Although nipple clamps might seem pretty self-explanatory (nipples: meet clamps, etc.), to get the most pleasurable experience with them, you’ve gotta know your stuff. Here, Dr. Carol Queen, PhD; Carmel Jones, a sex and relationships expert; and Dr. Sadie Allison, Sexologist and author of Tickle Your Fancy–A Woman’s Guide to Sexual Self-Pleasure, break down everything you need to know about this lo-fi but still highly stimulating sex toy:

1. The feeling isn’t one-size-fits-all. As Jones explains, clamps attach directly to the nipple and increase sensation by clamping down and forcing out the blood flow from the nipple, similar to the feeling of being pinched. Jones says the resulting feeling from the pinch feels dull, almost numb. However, depending on the type of clamp, you can experiment with the intensity of the clamping and/or the slack of the nipple chain, if there is one.

2. They’re good for multitasking. Yes, nipple clamps are great on their own, but as Dr. Queen previously has pointed out, they’re also great for hands-free nipple play. Investing in a pair means you or your partner can focus on other things, like oral sex or bringing different toys into the mix.

3. They’re very popular in the BDSM and kink communities. Although the sensation of a nipple clamp might not be for everyone, it would feel “exciting and intense,” rather than painful, for someone into BDSM.

4. But that doesn’t mean their usage is limited just to the BDSM and kink communities. Jones advises people looking to try out clamps that they shouldn’t be misled into thinking that the toy is exclusively BDSM. “They’re more widely used than you’d think,” she says, and suggests doing more research with an open mind.

5. There are many types of clamps. You can choose from clover, alligator, tweezer, vibrator, and vibrating tweezer hybrids. Clover clamps are usually metallic, and their default pressure is moderate, not light. You can increase the intensity by tugging on the chain and pulling together the clamps’ tips.

Alligator clamps are also metallic, but you adjust the pressure by loosening or tightening the screws at the tips. Most of these have rubber tips, though some might have “teeth” under the rubber to increase intensity. Jones says these are usually a bit harder to use for newbies when it comes to adjusting.

Tweezer clamps literally look like tweezers and often are attached by a chain. These also have rubber tips and usually have small metal rings around the arms to adjust pressure. They’re the most popular, because they’re the easiest to use.

6. For beginners, you can’t go wrong with tweezer clamps or tweezer-vibrator hybrids. Jones says tweezers are the best for beginners, as they’re easiest to use. They’re mild, easily adjustable, and a great “dip your toes” introduction into the wonderful world of nipple clamps. If you wanna ball out and get tweezer ones that vibrate for extra stimulation, even better.

7. They don’t have to be used just on the nipples. “They’re clamps, after all,” says Jones. “The nipple is the ideal place to use them, but if it’s a tweezer nipple clamp, for instance, it can easily double as a clit clamp.” Just make sure you’re not leaving them on for so long that you begin to feel uncomfortable.

8. They’re just as great during foreplay as they are during sex. Clamps are versatile enough that their usage is totally up to you. The idea is to keep the nipples constantly stimulated, as they’re often only paid slight attention to during foreplay and forgotten entirely during sex.

9. You’ll probably want to adjust them during play. “When pressure fluctuates, the blood flow changes, and the nipples don’t ‘settle’ into a certain state,” Jones says of adjusting the clamps’ pressure. To try this on your own, she suggests tugging on the cord, stopping and starting in rhythm to keep your nipples on their toes, so to speak.

10. They’re also fun to experiment with during climax. Dr. Allison suggests wearing the clamps during sex and removing them as soon as you start to climax. Not only will the blood flow rush back into the nipples, but nipple play also releases a chemical in the brain called oxytocin (the same chemical released during orgasms), so you’ll be in for a super-concentrated rush of sensation.

11. The length of time you’ll want them on varies based on tightness. You can leave on looser clamps for as long as 30 minutes and tighter ones for up to 10 to 15 minutes.

12. They’re great for all genders. As Allison explains, “Men and women have the same amount of sensitive nerve endings in their nipples and areolas. For some men, nipple play is an extremely pleasurable and preferred type of stimulation. For others, they may have overlooked this erogenous zone altogether, so it’s worth an introduction.”

This article was originally published on Cosmopolitan.

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Oh, the nipples—those two little areas on everyone’s body that can cause quite a big sensation. Not only do they have the capacity to cause immense pleasure, but it seems like someone’s are always causing controversy. Case in point: Over ten years have gone by and people are still talking about Janet Jackson’s famous ‘Nip Slip’ wardrobe malfunction at the 2004 Super Bowl.

So why are nipples considered so naughty? Why does the media go manic every time Miley Cyrus pops a pasty or Beyonce accidentally bares a boob? It might have something to do with the fact that when prodded properly our nipples are one of our biggest pleasure receptors.

Considered one of our body’s erogenous zones, the nipples send the same message to the brain as other genitals. (No wonder humans have been obsessed with boobs since Adam first realized Eve was naked!) These erotic nerve ending receptors are so sensitive and powerful, they can sometimes cause a woman to orgasm without having been touched anywhere else! Now that’s nipple navigation.

It’s an old wives’ tail that only women can get turned on by nipple play. Many men love having their tits teased, too. Guys have the same sensitive nerve endings on the tip of their nips as ladies so sucking, biting, or gently caressing your man’s nipples can be a real turn-on. Don’t forget to ravish the rest of the breast!

If you’re just introducing nipple play into your boudoir take it slow. Start by lightly blowing your hot breath on your partner’s nipples then gently squeeze them between your fingertips. As you get more comfortable, start to lick around the areola then flick your tongue over the erect nipple and suck on it. Then blow on it again and your lover will feel new cooler sensations from your sexy breath against their wet nipples. You can even give it a little nibble if you want. You’ll both be super worked up at this point, but try to give this area the attention it deserves and don’t rush it. You’ll both reap the rewards in the end.

What if I’m Prego?

When you’re pregnant your entire body is more sensitive all around—especially your nipples. It also releases major amounts of oxytocin—a bonding hormone which is linked to sexual arousal and orgasms. Women’s oxytocin levels fluctuate when they’re on their period or pregnant and these high levels can make your nipples even more sensitive. Make sure to be extra gentle when stimulating the nipples during pregnancy–sensations that normally feel good could be even more heighten then you’re ready to handle.

Toys for Ta Tas!

There are many pleasure toys designed especially to tease your Ta Tas. Here’s a few popular models that are worth checking out:

• Nipple Clamps. While clamps can be heavenly for the nipple-play connoisseur, they can cause different reactions to different people, so tread lightly if it’s your first time introducing nipple toys into the bedroom. Adjustment clamps, vibrating clamps, heat clamps, chains, and jewelry can all add to your nipple play. Just getting into nipple play? Start with these cute, incognito Purple Nipplettes.
• Suction Play. Hand-activated suction toys can create amazing sensations on your breasts and nipples (his too!).  The T-Cups Nipple Suction Duo might be the perfect pleasurizers to give you that special suction sensation you crave. Rim the suction cups with some Slippery Kitty lube (or saliva), press gently against the breasts and twist it ever so slooowly. Feel (and see!) your nipples engorge with erotic excitement in the see-through chamber.
• Vibrating Nipple Clamps. For the full tidal wave of titillating, you’re going to want to step it up with vibrating nipple tips. This style lets you adjust the clamp pressure and vibration speed to your liking. You’ll love the buzz and erotic tug sensations these one-ounce vibrating weights will give you!

Curious to try a new sex toy? Explore our Tickle Kitty Boutique.

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