Father’s Day is right around the corner. The kids are getting Dad a card… What are you giving your man…?

Instead of giving your man a tie, shirt or sweater, why not have some fun this year?

I’m going to make it easy for you with my special list of unique gift ideas that use your sensuality and passion to make this Father’s Day one he’ll never forget—most don’t cost a penny. And this’ll be one Father’s Day that you’ll enjoy as much as he does!

Throughout the year, men feel a lot of pressure to perform—sexually or otherwise. Why not take away that pressure? Show him how much you adore him by making him feel like a rock star. How do you that? Well, there’s one thing that every man wants. And the best part…? It’s not just about him. It’s about you, too!

I’m talking about pleasure—the gift that only you can give.

You know your lover’s body and turn-ons better than anyone. This is your chance to show him that you’ve been paying attention to his desires and demonstrate how much you want to make him feel good—both inside and outside the bedroom. So ladies, why not make this Father’s Day the start of a new tradition. Create your own celebration. Here are some fun ideas to help you plan that super sexy gift for your man that’s uniquely tailored by you:

1. Start early with text messages

• Hint that you have surprises waiting for him.
• Keep it mysterious—don’t give him too many details.
• Tell him how much you’re going to rock his world.
• Start heating things that morning with my free list of sexy sext-messages.

2. Get naked

• Help him with a task he’s been trying to finish at home—in your birthday suit!
• If he loves his car, wash it for him naked.
• If he’s into video games, take him on in the raw.
• If he loves golf, wash his balls—naked!

3. Shower together

• Lather him up and scrub him from head to toe. Take your time worshiping his body.
• Give him a good head massage when washing his hair.
• Offer extra TLC when washing his most sensitive body parts…
• Added benefit: When you get down to business later, you’ll know he’s squeaky clean!

4. Get playful on a dinner date

• Wear his favorite slinky dress or out fit—the one you know he really loves you in.
• Whisper sweet something’s in his ear. Remember… slooowly, quietly and breathy.
• Let your hand “accidentally” fall into his lap. Or, from across the table, slip off a shoe and tickle his crotch with your toes.
• Halfway through your meal, let him know that you “forgot” to wear panties. Then prove it.
• Bring a mini whisper-quiet vibe in your purse and excuse yourself to the ladies room for 10 minutes. When you return, tell him you just gave yourself an orgasm with it!

5. Let it ride with visuals

• Men are visual creatures. They LOVE watching you. So let ‘em.
• Get into positions that let him see you and your curves, and how much you’re enjoying yourself.
• Have you tried Reverse Cowgirl? Guys love this position. Try it, or another exciting new position.

6. A big finish

• That’s right. The thing that every man wants. A 5-Star blowjob.
• Use lots of lube and start with your hands. Why not surprise him with a new foreplay stroker?
• Remember, enthusiasm is the #1 thing a man wants from his woman when getting a great BJ.
• BJ’s are the ultimate way for you to let him know how much you appreciate him.

Just like you, men today want to feel connected to their lovers. They want to know that you are satisfied and that you enjoy pleasing them as well.

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Ladies, show him just how much you care. This Father’s Day give him the gift of pleasure—mentally, emotionally and sexually! He’ll appreciate it more than you know. www.ticklekitty.com

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You may already know this, but chances are, your girl uses a sex toy (or several). Pretty dang hot to think about, right? And although she’ll always enjoy using them alone as an essential and healthy part of her sexual release and discovery, she’d probably love to have you join.

Sex toys are super efficient and amazing and will probably take over the world one day. But they lack in one crucial area: emotion (for now). My friend, that’s where you come in. Along with your undoubtedly magical body, you bring laughter, affection, and unforgettable memories the two of you will never be able to stop talking about. If that wasn’t enough, here are five reasons sex toys will lead you to better and more frequent sex.

1. It exudes selflessness

Some fellas have it in their head that using sex toys is cheating as if sex was some kind of game fueled by the ego. Without getting too poetic on you, sex is so much more than that.

Therefore, the man who can check his ego and enhance bedroom activities for the selfless reason of improving his lover’s experience is the same man who will not only be considered an ideal lover but also receive admiration and reciprocity sevenfold.

2. It helps you, like, get to know yourself, man

It’s all about self-discovery, man. So spark a joint, put on some smooth jazz or that other stuff you’re into, maybe light a few candles… Sex toys will help you map out your body, unleashing the unique and surprising things that make you feel really good. You’ll be all like, “Whoa! Hey now, what the heck was that? I kind of like that.” Then, you can take your newfound body awareness to your lover, so she knows exactly what you like. This will make you a more confident lover (which is one of the hottest things a girl could ever want in the bedroom).

3. It’ll help you last longer

When you practice alone with a self-masturbater like the Hummer, which is as close as it gets to the real thing, it will feel awesome, while helping you build up your sexual stamina for your next encounter with a real-life woman.

And when you use a penis ring with your lover, it can help you go the distance in two ways. First, when applied around the base of your penis and testicles, it can effectively prolong ejaculation via the “squeeze technique.” Secondly, it will trap blood in your penis, so if you have trouble maintaining an erection for an extended time, cock rings will help your erection compete with your appetite (and your cardio). The Tammy Couple’s Ring is the perfect choice because it will help you last longer, while making her come quicker, so you can hopefully orgasm at the very same time.

4. It leads to more orgasms

Sexual pleasure, in its many forms, could not be as accessible as it is today without sex toys. Whether you’re physically disabled, single, or have trouble climaxing, sex toys will ensure you don’t miss out on all the fun.

There are even sex toys if you’re in a long distance relationship. The Moxie gives all the power to the person with the remote, so even if your lover is across the globe, you can still give her orgasms.

5. It will enhance her experience

Guys, you’ve probably already noticed this because you’re totally on it, but many women have trouble climaxing if the clitoris is neglected. It’s biology. So what humanity did was create toys for the clitoris like vibrating wands and clitoral suction toys and vibrating cock rings to more effectively give the attention her clitoris deserves while you’re able to focus on your penetration game. This combination of pleasure will drive her wild, and possibly more so than any other item on this list, make the sex better and more frequent.

Even after reading the points above, some may think introducing sex toys in the bedroom will only benefit her. But who do you think benefits the most when she benefits from something in her life? First her cat, and then… YOU. That’s right, man. If you’re ready for your life (especially your sex life) to reach new levels of greatness, I highly recommend surprising your girl with a new toy.

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Giving great oral pleasure is an art, and if you want to create a masterpiece, you’ve got to equip yourself with the right tools. Even the most talented fingers, lips, and tongues can level-up their oral expertise with a drawer full of sexy accessories. Tickle Kitty has got you covered on the best vibrators, lubes, and sensation-enhancing toys to play wing-man (or woman) to your mouth, and we’ve listed the best ways to play:

1. Keep it Wet and Slippery

Wetter is always better, especially when it comes to oral lovin’. Even the wettest and wildest babes will feel the difference between plain ol’ body fluids and an extra dose of moisture from a sensual lubricant. Spring for a tasty delight like with flavored lube for an added bonus. Once you’ve drenched your partner’s penis or vulva in strawberry sweetness, enjoy lapping it up with your lips and tongue as you explore every inch of their nether regions. For vagina owners, always double-check your ingredients, especially when flavor is involved. A healthy, hypoallergenic lube that’s safe for your insides and outsides—like Slippery Kitty—will be pH balanced, water-based, and free of glycerin and paraben. Drizzle on the wet stuff like you’re making an ice cream sundae and go to town!

2. Suck and Stroke

Just when he thought it couldn’t get much better than a warm mouth and soft tongue, introduce your new secret weapon: a men’s stroker. Penises love texture, and a squishy oral-friendly sleeve, like the Hummer Penis Stroker, brings a new dimension to your head-giving game. The Hummer is full of soft bumps, twists, and turns that feel incredible as they bob up and down his erect penis. Lube him up and alternate between licking and sucking his member with your mouth while stroking him with the masturbator sleeve. If you’ve got a sensitive gag reflex, use the sleeve as an extension of your mouth and suck on the tip of the penis while using the masturbator to stimulate his shaft. No matter how you choose to play, he’ll be in ecstasy with his two favorite things: smokin’ hot oral sex, and a new toy just for him.

3. Pulse and Play

Men’s sex toys have been catering to blow job lovers since the invention of the wheel. It’s about time the ladies had the luxury of top-of-the-line oral delights. Thanks to the Womanizer, vulva owners can now experience all the body-tingling sensations of the most skilled oral giver, all in the palm of your hand. The Womanizer uses tiny pulses of air to recreate the feeling of a gently sucking pair of lips. Although this unique toy is awesome for solo time, we think it also makes the perfect addition to couples’ oral play. Hand it to your partner and use it during foreplay to jump-start the sensitive nerve endings in the clitoris. Once you’re warmed up, move the Womanizer’s suction cup lower on your labia while your lover gently licks your clitoris (or vice versa with a tongue on your labia and the toy on your hot button). This little oral wonder is also a great way to reach your big-O with the helping hand of your partner if you can’t always climax during oral. For tireless lovers (and the occasional tired tongue), the Womanizer hits the spot every time.

4. Jump, Jive, N’ Moan

There’s nothing like a blended orgasm—that toe-curling combination of clitoral and g-spot climax in harmony. Bring some good vibrations to your oral session with a wearable internal sex toy, like the Warming G-spot Swirl. Insert the Swirls curved, bulbous head into your vagina while letting the flatter, outer piece rest on your vulva and clitoris. The internal G-spot shaft will rock you like no other while the vibrating pad simultaniously carresses your vulva’s sensitive nerve endings. Before you get down to sexy business, make sure you’ve got your cell phone handy. This sex-tech vibe connects to an app on your smart phone, where your partner can easily control the vibrational patterns with a single swipe. Givers, take note: to drive her absolutely wild, change your tongue technique every time you click to the next vibration setting. As an added bonus, the Jive teases your partner across the bedroom or across the world. When you can’t get a taste of your lover, the bluetooth connection enables long-distance play time.

5. Booty Rockin’

Oral connoisseurs are always looking for their next thrill. If you’ve tried every sex tip in the book and are looking for a truly unforgettable orgasm, anal stimulation can be a mind-blowing new addition to your oral repertoire. Start slowly with a beginner-friendly small plug, like the Little Zinger. This gently-weighted anal toy is comfortable to insert and offers a little extra fullness as it’s shape stimulates the nerve endings in your anus. Wear it while receiving oral sex and you’ll immediately notice those extra tingles that can only come from teasing your tush. Once you’ve fallen in love with the delicious mix of oral and anal pleasures, spring for a pyrex anal toy like the App-Controlled Ditto+. Let your lover buzz you into orgasm as they take control of the Trio’s remote and three strategically-placed motors while working their mouth over your vulva. If you love blended orgasms, simultaneous clitoral and anal play take pleasure to the next level.

Just when you thought oral sex couldn’t get any better, add a vibe, lube, or stroking tube to bring an extra zing to your tongue skills. There’s no better way to blow your partner’s mind than with some spine-tingling toy tricks!

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Explore our favorite oral love-enhancing toys from  TickleKitty.com:

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1. Lover’s Foreplay Dice Game

2. Crystal Chain Nipple Clamps

3. Stretchy Couple’s Vibrating Climax Ring

4. Manta Men’s Vibrating Stroker

5. Clone-A-Willy

6. Flash Star Erotic Pasties

7. Pump Up The Love – Couple’s Suction Kit

8. Stay Hard Adjustable Loop Ring

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Guys, ever wish you’d last longer and feel stronger during sex or masturbation? Introducing the cock ring, also known as a c-ring, erection ring, or penis ring. These performance-enhancing toys achieve universally-desired benefits of increased stamina, a bigger penis, enhanced sensitivity during lovemaking, and more explosive orgasms. As a natural alternative to pills and supplements, they are heavily marketed to those with a penis, but they also offer titillating stimulation for any sexual partner. For example, cock rings increase the chances of simultaneous clitoral and vaginal orgasms for her. Physical benefits for him range from transforming the look and feel of a penis, while providing a boost in sexual confidence. How sexy is that?

How they work: during an erection, the penis fills with blood, which keeps it firm. A cock ring, secured around the base of the penis, keeps the blood strictly in the shaft, resulting in an engorged look and feel. Wearing a penis ring doesn’t completely cut off circulation; it just slows it down and keeps it localized. The restriction of blood can help endurance, prevent premature ejaculation, and enhance every sensation on a thicker, bigger shaft. Having a cock ring wrapped snuggly around the penis also leads to more intense orgasms, as the ring squeezes the shaft, forcing built-up pressure to be released during an explosive orgasm.

For those new to cock rings, the first step is to determine the right size and fit. Beginners usually opt for a set that includes multiple sizes like the RingO Pro X3, giving the option to pick and choose a comfortable size while achieving rock-hard results. Regardless of material, any ring will easily slide on with a spot of lube; just a little dab will do ya.

For those who want something a bit more complex, c-rings frequently come with a vibrating bullet. The genius of adding vibration to a cock ring is that it turns the penis into a real-life vibrating sex toy. A fitted vibrating ring provides a snug fit for him, and an attached vibrator stimulates her clitoris, no matter what position. The Ultimate Lasso is a fully adjustable design, resembling a bolo tie for the cock & balls, with side strands that loosen or tighten with a sliding attachment. This soft, pliable ring has a removable bullet for mutual pleasure if you decide the ring itself isn’t your thing.

The simple yet stylish Tux is a stretchy, studded vibrating ring with an unassuming look, effortlessly outfitting the penis. Grind on it while on top or ask him to push it harder into you during missionary. Similarly, the Duet Passion Enhancer is also a snug-fitting ring featuring a bullet with a raised texture to tease ‘n tickle the clitoris and labia. A decadent vibrating ring like The Wave features a waterproof design, with a thick, cushiony clit stimulator and ripples that deliver all-over sensations for her and him. When flipped upside down, it will externally tickle his prostate for a truly surging finish. This type of ring is an awesome introduction to mild prostate stimulation without penetration.

A good intermediate option is The Tongue Lover, with two well-fitted loops, and a strategically placed mini tongue to hit the clit. The small inner ring wraps around the shaft, and the larger ring wraps snugly around the balls. This extra-secure fit keeps blood in the penis and enhances every sensation for him, while letting you enjoy clit stimulation and penetration at the same time.

If your desire is maximum firmness, a weighted ring will ensure the tightest possible fit. A weighted ball hangs and tugs from the Weighted Lasso, keeping the ring cinched as tight as possible without causing pain. The fully-adjustable ring promotes a rock-hard feel and explosive climax. Since the design is adjustable, it accommodates any size!

Think you’re too advanced for a cock ring? The versatile Couple’s Reversible Ring will make you think again. This ring has two different shaped vibrating clit stimulators on each side, making it fully reversible to flip around or upside down. Once fitted around the penis, the top loop becomes a finger-sized steering wheel, giving you 100% control to put the clit stimulators where you please. To pleasure his cock, balls, and everything in-between, place the larger ring around the balls and the smaller ring around the base of the penis. The vibrating bullet will rest on his taint to create a magical triangle of pleasure.

With a world of design options and hardly any sex toy experience required, there isn’t only one cock ring to rule them all. This quintessential couple’s toy is the total package!

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Here comes Summer, arguably the sexiest season of the year. The sun comes out, clothes come off, we generally become happier humans. If you’re planning to pack your bags and hit the road for Summer vacation, traveling with sex toys can be nerve wracking. A few things to keep in mind if you’re traveling with toys are the size, shape, weight, noise level, and material. These travel-friendly picks hit the mark in more ways than one.

‘O’ on the Go

Quickies are a breeze with the pint-sized Womanizer Starlet in tow! The newest (and smallest) model of the famed Womanizer Deluxe features patented Pleasure Air technology. It simulates an unreal sucking sensation without directly touching the clitoris. Only have a few minutes in your room between the beach and dinner? Give this clit stimulator 60 seconds, and you will be traveling to new worlds of effortless climax.

Rabbit Season

The rabbit vibrator has evolved by leaps and bounds since its mainstream debut on Sex and the City in 1998.  These days, there is a style for everybunny! A modern example is the sleek Petite Trixie Rabbit, featuring soft, smooth curves for dual clitoral and G-spot stimulation. The fully waterproof design can be used in the bath, jacuzzi or shower, by yourself or with your lover. At 4.25” of insertable length, this rabbit vibe is great for beginners as well as those who like to pack light during their travels.

Going Incognito

The Luscious Incognito Clitoral Vibe is discreet in shape and size, resembling the shape of a lipstick when tucked in a makeup bag. This compact clit toy is whisper quiet and operated by a twist-turn handle, making it a breeze to use. It’s only turned on when you’re good and ready!

Couple’s Paradise

Don’t know how to surf? The Wave – Couple’s Orgasm Ring allows you to ride big waves of pleasure, no experience necessary! This rechargeable silicone cock ring has 7 vibration settings to match your mood. Double the fun by wearing the versatile ring upside down, which provides external prostate stimulation in addition to clit stimulation. This ring is the sexiest addition to a lover’s Summer vacay.

Two of Hearts

The compact Heart Me Vibe is perfect for a sensual massage anywhere on the body. It fits in the palm of the hand, perfect for intense, pinpointed stimulation. The 10 intense settings are controlled with a simple click, and can be revved up with ease.

The adorably powerful Heart Finger Vibe sturdily slides between two fingers, providing control and stability. The textured ripples make all-over finger fun explosive. Both of these mini vibes can roam around the clitoris, testicles or nipples—really anywhere your heart desires.

Naturally we’re afraid of judgement should someone call us out for having sex toys in public. At some point over the last 10 years, my fear of traveling with sex toys turned into confidence. I smile when my bags go through the scanner. Sex toys aren’t scary; they are liberating. Strut through the line with confidence—make them wonder what kind of fun you’ll be having this summer.

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Still having trouble packing for your next Summer Vacation? Explore these orgasmic sex toy options from TickleKitty.com:

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Nothing says Happy Valentines Day like the Rocking G Rabbit. The “precision G-spot technology” will lure you in—hook, line and sinker. The way the curved head rocks back and forth in a “come hither” motion literally made me scream in delight. And those bunny ears, yeah those took me to the edge and back. But, I’m jumping ahead of myself…

The hubby and I decided it was time to do a throwback to the wild and crazy days of making out in closets. We called our game “seven functions for seven minutes in heaven.” The idea was that we would use each of the seven functions on the rabbit ears for one minute and one minute only, while also allowing the continuous rocking head to move around inside of me.

We had just received our Valentine’s Day gift to ourselves—Dr. Sadie’s “My Valentine Kit” from our favorite sex toy boutique. It came equipped with a variety of 5 luxurious sex toys, a free sex positions book, and free Slippery Kitty Lube. We got to choose which rabbit toy we wanted of two options: the Self-Thrusting and the Rocking G. I left the choice up to my husband, and I was more than excited to see if he had made the right choice. 

The night before game night, we charged the rabbit. It’s not only USB Rechargeable, but it has a sealable port for waterproof play. The next night, my husband led me to our bedroom closet, which we decided was the perfect place to reenact high school makeouts, put on a blindfold, and shut the lights.
He removed my panties and slid a finger inside my already wet pussy. He slowly lifted up my nightie, and pressed me to the floor. With my back against a wall, my husband carefully lubed up the toy and spread my legs wide. He took the shaft of the rabbit and teased the tip of my clit. Slowly moving the bulbous part of the head down in between my inner lips, he gently slipped the shaft inside. He turned it on for a few thrusts and then shut it down completely. 

For the first two of the seven minutes, we moved the rabbit independently, the ears building up strength and becoming stronger in vibration. At that point, I wanted that rocking cock inside of me. And as he turned the shaft on, my body began to loosen. The sensation of the smooth tip massaging my g-spot was unimaginable. Minute-by-minute and moan-by-moan, we made it through all seven functions.

Between the seven functions on the clitoral stimulator, and three more on the shaft, you can have a whole lot of sexy goodness and never do the same thing twice. And that rocking head—it’s a game changer.

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Tantalize your lover this Valentine’s Day with pleasure gifts from TickleKitty.com:

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There’s only one thing better than having an orgasm…and that’s having an orgasm anytime and anywhere.

For those who follow the adventures of my sex toy reviews, you’ll recall that I had worn the clitoral remote panty on an erotic dinner date, and the results had left me decidedly breathless. Well, I wanted a repeat performance. This time my wish came true in the form of a pink, probing, pulsing pleasure penetrator called the Butterfly Remote Venus Penis. 

The Butterfly Remote Venus Penis may sound like a mouthful, but it’s more like a panty-full of pleasure. Once the toy was securely strapped underneath my panties (it’s got lacy thigh straps to help keep it in place), the pure silicone butterfly fit nicely around my lady parts, and the big pink bulge did a fine job of filling me up.

This adventure happened at the ballpark (no, really, at a National League baseball ball game).  At the bottom of the third inning, with the bases loaded and the crowd on their feet, I decided it was time to hand my husband the remote control. He looked quizzically for a second, but he’s my guy and he knew exactly what I was up to. As the next batter came up to the plate, my husband turned on the remote. My body let out a jolt. I could feel the tip of the probing vibe having a party inside my pussy.

The last batter had struck out, but I was feeling lucky. I sat back down and grabbed my husband’s hand and tried, as coyly as possible, to place it on my vibrating groin. I could tell he was as surprised as I was about the toy’s power. He went through a few of the 12 settings to gauge my reaction and settled on a quick pulsation to keep me on my toes. It took everything in my power not to grind on the seat and by the Seventh inning stretch, I was ready for a nap.

There are so many things to love about this toy. It’s portable, made of high quality silicone and comes with different stimulators for comfort. I also love that you don’t need the remote to make this toy go, and that the lacy thigh straps add an element of sexy to the whole experience.

If you like penetration with your clitoral stimulation and you’re looking for a toy you can take to town, or out on the town, I suggest you fly away with this one.

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Take a look at any modern sex toy line-up and it’s obvious that humans love to please multiple erogenous zones at once. There isn’t some big secret as to why The Rabbit, with it’s magical ability to hit the clitoris while penetrating you, is still one of the best selling and most copied vibrators on the market. Our orgasms intensify to electric proportions when two of our anatomical hot spots are stimulated at once. This is what’s called “dual stimulation,” and it’s so popular that it’s even become a buzz word in sex toy culture.

There are endless permutations of body parts to pair up and touch, but we’ve got a few tried-and-true favorites to kick-start your sexual multi-tasking. The best part about doubling up is that you can do it solo or with a partner, and if you don’t have the perfect equipment handy, improvisation is easy. We’ll show you what parts to please to find your match made in orgasm heaven and how to treat them to the caresses, buzzing, and touching they deserve.

Combo #1: Vagina and Clitoris

Most dual-stimulation toys for women are crafted in this super-popular combination for a big reason. Many women love penetration, but can’t orgasm without something happening around the clitoris. When you add clitoral pleasure to a bit of internal thrusting or fullness, it’s rare that you won’t start seeing stars. If you’re ready for a dual-stim toy of the vaginal and clitoral variety, The Ohhh Kinky Bunny is a great intro version that’s similar to the design of the original Rabbit Pearl. Try the Foreplay Frenzy if your clit craves more broad stimulation or you want to extend the vibrations to more of your labia. You can even mix and match a dildo and external vibrator for a truly customized experience. Wands like the Nöje are often paired with g-spot-reaching dildos like the Icicle for choosy babes who like to move each toy independently. 

Combo #2: Penis and Testicles

You didn’t think we’d leave the boys out in the cold, did you? He loves dual stimulation just as much as you. His testicles are extra sensitive, and this is exactly why he loves having them touched while you’re playing with his penis. Just don’t squeeze too hard, and let him tell you what feels good. The easiest way to get started is with some lube and your hands. Gently massage his scrotum while you stroke or suck his lubed-up member. Figure out how much pressure he enjoys, and then bring in the toys. The Tenga 3D Pleasure Spiral makes stroking his boner even more fun than usual. Then dig into your own toy collection for a vibrator like the Le Wand Petite or the Magic Wand. The long handles make it easy to reach underneath and around his sack, and the wider heads offer more broad stimulation so you don’t miss any of his tender pleasure places. 

Combo #3: Anus and Clitoris or Penis

Opinions are like asses: everyone has one. That’s why our opinion is that adding anal stimulation to your sex play is fantastic for everyone. Butt stuff can be a touchy topic for both men and women, but adding a bit of clitoral or penile pleasure helps you relax and reap the full benefits of your booty. If you’re both anal newbies, start with something small like the vibrating Silhouette Butt Plug. Vibrations help the anal muscles to relax, so it’s always good to have the option to turn them on. Slowly work in the toy with lots lube while you stimulate your partner. For him, the Mood Thrill stroker keeps the good vibes flowing as he gets used to the new sensation in his bum. For her, The Butterfly’s multiple vibrational speeds arouse the clitoris, which will awaken the delicious feelings of anal penetration. Once you’ve gotten the hang of things, upgrade to a premium butt plug like the Spark His Spot or a glass piece like the Pink Daisy, which you can warm up in water for an extra yummy buttplay experience. 

We love dual stimulation because it’s all-inclusive! We’ve all got some variety of penises, vaginas, clitorises, butts, nipples, and other hot spots to combine for full-body orgasms. Pairing up your erogenous pleasures is the quickest, easiest route to spicing up your solo or coupled sex life. 

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Summer is in full swing, and couples are non-stop Instagramming #ThrowbackThursdays with their best selfies from Coachella, Electric Daisy Carnival, and Lighting in a Bottle. The festival line-up grows every year and becomes a tradition for couples who love to immerse themselves in the freedom of artistic expression.

The close of festival season is marked by the end-all, be-all celebration of music, art, and radical human beings: Burning Man. This week-long August event in the sweltering Black Rock Desert of northern Nevada isn’t for the close-minded or the weak of disposition. In fact, even calling it a “festival” is a misnomer, and doing so always brings swift heat from veteran attendees (known as “Burners,” for the uninitiated). Burning Man is a temporary intentional community comprised of just about every walk of life, from artists, engineers, and musicians to entrepreneurs, 9-to-5-ers, and other bohemians of sorts. Traipsing around this community’s “streets” is like stepping into a literal Alice in Wonderful scene, complete with 2-story tall creatures, Mad Hatters handing out mysterious drinks, and character encounters that defy reality.

The goal of Burning is more complicated than the pursuit of fun. There is scarcely a “Burgin” who returns without grandiose tales of mind-awakening, life-changing experiences, both for better and worse. Venturing to The Burn is a big undertaking for couples who are new to the event. In the words of Depeche Mode, “it’s more than a party,” and expect your boundaries, brain, and social norms to be questioned and tested. If you’re up for some serious growth in your relationship, Burning Man can be an incredible place to give and receive love and feel a heightened sense of sexual electricity. Before you take the dusty plunge, prepare yourselves with open, honest communication and set the stage for a spark-igniting Burn.

Discuss Limits and Hypotheticals

If you can dream it up, it probably has happened or will happen at Burning Man. “What if my boyfriend is propositioned by a harem of beautiful women dressed as sexy kittens who all want to sleep with him?” “What if my wife meets a a Jared Leto-look-a-like (or actually Jared Leto) who calls her Goddess and wants her to lead him around all week on a leash?” Burning Man is a place where sexuality runs wild and nothing is taboo. At some point throughout the week, you or your partner are likely to be the focus of flirtation and attention (and probably vice versa). If you’re already in a less-than-traditional relationship, this might not be such a big deal. If not, it’s imperative to discuss how to keep your week from ending in a jealous rage. Discuss your feelings and possible reactions for something as simple as a long, tight hug from a sexy stranger to being asked back to someone’s tent for the night. Look deep and decide upon what you want to explore, like exhibitionism, and what is completely off-limits, such as kissing another person.

Get Ready to Explore

If you do decide to step outside your usual sexual comfort zone, you’ve got a lot of options. For those that have sexually exploration goals, like couple-swapping, joining an orgy, or embracing your bi-sexuality, this is the place to find like-minded interlinks. Don’t try too to hard to find willing participants, as this will scare off potentially interested people and goes against the super-important rule of consent. Instead, wander the Plays, engage others in friendly conversation, and eventually someone will point you in the direction of the Orgy Dome. Considering that Burning Man is made up of around 80,000 humans you’ve never met, protection is key. If there is even the tiniest chance of you and/or your partner hooking up (or even if there isn’t – for now!), have male condoms on hand at the very least. You can have even more fun if you’ve also got female condoms and dental dams.

Feel the Vibe

The minute you hug the gate-greeters and begin the slow drive to scope out a camp site, you’ll know: this ain’t Coachella, Part 3! Burning Man carries a heavy vibe that effects everyone differently, and sometimes it takes a day or so to get used to the atmosphere. With your per-Burn boundaries conversation in mind, make your way around the sculpture art, giant theme camps, and impromptu dance floors. Don’t be afraid to smile at everyone you see and ask for plenty of hugs. Once you’re feeling the good vibes, you might decide to ride the wave of sexual energy and go check out the Orgy Dome after all. Or maybe it’s all a bit much for your first time, and you’re not feeling up for making the decision to watch your partner make out with someone new. Even if you choose the latter, you can still have a ton of sexy fun with your significant other.

Celebrate Each Other

If you and your partner pick the monogamous route, think of Burning Man as a white-hot fire of sexual energy just waiting to be absorbed. It’s the ultimate playground where couples can express their love and lust for one another. Take a naked walk hand-in-hand, or find a cute couple to flirt with at a camp bar, or get off on being as loud as you want while having sex in your tent or camper. You can even have a Burning Man Wedding (which isn’t an actual legal ceremony) and exchange vows in your bathing suits or topless while wearing g-strings. When the giant Man effigy finally burns down, look your partner in the eye, make out like teenagers, and embrace the experience of growing closer together by opening up to the sensual power of Burning Man. And of course, don’t forget to bring all your favorite playtoys, and maybe a few news ones too*

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Nipples are a wondrous erogenous zone. With more than 800 nerve endings, if you play with them just so, you can signal all the same marvelous parts of the brain the genitals do.

I’ve been blessed with 36DDD tits that straight-up love stimulation. I’m not one of the lucky ones who can orgasm from nipple stimulation alone, but tit-play turns me on.

Whether your gender, nipple play can be a sensual way to spice up foreplay. Nipple play can release the happy hormone, oxytocin, and these headlights are the erogenous zone closet to the heart. Who knew?! It’s high time this often-overlooked source of pleasure deserves some love and attention.

Find out what your partner likes and doesn’t like. Some like licking, but can’t stand biting or sucking. Others like rougher play, like clamps, flicking or flogging. Some deem nipples a straight-up no touch zone – and that’s OK.

Here are a few ideas to get you started:

Touch them

Basic hand-to-tit contact, however it presents itself, is highly erotic for me. Give my breasts a slow, featherlike rub, circling my nipples, and I’m sure to melt. Bonus points for slathering them up with water-based lube and taking your sweet ‘ole time.

Tease them

Tickle my nipples with a finger, tongue or slowly formed lips and I’m bound to go wild. When it comes to sex, for me, the buildup can be as arousing as the actual act itself. I may be super on-task/Type-A in my day-to-day, but I like play slow moving and uncertain when it comes to my breasts.

Pinch them

Few things excite me quite like having my nipples pinched and slowly twisted. I dig a partner who will take his or her time stimulating me with various intensities of touch.

Suck them

OMG, the sight of my nipple in a partner’s mouth is a total panty dropper. Nuzzle up and suckle for a while and I tread into all sort of unfamiliar (but super-hot) maternal fantasyland.

Bite them

I’m a big fan of biting. It’s one of those tactile sensations that can start with slow pressure, then get amped up to whatever desirable pain threshold. I happen to like pain and pressure, so generally, the harder the better.

Wax them

Recently, a partner turned me onto the ways of what hot candle wax drizzled on nipples can do. Spoiler alert: It sent wave after wave of intense pleasure straight to my pussy. Who knew? Regulate the temperature of the wax by how high you hold the candle above the breasts – you don’t want to burn your partner.

The next time you hop into bed for sexy time, be sure to give your partner’s nipples some extra special attention (pending they’re a willing recipient). We’re so hard-wired to think all our pleasure must come from penetration or clitoral stimulation, that we overlook other key nerves.

Do you love or loathe nipple play? Weigh in and send us a tweet at @ticklekittty. We’d love to hear your thoughts!

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The idea of getting all sexed up for a dial-in date via my laptop or smartphone screen used to seem pretty silly. Sure, it’s hard to argue with the convenience of on-demand, albeit, cybersex. But as an extroverted introvert, I can be the life of the party, but the second I’m put on the spot and have to perform, I’m a socially awkward mess.

When you’re dating/seeing/screwing people who live in far off places, you have to resort to desperate, I mean, different, more creative measures. And if you’re a human with a high sex drive, Kik chat, text and Facebook messages don’t entirely cut it in the pleasure department.

As soon as I got the confidence to strip down for long distance lovers, Skype, FaceTime and WhatsApp became my go-tos for the virtual Big-O. What was once awkward and intimidating put a seductive visual twist on “it’s good to hear your voice.” Think phone sex or sexting, but on steroids.

Here’s how I embraced a sizzling hot digital sex life:

1. Create a sexy space

In reality, virtual voyeurs are only going to see a tiny snippet of my living space. They’re never going to see the stack of dirty dishes in the sink or the piles of unfolded laundry. Still, it doesn’t stop me from creating a space in which I feel sexy. I generally don’t need to make my bed for cybersex, but will light a candle, adjust my lighting, and if I’m feeling especially frisky, put on some Al Green in the background. Because nothing and no one beats this man in sexy time music.

2. Think about appearance

I don’t put a ton of effort into my day-to-day appearance. Sure, I work out regularly, wear SPF (despite living in Seattle) and can pull it together when necessary. But I’m in no way a makeup-every-day, matchy-matchy kind of gal. (I also work from home.) When I make plans to “see” a virtual playdate, I try to present my best self. There’s a bit of exhibitionism involved with fueling online fantasies and I prep for the part, whether it’s wearing skimpy lingerie, doing a slow tease or indulging a hot mommy roleplay.

3. Request verbal consent

I’m not one to strip down in a hot second for strangers on the internet superhighway, whether it’s via sexting or having digital sex. I’ve been the victim of naked photos falling into the wrong hands, thankfully, well before the dawn of social media. When playing with a new partner via Skype, FaceTime or WhatsApp, play it safe. Always get verbal confirmation that risqué screenshots and recordings are not OK to share. There’s no absolute guarantee that someone won’t still violate your sexual privacy, so proceed with caution.

4. Make eye contact

IMO, eye contact is the ultimate foreplay. A person can send a bolt of electricity through my entire body with a penetrative gaze. To be slowly undressed by one’s eyes is such a primal tease. With a look, a partner can convey power, confidence and send nervous butterflies to my stomach. Eye contact is one of the easiest ways to create and deepen a connection. The more you practice, the easier it will be to perfect this important skill.

5. Stay in the moment

Don’t dilute the moment by checking your smartphone. There’s nothing more annoying than getting all hot and bothered, many miles away from your sweetie, only to hear and a notification tone and “I’m listening,” as their eyes wander elsewhere. Do yourself (and your partner) a favor, by trying to stay present. If you live far apart, make your limited amount of pseudo-in-person time count.

6. Be vocal

When you take touch out of the equation, it helps to make up for the lack of physical connection elsewhere. One way to satisfy erotic desires is by being verbal. Don’t be shy! Speak clearly and paint a sexy picture for your partner with your words – between “oohs”, purrs and moans, of course. You don’t have to be loud or particularly dirty to step up the sexy in a cyber date.

7. Solo or mutual masturbation

If one partner is too shy to perform, but is game, one partner can get off while the other one watches. If both people are comfortable taking pleasure into their own hands on camera, mutual masturbation can be a super-hot way for couples to connect. Don’t be afraid to bring sex toys into the mix. Right now, there are a variety of Bluetooth sex toys on the market that create a more (wink, wink) interactive experience.

How do you stay connected to lovers and loved ones from afar? Send us a tweet at @TickleKitty. We want to hear your sexy time tips and tricks!

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When I saw Liam arrive, my heart took off at a gallop. He looks so sexy in those jeans! Yum!

I made up my mind a week ago, and I’d been on pins and needles ever since. I laughed to myself at how long I spent finding just the right outfit two nights ago. I’d confessed my scheme to the salesgirl, and she was thrilled to be my partner in crime. We giggled like silly schoolgirls the whole time, but found exactly what I wanted. My naughty co-conspirator checked me out. “It’ll be like shooting fish in a barrel,” she laughed as we exchanged high fives. I couldn’t wait to see if it would work.

“Hey there, pal.” The tousled blonde giant gave me a big hug. “These are your new digs, eh? Congratulations! I’m thrilled for you, Sue.”

Was that a bigger smile that usual as he walked towards me? Is he squeezing harder than normal? Are we already on the same page?

He kissed the top of my head.

Groan. What if I’m wrong about all of this? What if he laughs at me? Talk about humiliation. … But damn this feels good!

I abruptly stepped out of his arms because I was afraid I couldn’t stop myself. “Thanks, pal.” That’s what we called each other at the office. “Pal.” And that was why it took us so long to get here … or at least where I hoped we’d get.

His electric blue eyes were so hypnotic, I couldn’t talk straight. “Uh … thanks … for coming … um …… go on inside … and … uh … get something to … uh …eat and … drink.”

Get it together, girl. You sound like a mindless bimbo not a high paid executive!

When he brushed my hair out of my face and tucked it behind my ear, my knees buckled. I fell against him and quickly righted myself. “Sorry. New shoes. Slippery soles,” I lied.

He looked back seriously. “Are you OK? You look flushed.”

“Sure. Yeah. I’m fine. No problem.” I blurted it out ten times faster than normal. “I’ve been out in the sun all day. That’s all it is. I’m fine. It’s just the sun. It’s makes my face a little red. I’m good. Really! I’m OK.”

Will you please stop rattling and shut yourself up!

I took a deep breath and centered myself. “Sorry. Nervous about meeting my new neighbors. Wander around. Go inside. Check out my castle. I’ve got to schmooze.”

The next two hours were an eternity. I’d never checked my watch so frequently. And I couldn’t help scanning the party every couple of minutes to make sure one of the sweet young things who showed up didn’t have her claws in Liam.

As soon as my last neighbor left, I knew my ‘pal’ would offer to help me clean up. “That’s really sweet. I’ll take you up on it. But first, are you going to keep your promise?”

He looked surprised. “Teach you to swim? You want to start today? Sure. Let me grab my suit from my car. Lucky you. I was surfing before I came here.”

I laughed. “Lucky, my ass. The only time you aren’t surfing is when you’re on the job. Use the guest room. I’ll meet you by the pool.”

I couldn’t get changed fast enough. I was so nervous I almost forgot to cut the tags off my suit and cover-up. Focus, girl! Take a breath. After sliding into my sparkly sandals and putting on my biggest sunglasses, I stood in front of the mirror and smirked. The picture of innocence. A virginal white one-piece with a scoop neck that shows no cleavage, and a white long-sleeved coverup buttoned almost all the way up.

Liam was swimming laps, so I hung back and admired his bronze, muscular body. Even though he was wearing board shorts, the way they clung to his behind was everything I’d hoped for.

After a few minutes of drooling, I walked close enough so he’d see me. He stopped and stood up. His wet, cut body was amazing. He wiped the water from his face and looked at me. I studied his expression. We’d worked together long enough that I could usually tell what he was thinking. Definite curiosity. Good!

“Into the pool, tadpole.”

I saluted sharply. “Yes, sir.”

When I unbuttoned and removed the cover-up, I was sure I saw a flash of disappointment. Perfect! He hoped for something sexy!

But when I turned around to put my cover-up on the chair—and then dropped it so I’d have to bend over and pick it up—I was sure I heard a muffled Holy shit! Backless with a G-string! I tingled all over knowing he was admiring my ass.

I turned back acting as though nothing unusual had happened. He blushed and looked quickly away. Gotcha! He’s interested.

I walked down the stairs into the pool. “OK, coach. How do we start?”

He took on a professional demeanor. “Take my hands. We’ll start by walking out to where the water’s up to your waist. Then, we’re just going to dunk up and down five times, making sure our heads go under water. I’ll hold on the whole time, so you’re safe.”

Perfect!

By the third time, my suit was completely wet—and, as designed, virtually transparent! Coming up out of number five, I pretended to stumble and pressed myself against him. His hard cock told me everything I needed to know.

I stepped back and gave him a naughty wink. “You know, I think I’m really going to like learning how to swim, pal.”

He laughed when I said “pal,” then looked at my body with such intense desire, my flesh tingled. No question. This mission is a ‘go’!

It felt like his hands were already running all over me. My dark nipples stiffened and pushed against the tissue-thin fabric. My heart pounded so hard it felt like my chest was about to explode. I felt warm and hungry deep inside. Every cell in my body screamed, Please! Please! Please!

“There’s only one problem, pal,” he said with a sexy smile. “That suit isn’t really appropriate for swimming. Not hydrodynamic enough. Too high a drag coefficient.”

I admired that he could actually say that with a straight face.

I put my finger against my cheek. “So, what do you recommend, kind sir?”

In a flash, he grabbed the shoulder straps, yanked them down to my waist and pulled me against him. I squealed in delight as my breasts pressed against his hard chest. Cradling my head, he kissed me passionately. As our tongues entwined, I moaned. I ground my mound against his stiff cock, and he let out a deep guttural groan. He grabbed the back of my suit and, with one powerful pull, I was deliciously naked. My mind was so drunk with passion, I didn’t see how he got his trunks off so quickly. His hands squeezed my aching breasts, and his warm, stiff dick slid between my legs and nestled against my lips. I closed my eyes and luxuriated in the moment. “Oh, Liam!”

“Oh, Sue,” he moaned. “I’ve wanted you from the first moment I saw you. I have never wanted anything more in my entire life than I want you right now.” His voice was thick with a primitive hunger. His cock pulsed hard against my pussy. I opened my eyes and saw the look I’d dreamed of. Pure, raw, desire by this fantastic man for me. I melted against him and my heart exploded. Our hands roamed all over each other. We kissed for what seemed like a blissful eternity.

When we came up for air, he pressed me against the side of the pool, spread my legs and penetrated me. I gasped as my pussy stretched to welcome him. Never had I felt so full, so complete. I lost control of myself as he pounded into me, splashing water everywhere. “Oh Liam! Fuck me! Oh fuck!” His steady rhythm and animalistic grunts shot me higher and higher. I wrapped my legs around him, squeezed and took him even deeper.

“Oh God, Sue. … So tight! … So warm! … So fucking amazing!”

When his cock swelled, throbbed and pulsed, he sent me over the edge. My cunt spasmed hard around his dick, and we both screamed out as we shook in ecstasy.

We remained fused while our bodies settled down. I squeezed my legs tighter. I wasn’t ready for this moment to end, even though my heart assured me this was only the beginning for us. We kissed tenderly.

Then he said with a naughty smirk, “You know, you’re really good at this. Are you sure you didn’t already know how to swim?”

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In a world of hot pink dick-shaped vibrators, the Moody by Fun Factory has my heart. From handle to tip, this versatile vibrator is consciously designed. The high-quality silicone is something special, with its unique “grabby” feel. It clings to water-based lube all along the length of its rippled ice-cream-swirl body. A hard plastic loop handle with three light-up buttons ensures ease of use, no matter how lubed up my hands get.

And bonus: the controls include a travel lock feature which allows worry-free flying. No suitcases will be buzzing with this treat! Best of all, perhaps, is the deep, rumbling motor—a feature this company is known for far and wide. Despite being so powerful, the Moody is not especially loud, since a little background music will drown out its soft hum with ease. Even the packaging is a thing of beauty: a subdued, shimmering champagne gold box opens to reveal a protective cut-out and instruction manual, the Moody nestled safely inside, and bright red near-impossible-to-lose USB charging cord in a compartment below. The box can be recycled or kept as a storage vessel for the vibe, and it even makes for wrapping-free, gorgeous gift-giving. That said, while the unboxing is fun on its own, it’s nothing compared to using this high end delight.

I love the attention to detail that leaves me wanting for nothing. My partner loves the power, the undulating swirls, the gentle curve of the prostate-ready tip, and we both appreciate that this toy is 100% waterproof. We keep the Moody stashed in a bathroom drawer for when we need an extra steamy shower—alone or with each other.

For clitoral and vaginal stimulation, the curved tip can be used to trace along the labia, clit, and to tease the vaginal opening. Since the Moody is such a flexible toy, grinding into produces different sensations as it pushes back against your movement—it is a very yielding toy. The relatively short shaft ensures gentle, pleasurable G-spot pressure, not cervical-poking pain. The textured, flared base stimulates the vaginal opening during penetration and the looped handle provides excellent grip.

For prostate and anal pleasure, the Moody is an ideal candidate. Its stimulating textured base is perfect—and perfectly safe—for exploring the ultra-sensitive back door; there’s no way the Moody will get lost or go too deep. The tapered tip can be slid in (toward the belly button, like the G-spot) with each swirl providing a wave of sensation. Whether you prefer a come-hither stroking motion, a well-lubed thrusting, or to simply hold it still while enjoying one of the Moody’s six vibration levels (ranging from “oh” to “OH MY GOD”) and six rhythmic patterns, this toy is designed to please. To keep it safe when swapping between bodies and orifices, we use a condom, unrolled all the way around the flared base and wash it with soap and warm water between uses. Not only does it make clean-up a breeze, it also keep bacteria off of the toy.

The Moody is a great toy for someone who wants a little bit of everything. Luxury, impeccable quality, G- and P-spot magic, O-worthy power, and versatility.

What it’s not is super-firm, ultra-large, and jackhammer-powerful. If you’re a size queen, it may not measure up. Power queens may long for their Magic Wands when the Moody doesn’t vibrate them to high heaven. For those who require a rock-hard G-spot toy, the flexible Moody likely won’t meet their standards.

This toy is ideal for someone starting or expanding their collection, and it makes an excellent gift since it’s so versatile and well-suited for couples and singles alike. For the traveler who wants it all, the shy beginner, the avid orgasm adventurer, the collector—you’ve just found the cutest new addition to your “favorites” drawer.

What are you in the mood for?

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My ex’s porn was what brought up my first deeply insecure sexual revelation. As I began typing out a web search, predicative text tattled on him. Several phrases came up regarding porn featuring pegging, the act of a woman wearing a harness and using a dildo to penetrate a man. I was repulsed at the idea of “wearing” a cock, but I was also just twenty-one. I thought, I am certainly not going to be doing that for him, and then I thought,  well, at least he’s getting this desire filled somewhere.

And then I considered why I felt so strongly about it. Luckily, I happened to work at a feminist sex shop, so in addition to knowing I needed to work through some funky programming I had around sex, I also had a group of experts at my disposal. My employer, a doctor and professor of human sexuality, asked me if the idea of wearing a bedazzled harness and sparkly pink dildo would make me feel less averse.

It did not.

I talked and talked about ways to get over my intense aversion to this specific sex act to no avail. I had to let my boyfriend know what I’d found. He reacted defensively. Despite my inability to embrace or eroticize his interest, I let him know that it was totally okay that he liked something that freaked me out—it wasn’t hurting anyone, and he got off on it. His shame over being found out dissipated and my nerves around offending him calmed. After settling into our newfound shared knowledge, I continued pursuing getting cozy with pegging. Eventually, after months of nothing working, I bought myself some pegging supplies and surprised him—after I’d sunk two margaritas—for our anniversary.

To my astonishment, pegging was just sex. There was nothing weird about it at all! In fact, the reversal of being the one who needed to be patient, warm up my partner and choose the pace was really fun! I had been terrified of this totally normal sexual act up until the moment I tried it. It was a revelation.

Instantly—after months of trying everything but trying it—it was completely normal.

What I’ve learned as a sexual being and sex educator is that we tend to have knee-jerk reactions around insecurities. For me, with pegging, I was afraid that not only would my partner prefer me to have a penis and that my own anatomy wasn’t “enough,” but also that he would eventually come out as gay. Admittedly, this is a very naïve way of thinking, but I was very naïve. My thought was that he’d hid his sexual desires from me, so how was I to know what else could have been tucked away in the crevasses of his insecurity? Ironically, while that ex is years in the rearview, my own husband and I enjoy pegging on the regular and we mutually get off on our shared bisexuality. You never know how your sexuality will unfold or what new things will peak your interest, but it will become more rewarding with every new experience you choose.

It doesn’t have to be something like pegging to work on getting more comfortable with your sexuality. It could be that the idea of doggy style freaks you out, or perhaps you recoil when your partner suggests checking out a sex toy shop. Maybe you’re uncomfortable making yourself orgasm during penetration. Maybe you cannot wrap your head around why your date likes to be handcuffed and blindfolded, let alone peed on. Maybe it’s something you’re too freaked out by to even type into the search bar.

Wherever you’re at in your sexual process, know that there’s great power looking your fears in the eye and questioning them. Exploring your interests and aversions doesn’t necessarily mean you need to or will get over them (or into them) but it does allow you to get to know them, and yourself in the process.

Here are four steps to take you past your fears, toward an even better sex life.

1. Talk

An important part of normalizing the behavior you’re working on is to talk about it with a friend, partner, or therapist. Simply by airing it out, you relieve a little bit of the pressure that’s built up around the topic. Once you’ve done this a few times, it will feel a lot less charged.

2. Research

Try finding a few different porn videos or erotica stories about the thing you’re feeling negatively about and see if they turn you on. Allow yourself room for zero self-judgement, just see how your body reacts. Read up on your topic of choice and get to know it as intimately as possible.

3. If You’re Partnered, Establish Openness

One of the problems detailed above is a sense of needing to hide information and feelings. Shame does not protect you, it only inhibits your ability to grow. By establishing an open line of communication via check-ins, bringing up new ideas and even uncomfortable ones, and responding to that communication in nonjudgmental but honest ways, your relationship will have room to grow, and you and your partner will be able to grow together.

4. Try it

When all else fails, if you feel like giving it a shot before calling it quits, go for it. You may surprise yourself! In the end, you are not required to “get over” anything. It does not make you a better person for putting yourself through more discomfort, and the only person who can decide that you need to overcome anything is you.

Working on these feelings is tough, but it’s also freeing. And you have the power to choose.

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Getting over your insecurities can be done in small or big steps, at your own pace. A new bedroom friend might be just what you need to take your first strides today!

Midnight Plug

Velvety-soft, seductively tapered and sensationally ribbed. Ten powerful vibration settings to tease and please buttplay lovers both new and experienced… BUY NOW

Diamond Delight

Enjoy the luxurious diamond ridges of this uniquely textured dual-density dong, standing tall and proudly made in America… BUY NOW
 
 
Trio Triple-Vibe Remote-Control Plug

The most luxurious toy for backdoor partner (or solo!) fun. Simply slip it inside, and hand the remote to your lover to put them in control of your backdoor bliss… BUY NOW

Butterfly Dreams

Find dreamy pleasure with this vibe’s soft, curved tip for G-spot bliss and full butterfly wings for all-over coverage. And waterproof, for more aah-mazing bath time fun… BUY NOW

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Getting down with strangers was a fantasy that started out as a secret, whispered between the sheets in the heat of the night. Over time it crept into less explicit conversation. At happy hour, in the shower, over dinner, while they drove home from the grocery store. Most of all when they were fucking.

Cappuccinos seemed to be the key to taking the next step: downloading the threesome app Serra’s friend had recommended. Simon wanted to be sure she was ready when Serra first brought up actually trying to find a date. She’d been nervous, afraid of hurting his feelings, hesitant to make any potentially dangerous leap in their relationship.

“I was thinking we could just make a profile today,” Serra stared into her cappuccino, “and check later to see if we had any matches. I don’t know, it seems interesting.”

“Yeah, it does,” said Simon, “I just want to make sure you know that it’s gonna be fine no matter what. If it happens, great, but if it doesn’t, that’s fine too. Really.”

“I know, I know, but I think I’m good to go. We’ve talked about it enough!” She laughed.

Simon picked up her phone and held the camera at arm’s length, the two of them squishing together, smiling as he snapped a few photos. He planted a kiss on her forehead and she closed her eyes.

“Aw, that’s the one,” he said, looking through the series, “it’s not too mushy?”

“No, I like it, we look cute.”

“Posted. Okay, so what do we say we’re looking for?”

“Well, I know we’ve talked about having a man or a woman… I’m good with either.”

“Me too. Okay, we should probably swipe a few profiles, right? So we can get matches to look at later? I mean, if they like us.”

“They will,” Serra said, considering her partner’s thick arms, his barrel chest, his sweet face.

Serra held the phone and they laughed at the cheesier photos—fedoras, duck lips, sunglasses at nightclubs—and read aloud the single-line descriptions that accompanied profiles.

“Lookin’ for a good time, GGG,” Simon read, “what does that even mean?”

“Good, giving, and game,” Serra said to his surprise, “I read it in a sex column.”

“You’ve been studying for this, huh?”

“Oh my god shut up,” she blushed and swiped the screen, “ooh, what about this one?”

It was a couple. A woman who, like Serra, had deep olive skin and blunt black hair, and a man much smaller than Simon. Where Simon stood tall, broad and musclebound with flaming red hair and freckles, the man on the screen was the same height as his partner and had a long swipe of brown hair tied into a bun, a sandy speckling of stubble across his face. Their photo was on the top of a mountain or maybe a cliff, their sun-kissed cheeks glowing. When Simon and Serra had talked about inviting someone into bed, it was always someone, never a couple. This was uncharted territory.

“They look outdoorsy,” said Serra, “and maybe… too cool for us?”

“No one’s too cool for us. We’re totally cool. I think we should go for it, they’re hot.”

“Really? I mean, I do too. Okay,” she swiped right, “I guess we’ll see what happens! GGG, right?”

They finished their cappuccinos and giggled at each other the whole walk home.

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Mtneers15: You’re cute

The message on the screen popped up on Serra’s screen while Simon loaded the dishwasher.

“BABE,” she called to the other room, “the hot couple! They say we’re cute!”

“Of course we’re cute!” He yelled back as he walked down the hallway. “Did they say anything else?”

“No, I haven’t responded yet. What should I say?”

“Tell them we were thinking the same thing and… I don’t know, keep the conversation going, I guess?”

“So we’re doing this?” She smiled.

“We are, apparently, doing this,” he laughed. Serra started typing and stretched out on her side on the bed. Simon curled up around her and started massaging her thigh.

SSquared: We were thinking the same thing about you. What are you two up to this weekend?

The message was sent and they stared at the phone.

Mtneers15: …

“They’re typing back!” Serra said, clapping her hand over her mouth. Simon smiled at her, kissed her shoulder, and moved his hand from her thigh to her belly, squeezing it and pulling her hips closer to his pelvis.

Mtneers15: We’ve been hoping to make some new friends to go dancing with. Do you like dancing?

SSquared: That could be fun!

Mtneers15: It could be even more fun afterward. Are you interested?

“Does that mean sex?” Serra asked, “Or, maybe like, cocktails?”

“It’s a sex app, I think they mean sex. Ask them.”

SSquared: That all depends on what’s on the table What are you inviting us to do, exactly?

Mtneers15: If we all enjoy dancing together, perhaps after a few drinks we could show you our place? We’ve been thinking about how fun it would be to bring a couple as hot as the two of you into our bed.

Simon’s hand stroked Serra’s body, moving beneath her dress up to her breasts, his cock grinding into her ass.

“Ask them what they want to do with us,” he whispered against her neck.

SSquared: Sounds like a good time. What exactly do you want to happen in your bed?

She reached her hand behind and unbuttoned Simon’s jeans. His cock was already hardening and after a moment of her caressing over his briefs it strained to be free.

Mtneers15: We could undress you, watch you fuck each other, and then, if you like, we could join you.

Simon slid his finger into Serra’s mouth for a moment, letting her suck it before reaching it down into her panties and finding her clit. Pressing his hand into her, grabbing her, teasing the entrance of her pussy, his cock throbbed against her hand.

“Ask them if we get to watch them fuck, too.” He said.

SSquared: And do we get to watch you?

Mtneers15: We’d be happy to put on a show, I just bought some new toys So, what do you say, dancing tonight? 

“What do you think?” Serra asked, her breath hitching.

“I think I want to see you,” he pulled her more firmly, yanking almost, “with her hands on your body, his cock in your mouth, and my cock filling you up.”

“And what about her pussy? Do you want to see my fingers inside her, my mouth pressed against her, making her come on my tongue? Fucking her with a dildo?”

“Yes,” he growled, “take my dick out.”

She obliged, gently sliding his foreskin along his shaft, squeezing the head with each stroke.

“Does it turn you on thinking about seeing them get me off?”

“Yes,” he pulled her panties off, positioning himself between her legs. She still lay of her side, so he sat against her thigh, teasing himself against her wetness. “Does it turn you on thinking about me fucking you in front of them? Making you moan, getting you dripping wet?”

“Yes,” she tilted her hand back and dropped her phone, “I want it now.”

“What do you want?” His hands ran over her chest, belly, thighs, one roaming around her ass and pressing into her cheeks, circling, the other resting against her pubic bone, just his thumb gliding across her clit.

“You,” she moaned. His cock pulsed.

Simon quickly found a condom and slipped inside her. Serra let out a deep moan, rubbing against his forceful thrusts. His thumb remained on her clit, getting her so close to orgasm with every stroke.

“I want you to ride me, with him behind you, getting you off, his dick hard in your hands,” he thrust harder, “his come all over your ass.”

“While she sits on your face, getting off and kissing me,” she gripped the pillow under her head, she was close. He knelt forward, pounding into her, and kept his thumb hammering against her clit.

“Are you gonna come for me?” He asked.

“Yes, yes,” she breathed, “like that, oh my god.”

His cock rammed into the depths of her. With a great shudder, she convulsed, clenching around his shaft, swallowing him. Her moan reverberated against the bedroom walls and into Simon and as he watched her grind into every pulse, he felt the rush of warmth take over, pushing him over the edge until his cock spurted. He held her hips still through the final sparks of his orgasm.

He leaned over and rested his head against her shoulder. She brought one hand to his head, combing it through his hair.

“So,” she said, “I guess we should reply, huh? It’s already five.”

He grabbed her phone and tapped out a response.

SSquared: Dancing sounds great. 8:30?

Mtneers15: …

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If you and your special someone want to reenact your own steamy scene, or you think it merits an extra special solo re-read, pick up something fun from TickleKitty and get to it!

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“Bring the butt plug,” Jim texted me.

“Okay,” I replied. “I want you to fill me up. In every possible way.”

“Bring another toy too, in case I can’t perform. Then I can work the two of them inside of you,” he wrote. I’d seen how much booze he’d consumed the previous night and took his concern into serious consideration.

I was on vacation at Hedonism II in Jamaica and had told this sweet Canadian the previous night about my newest sex toy, the Trio Triple-Vibe Remote-Control Butt Plug.

At the clothing optional, anything goes resort, it was not uncommon for our conversation to jump from his admiration for my tits to my love of anal play in a hot second. We set up a tentative play date for the following morning.

The minute I received his text, I grabbed the clutch-sized storage black case that housed the Trio and its remote control. As I walked across the resort to Jim’s room, I admit, the idea of anal play aroused me. (It usually does.) I entered his room, we briefly made out, then stripped down to get down to the butt business at hand.

We lubed up the Trio, then he slowly slid it into my ass as I positioned myself in reverse cowgirl and he fingerfucked my pussy from behind. As a gal who likes a wide variety of anal toy sizes depending upon my mood and dynamic, the Trio is a good mid-range, easily insertable size. It could easily be worn out and about comfortably under clothes for pseudo-public sexy time (on my to-do list, for sure). Although I could’ve orgasmed right then, I wasn’t ready, so I moved my body to his side and went down on Jeff as he grabbed the remote control to have some fun.

With my ass in the air, he switched between the Trio’s vibrations and patterns, making my ass twitch in anticipation of what was coming next. Did I mention there were mirrors on the ceiling to admire this whole super-hot scenario unfold? The 5-inch butt plug touts three tiny motors that run the length of the toy, which means a triple threat delivery of pleasure from the tip, body and stem of the plug. My hips squirmed as he switched between settings and I continued to suck him off and circle my clit with my forefinger. Eventually I came, then stroked him to orgasm.

The remote itself is sleek and palm-sized, so it could be used in public without attracting attention. It works up to a 30-foot radius. It’s also shower-friendly and splash-proof, which makes my frequently-traveling head spin at all the potential, on-the-road hotel room scenarios.

If you’re new to anal play, this toy is the perfect size for testing the waters. For more experienced backdoor enthusiasts, the remote control feature allows for all sorts of beyond-the-bed play options. And if you have exhibitionist tendencies (like moi), you’ll want to take the Trio out on the town. No matter how you decide to enjoy this quality plug, it’ll make your ass and your partner happy. Jim can attest.

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My Secret Vibrating Lipstick

For a sweet, discreet “O” on-the-go, keep this stylish beauty in your purse! The ultrasoft silicone flex tip will caress your sweet spots, whenever – and where ever you like… BUY NOW

The Mystical Mushroom Mini Plug

Your body is a Wonderland. Start exploring it now! Soft, flexible and elegantly patterned – this plush little plug is the perfect companion to take down the rabbit hole… BUY NOW

Prostate Training PlayKit

A thin starter probe, a full sensation probe and a buzzy two-piece combo. Must have, if powerful prostate orgasms are on your bucket list… BUY NOW
 
 
The Tongue Lover

Worn snug with one ring for his balls and one for his shaft, he’ll enjoy perfect support and stimulation, with a buzz of delicious clit-focused tongue-loving for her… BUY NOW

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Say it with me: nuh-YEH. That’s Swedish for pleasure, and what an apt name it is for this powerhouse of a toy. Lightweight and pearlescent sea foam green, the Nöje packs large wand levels of pleasure into a very pretty compact package. Travel-sized, waterproof, quiet and rechargeable, Nöje seemed like it would be exactly what I’d hope for and more, but owning as many sex toys as I have amassed over the years, I was immediately skeptical. It seemed great, so what would be the catch?

To turn on Nöje, you hold down the silicone button on the butt of the curved handle for a full two seconds. I waited with baited breath for a moment but fortunately, two seconds later, the wand was buzzing around in my palm. But is ‘buzzing’ the right word? There’s a set of descriptors in the sex toy industry: buzzy (think high-pitched, almost tickle sensations for this end of the spectrum) and rumbly (think Magic Wand, motorcycles, and other deep vibrations that travels below the surface of the body), and most vibrators fall somewhere in between.

While my fellow sex educators and toy reviewers often seem to praise all things that rumble and eschew the buzzier, often smaller versions, I am a middle-ground kinda gal. I can enjoy a deep vibration like the Magic Wand, but to be honest it’s not as favorable as something with a tiny bit more buzz to it. To each pussy their own.

The Nöje wand is exactly the kind of vibration I enjoy: not exactly high-pitched, but also not quite Harley-level rumbly. Plus, it comes in a really great color, which, to be honest, actually makes or breaks my toy-buying decisions on the regular. If I never saw another purple dildo, it would be too soon.

In addition to the Goldilocks-esque just-right-vibration-feels I have for Nöje, another thing I love about it is the ergonomic shape and size of the handle. Using a large wand can absolutely kill my hands (those handles are enormous!) but since the Nöje is exactly the length of my hand from palm to fingertip, I can hold it easily and not have to worry about carpal tunnel. Hand cramps are so not my idea of sexy, and I don’t have to worry about them with this vibe.

To charge this toy, it needs to have its magnetic USB cord in place for about 1.5 hours. It doesn’t come charged, so if you’re anything like me, you’ll want to unbox and plug in ASAP so you can get to enjoying your new toy right away. If you’re gifting this goodie to someone, charge it ahead of time to avoid the wait. 

Since the Nöje has a silicone head and neck (and a plastic body), I use water based lubricant with it. A little goes a long way! Something that could be said, in general, of this petite-sized toy.

I’m admittedly a bit in love with my Nöje. My initial skepticism was met with quality, solid vibration, and plenty of orgasms. And, bonus: no hand cramps!

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Whether your pleasure is buzzy or rumbly, these vibes will satisfy all tastes. From the petite Eva to the formidable Magic Wand, Tickle Kitty’s got you covered!

Luxury Mystic Wand

Pretty, petite and powerful. Japanese-designed, with unique full head to stimulate the clitoris and entire vulva surface for all-over pleasure… BUY NOW
 

Eva Mini Vibe

A sensual shape designed for maximum G-spot stimulation, a flexible tickler for teasing and pleasing in all the right ways; what’s not to love?… BUY NOW
 

The Magic Wand (now Rechargeable!)

If you need real power to get going, the “Cadillac of Vibrators” will take care of you. Now cordless, and #1 doctor recommended for easy orgasms… BUY NOW
 

Lust L5

Intimately contoured for any woman. Delicately shaped to deliver pleasure inside and out with simultaneous, all-over vibration from its sensuous flexible petals… BUY NOW
 

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Vibrators are a magical, sometimes mysterious, source of pleasure. They often inspire questions—is that wand for internal or external use? How do you hold a contoured vibe? And what do bunny ears have to do with the clitoris? Here I’ll dish every secret of all things that buzz and rumble.

For starters, what’s a vibrator for? You can use a vibrator to lightly massage your muscles and body parts, or to directly stimulate your erogenous zones. Many women achieve intense orgasms much more quickly with vibrators than with manual methods. Vibrators also help create a more powerful build-up to orgasm, allowing you to finish with another preferred technique.

Now let’s get started figuring out all those crazy shapes and sizes…

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I’ve always thought nipple piercings were hot. On men or on women, there’s just something sexy about nipple jewelry. Even though I went through a teenage piercing phase myself, I just never had the courage to go for it. Despite knowing that nipple play works for me (in moderation, as with all good things) and that nipple piercings can add a whole new level of fun to the mix, I’ve never been able to go under the needle and commit to the look. So, of course, when this gorgeous treat showed up in my mailbox, I was absolutely delighted.

When I first pulled the Chandelier with its shimmering 17-inch long chain out of its package, I was concerned that it might be too long and droopy once on my body. But my fears quickly subsided as I held the jewelry to my body and saw that it was the perfect length to dangle the center tear-shaped jewel right between my breasts. I’m a Virgo, though, and worrying is sort of my wheelhouse, so my next concern was that the silicone nipple loops (2.5-inch circumference), though fully adjustable, would somehow not fit on my nipples; it wasn’t that I was afraid my nipples wouldn’t fit in, it was more a fear that the loops would fall off. It turns out that with fully erect nips, these loops should fit on pretty much every size and shape of nipple and –– when tightened down–– stay on, even through some gentle tugs. This toy is seriously for every body. 

After my own extensive testing (solo and with a partner) I discovered the perfect way to use these. A light yank on the chain, whether by the teardrop-shaped jewels or the cool silver metal, provides just enough sensation so that wearing this sex-toy-lingerie-hybrid goes the extra thrilling mile. I looked and felt good wearing it. And what’s better than that?

The Chandelier’s chain itself has a light texture embedded in the metal and the jewels are hefty enough to really shimmer against one’s body. Though the delicate chain and large jewels stand out, the piece as a whole is very light and can easily stay in place for the entirety of a steamy session between the sheets, but if you get too excited and pull on the chain too hard it’s likely the nipple loops could come off. The tighter the loop, the more firmly you can tug on this piece, but beware that it is a gorgeous adornment, not a hardcore piece of BDSM equipment; playing and touching this piece is encouraged, enjoying is the name of the game. 

A perfect top to wear with a fabulous pair of knickers, an ideal intro to the wonderful world of nipple stimulation, a great gift for the sex enthusiast who has–– or wants–– it all, the Chandelier is a one-size-fits-all kind of accessory that can take any night from standard to seriously sexy. 

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We all love a guy that lasts. And at the moment, a few of my male play partners keep their stamina up with a little help from a cock ring. In fact, we’ve turned their inability to last into a sexy game, so they usually arrive at my place with the cock ring on and ready to go. But this time I provided the ring – a brand new Ultimate Lasso.

If you’re unfamiliar with cock rings, they’re designed to be placed around a penis, usually at the base. Its primary purpose is to slow the flow of blood from the erect penis, making it easier to stay hard for an extended period of time. Basically, this sex toy is all about creating a major league boner.

Until recently, I’ve stuck to straightforward cock rings made of rigid materials. Think metal, plastic or wood. They’ve served me well (and so have the wearers,) but I’ve recently discovered the next level of C-rings. The Ultimate Lasso is a game-changer on several levels. Namely its stretchy, vibrating element. This is paired with a unique, adjustable cinch that would be perfect for members on either far side of the size spectrum.

My go-to stunt dick (let’s call him Jeremy) usually opts for an industrial steel ring, but was intrigued when I asked him to road-test the Ultimate Lasso. Jeremy has a thick, beautiful tool, so it’s a big plus that the Lasso adjusts to a wide variety of sizes.

Once I got him lubed up and hard, I shimmied the Lasso down to the base of his shaft. The soft, skin-like material is far more appealing than your typical cold, hard steel. Also, the small stimulator packed a lot more power than I expected (in a good way). Jeremy’s long-lasting erection plus hands-free clitoral stimulation produced several waves of orgasms. I’ve road tested several of these clitoral stimulating C-rings, and the Ultimate Lasso is up there at the top. The vibrating ticklers are just pronounced enough for you to feel the delicious texture without being bulgy and annoying like some.

As for how Jeremy was doing—I have to admit, seeing his hard cock in the Lasso was a total turn-on. I got off on making him wait to ejaculate. When he finally did release, it was intense – unlike any orgasm we’d shared before. We plan to play around with the positioning of the cock ring in future romps to see how the vibration feels in other sexy places. One quick warning: be mindful of his pubes when putting the Lasso on and off – we had a bit of unintentional tugging.

The Lasso may look like a small toy, but for below the belt pleasure and lasting power, it packs big (O!) benefits for both men and women. For beginners, its elasticity makes it an easier-to-use option than rigid rings.

The Lasso is waterproof and requires three watch batteries.

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The Lasso is perfect for your time together, but if you need something helpful and buzzy for your solo time, Tickle Kitty’s got what you need!

Egg McTerrific

Expertly-crafted triple-curved bullet contoured for right where you crave pleasure. Adjustable speed dial, to customize to your personal pleasure setting. A perfect way to start the day! BUY NOW

Midnight Plug

Velvety-soft, seductively tapered and sensationally ribbed. Ten powerful vibration settings to tease and please buttplay lovers both new and experienced… BUY NOW

LUVIT A Delicious Plaything

For an inviting twist and twirl inside, try this unique rabbit. Gyrating shaft, 4 milt-to-wild vibrations and clitoral ticklers for irresistible pinpoint stimulation… BUY NOW

Callie Vibrating Mini-Wand

Get down glamorously with Callie. Available in 4 or 6 inch lengths, she’s a satiny smooth, whisper-quiet addition to your collection when you’re in the mood for some decadent me-time… BUY NOW

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It was one of those hot mornings. “I just want an orgasm,” I thought to myself. Luckily, my Red Hot Spark arrived just the night before.

Excited to try my new toy, I plucked it from its pretty packaging, and waited…two and a half hours (That’s how long it takes to completely charge). Good thing I’m patient, and that I believe the best things come to those who wait.

Not only is the Red Hot Spark a fiery little flame of love, it measures a significant buzz on the vibration scale.

If my flowery language isn’t cutting it, let me just say it straight – this shit works.

The unique selling point of the Spark is in its design. Its pointed tip packs so much power that if you use it directly on your clit, you will get off if you need that kind of stimulation. Another unique feature of the tip is that in certain pulsation modes it looks, and feels, like oral. The Spark can deliver all the flickering and fluttering of your lover’s tongue but at turbo speed.

But it’s not only the tip that’s impressive. The super strong vibrations can be felt throughout the toy.

Imagine your favorite rumbly, vibrating bullet but with a tickling stimulator bonus.

The packaging is simple and the instructions are boldly placed on the back of the box and easy to follow. The toy itself is velvety soft to the touch. It’s also waterproof and comes with a one-year warranty. And, it has a secure travel lock.

The Spark is USB Rechargeable. It runs on high for 30 minutes, and can last on the low speed for 3 hours. This lower speed can be great for long, drawn out loving. Especially if your partner is making sweet love to you in missionary position, or doggie style, while you place the tip on your clit.

Since it’s Masturbation May, I started out solo. Well, until my husband came in and began playing with my tits. For me, bringing in my breasts can be the key to prolonged orgasms. As he kissed my nipples, I felt the intensity of the Spark’s pulsations coursing through my body. And just as he was really getting into it (licking, flicking, twisting, mmm yes please), I couldn’t contain myself any longer.

The equation of pinpoint clitoral stimulation and my husband’s tongue equaled an out of control orgasm.

At least an 8.9 on my bed-rocking Richter scale.

I encourage you to let this be the Spark you need to get more creative. Whether this is the first vibe you introduce into your partnered play, or your first buzzing friend on solo adventures, this Spark can, and will, ignite your sex life.

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Now that the Spark’s got you nice and hot, grab another steamy Tickle Kitty toy for solo love. Or, like Sarah, bring your partner in on the fun.

Nöje (That’s Swedish for Pleasure)

All the power of a full-sized power wand—masterfully miniaturized! Indulge in over-the-top orgasms from this tiny and compact pleasureizer… BUY NOW
 

Raspberry Turbo Glider

Indulge in this turbo delight that encases the motor at the vibe’s see-through ‘tip’ for precise vibration right where you want it… BUY NOW
 

Mystic Wand Rechargeable

A whole lotta’ vibration in one light, ergonomic power wand. 3 intensities, 1 vibrating head, unlimited orgasmic potential… BUY NOW
 

Trio Triple-Vibe Remote-Control Plug

The most luxurious toy for backdoor partner (or solo!) fun. Simply slip it inside, and hand the remote to your lover to put them in control of your backdoor bliss… BUY NOW

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May is a much anticipated month for myriad reasons. Flowers start to bloom, warmer weather sets in, and those ridiculous Justin Timberlake memes finally stop flooding our Facebook feeds. Unless you’re a dedicated follower of sex toys, you might not know that May is also—drumroll, please—Masturbation Month!

Thanks to sex toy culture taking off like a rocket ship into the mainstream, masturbation has basically reached a new level of cool. Choosing a vibrator is now akin to picking out a designer outfit or a piece of jewelry. Cosmo magazine has turned into a lexicon of trendy sex toys, and the next Fifty Shades movie is going to have a really hard time maintaining its shock value. In short, it’s finally ok for women to talk openly about sex and masturbation, and that’s a pretty big step considering our fairly recent past.

Men’s self-pleasure has been normalized, or at least joked about, since our grandparent’s time. However, women have had to hide the real use behind their “back massagers” and “magic vibrating fingers” for decades. May isn’t just a good excuse for a new sex toy; it’s a cause for celebration. Masturbation Month is extra special for the ladies because we’ve literally had to fight for our own sexuality.

And just like the empowered freedom fighters of feminism’s past, vibrator history has a few stars that paved the way for today’s endless sex toy options. The Magic Wand, Pocket Rocket, and Rabbit Pearl may seem simple in comparison to modern luxury toys, but they’re still best-sellers for a reason. All three of these old-schoolers are responsible for giving many women their first orgasm! Tracing their origins is an eye-opening experiment in understanding the empowerment we hold by busting through the taboo.

1. The Magic Wand

For many decades, this was the secret cure for the housewife blues. Sold as a remedy for sore back muscles, sewing circles everywhere whispered the true function of the wand: mind-blowing orgasms. His pleasure was #1 in the bedroom back in the 1950’s, so clever homemakers had to take matters into their own hands while he was at the office. Now the Magic Wand is one of the most recognized sex toys in the world. Available in different colors, sizes, and styles, it still makes for a killer back massager, but now we don’t have to pretend that it’s not better between our legs. The Wand is a must-have for women who need a lot of strength from their vibrational toys. If you haven’t tried a dose of Magic yet, invest in this power tool of the trade.

2. Pocket Rocket

This little wonder’s rise to mainstream fame began on an episode of the infamous Howard Stern radio show. The shock jock’s blessing turned heads and made the Pocket Rocket a household name. Originally touted as a body or facial massager, the Pocket Rocket dropped its’ masquerade fairly early. It was sold in both adult boutiques and novelty shops, making it easier to procure for the sex toy-shy types. The Rocket is a bit like a mini Magic Wand: its’ extremely powerful and responsible for a lot of first orgasms with the bonus of being easier to hide in your bra drawer. Like it’s predecessors, the Pocket Rocket has taken on designer toy status, but is still an old favorite for toy connoseurs and beginners alike. It’s still one of the most affordable and versatile sex toys out there, making it a no-brainer addition to your collection.

3. Rabbit Pearl

For younger generations of women, this is the epitome of a sex toy. After appearing on Sex and the City, our view of  women’s pleasure was never the same. Sex’s star Carrie Bradshaw doesn’t get the credit she deserves as a rule-breaker in women’s sexuality. The Rabbit Pearl’s debut was essentially the spark that ignited the female pleasure product movement. As a toy, the Pearl was ahead of its’ time by offering clitoral and internal stimulation that went beyond the dated in-and-out motion that was thought to end in orgasmic bliss. The Rabbit’s characteristic dual-stim design has been re-invented every year to fit different body types and budgets. Having the original Pearl is like owning a piece of women’s history, but there are several modern versions that could double as artwork.

However you choose to celebrate the month of May, make sure you’ve got three sexual pillars at your side: an independent spirit, a We-Can-Do-It attitude, and a killer sex toy.

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LUXE Touch-Sensitive Vibrator

How can you make your favorite dong even better? Make it respond to your every touch automatically. With LUXE, the deeper you stroke, the stronger the power… BUY NOW

Lust L5

Intimately contoured for any woman. Delicately shaped to deliver pleasure inside and out with simultaneous, all-over vibration from its sensuous flexible petals… BUY NOW

We-Vibe Sync

App-controlled for close or long distance love, the We-Vibe Sync has a powerful motor and adjustable C-curve to perfectly fit your inner shape… BUY NOW

MOODY G-spot and Prostate Pleasure Vibe

German engineering, unique design and powerful motor. For him or her, delivering mind-blowing G-spot or P-spot orgasms like you never thought possible… BUY NOW

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Every relationship has room for experimentation. Whether you and your partner have just started on your sexual journey or you’ve been together for years, there’s always potential for bettering your sex life.

When we experiment both in and out of the bedroom, we learn about what makes us tick. What we like. Who we are. When there’s growth, it’s natural to feel a sense of happiness and fulfillment, because developing as a human being is something we all crave. Sex just happens to be a really fun way to accomplish personal growth! And the great thing about sexual experimentation is that it doesn’t have to look or act any certain way. It’s about meeting you where you’re at and taking as tiny (or huge) of a step outside your comfort zone as you like.

In addition to learning about your body, your sexuality, and your babe, when you expand your horizons your brain might bestow a gift upon you: a cocktail of feel-good hormones and chemicals (like oxytocin and dopamine, among others) that give us some of those punch-drunk-love feelings. It’s pretty standard to feel all these things at the beginning of a relationship, but over time, as we adjust to being in love and having sex available a lot of the time, the output can “fizzle.” This isn’t to say we fall out of love with our partners or stop finding them sexy, just that we’ve moved onto the next stage of the relationship. 

If you’re trying to build a stronger bond or just rustle up some excitement, experimentation is a great place to begin. Here are a few ideas and some handpicked products to get started.

1. Start a Sexy Book Club with Your Boo

Both of you should grab a different colored highlighter and a steamy read for this one. Take turns reading the book’s sections, highlighting the points you want to talk about, then open up a dialogue. If you’re feeling a little bolder, try taking turns reading sections aloud to one another and see how long you can go without diving under the covers.

2. Glide the Way with Lube

Find a brand you love. If you don’t have a favorite yet, shopping and testing out different brands can be half the fun. I recommend steering clear of anything containing glycerin, as it’s commonly problematic for certain anatomy and it can also get super sticky. Anything water-based (like Dr. Sadie’s Slippery Kitty) will be compatible with all anatomy and toys!

3. Treat Yourselves with Toys

There are a million to choose from, but the We-Vibe Sync is particularly popular. It features a great app that can connect you and your sweetie both near and far. Once you both have it, you can pass the controls back and forth so whether you’re using it for some up close and personal one-on-one time or long distance nookie, you have something to use anytime you want to ramp up the buzz.

4. Try a Little Kink-Lite!

Something as simple as a skin-friendly massage candle or a pair of soft cuffs can be an excellent way to begin exploring your sensual side together. You never know what sexy desires you might awaken. Take turns using these items on each other to get to know your respective dominant and submissive sides!

5. Share Your Hottest Fantasies

This one can be the toughest of all for some, because talking about your secret desires is a significantly intimate interaction. It can be ultra-vulnerable, but along with that scary aspect comes a lot of room for hot revelations. Besides, how will you ever achieve those fantasies if your lover doesn’t know what they are? Dreams do come true, but only if you make them! If you can’t bring yourself to talk about them, try writing them out as erotica for each other and see how you feel reading them. Keep an open mind, and also maybe keep that bottle of lube nearby. 

Just in case.

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Foreplay Frenzy

A brand new vibrating pleasure toy with a wide clitoral scoop to accommodate all anatomies, 12 intense functions and a state-of-the-art memory chip that records your favorite vibration setting… BUY NOW

BCharmed Classic Ring

She’ll enjoy the perfectly positioned stimulator, and you’ll enjoy the snug feeling of this classic ring with powerful vibrations for extraordinary, unforgettable orgasms… BUY NOW

 Silicone Ball Spreader

The comfort ring around your shaft gives steely-hard erections, and the snug separator makes everything down there more sensitive, and the orgasms more explosive… BUY NOW

The Mystical Mushroom Mini Plug

Your body is a Wonderland. Start exploring it now! Soft, flexible and elegantly patterned – this plush little plug is the perfect companion to take down the rabbit hole… BUY NOW

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Since Fifty Shades hit almost a decade ago, fetishes and kinky sex are experiencing a trendy revival. Humans have always been kinksters, but now that kink has gone mainstream, more people are feeling comfortable with sharing their deepest turn-ons.

By definition, a fetish is a very specific desire for an object, a body part, or a sexual act. If you ask your partner to cuff you to the bed and strap a blindfold over your eyes, then you’re dabbling in kink. However, if you salivate at the mere thought of the smooth, shiny surface of the cuffs and the coolness of the metal digging into your skin, then you probably have a handcuff fetish.

All kinks and fetishes, no matter how seemingly unusual, are perfectly healthy as long as they’re practiced between trusting, consenting adults. However, even the most open-minded couples can stumble upon a surprising fetish desire from a partner. Happy relationships stay happy through constructive conversation, and navigating fetishes is no different. Stay positive, informed, and willing to listen, and your partnership can grow through the connecting experience of kink.

Discuss Your Sexual Needs Early

If you’re embarking on a new relationship, make sure you both get your fetishes out in the open as early as possible. It might seem a bit like jumping the gun, especially if you haven’t slept together yet, but this is especially important if you’re serious about your fetish. Waiting until you’re head-over-heels to spill the fetish beans just makes things more difficult down the line. For example, if you can’t live without spanking, but your partner is extremely sensitive to pain, it could get uncomfortable if the two of you figure this out in the middle of a romp session. Communicate your kinks early to avoid any serious mismatches in sexual tastes that can’t be fixed through compromise later on. (And just think – you might find that you both dig a lot of the same things!)

Educate Yourself

If you’re unsure of how a fetish will work out in practice, read up! Make sure to canvas as many online resources as possible: medical articles, advice from kink-focused sex educators, amateur experiences, and accounts from serious fetish lifestylers. Like everything you read online, take it all with a grain of salt and double-check your facts. Some rather extreme practices are only easy for a chosen few, and others might be willing to dismiss and bash anything beyond the missionary position. Fetish “lifestylers,” a term often used to describe those in the active kink community, are generally very friendly and open to answering questions from curious newcomers. Check out online fetish communities of like-minded souls and seek out knowledgable, respected members. Be open and willing to be educated, and many experienced fetishists are happy to help.

Start Slow and Speak Often

No matter how soft or hard your fetish, always introduce new kinky activities slowly, and preferably without a mouth gag until you’re solid on other types of communication. You might have heard of a “safe word,” which is a single word discussed prior to play time that unmistakably communicates “stop activity immediately!” It’s also helpful to come up with a “safe action” if your activity involves inhibited speech through a ball gag or other material covering the mouth. For example, if you’re gagged and you need a break, you could agree that tapping three times with a hand or foot is the signal to stop. However you choose to communicate, both partners should do it often, especially when testing out new fetishes. The more you engage in fetish play or roleplaying while explaining how it feels, the better your partner will understand how to make the fetish enjoyable for both of you.

Communicate and Compromise

Though it’s rare between committed, loving partners, some couples might hit a wall when trying to find a comfortable middle ground for their sexual needs. Try as you might, your partner’s fetish could be too painful and rough, physically or mentally, to endure. Indulging a partner’s foot fetish, even if it’s a turn-off, is a lot easier than, say, more extreme fetishes like fisting or strap-on play. Engaging in certain acts just isn’t going to work for certain people. However, what you don’t want to do is close the conversation completely. Fetishes don’t disappear out of love, and forcing your partner to give up their fetish isn’t fair. If you’re polyamorous or in an open relationship, encourage your partner to see others who enjoy the stuff you’d rather skip in bed. For monogamous couples, explore every possible avenue of compromise. Fisting might be too much, but four fingers below the knuckles could be your meeting-in-the-middle. And don’t dismiss the power of porn. What you cannot do, you can always watch, and then everyone wins.

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If you’re the one seeking extra spice in your love life, consider picking up some of Tickle Kitty’s fetish favorites – great for old hands and newcomers alike.

Midnight Plug

Velvety-soft, seductively tapered and sensationally ribbed. Ten powerful vibration settings to tease and please buttplay lovers both new and experienced… BUY NOW

Comfort Handcuffs with Easy-Velcro

Total surrender at an economical price. Plush, comfy wrist cuffs to bind arms behind your back, over your head, or right to the bedframe… BUY NOW

Prostate Training PlayKit

A thin starter probe, a full sensation probe and a buzzy two-piece combo. Must have, if powerful prostate orgasms are on your bucket list… BUY NOW
 

Stimulating Lace Panties with Pearl Pleasure Beads

Feel unbelievable clitoral thrills simply from walking, playing or working. These sexy panties are inset with a row of stimulating pleasure pearls for intimate, secret delights all day long… BUY NOW

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Dual action vibrators are great for stay-at-home fun, but when you’re packing for a trip, clunky toys that buzz and whir can seem extravagant. Fear not, my friends. The petite, discreet Eva by VeDo is the answer to your prayers. She’s not quite a full dual-action vibe, but that also means no dials and buttons to battle with. But she packs power.

You’ll be able to feel vibrations in that precision clitoral tickler just like the buzz in your favorite rabbit.

And unlike your favorite full-sized jack rabbit, Eva can be tucked into a pocket or purse and no one will be the wiser. As the family headed to my in-laws for what my hubby and I affectionately dub “Rez-erection Day.” So of course I had to bring my Eva along!

Little and lavender. Smooth, body-safe silicone. That’s my Eva Mini Vibe in a nutshell. The rest of what it does can also be described in a few words—Yes! Yes! Yes!

The Eva takes one AAA battery—and that’s it. There are no accessories to leave behind (especially if you’re like us and leave chargers or other sex toys accoutrements by accident, at your in-laws). It’s really easy to use; just unscrew the toy and insert the battery. After that, all you need to do is point and press. The button on the base of the toy turns it on, takes it through the 10 vibration modes and turns it off again.

Call me old fashioned, but I think there’s no better way to experience decadent me-time than in the bath. Luckily, the room my in-laws always put us in had an amazing tub that was perfect for my pervy purposes.

I sank into a sudsy bubble bath complete with candles and my favorite music. My pussy was submerged and my nipples floated close to the surface. After some digital foreplay and my favorite fantasy (me hiring down-on-his-acting-luck Ryan Reynolds to become my personal masseur,) I got to business with my Eva in hand.

I inserted the tiny purple head in my honeypot, and placed the flexible rabbit tickler right where it needed to go.

I relaxed into the vibrations. And as I found myself lounging in one mode for a while, I delighted in knowing that the vibrating mini-dildo held its own underwater. I moved to deeper vibes, and even tried the all of the flicking and pulsing patterns, but found myself back at the beginning. I swished my thighs back and forth and lifted my butt up and down (just a little) in the water.

As I lost my breath above the water, I came under it.

I had been in the tub for twenty or so minutes before my aquatic orgasmic adventure came to an end. But I know that I could have stayed like that for-Eva!

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You can’t beat the Eva Mini Vibe for big G-spot O’s in a small toy, but Tickle Kitty’s got tons of other pocket-sized pleasers, perfect for your next sexy adventure on the go…

Pocket Rocket

Small enough to fit in your purse, yet powerful enough to massage those tight spots. Blast off to new orgasmic heights where ever you are with this tried and true pleasureizer… BUY NOW

Mini Marvels Massager

Slip this little marvel between your fingers for clitoral bliss during oral and penetrative pleasure to buzz you along to powerful new orgasms… BUY NOW
 
 
Duet Passion Enhancer

He’ll stay harder and lasts longer. She’ll receive pleasure from its vibrating, pinpoint pleasure ticklers. Everybody wins! BUY NOW
 
 

‘Orny Couples Vibrator

This powerful ring’s stretchy, comfortable silicone will fit like a dream, and its soft precision points will rumble her pleasure button to orgasmic bliss… BUY NOW
 

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There’s a huge stigma surrounding lube, especially with women. Some women are naturally slick, and that’s great. Consider lube your below-the-belt little helper. It makes sex more comfortable and pleasurable – especially for women. Especially if you experience dryness or discomfort, there are ways to get busy that don’t involve spit. I know, the wetter I am, the more I enjoy oral, anal and vaginal sexual pleasure. Ladies, there’s no reason to have bone-dry sex, ever. So, why wouldn’t you use lube?

If you haven’t found a lube that feels good, you haven’t found the right one. Strawberry Slippery Kitty Lube is lightweight, silky and definitely not too sticky. My skin is super sensitive, and Slippery Kitty’s water-based formula is friendly to my sensitive fleshy bits. It’s latex friendly and plays nice with my arsenal of silicone toys. It’s also made without parabens and glycerin, which makes my ingredient-conscious self happy. Make a mess? (I sure hope so.) It’s a breeze to clean off your body and sheets.

I recently enlisted the help of one of my male partners to see how this lube stacked up against other bedside go-tos. Since lube can be used in so many ways, we hatched a well-rounded plan of research that entailed a small vibe, a slow hand job, oral sex and intercourse. If anything, I’m thorough when it comes to exploring pleasure.

To warm things up, Josh* dabbed some Slippery Kitty on my clit and used a small vibe to gently play and tease my hot spot. Next, I slathered his length and started to slowly stroke him to attention. No friction! I then savored the strawberry flavor as I licked up and down before consuming him. Some flavored lubes taste like a Yankee Candle. This tasted like a fresh-picked strawberry without any fake synthetic flavor. I was into it. How we smell and taste down there can be an issue for some (I generally don’t mind) and this lube pleasantly overwhelms the senses with deliciousness.

It was my turn for oral fun and Josh quickly commented on how yummy I tasted. I don’t think it’s a coincidence he ended up going down on my longer than usual. After a leisurely stretch of slippery foreplay, we added a few more drops to his tip and my clit, before enjoying a smooth orgasmic ride.

One of the best features of Strawberry Slippery Kitty Lube is that despite extended play, I wasn’t sore the next day. I rarely have issues self-lubricating, but believe that wetter is always better. Lube steps up sensitivity, so I can slip, slide and enjoy sex, and all its beautiful variations, more. This one makes it taste unforgettable.

For pleasure on-the-go, there are TSA travel-friendly 2oz bottles available.

*Name has been changed to protect the privacy of the individual.

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My Secret Vibrating Lipstick

For a sweet, discreet “O” on-the-go, keep this stylish beauty in your purse! The ultrasoft silicone flex tip will caress your sweet spots, whenever – and where ever you like… BUY NOW

Dorcel Orgasmic Rabbit

Swiveling head for G-Spot orgasms, fluttering ears for clitoral delights and rotating beads for subtle internal pleasures… BUY NOW

Cosmo‘s Steamy Sex Games

Take foreplay to the next level with twelve sizzling couples only erotic card games. Share secrets and explore fantasies in steamy new bedroom scenarios with your lover. And in the end everyone scores… BUY NOW

Raspberry Turbo Glider

Indulge in this turbo delight that encases the motor at the vibe’s see-through ‘tip’ for precise vibration right where you want it… BUY NOW

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Sex toys are on a trendy power high! Super-strength vibrators and intense toys are all the rage, but not all clitorises are created equal. For more sensitive clits, high-speed vibrators create more “ouch!” than “oh yes!” Don’t fret if your kitty isn’t down with heavy petting. It’s a big sex toy world out there, and there’s a vibe in the Tickle Kitty family to please every body. These are our top toy choices for a softer, more gntler touch.

The Lay-On Rabbit

Direct clitoral stimulation is often touted as the ticket to orgasm heaven, but for some women, spot-on clit contact is just too much. The Lay-On Rabbit’s vibrating ears surround the clitoris, hitting the nerve endings along the clit’s side and in the labia. There are tons of nerve endings in the outer edges of the clitoris. V-shaped vibes are designed to rumble all those hidden pleasure spots next-door to your O button.

TRYST -Multi-Erogenous Zone Couples Vibe

It might take some experimentation to find your clit’s favorite position, and that’s exactly why we love the Tryst. This funky vibe can be flexed and flipped to stimulate all the parts of your vulva. Separate the arms and run them up and down the outer edges of your clitoris or your inner and outer lips. You can also place the Tryst with arms laid flat around the vulva. The vibrating ends will tickle your perineum and the clitoral hood.

Lust L5

The Lust knows the art of the tease. This downright gorgeous pleasure device resembles a delicate flower. Two sets of soft silicone petals flutter around the slender vibrating stamen in the middle, giving your clitoris a taste of foreplay before the main event. Use the petals to warm up by letting them lightly flick across your clit, and then hold the stamen flat against your vulva. The petals will deliciously flutter your outer labia while the stamen brings you over the edge.

Hello Touch

Your fingers know just the right touch to coax your sensitive clitoris to orgasm. Give them a (ahem!) hand with the gentle vibrations of the Hello Touch. The four tiny finger pads strap right onto your digits, making them perfect for teasing multiple areas of your vulva. The single-speed motors send out remarkably soft rumbles that never overpower a light stroke of the finger. Change the positioning of your hand or simply use more pressure if you need a deeper sensation.

The Clitoris Cuddler

The Clitoris Cuddler is an all-around winner for spectacular external stimulation, and a must-have for sensitive bodies. The thick ridges of silicone surrounding the motor dampen the vibrations, and the five speeds give you the option to start slow. Keep clicking the toggle button to get to the best part: the pulsating patterns! Escalating and on-and-off buzzing are not only a fun tease, but can be less intense than flat, static vibration. You can even warm yourself up by adding some lube to the Cuddler and running the silicone ridges across your clitoris before turning on the motor.

Your Vibe + Dr. Sadie’s Vibrator Hacks

You’ve got this toy, sitting all alone in your drawer, that would be so perfect if the vibrations were just a tiny bit softer! You can make any sex toy fit for your sensitive clitoris with some super-easy modifications. For too-strong vibes, use a blanket or a soft, thick fabric to dampen the intensity of your toy. Place it over your vulva and experiment by folding the fabric and moving the toy around until you find the right combination of buzz-and-blanket. You can even try leaving your panties on! Choose a pair that will let your vibe slide around smoothly on the outside. Play around with different underwear styles and textures, like lace, silk, boy shorts, or thongs. There’s no vibe that can’t be hacked with a little help from Dr. Sadie!

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We’re so glad we introduced you to the joys of gentle vibes. But if power is also your pleasure, here are a few more selections that can take you from a mild to wild ride!

Crazzy Bunny

You’ll be hopping with joy from this petite powerhouse bullet vibe. Tickling rabbit ears for pinpoint pleasure, 10 toe-curling settings, and one of the most powerful motors available… BUY NOW

Eva Mini Vibe

A sensual shape designed for maximum G-spot stimulation, a flexible tickler for teasing and pleasing in all the right ways; what’s not to love?… BUY NOW
 
 
The LOVER Smart Ring

The soft ring stretches around his shaft, and the flatter, longer bullet vibe is perfectly positioned for clitoral pleasures… BUY NOW
 

Magic Wand – Now Rechargeable!

An unbeatable classic for powerful orgasms. It’s been giving ah-mazing topical satisfaction for over 35 years… BUY NOW

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As a Sexologist, I love to help people overcome sexual guilt and shame so they can enjoy the best sex of their lives. I’ve travelled to six continents lecturing to singles and couples, and I can tell you that everyone wants to be loved and be a great lover! Sex is our second basic instinct after survival, so it’s a universal desire that we all have in common. Some of the most frequent questions I get from people (both in couples and single) include: How can sex toys improve my sex life? How can I teach my partner what I want in bed? And, from mainly women, how do I achieve orgasm?

To answer these and many other questions about sex that we didn’t learn from our parents or in school, I share the vast knowledge I have gained in the last 25 years through my seminars, books, media appearances and online Lovelogy University. If sexual satisfaction comes from learning about sexual pleasure, then educating yourself is the first step to power in the bedroom and it’s never too late to learn more about sex!

By far some of the most popular questions I get concern erogenous zones. Usually phrased as “What spots can I touch to turn my lover on?” or “How can I find her G-spot or his prostate?”

You’ll empower yourself by discovering what erogenous zones turn you on the most and that will lead to more confidence with your lover. Sex toys are perfectly healthy to use alone and can enhance intimacy because they add variety to a relationship, take the pressure off performance, add an element of fantasy and fun that can result in some great orgasms.

One of my clients had her first orgasm after I suggested that she use a vibrator on her clitoris. And a male client overcame (pun intended) premature ejaculation by using a masturbation sleeve to practice lasting longer.

So, I’d like to share 5 types of sex toys that can enhance your pleasure and help you to reach orgasms more often:

1. Vibrators: Massagers, Eggs, Bullets, G-Spot, Multifunction, Wearable
2. Dildos: Vaginal, Anal, Double-Ended, Harness with Strap-On’s
3. Nipple Toys: Vibrating Tips, Suction Cups, Erotic Pasties
4. Cock Rings: Stretchable, Wearable Mini-Vibrators for Dual Pleasure
5. Masturbation Sleeves: Simulated Vagina, Anus or Abstract

Here are some erotic erogenous zones you can explore with your partner or alone by stimulating them with a sex toy.

• Her G-spot is located inside the vagina between 11 and 1 o’clock (with 12:00 on an imaginary clock pointing towards her navel). It can be stimulated with a finger, penis or sex toy.
• Her A-spot stands for Anterior Fornix also known as the Epicenter or Female Prostate. It’s located inside the vagina on the upper wall even deeper than the G-spot. It can be stimulated with a finger, penis or a longer sex toy.
• His Prostate is a chestnut-sized gland inside the rectum behind the pubic bone and below the bladder.  It can be stimulated with a finger, penis or sex toy. Consider using a plug for stimulating this spot during intercourse.
• Her U-spot is located around the Urethra, the area where urine is expelled. It can be stimulated with a tongue, finger or sex toy.
• The male Perineum is the strip of skin located between the scrotum to the anus. It can be stimulated with a tongue, fingers or sex toy. Some toys even have ticklers specifically designed for this area.
• The female Perineum is the diamond shaped region between her anus and vaginal opening. It can be stimulated with a tongue, finger or sex toy. Handheld vibes are perfect for this precise positioning.

For more sexual knowledge there’s no shortage of extremely helpful resources available to you! You can explore instructional videos, how-to sex books, meet with a sex educator or take provocative multi-media courses online. Better sex is right at your fingertips!

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For a wide variety of online programs including flirting, dating, intimacy, erotic massage, orgasm, Tantric sex, BDSM and more, visit Dr. Ava’s Loveology University—guaranteed to make you a world class lover! You can also become a Certified Love Coach with her Master Sexpert, Relationship and Intimacy Expert programs.

For even more fantastic recommendations, check out of some Tickle Kitty’s unique best sellers. There’s something for every orgasm, and every erogenous zone!

Dorcel Orgasmic Rabbit

Swiveling head for G-Spot orgasms, fluttering ears for clitoral delights and rotating beads for subtle internal pleasures… BUY NOW

Egg McTerrific

Powerful triple-curved bullet contoured for right where you crave pleasure. Adjustable speed dial, for your personal pleasure setting. A perfect way to start the day… BUY NOW

Callie Vibrating Mini-Wand

Get down glamorously with Callie. Available in 4 or 6 inch lengths, she’s a satiny smooth, whisper-quiet addition to your collection when you’re in the mood for some decadent me-time… BUY NOW

The TUX Vibrating Penis Ring

Stay classy and last longer with one of our favorite cock-rings. You’ll enjoy its snug fit, and she’ll go wild over its extra-powerful mini-bullet, for out of this world sensation… BUY NOW

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What do you call intercourse without the “in”? Outercourse, of course!

Outercourse takes the penetration out of sex—but not the fun. You still enjoy deeply sensual, skin-on-skin lovemaking. You still share a thrilling physical connection. And you still experience explosive, scream-worthy orgasms.

So why would anybody ever want to forgo the deep satisfaction of vaginal or anal penetration? Because sometimes, intercourse just isn’t on the menu—or you’d simply like to shake things up. Or consider these practical reasons: the risk of pregnancy and STIs goes way down, while your freedom and enjoyment go way up. You can still be intimate if you’re not ready for intercourse, she’s menstruating, or one of you is too tired. You also have a no-risk solution if you’ve run out of condoms, misplaced the diaphragm or forgotten The Pill. You can even silence a squeaky bed if your eavesdropping in-laws are right next door.

Dr. Sadie Sez: Less risk doesn’t mean no risk. ANY sexual contact between humans means risk—even low-risk outercourse. Keep semen from splashing near the vagina, mucous membranes and open cuts. Practice safer sex during oral sex.

Outercourse offers each of you a new way to express yourself creatively as you learn more about each other sexually.

When he drifts off to dreamland after his orgasm, she may still be ready, willing and surging for another orgasm or three. Next time, if he tries these thrilling outercourse techniques and learns more about her desires, both partners can drift off to dreamland together, totally satisfied and deliciously spent.

Take a holiday from the finer techniques of penetration and explore the erotic nooks and crannies of your lover’s body with much greater intimacy.

Kiss. Seduce with your lips and tongue: Peck. Lick. Lip-lock. Flick. Entwine. Go soft, hard, slow, gentle, mellow, deep—then work up to hot, wet and messy! Hold your lover’s chin. Caress your lover’s face. Pretend it’s oral sex at its best.

Dr. Sadie Sez: It’s easy to get sucked into the sex game before you’re physically and emotionally ready—especially its hurtful side. Outercourse offers you a way to go at your own pace (not his!), and absorb what’s happening to you before it can become overwhelming. Take him for fun outercourse “test drives” as you get to know each other better. It’s not just smarter, it’s safer.

Dry hump. Rub your clothed bodies together lustily in the backyard, in a restaurant coatroom or on the backseat of your car. Steer clear of rough fabrics and jagged zippers on sensitive spots.

Fingerplay. Unleash those living sextoys in your pockets—your hands! Wrap, stroke, jerk, caress, rub, stimulate—you know where. Take turns, or pleasure each other simultaneously. Or watch each other do unto your-selves.

Massage. Coat your lover’s most intimate spots with a little massage oil and explore behind the ears, down the neck, down the back, around the butt, and behind the knees. This is a great way to lead in to even more pleasure with intense clitoral touching.

Play games. Play out your fantasies and fetishes; wear costumes, wigs, stiletto heels, or sexy lingerie, then grind together to a steamy song and bring each other to orgasm while your clothes are still on!

Penis pleasure hunt. Seek out her body’s most sensual spots with his heat-seeking penis! Drizzle on some sex lube and slide it between her breasts, thighs, armpits, inner elbow fold, feet—any soft warm inviting skin (just not the vagina or anus, Romeo!).

Toy around. Reach into your sex toy chest and pull out a few of your favorites: feathers, vibrators, dildos, lubes, warming oils—or slip an erotic video into your DVD. Toy chest empty? Time to surprise your lover with a special batteries-included gift.

Back door reach around. Tease slowly toward the pleasure-center of your lover’s butt with your fingers, mouth and toys—but remember to use latex barriers when you reach the prize.

Get oral. Let your lips do the talking as you take turns tasting and licking each other with gusto. Or change it up and get into the “69” position and delight each other simultaneously.

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