I’ve been in a steady relationship with my Magic Wand (formerly Hitachi Magic Wand) since I was 18. It’s hands-down the longest – and most satisfying! – relationship I’ve ever had. For me, a daily ménage a moi is a routine habit, like brushing my teeth or meditating. The ease and reliability of the Magic Wand makes it an absolute must-have in my sex toy repertoire.
Once a corded-only option, I recently upgraded to Magic Wand Rechargeable for orgasms more than 18 inches away from a power outlet. Game-changer! Extension cords aren’t the sexiest of play time additions, plus this updated version packs more power than its predecessor. It’s also quieter and adds four levels of power and pulsation patterns – all driven by a lithium-ion rechargeable battery. Fully charged, it runs for three hours, though shuts down after 20 minutes of continuous use. (It starts right back up with the push of a button.)
If you want to stick your toe into the shallow end of the sex toy pool, the Magic Wand Rechargeable is a great place to start. Use it as a powerful all-over massager and see how your partner’s body parts responds without making orgasm the end goal. The wand’s deeply penetrative powers feel good on tight muscles from head to toe.
Dr. Sadie Allison recommends the Magic Wand for ‘pre-orgasmic’ women, or women who’ve yet to reach climax, since it’s the most tried and true way to get from 0-60. When using the Magic Wand, be sure to always keep something moving – whether it’s your body or the toy. The body craves motion and too much constant pressure in one place can (temporarily) numb the clit. Slow it down or speed it up— just keep it moving!
One of the great things about the Magic Wand Rechargeable is that it can provide a steady stream of clitoral stimulation without wearing out you or your partner’s fingers. Whether I’m masturbating by myself or playing with a sexy someone, the Magic Wand frees up all sorts of opportunities for penetration (clit stim + penetration = the almighty “blended” orgasm). Sometimes, I like to use the wand to work my clit, while my partner slips a smaller toy for a few fingers into my vagina. It’s a divide and conquer approach to rolling waves of sensation. A team building activity, if you will. Other times, I’ll use a toy with some weight that will stay securely deep inside me while I grind against the Magic Wand.
Betty Dodson, the Mother of Masturbation, recently introduced me to one of my favorite Magic Wand techniques, the “Pillow Fuck.” Here’s how it works:
Place a pillow on the floor (it doesn’t work as well on a non-flat surface, like a bed). Spread your legs and straddle it, with the Magic Wand Rechargeable positioned below your clit. Now rock your pelvis, playing with contact and pressure until you find your happy place. Most often, I masturbate on my back with my legs spread wide open, but this on-top-and-in-control position is a solo sex game changer. It allows me to “run the fuck” (one of my favorite Bettyisms) and control the speed, depth, and angle of direct stimulation. For clitoral orgasms, it’s one helluva technique.
Men apparently love Magic Wand Rechargeable too. A recent play partner brought his own device to the bedroom. He slowly moved the silicone head across the tip of his hard dick, and although it took some time and a little hands-on help, he was eventually able to come. I had no idea.
The bottom line? There’s a reason this mighty massager has been the best-selling personal massager for more than three decades.
Already got your hands on a Magic Wand? Let it love you inside and out with the G-Spot Magic Wand Attachment. And check out the Luxury Mystic Wand, or the Lust L5 for great additions to your collection for something powerful, pretty, and pink.