With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, we all know the epic debate that never ceases to spark. This year, my boyfriend and I made a pre-game pact to start spreading special love leading up to the 14th’s debut. And in our case, that was hardly a chore when our ‘Play With Me’ Valentine Kit has been sitting pretty since its arrival. Although it was hard to pick just one thing from the kit at a tantalizing time, tonight we knew the super sleek set of arousal gels were calling our name.

‘His & Hers’ in every sense of the phrase, ON’s Clitoral Arousal Gel for me and ON’s Arousal Gel for Men looked like a match-made in heaven. But slowing our rolls for just a hot second, we decided to get cooking dinner out of the way before jumping into our even more carnal dessert.

As the temperatures rose and aromas began to waft…who were we kidding? It was way too tempting to put off! Already the suggestive back caresses were in full swing, when mid-chiffonade of the basil he began tracing his hand up my skirt. At that point all bets were off and we burst into a powerful make out sesh that brought us away from the cozy kitchen and straight onto the plushy couch.

Exchanging nibbles to the lips and ears, I grabbed ahold of his hair as his warm palms glided from my ass to waist, up around the ribs to both of my breasts. The kisses grew hotter and fondling stronger as we swore with each minute the heat of our bodies grew more intense—which is when we knew it was time to crank things up a notch.

By that point we were already half-way stripped down, so we reached for the gels to elevate our already steamy pre-foreplay. He took the lead and slid down my lacey leopard thong to mist my clitoris with a few slippery spritzes of the arousal gel; and not but ten seconds later, the sensations hit like a titillating tidal wave. The natural excitement, the warmth that enveloped my labia, this gel I could feel was drawing all the blood to where it mattered most. I wanted my boyfriend more than ever, and once he started massaging my tingling clit, I knew I couldn’t keep him from joining this heightened pleasure party for much longer.

As I laid on my back and he continued to swirl his fingers around inside me, I snatched up his arousal gel from the coffee table and squeezed a few drops onto my own fingertips. We made eye contact and he saw that I wanted to give him the same seductive joy, so I grabbed his already hardening dick to slather on the cool (and very concentrated) gel drops.

Just like my experience, I could tell in his subtle jaw drop that the effect was nearly instantaneous. I continued softly stroking his penis, which felt like it was getting harder and so much thicker. When he was able to pry open his eyes in between similar rushes of ecstasy-filled sensation, he couldn’t get over the elevation of feeling as well. It was one of the most solid, multi-dimensional erections he had ever experienced—which we both knew was ready for a lot more than just a hand job.

As the increased arousal continued, I pivoted myself around and assumed one of our favorites: 69. With so much feeling building up in our precious parts, we thought it’d be the perfect pairing with such passion-inducing elixirs as these. And boy, were we right!

The second he slid his tongue inside, my world was officially rocked. It was electrifying and totally satisfying in every sense of the two words combined. It already took a lot to edge myself away from orgasming just seconds in, because without a doubt, I didn’t want this pleasure train to end any time soon. At the opposite end, he was just as enthralled. Once my soft, wet lips simultaneously began sliding up and down his still incredibly hard dick, it was taking him through a whole new world of oral-fueled delight.

Of course this position always feel amazing, but combined with the power of the arousal gels, it magnified absolutely everything to planes of pleasure neither one of us had ever experienced. After a few minutes passed, we both were overwhelmed with sensitivity. Finishing a few minutes apart from each other, we got to watch the rousing rush come over one another’s face and lay there in the residual buzz that each of our semi-throbbing bottom halves were still experiencing.

So regardless of how you like to play, we can pretty well guarantee a few dabs of his & hers arousal gel can be just the thing to get your Valentine’s Day party started. Whether busting it out when getting down to business with a partner, or simply your own bad self, there’s no way you’ll regret the punch these little potions of pleasure can deliver.

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A lot can be said about the ills of pornography, and some of it might even be true. But, like with any controversial issue, there’s always another side to the coin. So while religious leaders and political figures pass their—oftentimes hypocritical—judgments on this particular industry, it’s time to remind everyone that it’s not all bad. In fact, there are actually some positive things that can be learned from porn. In no particular order, here’s our Get-Lucky Seven:

1. Female orgasms matter.

Unless you’re talking about fetish videos specifically about women as sexual slaves (not that I would know anything about these types of pornos), you’ll notice that the women in porn scenes nearly always climax before the man finishes. And that’s actually super admirable. Great job, porn.

2. Saliva is a decent lubricant.

Whether it’s an erotic video or photos, these porn scenarios usually begin with oral sex before leading directly to intercourse. It’s a natural progression, perhaps even dictated by human instinct. In addition to being an excellent form of foreplay to arouse both partners, it readies the participants to take things right to the next level. And if you use a water-based lubricant, a little saliva is a great way to bring your lube back to life when it dries up.

3. Foreplay first.

Sure, it usually begins with an absurd scenario, like a repairman coming to the house, and the girl answering the door scantily clad. I don’t know why they feel the need to create a story, but I suppose it’s sometimes appropriate to set a scene that will appeal to a particular kink. Regardless, the fun usually begins with a kiss, and that’s good! Then comes the undressing, kissing and touching elsewhere. Before too long, they’re both in a frenzy and the penis goes into the vagina. This is an appropriate lesson to be learned for the chronology of good sex.

4. Talking and being vocal makes sex better.

While couples often feel the need to be quiet because others (perhaps children) may be in an adjacent room, or just down the hall, a little dirty talk never hurt anyone, and you can whisper if you have to. Don’t be shy. It’s fun to involve all the senses during sex, so if you’re not communicating with one another, things can get boring fast. Things like moaning will let your partner know you’re into them, and that you’re in the moment. But if you really want to turn up the heat, go ahead and talk dirty to each other!

5. It’s all about the clitoris.

Yeah, chew on that for a second, ladies. I can’t imagine how awful a lover I must have been as fumbling teenager my very first time. I sure as heck didn’t know what a clitoris was, or its importance, but I quickly learned once I discovered porn. I’m sure most ladies will be thankful to be with a lover who can hit the ground running, rather than trying to explain to him the anatomy of the vulva. If he still needs an explanation, get him a copy of Dr. Sadie’s clitoris guide, The Mystery of the Undercover Clitoris–Orgasmic Fingertip Touching Every Woman Craves for some helpful illustrations and technique tips.

6. What do men want?

This one’s for the ladies, of course. Given that a vast majority of porn is geared toward men, it can be a valuable insight for women wanting to learn what makes men tick sexually. While it’ll come as no surprise that we’ll never turn down a blowjob, there’s much more to be gleaned, like that role-playing can be a lot of fun, for instance, or that we wouldn’t mind watching you play with yourself. While the circumstances are usually laughable in porn, situations can be a big turn-on for guys. Remember, what you see in porn is what many of us are fantasizing about when we masturbate. We’re really not very complicated, so throwing the spice of fantasy into the mix will never hurt.

7. Learn what you’re into.

There’s probably stuff out there you’ve never dreamed of, and you might just like it! Exploring pornography can actually teach you a lot about yourself, and what your particular turn-ons are. Once you know what you like, you’ll be a better lover, as long as you’re able to communicate it. Everyone has one or two kinks that are arguably weird, but when you’re open about, you’ll find your partner will usually be happy to play along.

So what do you know? Maybe porn ain’t all that bad after all. I wouldn’t exactly call them instructional videos, but there are quite a few things you can learn from watching pornography. And you can totally use that defense if your girlfriend stumbles upon your browser history.

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