Pissed off again because you caught him sneaking his own five-fingered orgasms? It’s time to get over all those false and neurotic reasons you swear are justifiable for wagging your finger at your partner’s self-pleasure. Some women can’t stand the thought of a significant other going solo in the bedroom, and others even claim it’s akin to cheating, especially if porn is involved. None of these outdated, controlling excuses are healthy for your relationship or his well-being. If you want him thriving and happy, keep masturbation on the pleasure menu.

It might not be in the Constitution (yet!), but masturbation is essentially a human right. Shaming your guy about masturbating is equivalent to him prohibiting you from touching your own breasts or vulva. Masturbation is a mentally and physiologically healthy activity, and attempting to cut off someone’s access to self-pleasure is more than wrong; it’s sadistic. Imagine how you’d feel if you weren’t allowed to sexually fantasize or orgasm at your horniest moments. Sounds like torture, doesn’t it?

If you’re feeling jealous of his private activities, it probably stems from one of the biggest misconceptions about male masturbation: the more he orgasms alone, the less he’ll desire sex with you. In fact, his private pleasure can actually increase his sex drive. Instead of getting green-eyed over your dude’s solo sessions, get creative. Masturbation doesn’t always have to be a single-handed activity. Bringing self-pleasure into your couples’ time can open up new paths to intimate sharing and connection.

Try Mutual Masturbation

Sometimes the lengthy foreplay and teasing involved in sex just aren’t in the cards. His schedule might be too busy, or frankly, he might just be in the mood for a wham-bam-thank-you-hand. This doesn’t mean you can’t join in on his fun! Sit or lay next to him and start to make magic down below with your own hands. Lean into him and kiss his neck and shoulders, or enjoy a full-frontal view as he creates a sexy, live-action scene just for you. Throw in some dirty talk about your nastiest fantasies and seductive looks and neither of you will last longer than a few minutes! Bonus: Introduce him to a masturbation sleeve. We know, we know, realistic masturbators are icky but it’s your lucky day! Like how your favorite vibe won’t gross him out by resembling like a competing dick, sleeves come in all kinds of shapes and colors to treat your eyes (and his penis.)

Give Him a Helping Hand (or Mouth)

Even if his original intentions were more do-it-yourself, he’s probably not going to turn down a little assistance. Take this opportunity to focus completely on him, which can be a red-hot experience all its’ own. Use your mouth to suck on his testicles while he warms himself up. Grab his butt, or use the pad of your pointer finger to stimulate the perineum, the sensitive area between his anus and scrotum. You can also use your mouth and tongue to tease his shaft while cupping and massaging his testicles. The possibilities are almost endless. Come up for air long enough to ask him how he wants to finish. (And P.S. there’s a good chance this masturbation session is about to turn into sex!)

Be His Private Dancer

If he likes visual stimulation while he gets off, which a lot of guys do, there’s no need to be jealous of the babes on the screen. Everyone enjoys porn once in a while, and it can be a healthy part of your solo or coupled sex life. However, he’ll appreciate a live performance from his favorite adult actress (read: you!) much more because he can take her to bed after the show. Don some lingerie and give him a lap dance, or get right to the dirty stuff. Show him exactly how you get down when it’s just you and a sex toy. He gets to watch you writhe around naked, and you get to watch him in orgasmic ecstasy. Sounds like a win-win situation!

Take His Cue and Do It Yourself

If he hasn’t noticed you tip-toeing past the bedroom (or the computer) yet, you have two choices: turn his solo performance into a duo, or have a play session all your own. Living together doesn’t always leave much room for privacy, so now is your chance to sneak away while he’s happily occupied. Even if your favorite sex toys and lube are held hostage in the same room as your guy, improvise with some pure coconut oil from the kitchen and your ten digits. Choose an extra naughty spot like the living room and he might even catch you in the act after he stumbles out of the bedroom in a post-orgasm haze. He’ll be so shaken up by this fantasy surprise that he’ll be ready for round two before your first climax!

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There’s nothing to fix about your man’s self-pleasure habits – grab something to make it even more fun for both him and for you, when you join in on the fun…

 The Head Honcho

If he loves oral thrills, he needs this in his life. Extra thick, easy to grasp and simulates the feel of your own lovely and passionate lips… BUY NOW 

Mood Thrill

Tickle Kitty’s #1 stroker sleeve—open-ended for easy clean up, and triple textured for varied experiences with with soft massage beads, thick ribbing and stimulating pleasure nubs… BUY NOW
 Spark His Spot – Vibrating Prostate Massager

This smooth, curved, vibrating plug will drive him and his prostate wild. Perfect for beginners and pros alike. He’ll orgasm like never before… BUY NOW

 Slippery Kitty—Au Naturel

Drizzle on a dab of Dr. Sadie’s specially-formulated, toy-friendly personal lubricant for “glide” the way to wetter sex. Available in Strawberry delicious strawberry too… BUY NOW

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It was one of those hot mornings. “I just want an orgasm,” I thought to myself. Luckily, my Red Hot Spark arrived just the night before.

Excited to try my new toy, I plucked it from its pretty packaging, and waited…two and a half hours (That’s how long it takes to completely charge). Good thing I’m patient, and that I believe the best things come to those who wait.

Not only is the Red Hot Spark a fiery little flame of love, it measures a significant buzz on the vibration scale.

If my flowery language isn’t cutting it, let me just say it straight – this shit works.

The unique selling point of the Spark is in its design. Its pointed tip packs so much power that if you use it directly on your clit, you will get off if you need that kind of stimulation. Another unique feature of the tip is that in certain pulsation modes it looks, and feels, like oral. The Spark can deliver all the flickering and fluttering of your lover’s tongue but at turbo speed.

But it’s not only the tip that’s impressive. The super strong vibrations can be felt throughout the toy.

Imagine your favorite rumbly, vibrating bullet but with a tickling stimulator bonus.

The packaging is simple and the instructions are boldly placed on the back of the box and easy to follow. The toy itself is velvety soft to the touch. It’s also waterproof and comes with a one-year warranty. And, it has a secure travel lock.

The Spark is USB Rechargeable. It runs on high for 30 minutes, and can last on the low speed for 3 hours. This lower speed can be great for long, drawn out loving. Especially if your partner is making sweet love to you in missionary position, or doggie style, while you place the tip on your clit.

Since it’s Masturbation May, I started out solo. Well, until my husband came in and began playing with my tits. For me, bringing in my breasts can be the key to prolonged orgasms. As he kissed my nipples, I felt the intensity of the Spark’s pulsations coursing through my body. And just as he was really getting into it (licking, flicking, twisting, mmm yes please), I couldn’t contain myself any longer.

The equation of pinpoint clitoral stimulation and my husband’s tongue equaled an out of control orgasm.

At least an 8.9 on my bed-rocking Richter scale.

I encourage you to let this be the Spark you need to get more creative. Whether this is the first vibe you introduce into your partnered play, or your first buzzing friend on solo adventures, this Spark can, and will, ignite your sex life.

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Now that the Spark’s got you nice and hot, grab another steamy Tickle Kitty toy for solo love. Or, like Sarah, bring your partner in on the fun.

Nöje (That’s Swedish for Pleasure)

All the power of a full-sized power wand—masterfully miniaturized! Indulge in over-the-top orgasms from this tiny and compact pleasureizer… BUY NOW
 

Raspberry Turbo Glider

Indulge in this turbo delight that encases the motor at the vibe’s see-through ‘tip’ for precise vibration right where you want it… BUY NOW
 

Mystic Wand Rechargeable

A whole lotta’ vibration in one light, ergonomic power wand. 3 intensities, 1 vibrating head, unlimited orgasmic potential… BUY NOW
 

Trio Triple-Vibe Remote-Control Plug

The most luxurious toy for backdoor partner (or solo!) fun. Simply slip it inside, and hand the remote to your lover to put them in control of your backdoor bliss… BUY NOW

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May is a much anticipated month for myriad reasons. Flowers start to bloom, warmer weather sets in, and those ridiculous Justin Timberlake memes finally stop flooding our Facebook feeds. Unless you’re a dedicated follower of sex toys, you might not know that May is also—drumroll, please—Masturbation Month!

Thanks to sex toy culture taking off like a rocket ship into the mainstream, masturbation has basically reached a new level of cool. Choosing a vibrator is now akin to picking out a designer outfit or a piece of jewelry. Cosmo magazine has turned into a lexicon of trendy sex toys, and the next Fifty Shades movie is going to have a really hard time maintaining its shock value. In short, it’s finally ok for women to talk openly about sex and masturbation, and that’s a pretty big step considering our fairly recent past.

Men’s self-pleasure has been normalized, or at least joked about, since our grandparent’s time. However, women have had to hide the real use behind their “back massagers” and “magic vibrating fingers” for decades. May isn’t just a good excuse for a new sex toy; it’s a cause for celebration. Masturbation Month is extra special for the ladies because we’ve literally had to fight for our own sexuality.

And just like the empowered freedom fighters of feminism’s past, vibrator history has a few stars that paved the way for today’s endless sex toy options. The Magic Wand, Pocket Rocket, and Rabbit Pearl may seem simple in comparison to modern luxury toys, but they’re still best-sellers for a reason. All three of these old-schoolers are responsible for giving many women their first orgasm! Tracing their origins is an eye-opening experiment in understanding the empowerment we hold by busting through the taboo.

1. The Magic Wand

For many decades, this was the secret cure for the housewife blues. Sold as a remedy for sore back muscles, sewing circles everywhere whispered the true function of the wand: mind-blowing orgasms. His pleasure was #1 in the bedroom back in the 1950’s, so clever homemakers had to take matters into their own hands while he was at the office. Now the Magic Wand is one of the most recognized sex toys in the world. Available in different colors, sizes, and styles, it still makes for a killer back massager, but now we don’t have to pretend that it’s not better between our legs. The Wand is a must-have for women who need a lot of strength from their vibrational toys. If you haven’t tried a dose of Magic yet, invest in this power tool of the trade.

2. Pocket Rocket

This little wonder’s rise to mainstream fame began on an episode of the infamous Howard Stern radio show. The shock jock’s blessing turned heads and made the Pocket Rocket a household name. Originally touted as a body or facial massager, the Pocket Rocket dropped its’ masquerade fairly early. It was sold in both adult boutiques and novelty shops, making it easier to procure for the sex toy-shy types. The Rocket is a bit like a mini Magic Wand: its’ extremely powerful and responsible for a lot of first orgasms with the bonus of being easier to hide in your bra drawer. Like it’s predecessors, the Pocket Rocket has taken on designer toy status, but is still an old favorite for toy connoseurs and beginners alike. It’s still one of the most affordable and versatile sex toys out there, making it a no-brainer addition to your collection.

3. Rabbit Pearl

For younger generations of women, this is the epitome of a sex toy. After appearing on Sex and the City, our view of  women’s pleasure was never the same. Sex’s star Carrie Bradshaw doesn’t get the credit she deserves as a rule-breaker in women’s sexuality. The Rabbit Pearl’s debut was essentially the spark that ignited the female pleasure product movement. As a toy, the Pearl was ahead of its’ time by offering clitoral and internal stimulation that went beyond the dated in-and-out motion that was thought to end in orgasmic bliss. The Rabbit’s characteristic dual-stim design has been re-invented every year to fit different body types and budgets. Having the original Pearl is like owning a piece of women’s history, but there are several modern versions that could double as artwork.

However you choose to celebrate the month of May, make sure you’ve got three sexual pillars at your side: an independent spirit, a We-Can-Do-It attitude, and a killer sex toy.

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LUXE Touch-Sensitive Vibrator

How can you make your favorite dong even better? Make it respond to your every touch automatically. With LUXE, the deeper you stroke, the stronger the power… BUY NOW

Lust L5

Intimately contoured for any woman. Delicately shaped to deliver pleasure inside and out with simultaneous, all-over vibration from its sensuous flexible petals… BUY NOW

We-Vibe Sync

App-controlled for close or long distance love, the We-Vibe Sync has a powerful motor and adjustable C-curve to perfectly fit your inner shape… BUY NOW

MOODY G-spot and Prostate Pleasure Vibe

German engineering, unique design and powerful motor. For him or her, delivering mind-blowing G-spot or P-spot orgasms like you never thought possible… BUY NOW

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