Long-distance relationships can be a cruel form of torture, especially with regards to one’s sex parts. I thought blue balls were bad. Then one day I found myself in one of these setups and suffered months away from my lover. It wasn’t long until the separation created a devastating form of genital neglect which spread to my brain and completely disrupted all forms of productivity. Oh, and I totally missed her for a number of other reasons.

To prevent this horrible condition from happening to you, I recommend making an effort to keep things sexy however many miles may separate you and your boo. Here are six ways to do so:

1. App-controlled toys.

Yes, app-controlled toys are amazing. And yes, they’re probably all you need to survive the sexual tension of a long-distance relationship.

Take for instance the Jive, a vibrator which uses Bluetooth. The toy connects with an app to give your partner the ability to control the vibrations—no matter where they are in the world. Your sweetheart can even watch you through the app’s built-in video streaming capabilities.

2. Smell your partner’s dirty laundry.

According to a study at the University of British Columbia, sniffing your partner’s previously worn clothing can help reduce stress. Female participants who whiffed their boyfriend’s dirty shirts had lower cortisol levels, which is the hormone that reflects stress.

That old familiar smell could even lead to a more robust sensory experience when being intimate with or without your overseas lover. And depending on how kinky you are, there are specific articles of clothing which might be more fun to bury your nose into.

3. Erotic games.

Many long-distance couples play games like go fish or charades over webcam to enjoy quality time with each other. How about sexy games? Up the ante by playing things like strip poker or Cosmo’s Steamy Sex Games, which include some games perfect for the long-distance relationship.

4. Nudes.

It’s pretty obvious that guys want their ladies to send nudes. In an ideal world, men would get a naked picture for each day of the week. But we’ll settle for as many photos as we can get. Men understand nudes are an art form and can take an effort to get the lighting and angle just right.

It’s also worth noting that men would be honored to send dick pics if women are willing to humor us by pretending they actually want them.

5. Candid cameras.

It might have something to do with the fact that they’re naked and touching themselves all over, but men thoroughly enjoy watching their woman showering. The slippery aspect is really great as well.

Men would love it if their faraway women set up a camera pointed at the shower and we could admire them as they got squeaky clean. Cameras aimed at the bed and treadmill are also welcome.

6. Dirty love letters

Throughout history, some of the world’s greatest writers have mailed some downright naughty love letters. Check some of them out for inspiration.

If you still remember how to write freehand, this is a beautiful, romantic, and absolutely filthy way to keep things interesting when you can’t be close enough to do and say what you can share on paper. It’s also much more intimate than an email or text message because it includes your personal touch.

If you try all six of these sexy tips, in conjunction with some other long-distance measures, maybe that gap between the two of you might seem a little smaller. And when you’re back in each other’s arms, you won’t need to reignite anything because the fires will still be raging.

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Ever wanted to be one with your lover? I know there have been some extra steamy moments where I’ve wished my husband and I could share one body—to know what it’s like to be him and in him. Tech can’t quite take us there yet, but  there is a toy that can help you experience feelings that are as close as we can yet -ahem- come.

The We-Vibe Sync is the latest upgrade in the We-Vibe collection of wearable sex toys.  A wearable sex toy is designed to be used as a couple, usually during intercourse. It’s a chance to come together (on more than one level!)

It works like this: the smaller G-spot arm is inserted inside a woman’s vagina. The thicker arm is pressed up against her clitoris. And while all this is happening, he slides his dick underneath the G-spot arm and rocks along to the good vibrations. Sounds hot, right? I thought so too.

So I set aside some alone time with my man, and we synced up.

This toy is totally worth learning a little about before you dive into We-Vibe sex. Especially because The Sync has a movable hinge, which allows you to find optimal angles for fucking. It’s the first We-Vibe that you can adjust as you go, making it fit the unique curves of your body. It also has a remote control and a phone app that opens brand new doors to orgasmic possibilities.

The first time we used it, we were together. The We-Vibe Sync is made from top-of-the-line silicone, so we used a water-based lube to help glide the G-spot arm inside of me. Once in place, I moved the clitoral stimulator to a comfortable position. Then my husband grabbed the remote and began playing with the patterns. I loved how many options there were, and that changing the intensity and patterns could be controlled hands-free with the remote. My husband loved the gentle vibrations of the G-spot arm on his dick. He also loved how snuggly he now fit inside of me (two babies later). And even though the toy moved around a little, he was having way too much fun being in charge of the remote.

The We-Vibe Sync has two motors and the motor in the clitoral arm is way more powerful than any of its We-Vibe predecessors.

But don’t worry. It’ll get your clit off, but not blow your clit off.

The motor that rubs the G-spot is somewhat less powerful than the clitoral one, especially when both motors are activated. And if you want more power in your G-spot arm, you can turn one motor off through the app.

Even though the We-Vibe Sync is designed for sex in a dynamic duo, it’s also a great wearable vibe for solo action. And charging it is not only easy, but the station is so discreet you could leave it around the house and it won’t raise eyebrows. Trust me, it looks like an air freshener. Plus, a full charge equals three hours of playtime, and that’s a whole lotta love.

When I’m wearing the We-Vibe Sync, I can easily get off without any help.

A few days after our We-Vibe sex, my husband called me from his office and got a little bossy (and I liked it).

He instructed me to go find, and wear, the We-Vibe Sync. He then told me that he would be home for lunch, and that he wanted me to be ready and waiting. I had no idea that he had already downloaded the We-Connect App, but he had. The blue-tooth enabled app can be used from anywhere. I was so hot thinking about our lunch date, that I even forgot that I slipped in the We-Vibe Sync and was wearing it around the house. Soon enough, I felt a tingle, and then a pulse and a wave. I couldn’t stand for long. I was too distracted. I had to lay down.

I came and then my husband came home. Needless to say, we skipped lunch.

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