to achieve a similar effect, on the nipples, clitoris…wherever the heart desires.

Twist and Shout

Designed for advanced users, the T-Cups Nipple Suction Duo walk the line between pain and pleasure. Apply them securely and twist clockwise until the desired amount of pressure is achieved. A little goes a long way! The suction will make the nipples swell with pleasure, which is visible through the clear tubes. When removed, the nipples are ultra sensitive and primed for pleasure. Take them off during peak arousal, and the likelihood of a nipple orgasm becomes more probable, especially with light sucking or tugging.

For a more moderate affect, try the NipplePlay Vibrating Suckers. These suction cups attach to the nipple with a light squeeze, and vibrate against the tips for orgasmic sensations. They create the same sensitive-to-the-touch effect as nipple clamps and the T-cup suckers, but with less pressure on the nipples. The added vibrating bullets add a playful, erotic dimension to your nippleplay.

Don’t underestimate this erogenous zone—nipple orgasms exist. Aside from satisfying physical benefits, that pleasure molecule oxytocin is also responsible for our feelings of trust! This means that nipple play can bring a whole new level of happiness and depth to your relationship. Just continue to focus on what feels good, no pressure. Unless you’re tightening up the clamps, that is.

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Did you know that some men and women have the ability to orgasm from nipple play alone? It’s science. Nipple play releases a chemical in the brain called oxytocin (the same chemical released during orgasms), which activates the good feeling of pleasure. We all have the same sensitive nerve endings in the nipples and areolas, meaning we all have access to this pleasure hub. The next time you hit the sheets, give it a go, either solo, or with your partner. Pay attention to your clitoris—does a nipple kiss make you tingle? If so, you’re on your way to a nipple-gasm! Here are three secret tips to climax through nipple stimulation:

Secret 1: Communication is king.

Some men don’t realize nipples are an entire other erogenous zone that can be extremely arousing for them as well. So it’s worth an introduction!  Two-way communication is key to fine-tuning sexual pleasure with your lover. Ask if they’d like to gently experiment. Or, approach the nipples slowly and very gently when you’re in bed. Observe their reaction and you’ll know for sure. Ask how she/he wants it. Urge them to deeply focus on the nipple sensations. As you experiment, continue to check in, gauging vocal reactions and body language. Then ask again if they like what you did and how you can adjust it. Start slow and work your way up as you learn your lover’s unique preferences.

Secret 2: Relaxation rules.

Just like a vaginal or clitoral orgasm, our bodies respond best when we are relaxed. It may be worthwhile to devote an entire foreplay or lovemaking session just to the nipples! When the focus is solely on nipple arousal, the more likely an orgasm from nipple stimulation will be reached . Start slow and let your instincts navigate your fingers or mouth. Try massaging a breast with the full hand and work your way into nipple play after your lover is well massaged. Then, tease with kisses, moving down the neck, chest, and eventually to the nipples. Use a lot of tongue and slow, juicy kisses. (This can be a fun way to lead to oral sex, too.) The Tickle-Time Feather is a great beginner’s tool for light breast brushes (or anywhere). At this point, your lover will be eager for your mouth to be all over their man-or-womanhood. If you do migrate south, try edging your partner and make a pact to return to the nipples frequently. For romantic beginners, this luxury Afterglow Massage Oil Candle liquefies at body temperature so it’s never too hot when applying to skin. Full-body arousal means you’re more likely to orgasm from one final lick of the nipple.

Secret 3: Perfect your technique.

Between your hands, mouth, and nipple toys, there are limitless techniques at your fingertips. Focus on one nipple at a time, and alternate to avoid overstimulation. If you are using your mouth, blow and breathe across the nipples. Add a lick of saliva for wetness first, then blow, which will offer a cool, titillating breezy feeling. Nipple stimulating creams like the Nip Zip Ice Balm cause the same pleasurable cooling effect. Don’t be afraid to get sloppy! French kiss, lick, and suck with your mouth. Slither your tongue quickly back and forth. Wiggle your tongue quickly like a snake. Give ‘em sloppy puppy kisses! Or faintly glide over the nipples using saliva or a dab of lube. With your fingers, start with a light, gentle touch. Run the palms of your hands up and down the nipple, and circle around on the areola. The simple Nöje Wand vibrator is a must-have for buzzing stimulation on nipples—or all over the body. You can pinpoint stimulation by squeezing in mini pulses, rolling the nipple back and forth gently between the fingers, tugging, or tapping. If you like it rough, try spanking or flogging nipples. The Heart Beat Crop is great for precise tapping and slapping, and can be used for gentle or rough nipple play.

It may be tempting to jump to penetration, but be patient and communicate! This is the key to achieving an orgasm through nipple arousal. Once you determine the techniques that turn you on the most, stick with them, and let the nipple orgasms roll on in.

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Now that you have the nipple play techniques down, dip your toe into the world of nipple toys from TickleKitty.com:

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Once you break out of the bedroom and away from missionary, the world (well, living room) is your oyster. When you’re good and comfy with Easy Sofa Sex positions, these advanced couch sex techniques will take you from spontaneous to strategic.

Ball Player

With your lover sitting with his back against the couch, climb on top of his mound, facing away from him. Both partners can control the speed and frequency of thrusts…and he gets a great view of your ass. With both of your legs spread apart, you’ve got a ticket to pleasure his balls the entire ride.

Orgasm’s Edge

The back of the couch is your trusty support system for this hot position. Splay your arms on the top of the couch for support as your partner walks towards you. Wrap your legs sturdily around his waist until his pelvis is aligned with yours. With your legs open, he can bump, grind and gyrate your clitoris into sweet, sweet ecstasy. Lay back, relax and enjoy the ride.

View Master

The View Master is a voyeur’s paradise! Straddle your partner while he is sitting on the couch. Lift your legs up on either side of him in ‘V’ formation, and prop your feet on the back of the couch (or an armrest). Then, place your hands on his legs to hold yourself up. He gets an incredible view of his penis penetrating you, and a delicious angle for deep diving. Bonus points if he uses a free hand or clit vibe to stimulate your clitoris during the action.

Deep Dangle

The options to tease and please each other in this position are endless!  Lay down on your back and let your head dangle on the edge of the armrest. While standing, let your lover enter your mouth for out-of-this-world oral. If you’re a multitasking master, you can pleasure yourself simultaneously as you deepthroat. Prop one leg up on the side of the sofa, and use your favorite vibrator on yourself. He can use his free hands to caress your breasts or stimulate your nipples for an extra titillating time.

Cushion Pushin’

Tired but not completely tapped out? This classic position is perfect for a lazy encore (or two, or three). Your lover can sit back and relax as you straddle his lap. If you choose to hold the back of his neck, use the opportunity to engage in a hot make-out sesh. Alternatively, you can place your hands on the back of the couch for leverage. Place cushions or pillows underneath his back to prop him up closer for deeper penetration.

You’re now equipped to enjoy a world of new positions from the comfort of your own home. The best part about these positions? They require no frills, fancy toys, or frequent flyer miles. Want to learn more about mild to wild sex positions for all locations and occasions?  Pick up a copy of my bestselling, illustrated, how-to sex guide, Ride ‘Em Cowgirl! Sex Position Secrets for Better Bucking. Your lover will be thrilled with all your new found knowledge!

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Like everyone else, you probably take your backside for granted. Yet you rely on these muscles all day long for standing, walking, climbing and running. They even save you from passing gas in crowded elevators!

But how often do you think about turning it into a playing field of pleasure—not just to soothe your lover’s aching muscles, but to excite that soft receptive skin? As an often overlooked erogenous zone, those two cheeks are always eager for sensual arousal from kneading, squeezing, kissing, licking, spanking, gentle biting, feather-light touching—or simply calming moments of warm-handed stillness.

Before you begin your sensual booty massage, remember to set the mood. Dim the lights and have your partner lay face first on a soft bed or massage table. Warm and lubricate your hands by lathering on some Slippery Kitty Lube and rubbing your palms together. Most importantly, always make sure your partner is comfortable.

Now that you’re ready to begin, enjoy my expert techniques on giving the most arousing, relaxing booty massage your partner will have ever received.

“Pray for More”

Bring the flats of your hands together, with your pinkies at the top of your lover’s butt cleavage. Begin sliding the sides of your pinkies on a long, slow ride down, nestling them in for maximum pleasure. Now glide them back up, and repeat slowly, over and over. What if you were to add in a subtle wavelike motion?

“Blushing Cheeks”

Cup one palm onto each cheek, and rub slowly in circular motions until the skin warms to the touch. Try kneading and squeezing, too. Now form soft fists, and slowly twist them into the center of your lover’s cheeks.

“Crease Rider”

Nestle the pads of your thumbs into the smiling creases where the legs meet the butt. Apply firm pressure as you glide your lubed thumbs in small circles, slowly widening your circles and pressing deeper. Now run your thumbs slowly back and forth along the creases.

Surfboarding

Place the fleshy heels of your lubed palms above your lover’s cheeks, on either side of the spine. Apply firm pressure as you slowly glide down the cheeks all the way to the thighs. Use a scented massage oil candle for smooth stroking and heater excitement. Keep repeating the glide—resisting the impulse to go faster.

All Thumbs

Gently place both thumbs deep between your lover’s cheeks, on either side of the A-spot. Use soft pressure as you slowly glide your thumb pads up and out to the sides. Now repeat as you move your thumbs down slightly each time, until you reach the taint. Now start at the top again.

Now that you’ve got some booty massage techniques down and your lover is heated and primed, it’s time to dive into something a little deeper. If you want exciting new buttplay, check out my fully illustrated, award-winning book, Tickle My Tush: Mild-to-Wild Analplay Adventures for Everybooty. 

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Now that you have the ultimate booty massage techniques down, incorporate backdoor sex toys from TickleKitty.com for a more thrilling experience:

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