We get it, the heat of the moment is oh’ so hot and sometimes we just want to stick it in. But wait, lovers: There is so much more you can do, without even reaching penetration. Arousal at its finest is finessed through a number of ways, and even hotter when it’s a slow burn. 

This is especially true to women’s pleasure, considering peak arousal can take anywhere from 3-30 minutes in order to near orgasms. When orgasms do happen, they rarely come from penetration: clitoral stimulation is an absolute must. 

It’s a no brainer that we should take a step back and indulge in all the sexual treats we have to offer before starting penetration. Besides, why wouldn’t you want to be the most aroused you could be? Many people and couples also enjoy healthy and satisfying sex lives without ever engaging in penetration of any kind – which is deliciously fun! 

Here are our 3 favorite ways to let your pleasure simmer and enjoy waves of sensation without even penetrating yourself or your partner. 

Your hands are your best pleasure tool

Don’t underestimate the power of your hands when it comes to turning your partner on. They can be used to squeeze, grope, caress, pull, and massage all parts of the body. With lubricated fingers, ask your partner how they liked to be pleasured and have them show you. Perhaps they have a stroke and rhythm they enjoy most, or a rubbing motion that feels best for them. If they enjoy being dominated, try grasping their hair by the nape and pulling them closer to you while you kiss them, or gently placing your hands around their neck. Perhaps your partner likes to have their nipples pinched, or have their hips squeezed and pulled into you as you caress them. 

This can also be tied into mutual masturbation, which is masturbating together. Not only do you get to see your partner pleasuring themselves, but you see how. You learn the touch they love, the methods they use the most often, and their reaction. You can step in and help, or get off on watching each other. 

Get mouthy, literally & figuratively 

Just like your hands, your mouth can be utilized on every single part of your partner’s body. Make it count! Before jumping straight into oral sex, try trailing your lips and tongues along your partner’s body. Start with their inner thighs, work up their stomach, to their chest, and up to their neck and earlobes. These are incredibly sensitive parts of the body and the warm, wet feel of your mouth will be absolutely mind-blowing. 

Performing oral sex is perhaps more satisfactory than penetration for most women, considering it has the highest rate of orgasm turnout. When going down on your partner, ask them what kind of rhythms, pressures, and strokes they enjoy. If you’re giving head to a penis, do they like tongue circles around the head? Deep or shallow strokes with your mouth? How fast? If giving head to a vulva, perhaps they like circular tongue strokes or gentle sucking of the clitoris. 

Just as the physical is important, don’t forget dirty talk! Dirty talk can be very hot, and get your partner hot and bothered even if you’re in public. Try whispering something naughty in their ear while at dinner, or send them a sensual text. The mental stimulation can sometimes be more enticing than the physical, leaving your partner wanting more. 

Sex toys give pleasure in all forms

Sex toys are always our favorite option to recommend, since they can be used in so many ways. Whether you have one around for yourself or want to share with a partner, there are countless scenarios. We love having people teach their partners how to use a toy on them, and make it part of play. 

Have your partner rub a vibrator on your clitoris (we love the Le Wand Petite) while kissing, or on your body as they massage you. You can use a stroker on your partner as they sit back and relax, or apply a cock ring to watch their erection get stronger and stronger. 

Getting a bit more daring, have your partner wear a panty vibe while you go out in public. Using its remote control, play with different vibrational speeds and rhythms to watch their reactions. Besides, who said the movies or a fancy dinner can’t be sexually fun too?

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Orgasm denial can be an intensely cruel game, yet it can also be so excitingly erotic. It will take your orgasms to the next level—if you’re ever allowed to have one that is (I told you it was cruel).

You see, orgasm denial is the practice of being sexually stimulated, but then having the stimulation stop suddenly, and the orgasm denied. Oftentimes, you won’t be the one controlling this. Whether or not you orgasm will be in the hands of your dominant lover.

The Three Main Types of Orgasm Denial

Complete denial is the practice of sexually stimulating and playing with your partner, but never allowing them to orgasm. This can take place over the course of hours, days or even months.

Edging is very similar to orgasm denial, but the ‘denied’ person is actually allowed to orgasm at some point.

Ruined orgasm is when one is stimulated to the point of orgasm, but then stimulation stops mid-orgasm, making it ‘incomplete’ and physically less satisfying for the receiver.

The Benefits

Orgasm denial adds an erotic element of powerplay to your sexual explorations, especially in BDSM communities. By withholding an orgasm, the dom has complete power over the pleasure their partner will receive, and if they ever get to orgasm. The sub enjoys and gets off on the fact they have no control and are in the hands of their dom on what they will or will not receive. Hence, a power exchange.

It’s a great practice if you’re looking to enhance your orgasm control. Your pelvic floor muscles are what contract involuntarily during orgasm. So the more you edge at your orgasm’s tip, the more your pelvic floor muscles are being pumped and exercised. This also keeps your orgasm muscles active and healthy. With more orgasm control, you can learn to last longer, and even learn how to orgasm on command.

This technique is also a great character builder. It teaches you to be patient and gives you the ability to savor the pleasure you do receive. Because when—and if—you finally do orgasm, the explosive release is unparalleled.

Lastly, the practice of orgasm denial can lead to bigger, better and more frequent orgasms. By withholding orgasm for a prolonged time period, the built up sensations lead to an even more explosive release. Who wouldn’t want that? Maybe it’s time you give it a try?

Orgasm Denial Experimentation

The easiest way to experiment with orgasm denial is through masturbation. Set goals to edge yourself up to orgasm say 3-5 times when you’re starting out. So don’t let yourself come until you’ve almost reached orgasm, paused, then restarted. Vary that as you become more comfortable and want to play even more.

With a partner, enjoy mutual-masturbation with edging. Make it a fun game: see who can last the longest receiving pleasure before reaching that point of no return. Whoever orgasms first, loses!

The Best Toys For The Job

Womanizer Deluxe—Orgasm denial via clitoral stimulation is very popular. The Womanizer Deluxe’s unique air-suction technology is designed specially to please the clitoris. And with its super easy-to-use buttons, you can quickly and comfortably switch between the lowest and highest settings, making it the perfect edgeplay accessory.

Le Wand Premium Massager—For those who are into powerplay, this is the epitome of power when it comes to vibrators. Known as the Cadillac of Vibrators, Le Wand is the strongest you can get. If your sub loves a lot of power, then this vibrator that won’t disappoint.

Rocking G Rabbit—Explore edgeplay with triple-stimulation using the Rocking G rabbit vibe. It offers the nice feeling of fullness, with a “self-stroking” G-spot tip and individual vibrating clit tickler. Wow. Now you can control each vibrating pleasure independently and get creative with edging your partner. Switch between G-spot and clitoral action, turn them both on at the same time, or make a fun pattern!

Butterfly Remote Venus Penis—This remote-controlled device gives your partner all the power. Simply insert the wearable vibrator, and hand over the remote, then be a good sub and enjoy the pleasures to come.

Pocket Pulse Penis Vibe—This next-gen penis vibrator offers two unique oscillating motors, and wraps snuggly around his penis. Its unique design allows for hands-free pleasure too! The Pocket Pulse will oscillate on one of his hot spots, the frenulum, or glide it up and down his shaft, stroking him til he’s at the edge.

Satisfyer Air-Pressure Penis Pleaser—Better than a regular handjob, use this masturbator to stroke him until he’s close to climax. Then remove it to show him who’s really the boss.

There’s no denying that orgasm denial isn’t for everyone. It takes a lot of patience to endure such a humbling experience. But, as you learned above, there are many benefits, including more powerful— and better control over—orgasms. And hey, who doesn’t want better orgasms?

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Practice erotic orgasm denial and edging with the help of sex toys from TickleKitty.com :

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Be honest: Have you ever really kept any of those outdated, old-school new year’s resolutions? Most of us have wanted to reach some sort of generic goal at least once in our lives, like losing weight or going to the gym or giving up sweets, but it’s time those boring old standards were given an update for the modern babe. These days, if you want to become a real-life goddess of confidence and positivity in the new year, the key lies in feeling comfortable in your sensual self.

We’d like to suggest some new routines that honor the magical mamma you already are and kick vapid sexual stereotypes to the curb. Giving fear and self-doubt the ol’ KO are way more empowering than worrying about your waistline.

Resolution #1: Stop Stressing About When You Orgasm with a Partner

As if the #orgasmgap wasn’t bad enough, we’ve got movies and marketing telling us that all great sex happens when both partners orgasm at the same time. Wrong! Great sex happens when two people communicate their needs, practice consent, and know what gets them off (or at least aren’t afraid to figure out what does). Coming together is nice on the rare occasion that it happens, but there’s really no reason it needs to happen for both of you to be satisfied. Just make sure to give your partner a helping hand if you get lucky first.

Resolution #2: Give Up All Those Masturbation Myths

Some of those antiquated masturbation myths just won’t give up. No, your vibrator won’t give you nerve damage, and yes, you’ll still crave sexual connection with your partner even if your battery-powered lover can get you off in 60 seconds. There are all sorts of reasons we’ve been fed about why masturbation or using sex toys is bad for us, and this is the year to drop all of them. Not only will self-love boost your happiness, but it can actually trigger your sex drive to want more orgasms with a partner. Just another reason why masturbation is pretty much awesome.

Resolution #3: Try Something New in Bed—With Yourself

Trying something new in bed with your significant other is a good idea by itself, but this year, take it up a notch. Try something new with yourself, solo, that you’re curious about, like anal vibrators or triple stimulation—something with the possibility to feel so deliciously satisfying that you’ve got to test it out alone first! Use your hands and some new toys to open up pleasure areas you never knew existed. Once you find your new technique, feel free to share it with your partner and teach them how to send you into ecstasy.

Resolution #4: Get in Touch with Your Spiritual Sexuality

When you’re deeply in touch with yourself as a sexual being, self-love is a ritual of getting to know your sensual spirit. Light some candles and incense, make an altar of crystals, and sit cross-legged in front of the softly glowing light. Put on your best lingerie and choose a mental picture or a fantasy to focus on. Look at yourself in the mirror and admire your curves. Give yourself a sexy massage and discover hidden pleasure points. Whatever makes you feel whole, beautiful, and in touch with yourself in these moments can be translated into confidence throughout your entire life.

Resolution #5: Find What Fits You, and Go For It

Whether it’s swinging or polyamory or the most vanilla, monogamous, missionary position kind of sex, don’t be afraid to fall into the style of having sex that fits how you receive pleasure. We know kink is all the rage, and it’s so bad-girl-status to wear your sluttiness on your sleeve and date around a la Samantha Jones from Sex and the City. But deep down, what kind of sex actually makes you happy? What kind of sex puts you in that magical aroused trance where you can’t tell up from orgasm? Whatever it is—whips and chains, multiple partners, meditative tantric sex—that’s the kind of sex you should be having, and it’s all up to you to figure that out. Sounds kind of fun to us!

It’s 2018, and it’s safe to say that whatever is bogging down your sex life needs to go. Kick your preconceived notions and uncertainty all the way back to January 2017 and live the goddess-worthy sex life you deserve.

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Start 2018 the right way with top of the line sex toys from TickleKitty.com:

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Take a look at any modern sex toy line-up and it’s obvious that humans love to please multiple erogenous zones at once. There isn’t some big secret as to why The Rabbit, with it’s magical ability to hit the clitoris while penetrating you, is still one of the best selling and most copied vibrators on the market. Our orgasms intensify to electric proportions when two of our anatomical hot spots are stimulated at once. This is what’s called “dual stimulation,” and it’s so popular that it’s even become a buzz word in sex toy culture.

There are endless permutations of body parts to pair up and touch, but we’ve got a few tried-and-true favorites to kick-start your sexual multi-tasking. The best part about doubling up is that you can do it solo or with a partner, and if you don’t have the perfect equipment handy, improvisation is easy. We’ll show you what parts to please to find your match made in orgasm heaven and how to treat them to the caresses, buzzing, and touching they deserve.

Combo #1: Vagina and Clitoris

Most dual-stimulation toys for women are crafted in this super-popular combination for a big reason. Many women love penetration, but can’t orgasm without something happening around the clitoris. When you add clitoral pleasure to a bit of internal thrusting or fullness, it’s rare that you won’t start seeing stars. If you’re ready for a dual-stim toy of the vaginal and clitoral variety, The Ohhh Kinky Bunny is a great intro version that’s similar to the design of the original Rabbit Pearl. Try the Foreplay Frenzy if your clit craves more broad stimulation or you want to extend the vibrations to more of your labia. You can even mix and match a dildo and external vibrator for a truly customized experience. Wands like the Nöje are often paired with g-spot-reaching dildos like the Icicle for choosy babes who like to move each toy independently. 

Combo #2: Penis and Testicles

You didn’t think we’d leave the boys out in the cold, did you? He loves dual stimulation just as much as you. His testicles are extra sensitive, and this is exactly why he loves having them touched while you’re playing with his penis. Just don’t squeeze too hard, and let him tell you what feels good. The easiest way to get started is with some lube and your hands. Gently massage his scrotum while you stroke or suck his lubed-up member. Figure out how much pressure he enjoys, and then bring in the toys. The Tenga 3D Pleasure Spiral makes stroking his boner even more fun than usual. Then dig into your own toy collection for a vibrator like the Le Wand Petite or the Magic Wand. The long handles make it easy to reach underneath and around his sack, and the wider heads offer more broad stimulation so you don’t miss any of his tender pleasure places. 

Combo #3: Anus and Clitoris or Penis

Opinions are like asses: everyone has one. That’s why our opinion is that adding anal stimulation to your sex play is fantastic for everyone. Butt stuff can be a touchy topic for both men and women, but adding a bit of clitoral or penile pleasure helps you relax and reap the full benefits of your booty. If you’re both anal newbies, start with something small like the vibrating Silhouette Butt Plug. Vibrations help the anal muscles to relax, so it’s always good to have the option to turn them on. Slowly work in the toy with lots lube while you stimulate your partner. For him, the Mood Thrill stroker keeps the good vibes flowing as he gets used to the new sensation in his bum. For her, The Butterfly’s multiple vibrational speeds arouse the clitoris, which will awaken the delicious feelings of anal penetration. Once you’ve gotten the hang of things, upgrade to a premium butt plug like the Spark His Spot or a glass piece like the Pink Daisy, which you can warm up in water for an extra yummy buttplay experience. 

We love dual stimulation because it’s all-inclusive! We’ve all got some variety of penises, vaginas, clitorises, butts, nipples, and other hot spots to combine for full-body orgasms. Pairing up your erogenous pleasures is the quickest, easiest route to spicing up your solo or coupled sex life. 

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Choose your favorite pleasure combo and try out these other dual stimulators:

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Nipples are a wondrous erogenous zone. With more than 800 nerve endings, if you play with them just so, you can signal all the same marvelous parts of the brain the genitals do.

I’ve been blessed with 36DDD tits that straight-up love stimulation. I’m not one of the lucky ones who can orgasm from nipple stimulation alone, but tit-play turns me on.

Whether your gender, nipple play can be a sensual way to spice up foreplay. Nipple play can release the happy hormone, oxytocin, and these headlights are the erogenous zone closet to the heart. Who knew?! It’s high time this often-overlooked source of pleasure deserves some love and attention.

Find out what your partner likes and doesn’t like. Some like licking, but can’t stand biting or sucking. Others like rougher play, like clamps, flicking or flogging. Some deem nipples a straight-up no touch zone – and that’s OK.

Here are a few ideas to get you started:

Touch them

Basic hand-to-tit contact, however it presents itself, is highly erotic for me. Give my breasts a slow, featherlike rub, circling my nipples, and I’m sure to melt. Bonus points for slathering them up with water-based lube and taking your sweet ‘ole time.

Tease them

Tickle my nipples with a finger, tongue or slowly formed lips and I’m bound to go wild. When it comes to sex, for me, the buildup can be as arousing as the actual act itself. I may be super on-task/Type-A in my day-to-day, but I like play slow moving and uncertain when it comes to my breasts.

Pinch them

Few things excite me quite like having my nipples pinched and slowly twisted. I dig a partner who will take his or her time stimulating me with various intensities of touch.

Suck them

OMG, the sight of my nipple in a partner’s mouth is a total panty dropper. Nuzzle up and suckle for a while and I tread into all sort of unfamiliar (but super-hot) maternal fantasyland.

Bite them

I’m a big fan of biting. It’s one of those tactile sensations that can start with slow pressure, then get amped up to whatever desirable pain threshold. I happen to like pain and pressure, so generally, the harder the better.

Wax them

Recently, a partner turned me onto the ways of what hot candle wax drizzled on nipples can do. Spoiler alert: It sent wave after wave of intense pleasure straight to my pussy. Who knew? Regulate the temperature of the wax by how high you hold the candle above the breasts – you don’t want to burn your partner.

The next time you hop into bed for sexy time, be sure to give your partner’s nipples some extra special attention (pending they’re a willing recipient). We’re so hard-wired to think all our pleasure must come from penetration or clitoral stimulation, that we overlook other key nerves.

Do you love or loathe nipple play? Weigh in and send us a tweet at @ticklekittty. We’d love to hear your thoughts!

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The Chandelier

Loop these around each nipple, cinching them till they feel exquisitely tight. Now you’re ready to dazzle with a touch of glam on one of your favorite assets… BUY NOW

Wireless Vibrating Nipple Tips

One ounce each of delicious weight. Adjustable to your personal pleasure-pressure. Clamp, twist, and buzz to your heart’s delight… BUY NOW

Purple Nipplettes

Irresistible vibration and tight stimulation is now at the tips of your breasts. For solo playtime time or indulging a lover any time… BUY NOW

Flash Star Erotic Pasties

Two fab reusable sparkly stars—the perfect accessory with (and under) any outfit. Surprise your lover, and add some shine to your star qualities… BUY NOW

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I’ve always been a sexual being. In my 20s, I had an all-you-can-eat meal deal when it came to sex, but it wasn’t until my 30s and 40s that I realized my voracious sexual appetite plus experience meant empowerment.

I never bought into the whole marriage/family/career trifecta of happiness, although I’ve achieved great joy and success from my work. Many years ago, an editor at a major bridal magazine echoed this sentiment after I filed a story on married women having multiple orgasms when late-90s sex icon, Kim Cattrall, then in her 40s, published her book, Satisfaction: The Art of Female Orgasm.

“You’re not marriage-minded enough to write for our magazine,” she opined.

“I’ll take that as a compliment,” I retorted.

The idea of women experiencing pleasure, much less in abundance, seemed like a far-off concept to a woman in the business of peddling happy endings. Go figure.

It took until midlife for me to realize that most men don’t want the brand of womanhood I bring to the table. I’m a strong, fiercely independent woman. They say they want the likes of me, but when it comes down to it, they usually can’t handle me. I’m too loud. Too liberal. Too impetuous. Too unapologetic. I’m in no way demure, nor do I fit into a tidy little package. And although I do love being tied up, it’ll never be in a coveted Tiffany blue box topped with a white ribbon bow. Female partners, I’ve found, have been more accommodating.

That said, in recent years, when I’ve connected with partners with similar intense libidos, I find myself having the best sex of my life. Here are 8 reasons why:

1. Stay active

I always feel my sexual finest after breaking a sweat. Whether it’s going for a run or doing reformer Pilates (“Strong core means strong pelvic floor,” says my instructor), post-workout endorphins seem to boost my mood and libido. Sex uses a lot of muscles I don’t use in my daily routine, so working out steps up my strength, flexibility and stamina – all good attributes when playing boxspring bingo.

2. Talk about sex

One of my partners jokes that I talk about sex and BDSM with the same ease as gardening. Why not? I enjoy all of these activities with similar passion. Talking about sex and desire creates an open line of communication and makes the topic less taboo. Sexuality is part of what makes us human and we need to normalize these discussions.

3. Honor your body and sexual self

Growing up, I suffered from major body image issues. My mother’s claim to fame was that she never weighed more than 118 lbs. – and that was when she was pregnant with me. It was also drummed into my head that I wasn’t supposed to think about sex, much less derive pleasure from it. In my 40s, I celebrate my 36DDD boobs, ample ass and sexual self. My partners do too. It took a long time to learn I’m worthy of sexual pleasure.

4. Be clear with expectations

Before I get intimate with a new partner, I’m upfront about sexual expectations. This means disclosing my non-monogamous lifestyle, talking about safer sex practices, birth control and boundaries. I find that being crystal clear and respectful from the start avoids a lot of confusion when trying to build a sexual relationship. Radical honesty FTW!

5. Ask for what you want

Repeat after me: Acknowledge your right to pleasure and value yourself enough to ask for it. Unless you’re willing to open up and share what turns you on (and what doesn’t), getting off becomes a random game of duck, duck, goose. Remember, confidence is sexy.

6. Stop caring so much

In my 40s, I’ve stopped getting so hung up on what other people think. The bottom line is that you’re a brave, courageous being worthy of sexual pleasure. You should never be ashamed of what sexual pleasure looks like to you or what makes you feel good.  Pleasure is a highly personal experience. Own it.

7. Don’t fake it

If you’re faking pleasure to protect your partner or fast-track a less-than-stellar hookup—please stop it. We know that women take much longer than men to climax. After penetration, most men climax within four minutes, less if masturbating. The female orgasm requires more work, taking 20 to 30 minutes of clitoral stimulation. That’s work you and your partner have to put in. Let’s all agree that while orgasms are amazing, it’s OK if you don’t come. Just please, for the love of female pleasure everywhere, stop pretending that you did. Every woman deserves a happier ending than that.

8. Why stop at one?

Women’s bodies are hardwired to be multiorgasmic. Harnessing that superpower can be easier said than done. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve been more open to exploring this territory. Specifically, if a partner does something that makes me come (usually steady stimulation), I’ll keep going in pursuit of a feel-good sequel. Women don’t require the same refractory period that men do, so there’s no reason to not have moregasms.

In my fourth decade, the biggest takeaway is that the best sexual relationships start with loving yourself and owning your sexuality. I make sexual exploration a priority and actively pursue to make these experiences happen. Knowing who you and are what you want is a big piece of the pleasure puzzle.

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Celebrate your sexuality with Charyn’s suggestions. And grab something buzzy and fun to get on board that multiple orgasm train!

The Jack Rabbit One Touch

Not too big, and not too small. 10 can’t-get-enough settings of pulsation and escalation, and a shaft that bends with you. This bunny will have you jumping for joy… BUY NOW

Red Hot Spark

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FingO Fun Fingertip Vibe

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The Clitoral Power Button Ring

Simple, stretchy and sensational. The tight fit will keep him harder for longer, and the soft-jel ticklers will bring her mind-blowing stimulation like never before… BUY NOW

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Getting down with strangers was a fantasy that started out as a secret, whispered between the sheets in the heat of the night. Over time it crept into less explicit conversation. At happy hour, in the shower, over dinner, while they drove home from the grocery store. Most of all when they were fucking.

Cappuccinos seemed to be the key to taking the next step: downloading the threesome app Serra’s friend had recommended. Simon wanted to be sure she was ready when Serra first brought up actually trying to find a date. She’d been nervous, afraid of hurting his feelings, hesitant to make any potentially dangerous leap in their relationship.

“I was thinking we could just make a profile today,” Serra stared into her cappuccino, “and check later to see if we had any matches. I don’t know, it seems interesting.”

“Yeah, it does,” said Simon, “I just want to make sure you know that it’s gonna be fine no matter what. If it happens, great, but if it doesn’t, that’s fine too. Really.”

“I know, I know, but I think I’m good to go. We’ve talked about it enough!” She laughed.

Simon picked up her phone and held the camera at arm’s length, the two of them squishing together, smiling as he snapped a few photos. He planted a kiss on her forehead and she closed her eyes.

“Aw, that’s the one,” he said, looking through the series, “it’s not too mushy?”

“No, I like it, we look cute.”

“Posted. Okay, so what do we say we’re looking for?”

“Well, I know we’ve talked about having a man or a woman… I’m good with either.”

“Me too. Okay, we should probably swipe a few profiles, right? So we can get matches to look at later? I mean, if they like us.”

“They will,” Serra said, considering her partner’s thick arms, his barrel chest, his sweet face.

Serra held the phone and they laughed at the cheesier photos—fedoras, duck lips, sunglasses at nightclubs—and read aloud the single-line descriptions that accompanied profiles.

“Lookin’ for a good time, GGG,” Simon read, “what does that even mean?”

“Good, giving, and game,” Serra said to his surprise, “I read it in a sex column.”

“You’ve been studying for this, huh?”

“Oh my god shut up,” she blushed and swiped the screen, “ooh, what about this one?”

It was a couple. A woman who, like Serra, had deep olive skin and blunt black hair, and a man much smaller than Simon. Where Simon stood tall, broad and musclebound with flaming red hair and freckles, the man on the screen was the same height as his partner and had a long swipe of brown hair tied into a bun, a sandy speckling of stubble across his face. Their photo was on the top of a mountain or maybe a cliff, their sun-kissed cheeks glowing. When Simon and Serra had talked about inviting someone into bed, it was always someone, never a couple. This was uncharted territory.

“They look outdoorsy,” said Serra, “and maybe… too cool for us?”

“No one’s too cool for us. We’re totally cool. I think we should go for it, they’re hot.”

“Really? I mean, I do too. Okay,” she swiped right, “I guess we’ll see what happens! GGG, right?”

They finished their cappuccinos and giggled at each other the whole walk home.

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Mtneers15: You’re cute

The message on the screen popped up on Serra’s screen while Simon loaded the dishwasher.

“BABE,” she called to the other room, “the hot couple! They say we’re cute!”

“Of course we’re cute!” He yelled back as he walked down the hallway. “Did they say anything else?”

“No, I haven’t responded yet. What should I say?”

“Tell them we were thinking the same thing and… I don’t know, keep the conversation going, I guess?”

“So we’re doing this?” She smiled.

“We are, apparently, doing this,” he laughed. Serra started typing and stretched out on her side on the bed. Simon curled up around her and started massaging her thigh.

SSquared: We were thinking the same thing about you. What are you two up to this weekend?

The message was sent and they stared at the phone.

Mtneers15: …

“They’re typing back!” Serra said, clapping her hand over her mouth. Simon smiled at her, kissed her shoulder, and moved his hand from her thigh to her belly, squeezing it and pulling her hips closer to his pelvis.

Mtneers15: We’ve been hoping to make some new friends to go dancing with. Do you like dancing?

SSquared: That could be fun!

Mtneers15: It could be even more fun afterward. Are you interested?

“Does that mean sex?” Serra asked, “Or, maybe like, cocktails?”

“It’s a sex app, I think they mean sex. Ask them.”

SSquared: That all depends on what’s on the table What are you inviting us to do, exactly?

Mtneers15: If we all enjoy dancing together, perhaps after a few drinks we could show you our place? We’ve been thinking about how fun it would be to bring a couple as hot as the two of you into our bed.

Simon’s hand stroked Serra’s body, moving beneath her dress up to her breasts, his cock grinding into her ass.

“Ask them what they want to do with us,” he whispered against her neck.

SSquared: Sounds like a good time. What exactly do you want to happen in your bed?

She reached her hand behind and unbuttoned Simon’s jeans. His cock was already hardening and after a moment of her caressing over his briefs it strained to be free.

Mtneers15: We could undress you, watch you fuck each other, and then, if you like, we could join you.

Simon slid his finger into Serra’s mouth for a moment, letting her suck it before reaching it down into her panties and finding her clit. Pressing his hand into her, grabbing her, teasing the entrance of her pussy, his cock throbbed against her hand.

“Ask them if we get to watch them fuck, too.” He said.

SSquared: And do we get to watch you?

Mtneers15: We’d be happy to put on a show, I just bought some new toys So, what do you say, dancing tonight? 

“What do you think?” Serra asked, her breath hitching.

“I think I want to see you,” he pulled her more firmly, yanking almost, “with her hands on your body, his cock in your mouth, and my cock filling you up.”

“And what about her pussy? Do you want to see my fingers inside her, my mouth pressed against her, making her come on my tongue? Fucking her with a dildo?”

“Yes,” he growled, “take my dick out.”

She obliged, gently sliding his foreskin along his shaft, squeezing the head with each stroke.

“Does it turn you on thinking about seeing them get me off?”

“Yes,” he pulled her panties off, positioning himself between her legs. She still lay of her side, so he sat against her thigh, teasing himself against her wetness. “Does it turn you on thinking about me fucking you in front of them? Making you moan, getting you dripping wet?”

“Yes,” she tilted her hand back and dropped her phone, “I want it now.”

“What do you want?” His hands ran over her chest, belly, thighs, one roaming around her ass and pressing into her cheeks, circling, the other resting against her pubic bone, just his thumb gliding across her clit.

“You,” she moaned. His cock pulsed.

Simon quickly found a condom and slipped inside her. Serra let out a deep moan, rubbing against his forceful thrusts. His thumb remained on her clit, getting her so close to orgasm with every stroke.

“I want you to ride me, with him behind you, getting you off, his dick hard in your hands,” he thrust harder, “his come all over your ass.”

“While she sits on your face, getting off and kissing me,” she gripped the pillow under her head, she was close. He knelt forward, pounding into her, and kept his thumb hammering against her clit.

“Are you gonna come for me?” He asked.

“Yes, yes,” she breathed, “like that, oh my god.”

His cock rammed into the depths of her. With a great shudder, she convulsed, clenching around his shaft, swallowing him. Her moan reverberated against the bedroom walls and into Simon and as he watched her grind into every pulse, he felt the rush of warmth take over, pushing him over the edge until his cock spurted. He held her hips still through the final sparks of his orgasm.

He leaned over and rested his head against her shoulder. She brought one hand to his head, combing it through his hair.

“So,” she said, “I guess we should reply, huh? It’s already five.”

He grabbed her phone and tapped out a response.

SSquared: Dancing sounds great. 8:30?

Mtneers15: …

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If you and your special someone want to reenact your own steamy scene, or you think it merits an extra special solo re-read, pick up something fun from TickleKitty and get to it!

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“Bring the butt plug,” Jim texted me.

“Okay,” I replied. “I want you to fill me up. In every possible way.”

“Bring another toy too, in case I can’t perform. Then I can work the two of them inside of you,” he wrote. I’d seen how much booze he’d consumed the previous night and took his concern into serious consideration.

I was on vacation at Hedonism II in Jamaica and had told this sweet Canadian the previous night about my newest sex toy, the Trio Triple-Vibe Remote-Control Butt Plug.

At the clothing optional, anything goes resort, it was not uncommon for our conversation to jump from his admiration for my tits to my love of anal play in a hot second. We set up a tentative play date for the following morning.

The minute I received his text, I grabbed the clutch-sized storage black case that housed the Trio and its remote control. As I walked across the resort to Jim’s room, I admit, the idea of anal play aroused me. (It usually does.) I entered his room, we briefly made out, then stripped down to get down to the butt business at hand.

We lubed up the Trio, then he slowly slid it into my ass as I positioned myself in reverse cowgirl and he fingerfucked my pussy from behind. As a gal who likes a wide variety of anal toy sizes depending upon my mood and dynamic, the Trio is a good mid-range, easily insertable size. It could easily be worn out and about comfortably under clothes for pseudo-public sexy time (on my to-do list, for sure). Although I could’ve orgasmed right then, I wasn’t ready, so I moved my body to his side and went down on Jeff as he grabbed the remote control to have some fun.

With my ass in the air, he switched between the Trio’s vibrations and patterns, making my ass twitch in anticipation of what was coming next. Did I mention there were mirrors on the ceiling to admire this whole super-hot scenario unfold? The 5-inch butt plug touts three tiny motors that run the length of the toy, which means a triple threat delivery of pleasure from the tip, body and stem of the plug. My hips squirmed as he switched between settings and I continued to suck him off and circle my clit with my forefinger. Eventually I came, then stroked him to orgasm.

The remote itself is sleek and palm-sized, so it could be used in public without attracting attention. It works up to a 30-foot radius. It’s also shower-friendly and splash-proof, which makes my frequently-traveling head spin at all the potential, on-the-road hotel room scenarios.

If you’re new to anal play, this toy is the perfect size for testing the waters. For more experienced backdoor enthusiasts, the remote control feature allows for all sorts of beyond-the-bed play options. And if you have exhibitionist tendencies (like moi), you’ll want to take the Trio out on the town. No matter how you decide to enjoy this quality plug, it’ll make your ass and your partner happy. Jim can attest.

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My Secret Vibrating Lipstick

For a sweet, discreet “O” on-the-go, keep this stylish beauty in your purse! The ultrasoft silicone flex tip will caress your sweet spots, whenever – and where ever you like… BUY NOW

The Mystical Mushroom Mini Plug

Your body is a Wonderland. Start exploring it now! Soft, flexible and elegantly patterned – this plush little plug is the perfect companion to take down the rabbit hole… BUY NOW

Prostate Training PlayKit

A thin starter probe, a full sensation probe and a buzzy two-piece combo. Must have, if powerful prostate orgasms are on your bucket list… BUY NOW
 
 
The Tongue Lover

Worn snug with one ring for his balls and one for his shaft, he’ll enjoy perfect support and stimulation, with a buzz of delicious clit-focused tongue-loving for her… BUY NOW

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Say it with me: nuh-YEH. That’s Swedish for pleasure, and what an apt name it is for this powerhouse of a toy. Lightweight and pearlescent sea foam green, the Nöje packs large wand levels of pleasure into a very pretty compact package. Travel-sized, waterproof, quiet and rechargeable, Nöje seemed like it would be exactly what I’d hope for and more, but owning as many sex toys as I have amassed over the years, I was immediately skeptical. It seemed great, so what would be the catch?

To turn on Nöje, you hold down the silicone button on the butt of the curved handle for a full two seconds. I waited with baited breath for a moment but fortunately, two seconds later, the wand was buzzing around in my palm. But is ‘buzzing’ the right word? There’s a set of descriptors in the sex toy industry: buzzy (think high-pitched, almost tickle sensations for this end of the spectrum) and rumbly (think Magic Wand, motorcycles, and other deep vibrations that travels below the surface of the body), and most vibrators fall somewhere in between.

While my fellow sex educators and toy reviewers often seem to praise all things that rumble and eschew the buzzier, often smaller versions, I am a middle-ground kinda gal. I can enjoy a deep vibration like the Magic Wand, but to be honest it’s not as favorable as something with a tiny bit more buzz to it. To each pussy their own.

The Nöje wand is exactly the kind of vibration I enjoy: not exactly high-pitched, but also not quite Harley-level rumbly. Plus, it comes in a really great color, which, to be honest, actually makes or breaks my toy-buying decisions on the regular. If I never saw another purple dildo, it would be too soon.

In addition to the Goldilocks-esque just-right-vibration-feels I have for Nöje, another thing I love about it is the ergonomic shape and size of the handle. Using a large wand can absolutely kill my hands (those handles are enormous!) but since the Nöje is exactly the length of my hand from palm to fingertip, I can hold it easily and not have to worry about carpal tunnel. Hand cramps are so not my idea of sexy, and I don’t have to worry about them with this vibe.

To charge this toy, it needs to have its magnetic USB cord in place for about 1.5 hours. It doesn’t come charged, so if you’re anything like me, you’ll want to unbox and plug in ASAP so you can get to enjoying your new toy right away. If you’re gifting this goodie to someone, charge it ahead of time to avoid the wait. 

Since the Nöje has a silicone head and neck (and a plastic body), I use water based lubricant with it. A little goes a long way! Something that could be said, in general, of this petite-sized toy.

I’m admittedly a bit in love with my Nöje. My initial skepticism was met with quality, solid vibration, and plenty of orgasms. And, bonus: no hand cramps!

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Whether your pleasure is buzzy or rumbly, these vibes will satisfy all tastes. From the petite Eva to the formidable Magic Wand, Tickle Kitty’s got you covered!

Luxury Mystic Wand

Pretty, petite and powerful. Japanese-designed, with unique full head to stimulate the clitoris and entire vulva surface for all-over pleasure… BUY NOW
 

Eva Mini Vibe

A sensual shape designed for maximum G-spot stimulation, a flexible tickler for teasing and pleasing in all the right ways; what’s not to love?… BUY NOW
 

The Magic Wand (now Rechargeable!)

If you need real power to get going, the “Cadillac of Vibrators” will take care of you. Now cordless, and #1 doctor recommended for easy orgasms… BUY NOW
 

Lust L5

Intimately contoured for any woman. Delicately shaped to deliver pleasure inside and out with simultaneous, all-over vibration from its sensuous flexible petals… BUY NOW
 

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Vibrators are a magical, sometimes mysterious, source of pleasure. They often inspire questions—is that wand for internal or external use? How do you hold a contoured vibe? And what do bunny ears have to do with the clitoris? Here I’ll dish every secret of all things that buzz and rumble.

For starters, what’s a vibrator for? You can use a vibrator to lightly massage your muscles and body parts, or to directly stimulate your erogenous zones. Many women achieve intense orgasms much more quickly with vibrators than with manual methods. Vibrators also help create a more powerful build-up to orgasm, allowing you to finish with another preferred technique.

Now let’s get started figuring out all those crazy shapes and sizes…

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Pissed off again because you caught him sneaking his own five-fingered orgasms? It’s time to get over all those false and neurotic reasons you swear are justifiable for wagging your finger at your partner’s self-pleasure. Some women can’t stand the thought of a significant other going solo in the bedroom, and others even claim it’s akin to cheating, especially if porn is involved. None of these outdated, controlling excuses are healthy for your relationship or his well-being. If you want him thriving and happy, keep masturbation on the pleasure menu.

It might not be in the Constitution (yet!), but masturbation is essentially a human right. Shaming your guy about masturbating is equivalent to him prohibiting you from touching your own breasts or vulva. Masturbation is a mentally and physiologically healthy activity, and attempting to cut off someone’s access to self-pleasure is more than wrong; it’s sadistic. Imagine how you’d feel if you weren’t allowed to sexually fantasize or orgasm at your horniest moments. Sounds like torture, doesn’t it?

If you’re feeling jealous of his private activities, it probably stems from one of the biggest misconceptions about male masturbation: the more he orgasms alone, the less he’ll desire sex with you. In fact, his private pleasure can actually increase his sex drive. Instead of getting green-eyed over your dude’s solo sessions, get creative. Masturbation doesn’t always have to be a single-handed activity. Bringing self-pleasure into your couples’ time can open up new paths to intimate sharing and connection.

Try Mutual Masturbation

Sometimes the lengthy foreplay and teasing involved in sex just aren’t in the cards. His schedule might be too busy, or frankly, he might just be in the mood for a wham-bam-thank-you-hand. This doesn’t mean you can’t join in on his fun! Sit or lay next to him and start to make magic down below with your own hands. Lean into him and kiss his neck and shoulders, or enjoy a full-frontal view as he creates a sexy, live-action scene just for you. Throw in some dirty talk about your nastiest fantasies and seductive looks and neither of you will last longer than a few minutes! Bonus: Introduce him to a masturbation sleeve. We know, we know, realistic masturbators are icky but it’s your lucky day! Like how your favorite vibe won’t gross him out by resembling like a competing dick, sleeves come in all kinds of shapes and colors to treat your eyes (and his penis.)

Give Him a Helping Hand (or Mouth)

Even if his original intentions were more do-it-yourself, he’s probably not going to turn down a little assistance. Take this opportunity to focus completely on him, which can be a red-hot experience all its’ own. Use your mouth to suck on his testicles while he warms himself up. Grab his butt, or use the pad of your pointer finger to stimulate the perineum, the sensitive area between his anus and scrotum. You can also use your mouth and tongue to tease his shaft while cupping and massaging his testicles. The possibilities are almost endless. Come up for air long enough to ask him how he wants to finish. (And P.S. there’s a good chance this masturbation session is about to turn into sex!)

Be His Private Dancer

If he likes visual stimulation while he gets off, which a lot of guys do, there’s no need to be jealous of the babes on the screen. Everyone enjoys porn once in a while, and it can be a healthy part of your solo or coupled sex life. However, he’ll appreciate a live performance from his favorite adult actress (read: you!) much more because he can take her to bed after the show. Don some lingerie and give him a lap dance, or get right to the dirty stuff. Show him exactly how you get down when it’s just you and a sex toy. He gets to watch you writhe around naked, and you get to watch him in orgasmic ecstasy. Sounds like a win-win situation!

Take His Cue and Do It Yourself

If he hasn’t noticed you tip-toeing past the bedroom (or the computer) yet, you have two choices: turn his solo performance into a duo, or have a play session all your own. Living together doesn’t always leave much room for privacy, so now is your chance to sneak away while he’s happily occupied. Even if your favorite sex toys and lube are held hostage in the same room as your guy, improvise with some pure coconut oil from the kitchen and your ten digits. Choose an extra naughty spot like the living room and he might even catch you in the act after he stumbles out of the bedroom in a post-orgasm haze. He’ll be so shaken up by this fantasy surprise that he’ll be ready for round two before your first climax!

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There’s nothing to fix about your man’s self-pleasure habits – grab something to make it even more fun for both him and for you, when you join in on the fun…

 The Head Honcho

If he loves oral thrills, he needs this in his life. Extra thick, easy to grasp and simulates the feel of your own lovely and passionate lips… BUY NOW 

Mood Thrill

Tickle Kitty’s #1 stroker sleeve—open-ended for easy clean up, and triple textured for varied experiences with with soft massage beads, thick ribbing and stimulating pleasure nubs… BUY NOW
 Spark His Spot – Vibrating Prostate Massager

This smooth, curved, vibrating plug will drive him and his prostate wild. Perfect for beginners and pros alike. He’ll orgasm like never before… BUY NOW

 Slippery Kitty—Au Naturel

Drizzle on a dab of Dr. Sadie’s specially-formulated, toy-friendly personal lubricant for “glide” the way to wetter sex. Available in Strawberry delicious strawberry too… BUY NOW

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There’s a huge stigma surrounding lube, especially with women. Some women are naturally slick, and that’s great. Consider lube your below-the-belt little helper. It makes sex more comfortable and pleasurable – especially for women. Especially if you experience dryness or discomfort, there are ways to get busy that don’t involve spit. I know, the wetter I am, the more I enjoy oral, anal and vaginal sexual pleasure. Ladies, there’s no reason to have bone-dry sex, ever. So, why wouldn’t you use lube?

If you haven’t found a lube that feels good, you haven’t found the right one. Strawberry Slippery Kitty Lube is lightweight, silky and definitely not too sticky. My skin is super sensitive, and Slippery Kitty’s water-based formula is friendly to my sensitive fleshy bits. It’s latex friendly and plays nice with my arsenal of silicone toys. It’s also made without parabens and glycerin, which makes my ingredient-conscious self happy. Make a mess? (I sure hope so.) It’s a breeze to clean off your body and sheets.

I recently enlisted the help of one of my male partners to see how this lube stacked up against other bedside go-tos. Since lube can be used in so many ways, we hatched a well-rounded plan of research that entailed a small vibe, a slow hand job, oral sex and intercourse. If anything, I’m thorough when it comes to exploring pleasure.

To warm things up, Josh* dabbed some Slippery Kitty on my clit and used a small vibe to gently play and tease my hot spot. Next, I slathered his length and started to slowly stroke him to attention. No friction! I then savored the strawberry flavor as I licked up and down before consuming him. Some flavored lubes taste like a Yankee Candle. This tasted like a fresh-picked strawberry without any fake synthetic flavor. I was into it. How we smell and taste down there can be an issue for some (I generally don’t mind) and this lube pleasantly overwhelms the senses with deliciousness.

It was my turn for oral fun and Josh quickly commented on how yummy I tasted. I don’t think it’s a coincidence he ended up going down on my longer than usual. After a leisurely stretch of slippery foreplay, we added a few more drops to his tip and my clit, before enjoying a smooth orgasmic ride.

One of the best features of Strawberry Slippery Kitty Lube is that despite extended play, I wasn’t sore the next day. I rarely have issues self-lubricating, but believe that wetter is always better. Lube steps up sensitivity, so I can slip, slide and enjoy sex, and all its beautiful variations, more. This one makes it taste unforgettable.

For pleasure on-the-go, there are TSA travel-friendly 2oz bottles available.

*Name has been changed to protect the privacy of the individual.

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My Secret Vibrating Lipstick

For a sweet, discreet “O” on-the-go, keep this stylish beauty in your purse! The ultrasoft silicone flex tip will caress your sweet spots, whenever – and where ever you like… BUY NOW

Dorcel Orgasmic Rabbit

Swiveling head for G-Spot orgasms, fluttering ears for clitoral delights and rotating beads for subtle internal pleasures… BUY NOW

Cosmo‘s Steamy Sex Games

Take foreplay to the next level with twelve sizzling couples only erotic card games. Share secrets and explore fantasies in steamy new bedroom scenarios with your lover. And in the end everyone scores… BUY NOW

Raspberry Turbo Glider

Indulge in this turbo delight that encases the motor at the vibe’s see-through ‘tip’ for precise vibration right where you want it… BUY NOW

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Sex toys are on a trendy power high! Super-strength vibrators and intense toys are all the rage, but not all clitorises are created equal. For more sensitive clits, high-speed vibrators create more “ouch!” than “oh yes!” Don’t fret if your kitty isn’t down with heavy petting. It’s a big sex toy world out there, and there’s a vibe in the Tickle Kitty family to please every body. These are our top toy choices for a softer, more gntler touch.

The Lay-On Rabbit

Direct clitoral stimulation is often touted as the ticket to orgasm heaven, but for some women, spot-on clit contact is just too much. The Lay-On Rabbit’s vibrating ears surround the clitoris, hitting the nerve endings along the clit’s side and in the labia. There are tons of nerve endings in the outer edges of the clitoris. V-shaped vibes are designed to rumble all those hidden pleasure spots next-door to your O button.

TRYST -Multi-Erogenous Zone Couples Vibe

It might take some experimentation to find your clit’s favorite position, and that’s exactly why we love the Tryst. This funky vibe can be flexed and flipped to stimulate all the parts of your vulva. Separate the arms and run them up and down the outer edges of your clitoris or your inner and outer lips. You can also place the Tryst with arms laid flat around the vulva. The vibrating ends will tickle your perineum and the clitoral hood.

Lust L5

The Lust knows the art of the tease. This downright gorgeous pleasure device resembles a delicate flower. Two sets of soft silicone petals flutter around the slender vibrating stamen in the middle, giving your clitoris a taste of foreplay before the main event. Use the petals to warm up by letting them lightly flick across your clit, and then hold the stamen flat against your vulva. The petals will deliciously flutter your outer labia while the stamen brings you over the edge.

Hello Touch

Your fingers know just the right touch to coax your sensitive clitoris to orgasm. Give them a (ahem!) hand with the gentle vibrations of the Hello Touch. The four tiny finger pads strap right onto your digits, making them perfect for teasing multiple areas of your vulva. The single-speed motors send out remarkably soft rumbles that never overpower a light stroke of the finger. Change the positioning of your hand or simply use more pressure if you need a deeper sensation.

The Clitoris Cuddler

The Clitoris Cuddler is an all-around winner for spectacular external stimulation, and a must-have for sensitive bodies. The thick ridges of silicone surrounding the motor dampen the vibrations, and the five speeds give you the option to start slow. Keep clicking the toggle button to get to the best part: the pulsating patterns! Escalating and on-and-off buzzing are not only a fun tease, but can be less intense than flat, static vibration. You can even warm yourself up by adding some lube to the Cuddler and running the silicone ridges across your clitoris before turning on the motor.

Your Vibe + Dr. Sadie’s Vibrator Hacks

You’ve got this toy, sitting all alone in your drawer, that would be so perfect if the vibrations were just a tiny bit softer! You can make any sex toy fit for your sensitive clitoris with some super-easy modifications. For too-strong vibes, use a blanket or a soft, thick fabric to dampen the intensity of your toy. Place it over your vulva and experiment by folding the fabric and moving the toy around until you find the right combination of buzz-and-blanket. You can even try leaving your panties on! Choose a pair that will let your vibe slide around smoothly on the outside. Play around with different underwear styles and textures, like lace, silk, boy shorts, or thongs. There’s no vibe that can’t be hacked with a little help from Dr. Sadie!

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We’re so glad we introduced you to the joys of gentle vibes. But if power is also your pleasure, here are a few more selections that can take you from a mild to wild ride!

Crazzy Bunny

You’ll be hopping with joy from this petite powerhouse bullet vibe. Tickling rabbit ears for pinpoint pleasure, 10 toe-curling settings, and one of the most powerful motors available… BUY NOW

Eva Mini Vibe

A sensual shape designed for maximum G-spot stimulation, a flexible tickler for teasing and pleasing in all the right ways; what’s not to love?… BUY NOW
 
 
The LOVER Smart Ring

The soft ring stretches around his shaft, and the flatter, longer bullet vibe is perfectly positioned for clitoral pleasures… BUY NOW
 

Magic Wand – Now Rechargeable!

An unbeatable classic for powerful orgasms. It’s been giving ah-mazing topical satisfaction for over 35 years… BUY NOW

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What do you call intercourse without the “in”? Outercourse, of course!

Outercourse takes the penetration out of sex—but not the fun. You still enjoy deeply sensual, skin-on-skin lovemaking. You still share a thrilling physical connection. And you still experience explosive, scream-worthy orgasms.

So why would anybody ever want to forgo the deep satisfaction of vaginal or anal penetration? Because sometimes, intercourse just isn’t on the menu—or you’d simply like to shake things up. Or consider these practical reasons: the risk of pregnancy and STIs goes way down, while your freedom and enjoyment go way up. You can still be intimate if you’re not ready for intercourse, she’s menstruating, or one of you is too tired. You also have a no-risk solution if you’ve run out of condoms, misplaced the diaphragm or forgotten The Pill. You can even silence a squeaky bed if your eavesdropping in-laws are right next door.

Dr. Sadie Sez: Less risk doesn’t mean no risk. ANY sexual contact between humans means risk—even low-risk outercourse. Keep semen from splashing near the vagina, mucous membranes and open cuts. Practice safer sex during oral sex.

Outercourse offers each of you a new way to express yourself creatively as you learn more about each other sexually.

When he drifts off to dreamland after his orgasm, she may still be ready, willing and surging for another orgasm or three. Next time, if he tries these thrilling outercourse techniques and learns more about her desires, both partners can drift off to dreamland together, totally satisfied and deliciously spent.

Take a holiday from the finer techniques of penetration and explore the erotic nooks and crannies of your lover’s body with much greater intimacy.

Kiss. Seduce with your lips and tongue: Peck. Lick. Lip-lock. Flick. Entwine. Go soft, hard, slow, gentle, mellow, deep—then work up to hot, wet and messy! Hold your lover’s chin. Caress your lover’s face. Pretend it’s oral sex at its best.

Dr. Sadie Sez: It’s easy to get sucked into the sex game before you’re physically and emotionally ready—especially its hurtful side. Outercourse offers you a way to go at your own pace (not his!), and absorb what’s happening to you before it can become overwhelming. Take him for fun outercourse “test drives” as you get to know each other better. It’s not just smarter, it’s safer.

Dry hump. Rub your clothed bodies together lustily in the backyard, in a restaurant coatroom or on the backseat of your car. Steer clear of rough fabrics and jagged zippers on sensitive spots.

Fingerplay. Unleash those living sextoys in your pockets—your hands! Wrap, stroke, jerk, caress, rub, stimulate—you know where. Take turns, or pleasure each other simultaneously. Or watch each other do unto your-selves.

Massage. Coat your lover’s most intimate spots with a little massage oil and explore behind the ears, down the neck, down the back, around the butt, and behind the knees. This is a great way to lead in to even more pleasure with intense clitoral touching.

Play games. Play out your fantasies and fetishes; wear costumes, wigs, stiletto heels, or sexy lingerie, then grind together to a steamy song and bring each other to orgasm while your clothes are still on!

Penis pleasure hunt. Seek out her body’s most sensual spots with his heat-seeking penis! Drizzle on some sex lube and slide it between her breasts, thighs, armpits, inner elbow fold, feet—any soft warm inviting skin (just not the vagina or anus, Romeo!).

Toy around. Reach into your sex toy chest and pull out a few of your favorites: feathers, vibrators, dildos, lubes, warming oils—or slip an erotic video into your DVD. Toy chest empty? Time to surprise your lover with a special batteries-included gift.

Back door reach around. Tease slowly toward the pleasure-center of your lover’s butt with your fingers, mouth and toys—but remember to use latex barriers when you reach the prize.

Get oral. Let your lips do the talking as you take turns tasting and licking each other with gusto. Or change it up and get into the “69” position and delight each other simultaneously.

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You can explore the sensuous pleasure of outercourse with lots of Tickle Kitty’s favorite topical vibes—or get your game or rub on, if you’re incorporating outercourse into your foreplay.

My Secret Vibrating Lipstick

For a sweet, discreet “O” on-the-go, keep this stylish beauty in your purse! The ultrasoft silicone flex tip will caress your sweet spots, whenever – and where ever you like… BUY NOW

 AFTERGLOW Natural Massage Oil Candle

Light up your passion. Excite your senses. Rub down with this all-natural massage oil for sensual foreplay or soothing aftercare… BUY NOW

 
FingO Fun Fingertip Vibe

This wireless fingertip vibe is worn comfortably around your finger and features a 3-function powerful bullet and silicone pleasure ticklers… BUY NOW

 
Cosmo‘s Steamy Sex Games

Take foreplay to the next level with twelve sizzling couples only erotic card games. Share secrets and explore fantasies in steamy new bedroom scenarios with your lover. And in the end everyone scores… BUY NOW

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I knew I’d love the Crazzy Bunny as soon as I got it out of the box. It was love-at-first-touch with its soft, silky silicone exterior. It’s also USB-rechargeable, which is always a plus for me. I have a lot of toys, and if every toy ran on AA’s, I’d need a new pack of batteries every week!

One of the best parts about the Crazzy Bunny is it’s easy, one-touch button. Hold it down for a few seconds to turn it on and then keep clicking to cycle through all 10 vibration modes. Hold the same button down and it easily powers off. And when you restart the vibrator, it’s automatically set to your last pulsation pattern, so no time wasting to kill the mood when you’re looking for your favorite setting.

Now if there’s one word I could use to describe the Crazzy Bunny, it’s “powerful.” Don’t let its pint size and oh-so-innocent pink exterior fool you. Once it gets going it really gets going. Think zero-to-sixty instantaneous power. If you try the Crazzy Bunny, you may discover that it has one of the most powerful bullet motors available on the market. And playing with it made me a believer.

It’s even stronger than some power wands I’ve used, at a fraction of the size and weight.

Another great feature of the Crazzy Bunny are those ears. I’m usually like goldilocks when it comes to rabbit ticklers; some ears are too soft, some too short, and some too pointy… but the Crazzy Bunny feels like it was built for my sensitive spots—just right! Its ears are thick, just long enough, and meet slightly above the head. This design provides a sturdier grip for more intense clitoral stimulation.

Now let’s get to the good stuff—the first time I test-drove my new bunny! Even though I was flying solo, I started in doggie position with my head pressed against a pillow and my butt up in the air. I spread the bunny ears on either side of my clit, and I worked my way through the first two pulsation modes. The first was a short staccato, and the other buzzed in long, rhythmic waves.

I loved that the vibes were low and deep, and I could see the bunny ears separate and came together with each small pulse.

And because I believe in thorough testing, I had to give it a try on some other erogenous zones, too. I moved it to my nipples. A little too intense for me to take for very long, but I know some girls whose tits would be all about that intense sensation. After a minute I moved it again down to my pussy. I touched the tips of the bunny ears to my lips, then my clit.

The two shorter pulse-like modes caused sensations to shoot up to my belly, and it was becoming too hard not to come.

I changed positions again. I went down low, to the floor and spread eagle – with my legs above me on the mattress. This time, I pressed the plump bunny body against my clit and enjoyed two steady vibrations. As I clicked from one intensity to the other, the vibrations grew deeper and lower. As hard as it was (and it was hard), I jumped back up and made a hot bath.

For my big finale, I was going to be lazy, and just lay in a tub of bubbles until I finally came. I’d been working hard, after all! Once I got inside the bath, let’s just say that the bubbles weren’t the only things that popped.

To sum it up, think of this toy like the energizer bunny of vibes. It’s adorable, powerful, and you’ll want to keep going and going and going.

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“Crazzy” for clitoral toys? Tickle Kitty’s got you covered, for orgasmic sensation alone or with a friend!

Lay-On Rabbit

For when you can’t get enough bunny love in your life. Glide it along her inner lips, or let the bunny ears tickle her clitoris. Or caress his shaft with its deep rumbly vibrating body… BUY NOW
 

 Duet Passion Enhancer

Simple and sensational. He stays harder and lasts longer. She receives pleasure from its vibrating, pinpoint pleasure ticklers. Everybody wins! BUY NOW

 
Clitoris Cuddler

Worn on either person’s finger, this powerful, waterproof vibe with rigid grooves feels luxurious on the entire clitoral erogenous zone… BUY NOW

 
The Bmine Classic Curve 

This palm-sized vibe is perfect for first-time toy users. Slip into your bag, and enjoy its orgasmic classic curves on the go… BUY NOW
 

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Casual sex is a lot like going to your friend’s house for the first time. You sit up straight, feel a little tense, and have to ask permission for things. But having sex with someone you’re in a relationship with feels like coming home. You know where everything is, what it all looks like, and how to maneuver around tricky parts in the dark. Relationship sex is safe, comfortable and pretty damn awesome for a plethora of reasons. Here are a few that explain why doing the deed is better with someone you care about, instead of your latest prize from Tinder roulette.

When having sex with a longtime partner, there’s a higher chance of orgasm.

Science confirms this. Harvard University’s Department of Psychiatry surveyed 13,484 heterosexual college women on their orgasmic frequencies and linked it with the number of times they’d been with the same partner. They found that even outside committed relationships, the more a woman had sex with the same partner, the more likely it was that she would have an orgasm during sex.

These results probably stem from two important things in a relationship: trust and comfort. You know each other’s bodies, and how to push one another’s buttons so you’ll be more likely to have an orgasm. Relationship sex is a lot like playing Twister. You direct your partner where to go because you’re comfortable communicating that. So there’s a lot more of “left hand on clit,” or “right hand on blue (balls.)”

Making eye contact also increases your chance of reaching climax. When you’re having casual sex, there’s usually not a lot of that going on, it’s more of just going through the motions. In and out, and up and down. Yawn. But the lover you trust knows exactly what you like, when you like it, and the drawer in the nightstand where you keep your favorite vibe.

You can have more adventurous sex in a relationship.

You might have a go-to restaurant for first dates. The food’s great but not amazing – guaranteed to satisfy, and not too crazy. You don’t know your potential partner’s tastes or preferences yet, so it makes sense that you go for the safe option. Once you’re together and have both learned each others’ likes and dislikes, you can explore new things. Now you can both go to that exciting new fusion joint to try something extra spicy.

Sex with your partner is a lot like that too. When you’re with someone you’ve known for a while, all kinds of sex are game. Rough, loving, fast, slow or silly. Just like you grow old with your partner, you can also grow freaky with them. You can feel absolutely comfortable trying some role play, or bringing out the toys. It’s fun to sexually evolve together, to try new things, and make new, naughty memories with your lover. Just like you remember your first kiss together, you can also add the first time you tapped his P-spot, or the time you climaxed simultaneously twice in a row to the relationship scrapbook.

There are no STD surprises with a trusted lover.

If you’ve been dating someone long term, chances are you got tested together either before or after you both made it official, and both fully understand each others’ sexual histories. If you’re both being monogamous, you know for sure you’re safe. If your relationship is open, you and your partner are probably getting tested frequently, and communicating often.

One or both of you may be living with an STD already. And that’s ok too! In that case, you’ve probably both had some time to learn and feel comfortable adjusting your sexy time to the other’s needs. You got through those awkward conversations a long time ago, and now  you can fully enjoy the moment. Where your head is at your body will follow, so if you’re focusing on pleasure without nervousness or distraction, you’ll feel it in your body as well.

The person you’re f*cking actually gives a f*ck about you.

Sex is also better with someone you know well because you know that person is not going to try anything you’re not cool with. There is less pressure to do certain things because if the person you’re sleeping with really cares, he or she won’t want to make you feel uneasy in any way. Your pleasure is their top concern, and they’ll care if you come or not.

You can expect extra effort to go into whatever it is that gets you off from your doting significant other. Compare that to the last call rando who may fall asleep five minutes in, and then not even stay for breakfast the next morning. Your special someone will be careful with you, cuddle you without fear, and might even help rinse off your stroker sleeve.

Afterwards, you can talk it through, and keep working toward even more amazing love-making. The best part is that this is sex you know will just keep getting better as your relationship grows deeper.

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You’re fully invested in amazing sexy times with your partner; why not give it a little boost with some of Tickle Kitty’s favorite couples’ toys?

TRYST Multi Erogenous Zone Couples Vibrating Massager

It’s a cock ring, a G-spot vibe, a clit massager, it’s unbelievable! TRYST is a versatile couples toy that offers exciting sensations right where you love them… BUY NOW

The Fleshlight Quickshot

Up your oral expertise with your partner, or give your solo experience a boost with this see-through wonder. Easy-to-use, amazing-to-feel, the Quickshot is the new best friend for the dick in your life… BUY NOW

 Anal Explorer Kit for Newcomers

Admit it—you’ve always been curious about a switcheroo. With this all-inclusive kit, she’ll saddle up, and you’ll experience the ride of your life, stud… BUY NOW

The Amazing Vibroman!

Be your lover’s hero! A mini tongue vibe, a stretchy c-ring and handy fingertip vibe are everything you need to buzzz your boo to an unforgettable orgasm… BUY NOW

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When I got my hands on the TRYST Multi Erogenous Zone Massager, I was immediately fascinated by this sleek little toy. I was a little in love with it just for its packaging alone. The magnet-sealed box is black and classy with just a touch of gold. I’m a sucker for shiny things.

The actual toy was smaller and lighter than I thought it would be. It’s about the length of my hand (though I do have long, much-appreciated fingers.) And the two little arms are stiff, not flexible. It’s amazingly smooth and silky to touch, and with the Tryst’s simple two-button control, you’ll have one to all of its three powerful motors buzzing between your fingers in no time.

I’ll admit, the U-shaped design was intimidating at first glance. Then I discovered how versatile this vibe really is.

This gadget is a multitasker for sure. I’ve looked at many pleasure products on the market, and there aren’t many that can claim to be a cock ring, G-spot vibe, and clit massager all in one. And it comes with two motors in the arms and one in the base – and offers seven different functions to customize the sex toy experience. I was spoiled for choice.

In terms of uses and speeds, it’s no one buzz wonder.

A lot of toys are designed with one gender in mind, so the fact that this appeals to both men and women is rather revolutionary. People can be picky about their sex toys—one person doesn’t want anything too pink and sparkly, while another may not like scary industrial looking contraptions… the TRYST is a nice middle ground of being elegant and easy on the eyes, but not too feminine. This amazing toy is also USB rechargeable, which means never having to dig for batteries during a sexy romp.

Now, let’s get down to business.

For solo sex, use the Tryst’s silky tips to tease your clit before slipping it into the vagina for targeted G-Spot play. For me personally, I like this much better than dong-shaped toys.

The curved design of the Tryst’s arms reach the magical, pleasure-producing G-Spot with minimal effort. (If we could only teach our partners the same…)

My boyfriend gave it a solid five stars too. When I was with him, I started off by wrapping the Tryst around his erection like a cock ring. He, like me, was a little skeptical of this toy’s unusual shape at first, but after I watched his eyes close tight while he enjoyed the TRYST stimulating his balls, I knew he was hooked. Not that I had much time notice, since I was enjoying the tickling arms on my clit at the exact same time.

The cool thing about this sex toy is that although there are tried and true ways to play with it, you’re only limited by your imagination. (I’m partial to using it to gently pinch nipples.) It’s also water resistant, which opens it up to all sorts of hot and sweaty scenarios.

It’s no wonder the Tryst sexy couples’ massager was named Cosmopolitan’s “Sex Toy of the Month” in June 2016.

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If you’re looking for more versatile toys, try some of Tickle Kitty’s other multipurpose pleasers. Some for topical temptation, some for internal bliss, some for when both at the same time. There’s no limit to the ways you can receive pleasure!

Flexibelle Arielle

Tease your body with tempting vibration. Or enjoy mind-blowing G-spot pleasure in harmony with clitoral bliss. Or simply flip around for exotic anal pleasures with your G-spot delights. The possibilities are endless… BUY NOW

Callie Vibrating Mini-Wand

Get down glamorously with Callie. Available in 4 or 6 inch lengths, she’s a satiny smooth, whisper-quiet addition to your collection when you’re in the mood for some decadent me-time… BUY NOW
 
FingO Fun Fingertip Vibe

This wireless fingertip vibe is worn comfortably around your finger and features a 3-function powerful bullet and silicone pleasure ticklers… BUY NOW
 
 
Mystic Wand Rechargeable
A whole lotta’ vibration in one light, ergonomic power wand. 3 intensities, 1 vibrating head, unlimited orgasmic potential… BUY NOW

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Put pleasure (literally!) in the palm of your hand

When it comes to getting off, sometimes convenience is key. As much as I love my collection of butt plugs, dildos and life-sized vibrators, there’s a special place in my orgasm loving-heart for toys I can take on the go.

Cue the Mini Marvels Massager. This palm-sized silicone vibe is sleek, quiet and discreet. And I want to take a second to applaud the packaging. I’m a big fan of Pop Art, and the vintage pin-up feel of the box illustration made me smile right away. But now to the toy!

Its ergonomic design is one of the smartest I’ve seen.

It slips right between your fingers, so there’s no clumsy handling and the entire surface of the toy can make skin contact. Also, it’s made from a body-friendly silicone, always an important detail to consider when choosing sex toys.

Although the Mini Marvels Massager offers a lot of options in terms of speed and settings, it’s straightforward to use. It’s USB rechargeable (no batteries!) and turns on with a quick three second push of a button. When it’s fully charged (which takes about 2.5 hours), expect 30 minutes of full-tilt pleasure or two hours on its lowest setting. It features three levels of vibration, as well as seven pulsation and escalation options, so fiddle around with until you find your perfect pleasure combination. I tend to start out slow, and increase intensity as my arousal builds. As a frequent traveler, I appreciate the toy’s travel lock. It’s a simple feature, but few things are as embarrassing as arriving at a baggage carousel to find vibrating luggage (and I’ve had many mortifying TSA moments).

I carry the Mini Marvels Massager in my purse – you never know when the mood (ahem) may strike or you need to spice up partner sex. Because this thing is fun for me time, but also with a friend.

This small but mighty vibe works wonders in teasing your partner’s sensitive spots.

Think nipples, clitoris, or even the tip of his shaft or base of his cock. It can also provide some much-needed clitoral stimulation during intercourse. The first time I flipped this little baby on, we started by getting to know the toy with some fun foreplay—it fits nicely between my and my boyfriend’s fingers.

Then I used it during good ol’ Missionary.  It didn’t slip from position over my clit—even though we weren’t shy about the lube! And it wasn’t painful during impact like trying to hold a wand against your body during intercourse can be. There are vibrating c-rings that do this job too, but the Mini Marvels Massager is a nice, handheld alternative.

This toy is also waterproof, so you can take it in the pool, tub or into the great outdoors. With its handy size, lightness and durable material, it’ll for sure be my toy of choice next time I feel like getting frisky on a camping trip.

For erotic times, this is a highly effective, hands-on vibe that’s made me rethink size when it comes to sex toys.

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Got a taste for petite and discreet vibes? You won’t be able to resist some of Tickle Kitty’s other favorite handheld toys that’ll send you to clitoral orgasm heaven.

Crazzy Bunny

You’ll be hopping with joy from this petite powerhouse bullet vibe. Tickling rabbit ears for pinpoint pleasure, 10 toe-curling settings, and one of the most powerful motors available… BUY NOW

Rosé Velvet Petite Touch

Enjoy yourself inside and out in style. 10 functions for g-spot bliss, an easy one-touch control, and vibrations so intense, it’s wrapped in extra-smooth velvety-silicone… BUY NOW

Female Arousal G

Smaller and sleeker than a full-size rabbit toy, this pleasurizer can make G-spot orgasms accessible anywhere. Slip it into your bag or pocket for stress relief on the go… BUY NOW

The Bmine Classic Curve 

This palm-sized vibe is perfect for first-time toy users. Slip into your bag, and enjoy its orgasmic classic curves on the go… BUY NOW

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Sweet and discreet. That’s how I describe the rechargeable Club Vibe 3.OH to every single one of my girlfriends. You’ll never find anything better to add an erotic something-extra to a romantic night out. It’s a super quiet remote control panty vibe, and comes with black lace panties that are as comfy as they are seductive.

My husband and I played with the Club Vibe 3.OH during a fancy dinner date. The Club Vibe fit so perfectly into the silky, lace panties that I honestly forgot I was wearing it.

The experiment started before we even got to the restaurant. I turned on the panty vibe and he switched on the remote control.

Pretty soon it sure wasn’t just the vroom, vroom of the engine I felt tingling.

I watched his fingers as he played with the Tease Mode button. He tap-tapped it lightly a few times, and then held it down for two seconds. Three seconds. Already I could barely stand it. I could feel a growing warmth and wetness between my legs. He stopped suddenly, and with his hand on the stick, he shifted gears.

We drove to the restaurant in silence. He left me in lubrication limbo for what felt like an eternity (in reality it was 13.5 minutes), and I noticed how hyper aroused I was becoming. We were quickly seated then suddenly, without warning, he did the unthinkable. My husband turned on the signature Club Mode while I was placing my order with the waiter.

In Club Mode, the vibration becomes audio responsive.

You can use it to feel music at a concert, beats in the club, or every single voice in a crowded restaurant.

The deep laugh coming from the table next to us, the high pitch giggle that came from somewhere farther away in the room… as the conversations in the restaurant grew louder, the party in my pants got going. The Club Vibe was in perfect pleasure position, and before we even tossed the salad, I experienced my first orgasm of the evening.

My hands grabbed the table and I mouthed, “I’m coming” to my husband. He nodded with approval, his eyes locked with mine. As my body began to writhe, he placed his hand on my thigh to help keep me grounded. Good thing the restaurant was super packed. Nobody seemed to notice the tiny tremors shooting up my body (or if they did, they may have enjoyed the experience too).

After I came, I felt like my putting my head in my soup. But I warrior-ed on. We had just finished dinner and were discussing dessert when my husband switched on Groove Mode—the setting that comes with five pre-set pulsation patterns.  With each jolt of orgasmic energy, my clit started throbbing.  My husband ordered something hot, sticky and sweet and I focused as we went through each of the five patterns. We had barely made it through one round of five when I started to feel the build up again.

Exactly two minutes before our caramel brownie sundae hit the table, I experienced my second orgasm.

On the way home, my husband pulled over in an empty parking lot. He switched on the radio and the vibe made me come again, in the back of the car, to ACDC’s “American Woman.” My husband and I both chuckled about how high school it felt, and agreed that the anticipation of giving and receiving with the Club Vibe had taken our sex life up a notch.

My only cautionary advice is make sure to know your orgasm faces before you head out wearing the Club Vibe 3.OH. Just in case you get your panties in a bunch.

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Now you’re ready for the Big O any time, any place outside the bedroom… but what about inside? If you want to keep the fun going with your partner, try some of Tickle Kitty’s favorite couples’ toys. For experts and newbies alike!

B-filled Remote Vibrating Plug

The perfect toy for partner play. Add lube, slide it inside, and hand the remote to your lover to put them in control of your backdoor bliss… BUY NOW

Duet Passion Enhancer

Simple and sensational. He stays harder and lasts longer. She receives pleasure from its vibrating, pinpoint pleasure ticklers. Everybody wins! BUY NOW

Mini Marvels Massager

Slip this discreet vibe between your fingers for clitoral bliss during oral and penetrative pleasure to buzz you along to powerful new orgasms… BUY NOW

Prostate Training PlayKit

A thin starter probe, a full sensation probe and a buzzy two-piece combo. Must have, if powerful prostate orgasms are on your bucket list… BUY NOW

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Everyone agrees that 2016 was pretty meh. Me too, but let me tell you about one high point: 2016 is when I lost my sex toy virginity. I admit, it wasn’t until I hit a sexual dry spell that I decided to try one out. But I’m lucky that I did, because my vibrator suddenly went from a scary stranger to my new best friend.

But if you’re anything like the sex toy virgin I was, you probably imagine something huge and rubber coming right at you. Stop right there, and get that image out of your head NOW because all sex toys are NOT intimidating! In fact, many of them don’t even have to go inside of you to get you off.

Now that you beginners can breathe a little easier, let’s talk about the basics. The first thing a sex toy virgin should know is that sex toys are TOYS, and there is no shame in owning one. Everyone enjoys their own company in his or her own way: some people are into hiking, others like meditation, while people like me enjoy having orgasms—it’s really that simple. Here are some things getting on the sex toy train can help you with:

1. Owning Your Orgasm

From my extensive, hands-on (heh) research, I’ve found that orgasms are more intense with toys. And they can give you new experiences. I had my first multiple orgasm with the Womanizer toy, and the thing doesn’t even go inside of me. If I never gave this gadget a go, I would have never known what one of those magical, godly occurrences feels like. It’s like my vag has seen the Aurora Borealis. On top of maximizing pleasure, with toy means you no longer have to rely on someone else to have an orgasm, you can master the art of the O all on your own..

2. Learning Your Body

Knowledge is power, and power is sexy, right? Toys can help you find your g-spot, or discover how much pressure you need for amazing clitoral experiences. They oftentimes have different speeds or rhythms you can test out to see what pace is preferable to you. Sex toys are also convenient if you’re curious about trying something, but are too afraid to try it with your partner. For example, if you’re hesitant to try some backdoor action, you can always lightly experiment with a toy before you bring the idea to your boo.

 3. Making You Healthier

Don’t think of sex toys as something dirty. Instead think of using a sex toy like doing your nails (or trimming your beard for guys). They’re both forms of relaxing self-care. According to Psychology Today, “masturbation is a great cure for insomnia, as well as a terrific stress reliever.” Additionally, masturbation is associated with better heart health and lower risk of Type-2 diabetes. So, don’t be afraid to throw in a toy or two because play is healthy, especially playing with yourself.

4. Saving Your Relationship

To keep things smooth between you and your boo, there needs to be sexual satisfaction all around. Ladies, if you’re not orgasming with your partner, or are having trouble doing so, don’t worry! You’re perfectly normal. ABC News reports that “about 75% of all women never reach orgasm from intercourse alone.” A sex toy might be the savior of your sex life. And don’t worry about your man; there are toys for boys too. Vibrators work great on his testicles, and can come in handy during a blow job. And don’t be shy about handing over your toys to your lover, and having him or her take control in a new way. He or she can tease you with them, or make you come first before even getting it on. Teamwork makes the dream work, and as long as you are both open-minded, you can have mind-blowing orgasms. Possibly even together—ah, the dream.

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Now that your toe has been dipped into the sex toy pool, you can feel secure cannonballing into your solo sexcapades. Let Tickle Kitty help you out with a few of our favorites, loved by newbies and experts alike:

The Bmine Classic Curve 

This palm-sized vibe is perfect for first-time toy users. Slip it into your bag, and enjoy its smooth, orgasmic touch on the go… BUY NOW

‘Orny Couples Vibrator

This powerful ring’s stretchy, comfortable silicone will fit like a dream, and its soft precision points will rumble her pleasure button to orgasmic bliss… BUY NOW

Eva Mini Vibe

A sensual shape designed for maximum G-spot stimulation, a flexible tickler for teasing and pleasing in all the right ways; what’s not to love?… BUY NOW

Tenga 3D Pleasure Spiral

One of our favorite starter sleeves – and easy on the eyes too! Just add a dollop of lube and get lost in its inviting curves… BUY NOW

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No matter what kind of sex my husband and I have, it’s always nice to play with a guy that knows me well. That being said, a partner who can read your body is exciting, but a partner who can seduce your mind is even better. I turned to the Lover’s Eve Playkit, with its unique sex-cessories and foreplay game.

I know my man well, but I could always know him better. We decided to test out the package on a weekday morning after the kids went to school. Lover’s Eve can be any time time of day, and I wanted us to break out of our routine, early-morning-only sex rut. So on a day we both took off, after we dropped off the kids, we got to work.

At first glance, I was in awe of our treasure trove of options. We began with Cosmo’s Truth or Dare. The snakeskin pattern on the back of the Cosmo’s cards was eye-gasmic. It was my turn to choose first, and I was feeling vocal, so I picked a truth: “How long would your ideal quickie last? Describe every moment.”

I told my husband that it would last about 11 minutes, and would begin when I walked in the room to see him sitting on a chair, masturbating.  I’d walk up to him, slowly, and lift one leg and straddle him. I’d slide myself on to him, and we would gently move together until I came. He decided to be a brave boy with a dare next. He had to rub his nipples for thirty seconds, so I removed my shirt in solidarity with him for a little inspiration. After grabbing a few Burlesque Nipple Pasties from my dresser drawer (I’m a sucker for nipple toys!), he twisted my nipples a few times and peeled off the self-adhesive tape and placed the pasties on me. He smiled and said, “I can’t wait to watch these tassels swing.”

I could feel a tingling moving down my neck and shoulders, making its way to my clit. I grabbed the Fingertip Vibe from the Amazing Vibroman set and placed it over my pointer finger. The stretchy silicone slipped easily onto my finger. I flipped the switch and enjoyed the irresistible buzz on my fingertip. I instructed him to get undressed. With a dab of Slippery Kitty lube, I began to massage him where it counted.

He grabbed the Waterproof Jackrabbit, which had been charging since early in the morning.  The vibrator is made of that silky smooth silicone, the kind that feels as good as it looks. And I loved the size – not too big and not too small. I dabbed a little more of the au naturel lube on the tip of the vibrator and started to move it around the entrance to my pussy. As soon as I turned it on, the two motors were on. The speed was low and constant.

There are five rows of rotating synchranous pleasure beads, and three delicious patterns of pulsation and escalation. As you go up in intensity, you go from a light rumble to a deeper one. I liked them all (especially the second and third settings). The ears on this bunny attachment are delightfully soft-yet-sturdy, and its curved head is what got me hooked.

My husband began slowly thrusting the toy in and out of me. He moved through the patterns quickly, then slowly. When we got back to the classic steady rhythm, I asked him to keep going. And after an intense orgasm, I grabbed the Vibroman mini tongue vibe, stretched it over my tongue and turned it on. I went down on him for a few minutes. For our grand finale, we reached for the Vibroman cock-ring with its steady buzz. I instructed him to sit on our couch, and stretched it over his dick. I then placed one leg over his body and straddled him. I slowly slid my way down his length.

After a wild ride I’ll remember for a loooong time, he came inside me with my tassels swinging.

Sure, some days of married sex isn’t all that exciting, but with the Lover’s Eve Kit, the buzz lasts for days.

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Looking for more irresistible playthings to delight him or her? We’ve got something for every couple—from more must-have kits, to all things that buzz and vibe for handheld, booty, and clitoral ecstasy. Here are some of our faves.

Ride ‘Em Cowgirl! Couples Playkit

Add some more excitement to the bedroom with ideas from Dr. Sadie’s best selling position guide, our super-slippery lube, an exciting couples toy and something sweet to make you tingle… BUY NOW

Dolphin Diver – 2x the Fun!

Double your pleasure with one of our most playful C-rings. Not one but TWO irresistibly powerful bullet vibes for him and her … BUY NOW

B-filled Remote Vibrating Plug

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Lay-On Rabbit

A unique handheld toy for him and her. Glide it along her inner lips, or let the bunny ears tickle her clitoris. Or caress his shaft with its deep rumbly vibrating body… BUY NOW

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Are you feeling ‘Orny?

That was the thought that first came to mind when I laid eyes on the ‘Orny vibrating cock ring. It seemed intimidating at first with its tall squishy horns. But I found out soon enough that they were perfectly positioned to cradle and tickle my clitoris. I loved the body-safe, super-sexy cerulean material, and (the best part!) its serious hands-down, cocks-up intense vibration.

The ‘Orny is incredibly easy to use. The only button you need to push is the on/off one. The hardest part of the toy is figuring out your favorite way to give and receive sexy thrusts. You can try it horns-up, or horns-down… It really depends on how sensitive his balls are, and how you like to feel the buzz. The vibration is strong for this type of toy, yes, but not overbearing on the ring itself.

It feels heavier than some other vibrating rings, with a larger bullet. But that didn’t seem to bother my husband much at all. In fact, he was turned on by the idea of having some heavy tackle on his tool. And from his reports, it’s not uncomfortable to wear—especially after I incorporated slipping the ‘Orny onto him during a spectacular hand job. Here’s a tip: if he has hair down there, use a dollop of lube to glide the C-ring down his shaft.

You too can add some oomph to your signature squeeze, with a little twist near the tippy top of his penis. As I moved my hand up his frenulum and over the head, I gently squeezed his head like I was juicing a lemon—by moving my wrist clockwise. And since I was already using lube within seconds we were ready and set. It’s not hard (pun intended) to put a C-ring on an erect cock.

We tried it with the vibrator on top, and then with the vibrator below his balls. At first the horns didn’t always hit my clitoris, but then we found that perfect space between our pleasure spots and the bullet. In missionary, we wiggled our hips instead of thrusting. It was even easier to keep the orgasms coming when I was on top. The ‘Orny kept my husband’s dick stiff and delightfully buzzy, through orgasm after orgasm. We made love for a while, but the bullet lasted longer than we did. We were even able to come together—something I’d never thought possible without this new toy.

A few days later, I tried the ‘Orny with one of my dildos. I liked that I could feel the vibration through the dildo, and that I got to control the motion to press the horns up against my clit for an extended period of time. It’s easier with a silicone dong than when two bodies are involved!

The toy comes with an extra set of AG-13 batteries. Plus, it’s waterproof — hot tub sexy times anyone? — and easy to clean. I can’t recommend it enough, and it has certainly become my favorite special occasion toy (alone or with my husband), whenever I want my ride extra rumbly and wild.

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When it comes to having sex, would you be surprised to know that men and women’s bodies are way more alike than they are different?

Take her clitoris, for example. It is a mini-penis. There’s a head, and a shaft and when you stroke her clit, you can use the same techniques to get her off that you use to give him a hand job. Or look at her vaginal lips. The outer lips have the same feel, flexibility and functions as the sac that protects his balls.

When you understand just how similar our pleasure spots function, you will better satisfy your partner. Let us help you get on the right track.

1. Boners are Universal

While a clitoral erection can sometimes be subtle, there’s no denying that clitorises get swelled heads too. That’s because boners are a universal salute. If you look closely at a clitoris when she is getting aroused, you’ll see what I’m taking about. And, just like a penis, as the erectile tissue of the clitoris fills with blood, more nerve endings feel the love. Next time you’re making friends with a clitoris, find the right rhythm and stroke the shaft. You can try placing your thumb and pointer finger on either side of the clitoral shaft (you can use the hood for easier movements) and rub-a-dub-dub. Play with friction and wetness to find the perfect grip and glide. After you’ve done the clit job with your hand, try it with your mouth.

Does she like it fast or slow? Does she like to use toys? Does she want you to stop or continue to go? Where do you place your other hand? Do what you like when you get a hand job (or give yourself one) and see how her clitoris responds to your touch. Try different stroking styles to see what she responds to. There’s dozens of ideas in Dr. Sadie’s illustrated bestseller The Mystery of the Undercover Clitoris.

2. Lips and Sacs Need Love

When it comes to blowjob tips, I often say “mind the stepchildren”—don’t forget to play with his balls! You can lightly brush your fingertips up against them, or experiment with a flick or cusping them in your hands. The same moves could be tried on her vaginal lips. You can also stretch the outer lips and the sac. Massage her vulva and see how far you can (gently) pull on her labia majora. Same thing can be said about the super stretchy sac. Next time you’re masturbating, try stretching your bits.

See how your partner responds when you gently massage her outer lips. Everyone loves good sensual caressing. Try massaging the sac and balls together and then gently apart. It may be his very first time he had this kind of massage! Use some warming massage oil or try a cooling one. Then of course, we all know how good a warm, wet tongue feels…

The more intimately you know your partner’s skin, the more likely you are to discover more specific erogenous zones.

3. We Can All Visit Uranus

No matter the planetary body, we all have one superstar love spot in common. Our butt levels the playing field when it comes to options for out of this world sex. Whether it’s a finger, tongue, toys or dick, anal play lets any body experience experience prostate and G-spot pleasure in a whole new way. To begin any anal adventure, ask first. Choose your lube. Start slowly. As you begin to experiment with anal play, you will likely feel your sphincter muscles tighten up. It’s normal and it’s a good reminder to keep breathing. When you’re ready, start with an external anal massage. Then move to the tip of the finger, or a smaller butt plug, and graduate up in size when you’re ready. If you keep focusing on your breath, you can really get into it.

Once you get inside, you can experiment with how shallow or deep in you need to go. If you’re new at this, stay near the entrance and explore all around with your fingertip. If you’re giving him a whirl from the backdoor, use a “Go Forth” motion to find his HE-spot treasure.

4. Ejaculation is for Everyone

Unless you have a specific medical condition, almost everybody can ejaculate. That being said, there are all different ways one can ejaculate. For guys there are long shots and dribbles. For women there is squirting and ejaculating. Squirting is more like sport ejaculating and not the kind of ejaculation that most women actually experience. So how can ladies learn to ejaculate? It starts with awareness. Educate yourself on where ejaculate comes from and how to feel the fluid building up in your body.

Guys, use two fingers to gently – but swiftly – stroke her G-spot (found 2-3 inches inside against her upper vaginal wall).  Stroking in “Come Hither” motions usually works best. When she tells you it feels like  fluid is filling her bladder and you feel her vaginal lips engorging to the max, you may soon discover how to stop at ejaculation station.

Trust us, the packaging might look different, but when you unwrap what’s underneath, you will find plenty of sexy similarities and endless ways to get off.

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Now you know your lover’s pleasure parts inside and out. You’re a goodies guru, and a genital jedi. Congrats! Now check out some of Tickle Kitty’s favorite toys to take you both to the next level:

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When it comes to your sex life, take command of your chief (or whatever you like to call him, her or them) by laying down the laws (of love) in your own Oval Office.

Own the Room

When the President moves in to the Oval Office, he’ll add his own personal touches to the place. Set up your sexy space so it works to get you in the mood. Try lighting a massage oil candle—or three—for ambiance (and for sensual massage later on). Put nice sheets on the bed (if your Oval Office also happens to also act as a bedroom), or find the right music for making out. Once you feel like the room is yours to command, pull out the props that will help you take charge.

Take Charge

The first thing the President must do is show the world that he is in charge. When it comes to being the one who gets to drop the bomb in the bedroom, get in touch with your dominant side. That means dish out the orders about who gets to give and receive pleasure. If your subordinates refuse to follow your commands, you can always restrain them. Once you’ve shown them that you are in charge, figure out how to punish their insubordination. Some spanking perhaps? Or maybe a little flogging? To up the ante on your own pleasure, come prepared (a president always does) to get off in your own vibrating panties. Just remember, “With great power comes great responsibility.”

Play with Power Toys

Playing with power might be about being dominant or submissive. But when power has to do with your sex toys, nothing screams power like a wand. You can opt for something lightweight and pretty, or the classic favorite. In order to show you’re still the one waving the power, use the wand and come close to, but don’t actually touch, your partner’s body. Make them anticipate what’s to come. Tease them with a titillating neck stroke, or gently roll the wand on the shaft of his penis or over her outer lips. Press the wand up against both of your groins or stand back-to-back and come together.

Let Others Serve You

Sure, there’s been a lot of talk about being the one in charge, but there is a flip side to this whole boss thing. When you’re president, people want to give you the VIP treatment. So let them. Let your partner know that today their only job is pleasing you. Come up with a list of things you’d like them to do for you, and allow them to choose. Or just tell them what you want by gently whispering it in their ear. It’s time to relax and let your minions show you how you are loved with some presidential pampering. They can treat you to a steamy bubble bath, or a full body massage with a happy ending.

Leave an Impression

Blue dresses! Semen stains! Cigars! Regardless of what he defined as sexual relations, Bill Clinton sure knew how to leave his mark on the Oval Office. Whatever your thoughts on what he did with his intern, his sexual trysts serve as a reminder that doing something a little risqué will leave a lasting impression. How will you make your sex memorable? It could be by doing something completely out of character (or in another character), exploring anal or coming together. Whatever you decide—take charge and make a mark on your sex life today.

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You cast your ballot yesterday for Democrats or Republicans (or maybe even a third party.) Whether your candidate won or lost, let us help you your morning-after celebration (or consolation.) Choose your red or blue pleasure here!

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Finding time for sex in today’s busy life of work and family can be challenging. But having sex on a regular basis plays a key role in a healthy, well-rounded relationship—and should be high on the priority list. The great news is sex doesn’t have to be a long, deep experience every time. Quickies are perfectly fine! Not to mention they can be quite exhilarating and powerfully passionate. Make an afternoon “quickie date” with your man and make it amazing with these 5 tips:

1. Dress quickie-style.

When you get dressed that morning, be playfully strategic, for time will be of the essence. Slip on a sexy pair of panties—the kind you know he loves. Put on your best push-up bra. Wear a skirt or dress that will offer quick, easy access when you meet up. For a very special treat (for both of you!), slide into some Lace Panties with Pearl Pleasure Beads. You’ll be teased and aroused all day long as the pleasure beads caress your sensitive vulva… and then you get to enjoy the priceless expression on his face when he discovers them!

2. Tease with sexy sexting.

With a quickie date calendared in, you may find yourself with a constant perma-grin, as you’ll be looking forward to it all day long. Keep the fun and excitement building by sending him scintillating sexts throughout the day. They can be simple and flirty—or hot and provocative. It’s totally up to you. Interested in some ideas? Here’s 43 sexts ready to go. Just copy/paste and you’re in business! And don’t be shy… men love dirty notes.

3. Seduce your biggest sex organ.

I’m talking about your brain. Get your mind engaged with the power of sexual fantasy. Fantasize about coming together during intercourse, your hot neighbors getting it on, or your favorite celebrity going down on you! Everything is fair game when it comes to fantasy—and the best thing is that it’s safe and private. You can also feed your imagination by reading a 5-minute erotic short story before you get home, or by peeking into some steamy 50 shades role-play ideas.

4. Pre-heat your flower.

Enjoying a few moments of self-pleasure beforehand will create that sexual rush, priming your body and nerve endings for immediate pleasure. Just use some female body-safe lube on your fingertips and explore your favorite clitoral touching techniques. Or pull out your tried-n-true clitoral vibe to get you from 0 to 60 with the flip of a switch. Get your juices flowing for action-on-demand—and he’ll love you for it!

5. Ready, set, go-oooh!

It’s time. You’re dressed, hot and wet, and he’s cocked, locked and ready to rock. Get the most out of your limited sexy time! Get right to dirty talk. Gaze passionately at him with eyes locked tight. Tell him you need to have him NOW. Kiss passionately. Position yourselves for erotic mutual-masturbation or dive straight into 69.

Enjoy sex toys? Now would be the perfect time to reach for your favorite couples cock-ring. Slip it on, turn up the vibration and within minutes you may just have your one hell of an earth-shaking orgasm!

There’s a lot to be said for packing hours’ worth of passion into just a few, explosive moments.

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Make your quickie even more amazing with these suggestions from Tickle Kitty:

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I’ve been in a steady relationship with my Magic Wand (formerly Hitachi Magic Wand) since I was 18. It’s hands-down the longest – and most satisfying! – relationship I’ve ever had. For me, a daily ménage a moi is a routine habit, like brushing my teeth or meditating. The ease and reliability of the Magic Wand makes it an absolute must-have in my sex toy repertoire.

Once a corded-only option, I recently upgraded to Magic Wand Rechargeable for orgasms more than 18 inches away from a power outlet. Game-changer! Extension cords aren’t the sexiest of play time additions, plus this updated version packs more power than its predecessor. It’s also quieter and adds four levels of power and pulsation patterns – all driven by a lithium-ion rechargeable battery. Fully charged, it runs for three hours, though shuts down after 20 minutes of continuous use. (It starts right back up with the push of a button.)

If you want to stick your toe into the shallow end of the sex toy pool, the Magic Wand Rechargeable is a great place to start. Use it as a powerful all-over massager and see how your partner’s body parts responds without making orgasm the end goal. The wand’s deeply penetrative powers feel good on tight muscles from head to toe.

Dr. Sadie Allison recommends the Magic Wand for ‘pre-orgasmic’ women, or women who’ve yet to reach climax, since it’s the most tried and true way to get from 0-60. When using the Magic Wand, be sure to always keep something moving – whether it’s your body or the toy. The body craves motion and too much constant pressure in one place can (temporarily) numb the clit. Slow it down or speed it up— just keep it moving!

One of the great things about the Magic Wand Rechargeable is that it can provide a steady stream of clitoral stimulation without wearing out you or your partner’s fingers. Whether I’m masturbating by myself or playing with a sexy someone, the Magic Wand frees up all sorts of opportunities for penetration (clit stim + penetration = the almighty “blended” orgasm). Sometimes, I like to use the wand to work my clit, while my partner slips a smaller toy for a few fingers into my vagina. It’s a divide and conquer approach to rolling waves of sensation. A team building activity, if you will. Other times, I’ll use a toy with some weight that will stay securely deep inside me while I grind against the Magic Wand.

Betty Dodson, the Mother of Masturbation, recently introduced me to one of my favorite Magic Wand techniques, the “Pillow Fuck.” Here’s how it works:

Place a pillow on the floor (it doesn’t work as well on a non-flat surface, like a bed). Spread your legs and straddle it, with the Magic Wand Rechargeable positioned below your clit. Now rock your pelvis, playing with contact and pressure until you find your happy place. Most often, I masturbate on my back with my legs spread wide open, but this on-top-and-in-control position is a solo sex game changer. It allows me to “run the fuck” (one of my favorite Bettyisms) and control the speed, depth, and angle of direct stimulation. For clitoral orgasms, it’s one helluva technique.

Men apparently love Magic Wand Rechargeable too. A recent play partner brought his own device to the bedroom.  He slowly moved the silicone head across the tip of his hard dick, and although it took some time and a little hands-on help, he was eventually able to come. I had no idea.

The bottom line? There’s a reason this mighty massager has been the best-selling personal massager for more than three decades.

Already got your hands on a Magic Wand? Let it love you inside and out with the G-Spot Magic Wand Attachment. And check out the Luxury Mystic Wand, or the Lust L5 for great additions to your collection for something powerful, pretty, and pink.

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When it comes to sex toys, the male masturbation sleeve doesn’t get the proper attention it deserves. In today’s vast sex toy market, an adventurous guy (or gal!) can pick from a wide variety of super stretchy strokers for his love handle.

With apologies to Bruce Springsteen, if you gotta ride down baby into this tunnel of (self or partnered) love, the Tenga 3D Spiral is the way to go.

In recent months, my partner and I have added male masturbation sleeves to our sex toy repertoire. To be honest, as a woman, I’ve always found the faux vulva façade of masturbation sleeves kind of odd. Ditto for fake lip or anal entrances—at least in a partner sex scenario. If you want to bang away at a polymer orifice all by yourself, go for it. But the Tenga 3D Spiral offers a similar masturbatory experience, is a more neutral presentation and better-suited for both solo and partner play.

The award-winning design is hand-crafted in Japan, a country known for high quality engineering and materials. My partner noted that the product felt distinctly rubbery, but in a soft and stretchy way, and was more than pleasant to play with. The sleeve gripped him snugly, creating the perfect friction, while the spiral feature made his head tingle as I stroked him. Up and down, up and down (with a little twist).

One versatile detail about this toy is that you can jerk off your partner with the smooth surface or flip it inside out to use the spiral surface to create a totally different sensation. (I’m a woman who likes options and variety in the bedroom.) My partner appreciated how the closed end of the sleeve created a ‘suction-y’ feeling for him, similar to oral sex.

In the context of partner play, the Tenga 3D Pleasure Spiral makes it possible to give a good hand job without worrying about grip or pressure. I pay close attention to how my partner masturbates and have picked up a few key pointers on what excites him along the way. If you’re a hand job novice, do me a favor and watch what your guy does the next time he whacks off. This intel will make your life easier. For more tips and tricks on how to get him off with manual stimulation, check out  Dr. Sadie’s illustrated techniques book, Tickle His Pickle: Your Hands-On Guide to Penis Pleasing. 

Once we got started, it didn’t take long for my guy to orgasm. Much less time than if I was trying to manually stimulate him without the sleeve. He was quick to comment on how good the warm feeling of come cascading down his dick felt within the sleeve. Our male masturbation sleeve experiment was a smashing success!

At the end of the day, this is a pretty simple toy. Take a hard cock, slip it into the tight, but textured sleeve and the two of you can’t help but have positive, sexually arousing feelings. “It actually felt really good and gave me a great orgasm—but having you do it for me, well… that was the best part,” he said.  

The silicone toy is easy to clean—always a plus. Use with Slippery Kitty water-based lube for smooth gliding. With proper love and care, it should last through many frisky sexcapades.

Give yourself a helping hand. It’s worth it. It’s fun. And he’ll love you for it. 

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Sleeves are swell, but they’re not the only toys for him. Here are a few Tickle Kitty favorites, perfect for him or her. Or both of you together!

The Amazing Vibroman!

Be your lover’s hero! A mini tongue vibe, a stretchy c-ring and handy fingertip vibe are everything you need to buzzz your lover to an unforgettable orgasm… BUY NOW

 T-Cups Nipple Suction Duo

Dial in just the right amount of suction for your own delight—a little, a lot, or completely over the top! You’ll go wild for these tiny toys’ seductive suction…  BUY NOW

 Luxury Mystic Wand

Pretty, petite and powerful. Japanese-designed, with unique full head to stimulate the clitoris and entire vulva surface for all-over pleasure… BUY NOW

 Cowboy Prostate Vibe

Ergonomic probe with 10 orgasmic settings, easy-grip handle and unique design to stimulate prostates and perineums simultaneously. The new generation in p-spot ecstasy… BUY NOW

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If you want to have hotter, more intense sex, add nipple play to your bedroom repertoire. Nipples are some of the most sensitive parts on the body. Stimulate them just so and you can kick sexy time into overdrive. Cut off the blood supply to the nipples’ network of nerve-endings and you can achieve off-the-charts awesome levels of sensitivity. Trust me on this one. Some people can even orgasm from nipple stimulation alone. (#SexGoals.)

Few things get me more hot and bothered than when a partner takes their sweet, leisurely time with breast play. I mean, really pays attention and pushes my mammary pleasure buttons. There are so many ways to seduce this erogenous zone: kissing, licking, sucking, biting, pulling, squeezing, pinching, caressing or applying temperature. Be creative. Fun fact: When nipples are aroused, large amounts of the feel-good hormone oxytocin is released. See, sexual arousal is GOOD FOR YOU. Hello, happy chemicals! If my high beams are on, all signs say I’m ready to go.

Cue the Kinklab T-Cups Nipple Suction Duo, a must-have for your sex toy collection. This pair of hot pink beauties creates a vacuum-like effect on your nipples, neck or other sensitive spots. They’re like the LBD (Little Black Dress) of sex toys, because they’ll work on any all titties. Size doesn’t matter.

A playmate of mine and I put the set to the test. He licked the suction part of the toys, then stuck them atop my areolas. With each slow and deliberate twist of the plastic screw, he teased my big tits, making them plump, erect and perky. Oh, and super-duper sensitive in the very best of erotic ways. The strong suction drove me wild during foreplay and allowed for plenty of hands-free fun. Plus, the toys were easy-to-use for a newbie sex toy enthusiast. (Still teaching this one the ropes.)

A study published online in the July 28, 2011 Journal of Sexual Medicine suggests that nipple stimulation travels to the brain much like sensations from the vagina, clitoris and cervix.

As much as I like taking my nipples from “Ooh!” to “Ouch” with clamps or clothes pins, these toys can be intimidating, especially if you’re just starting to wade into the play pool. This nipple toy provided a very different sensation, creating more of a gradual warm up, so users can ease into whatever level of intensity feels best. Likewise, for the release. Think slow and steady, rough and tumble or anywhere in between.

The verdict? If you want to baby step something kinky into the bedroom, the Kinklab T-Cups Nipple Suction Duo is a great addition. It’s hot pink! It features a flower design! It looks like a fancy baking tool. Or a Play-Doh attachment. It’s neither. It’s female-friendly by design, although I imagine less girly features may appeal to guys into male nipple play. Nipple play isn’t just for the ladies. It can increase sexual intimacy. And most importantly, it hits all my pleasure spots – mind, body and almighty lady lumps.   

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Purple Nipplettes

Irresistable vibration and tight stimulation is now at the tips of your breasts. For solo playtime time or indulging a lover any time… BUY NOW
 

“Squeeze Please!” Nipple Play Jewelry

Think he can’t love your breasts even more? Just slip on these tight, glamorous nipple jewels with just the right amount of delicious weight. You’ll feel and look amazing… BUY NOW

Wireless Vibrating NippleTips

One ounce each of delicious weight. Adjustable to your personal pleasure-pressure. Then clamp, twist, and buzz to your heart’s deligh… BUY NOW
 

TRYST Couples Vibrating Massager

A c-ring, a G-spot massager, a clitoral vibe and so much more. A unique toy with something for all your erogenous zones… BUY NOW
 
 

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What might happen? Would the earth spin out of orbit? (Nope.) Would we enjoy momentary world peace? (Probably.) Would there be a lot less bitchin’ and crabbin’ and horn honkin’, and a lot more smiling and sociability and goodwill? (An unqualified YES!)

If you’re for it, let’s get started! After all, May is the very best time, since it’s officially designated International Masturbation Month. And, as Woody Allen once quipped, “Don’t knock masturbation. It’s sex with someone I love.”

But why is there an entire month devoted to global masturbation? Easy: To raise awareness that masturbation is safe, healthy, natural, fun and free! To you, perhaps, that’s waaay too obvious. But to many others, masturbation is actually considered “self abuse” and punishable. By having an entire 31 days devoted to masturbation’s personal pleasures and health benefits, the positive message can circulate freely, and hopefully reach those who feel shamed by its natural beauty.

Self-Pleasure — The Very Best Ways to Rejoice!

For ladies just coming out of the shadows, or just coming of age, or who just love coming, Tickle Kitty would like to help you celebrate Masturbation Month. The best way is with a fantasy jumpstarter. Just tuck this erotic self-love party-for-one in your night table drawer, and daydream about it all the way home. Don’t get a speeding ticket, because it’ll always be waiting in your secret place to seduce you, faithfully, privately, just the way you love it.

Or, for the price of one Happy Hour Cosmo, you can enjoy many multiple orgasms in the privacy of your own bedroom, whenever you feel the stirrings that tell you you’re alive, and longing for your own loving touch. This buzzy gift to yourself works all year long – not just during Masturbation Month! And judging by the what women are saying about it, it’s the gift that keeps on giving.

There are plenty of ways to celebrate the coming of Spring. How many pleasurable ways can YOU now think of?

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