Let’s take a peek into your sex toy chest, shall we? A cursory glance will probably yield a vibrator, a dildo, maybe even a pair of naughty dice, some lube, condoms, perhaps even some handcuffs. That’s all awesome and kudos to you for bringing toys into the mix. But what’s usually missing in the typical sex toy repertoire? Butt toys.

I get it. Anal sex toys aren’t exactly in the beginner’s box. And unless you know what you’re doing, you might not be fully in tune with how amazing they actually are. So, here’s a little secret: analplay toys are not only super fun, but can actually make your orgasms stronger. For that reason alone, everyone, and I mean everyone, should have an analplay toy (or many!) in their toolkit.

A lot of people are nervous about anal sex. And that’s okay. Trying new things is always a little scary at first, and this new trick can definitely be overwhelming. But it should be noted that there are a lot of misconceptions about anal sex. First, we don’t even have to call it anal sex. Analplay is a much better term because even incorporating stimulation, and not necessarily penetration, can make the overall sexual experience so much hotter.

One of the best things about anal sex is that it can be enjoyed by everyone—man, woman, straight, gay, trans…however you identify and whatever parts you have, everyone has an anus. Not only is the prostate a G-spot for men (no matter their orientation), but it’s actually possible to stimulate the clitoris through anal play, seeing as the clit has more than 8,000 nerve endings.

First thing’s first—you’re going to have to prepare just a bit. The ass needs foreplay, too, so to speak. Taking a butt plug and sticking it up there without any preparation it is NOT going to feel good. So perhaps it’s best to start with an “anal training kit”—yeah, that’s a thing. It’s basically a set of graduated plugs that come in sizes so that over time you actually loosen up your butt so that it’s less….resistant to entry. The Blingy Butt Plug Trio is a great place to start. Think of it like an introductory course.

You also should learn to make lube your friend. Relaxing the area and lubing up anal toys are the easiest and best ways to make the most out of analplay. Add a drop of lube the smallest of the three plugs and with gentle pressure, it can slowly make its rear entry. If you’re afraid of butt plugs getting lost inside of you, worry not. That’s a common fear. But any good butt plug will have a handle or flared base for your safety. The Blingy Butt Plug Trio includes a cute rainbow heart-shaped gem for the base, so you’re truly good to go. Once you’ve gotten the most out of the small one, you can increase the size to the medium-sized one.

Do you love your vibrator? With anal toys you can take the same love of the vibration through the back door. The Booty Call Vibrating Plug is simple, sleek, and easy to use. Not to mention, anal vibration is the perfect way to spice up any average lovemaking routine with new sensations.

You can also add temperature play to your anal exploration. Take the Pink Daisy, for example. This satiny-smooth and sculpted glass plug is great for both beginners and pros. Run it under warm or cool water, whichever you prefer. Adding temperature to the experience is a fun way to amp up the stimulation.

If you’re not incorporating anal play into your sex routine, you are truly, truly missing out. In fact, many guys claim it is the ultimate game changer. The prostate is so sensitive that the orgasms it yields are incredibly powerful. So if you’re looking to mix it up, a prostate massager should definitely be on your holiday list this year. This vibrating prostate massager was made to zero-in on the P-spot, and the bullet vibrator has 12 settings are sure to get you off amazingly well. Plus, the handy remote allows for on-the-go playtime. Bonus points: if you’re Ito sharing your toys, this is a great toy for women to use as a G-spot pleaser, as well.

Now, armed with knowledge and a few toys for your starter kit, you’re ready to take on the wide and wonderful world of anal play. And if you’re not ready yet (or ever), that’s totally fine too. Sex is about personal preference, and making the most out of what feels good to you.

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Butt sex is experiencing a pop culture renaissance, and this time, it has nothing to do with Sir Mix-A-Lot (although we appreciate his contributions to body and booty positivity). Anal sex can be one of the most intimate types of intercourse you’ll ever have because it involves the kind of trust and understanding that can only come with truly knowing your partner.

Some of us have sworn off the practice, claiming that butts are a one-way street, but seasoned sex-perts know better. If you haven’t experienced an anal-inclusive orgasm, you haven’t experienced the full spectrum of pleasure.

If you’re wondering why should you add anal into your bedroom repertoire, take it from us. Mutually exploring your booties brings to life all the essentials for a happy relationship: desire, togetherness, curiosity, and a good sense of humor.

Anal Sex is Orgasmically All-Inclusive

It doesn’t matter who you love. If you’ve got a partner, they’ve got a butt! Anal play is gender-neutral and potentially orgasmic for everyone. Admittedly, men do have a bit of an advantage, as they have a prostate or p-spot located inside the anus. This pleasure trigger can cause intense orgasms all by itself when rubbed just the right way with a toy like the Cowboy Prostate Vibe. However, some women have been able to stimulate their g-spot through the thin membrane that separates the anus from the vagina – a lofty goal, but one definitely worth reaching for! Either way, all bums are equipped with sensitive nerve endings that translate into incredible orgasms when combined with clitoral or penile stimulation.  Even if you don’t find the Prostate or G-spot on your first go, you’ll have a blast coming back to try again.

Your Butt Loves to be Pleasured

We know, we had you at “sensitive nerve endings,” and we weren’t kidding. All butts are made for pleasure and equipped with loads of arousing nerves, and you don’t have to find an elusive “spot” to tap into your orgasmic anal potential. A basic vibrating anal toy, like the The Amazing Anal-T, can unlock new sensations for both partners. Start with lots of lubrication, and caress and kiss your significant other while you insert the toy. Turn on the motor’s lowest setting and increase it as your partner moans louder for more. Stroking the penis or clitoris helps relax nervous beginners and activates the brain’s pleasure response. Keep it up and your partner will wind up with a rippling, full-body orgasm!

Connect On a New Level

Anal sex is not only physically pleasurable; it puts you and your partner on a new level of connection. Whether you choose a finger, a toy, or a penis, opening up one of your body’s most sensitive, vulnerable areas is a display of just how much you trust your partner. The communication required to safely navigate anal sex is truly something special. There’s a reason why your bum is so receptive to touch. The anus is made of fragile tissue, so it’s important to speak up if you’re feeling pain or discomfort. A partner who respects your comfort zone will always put your needs first when it comes to safe, pleasurable sex, and they’ll slow down the pace if you’re far from feeling hot and bothered. The gradual build-up to the delicious sensations of anal play will bring you closer than ever, and you’ll wind up learning every inch of your partner.

Forbidden Fruit is Always More Fun

When was the last time you snuck out of your bedroom window past curfew, or parked in a dark street corner for a high school make-out session? Anal sex feels the same way: dirty and taboo, but oh-so-good. If you’re looking for something new and sexy without going overboard with kink, butt sex is the perfect way to walk the line. Even if you only go as far as a slender butt plug, like the remote control b-Vibe Trio Triple Bullet anal plug, you still have a dirty little secret to whisper in your partner’s ear when you’re in the mood. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with having anal sex…but don’t let us ruin all the forbidden fun!

If you’re looking for a little spark to help you and your partner re-connect in the bedroom, anal play is the perfect antidote to the ordinary. It’s all-inclusive for guys and gals, easy to get started with a little Slippery Kitty lube and a flared butt plug, and – best of all –  it’ll open sexual doors you never even knew existed. Your bum is definitely more than a one-way street!

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