Tickle Kitty Blog https://blog.ticklekitty.com Unleash your wildest orgasms. Wed, 19 Sep 2018 22:20:12 +0000 en-US hourly 1 113871203 10 Reasons Why She Might Have Stopped Sleeping With You https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/09/19/10-reasons-she-might-have-stopped-sleeping-with-you/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/09/19/10-reasons-she-might-have-stopped-sleeping-with-you/#respond Wed, 19 Sep 2018 19:28:56 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6794 10 Reasons She Might Have Stopped Sleeping With You

Does it seem like she isn’t as interested in having sex with you as she used to be? Relax. It’s probably not that she doesn’t want to have sex with you; it might just be that she doesn’t want to

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10 Reasons She Might Have Stopped Sleeping With You

10 Reasons She Might Have Stopped Sleeping With You

Does it seem like she isn’t as interested in having sex with you as she used to be? Relax. It’s probably not that she doesn’t want to have sex with you; it might just be that she doesn’t want to have sex at all.

Assuming that you haven’t done something to upset her, or you’re just not any good in bed, or there’s someone else—causing her to refuse sex with you—there are quite a few reasons why women may not be in the mood, and they might not want to talk about it. Luckily, you’ve got us to spell it out for you. So instead of taking it personally, take a moment to put yourself in her shoes, and explore these ten reasons why she may not want to have sex:

1. Stress and fatigue. If she’s under a lot of pressure at work or struggling with finances or any number of tiresome things, that can be a real cock-blocker. Depression and anxiety can have this effect, too. She could probably use a massage.

2. She feels unattractive. Maybe she put on a few pounds over thethe art of penetration holidays. Or, perhaps she’s just feeling bloated. Remember that women typically feel the pressure of living up to the images of perfection in the media, and that’s an entirely unreasonable standard. It may be something as simple as she needs to do laundry, and is wearing granny panties that day. Maybe she hasn’t shaved her legs. Just make sure she knows you think she’s the most beautiful woman in the world—and not just because you want to get laid.

3. Hygiene. She could have overslept and had to skip bathing that day. When you start putting the moves on her later, she’ll be likely to turn you down because she feels gross. Or, maybe you’re the one who needs a shower. Don’t be that guy.

4. A visit from Aunt Flow. It happens every month. Get used to her menstrual cycle. For some couples, having sex while she’s on her period isn’t an issue. But let’s face it—you should certainly be able to understand why she might not want to engage in that messy business.

5. Infection. Yeast and urinary tract infections happen. When they do, don’t expect her to let you go to town down there. They’re easily treatable, but she’s gonna need a few days off to beat it.

6. Hormones. For women especially, hormones fluctuate throughout a lifetime, and this can affect the libido. We normally associate testosterone as being a male hormone, but women have it, too. And when they don’t have enough, her sex drive can crash through the floor.

7. Medications. There’s a pill for everything today, and most come with sidehow men should ask for sex effects, many of which can impact sex lives by causing dryness, diminished libido, or other issues. In many cases, by explaining the side effects to her doctor, these hurdles can be overcome.

8. Past abuse. You may or may not be aware of a sexual assault, or even long term abuse, in her past. But if there was, it has likely left mental scars, at the very least. PTSD isn’t limited to combat veterans. So if you know of, or suspect, she may have been a victim, be mindful of how sexual contact can be a trigger.

9. Dryness or pain. During any given month, there are points in her cycle where her libido may increase or decrease, and her natural lubrication will fluctuate, too. If she has a problem producing moisture down there, she may be afraid that you’ll think you don’t turn her on. Introduce a lube as a regular part of your shared sexual routine to get around this. Pain, on the other hand, is not something you want to subject her to. Did she give birth recently? Give her a break for at least six weeks. And after that, lube is a good idea as sexual activity resumes. And if you’re so big that it causes her pain, spend more time on foreplay, and don’t forget the lube for the finale.

10. Illness. C’mon, if she’s got the flu or a cold, you should be pampering her, not trying to get on top of her.

So yeah, sometimes it really isn’t you—not everything is about you, guys. The sooner you realize this, the sooner you can sympathize with what she might be going through. And then, you’ll be better equipped to offer her support and comfort. Her well being is most important.

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Does Morning Sex Make You More Productive? https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/09/17/does-morning-sex-make-you-more-productive/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/09/17/does-morning-sex-make-you-more-productive/#comments Mon, 17 Sep 2018 20:33:13 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6773 Does Morning Sex Make You More Productive?

What do successful people do? Google that question and you’ll come up with lists from every business magazine out there—Entrepreneur, Business Insider, Forbes, Inc…the list goes on. Each of these Wall Street bibles discuss everything from learning the power of

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Does Morning Sex Make You More Productive?

Does Morning Sex Make You More Productive?

What do successful people do? Google that question and you’ll come up with lists from every business magazine out there—Entrepreneur, Business Insider, Forbes, Inc…the list goes on. Each of these Wall Street bibles discuss everything from learning the power of ‘No’ to drinking lemon water. The one thing missing on all the lists? Morning sex. But according to a 2018 sleep study, morning sex could be the key to unlocking your productivity. A survey of more than 1,000 people either in a relationship or living with their partner asked if sex in the morning leads to greater productivity.

Survey says? Yes.

According to the study more than 53 percent of men and 45 percent of women said that they were more productive on the days that they have morning sex. With the facts staring you in the face, why aren’t more people doing this?

Time. We all live down to the wire these days. Our days are micromanagedShocking Sex Statistics–How Does Your Bedroom Game Compare? so minutely that anything out of the schedule throws our entire worlds into whack. But putting “morning sex” into your iCal is probably the least sexy thing out there. The survey reports that people would much rather sleep in or drink coffee than have morning sex.

Turns out getting busy has all the same benefits—it boosts energy levels and relieves stress. Plus, having an orgasm is not the worst way to start the day. For both men and women their estrogen and testosterone are at peak levels in the morning, so already you’re setting yourself up for an advantage, rather than at the end of the day when you both might be tired or distracted. Morning sex is also a massive stress reliever, bringing down stress hormones. Other benefits? It releases endorphins, counts as a workout, and can even help you look younger because it releases oxytocin and other anti-inflammatory molecules.

Still, not everyone is willing to do it. Morning sex feels like a luxury, amid all the other things we have to do like showering, making breakfast, getting the kids ready for school, checking emails, scrolling Instagram, and just about any other priority you can think of that is not sex.

But carving out just a little bit of room to get yours in the morning can make all the difference. According to the survey, men said they would give up 41.5 minutes of sleep for sex, while women would give up 30 minutes. A half hour each morning of less sleep for more sex isn’t so much to ask. In fact, according to the survey, the majority of those surveyed who were satisfied in their relationships were having sex just 4 mornings a month. Of the men and women surveyed, sex lasted on average 26 minutes.

Still, even 26 minutes might be a lot to ask for some people. But they don’t how does masturbation help cultivate your creativityneed to miss out on getting (a)head in the morning. Set the alarm 20 minutes early and experiment with foreplay. This, at the very least, will leave you both wanting more for later. Pick positions that aren’t super exotic, like missionary or spooning. This at least makes it a little more alluring in the morning when you’re probably exhausted. Or multitask by showering together, giving you the opportunity to have some frisky fun while you prep yourselves for the day ahead.

Another fun option? Try some toys to get you into gear—and in record time. The Womanizer Starlet, for example, is legendary for orgasms in 60 seconds. Surely there is enough time for that. If you’re feeling sluggish in the morning you can also try the Main Squeeze See-Through Penis Pleaser, which is a masturbation toy you can use on him that takes the job out of ‘hand job.’ You can also turn his penis into a vibrating sex toy with The Wave, a penis ring that enhances sex through vibrations, and makes simultaneous orgasms within reach.

The point is the only one standing in the way of your morning orgasm (and productivity) is you. With a little bit of time management, and the desire to get yours, you could be climaxing your way to a more productive day.

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11 Steps to Successful Backdoor Play https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/09/11/11-steps-to-successful-backdoor-play/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/09/11/11-steps-to-successful-backdoor-play/#comments Tue, 11 Sep 2018 22:29:37 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6746 11 Steps to Successful Backdoor Play

Listen fellas, we know you’re fascinated with the female body—butts included. But not all women want their man to explore this region. So if she’s willing to give you the key to her backdoor, you better appreciate just how lucky

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11 Steps to Successful Backdoor Play

11 Steps to Successful Backdoor Play

Listen fellas, we know you’re fascinated with the female body—butts included. But not all women want their man to explore this region. So if she’s willing to give you the key to her backdoor, you better appreciate just how lucky you really are.

You also don’t want to rush into things. There are important details to consider, along with a little preparation. But don’t worry, I got you. Take a seat and I’ll teach you exactly what you should be doing before putting anything near that yummy booty of hers.

Communication is lubrication.

In any sex act—especially anal play, always communicate with your partner to make sure they’re comfortable and are enjoying what you’re doing. This should be a two-way feedback.

New and nervous?

Insist your lover gets comfortable with the sensations and plays with herself 4 Full-Pleasure Anal Intercourse Positionsfirst. She should get familiar with her backdoor and what types of sensations feel good. This will also help her to be able to guide you through your analplay exploration. She’ll already have an idea of what she likes and doesn’t like.

Always use lube.

This is one of the most important tips about buttplay. The anus does not produce natural lubrication like the vagina, so you must use lubricant to avoid pain or even damage. Like, lots of lube.

Study up on the erogenous zone first—especially if you’re new at it.

This erogenous zone requires much more attention to care and safety than others. So being a thoughtful lover, you may want to pick up a copy of my bestselling book Tickle My Tush: Mild-to-Wild Analplay Adventures for Every Booty, which teaches everything you need to know about getting started and enjoying anal sex, safely and pleasurably—with illustrations to make techniques easy to implement.

Practice good hygiene.

This is very important for comfort and safety. Hands should be washed and nails trimmed with no hang-nails. Latex gloves can be used as well and prevent bacteria from being exchanged. Also, showering beforehand with your partner and making sure you’re both squeaky clean will put her mind more at ease.

Get her warmed up and increase blood flow.

Getting her warmed up, and loosened up, is very important. And this includes activities you can do before you even think about heading around the backside. Start with other foreplay activities to get arousal up and blood flow to the genitals. This includes kissing, oral, touching, massaging and even some intercourse. This will get her body primed and ready to receive backdoor loving and allow her to feel more pleasure from it.

Give her a sensual butt massage.

Part of warming up can (and should) include a sensual butt massage. Use lube and try these techniques: place your thumbs in the creases where legs meet the butt cheeks and glide your thumbs along the crease from the inner thigh to the outer thigh. Lift and repeat. Then, put your palms together in ‘prayer position’, place them on her tailbone, then glide up and down her butt crack.

Start with gentle ‘outerplay’.

After she’s warmed up from other sexual activity, incorporate anal outerplay4 Reasons to Try Anal Sex by pressing gently against her anus with the flat of your fingerpad, but don’t go inside. This is an amazing tease and wakes up and excites the sensitive nerve endings. You may just find her tight sphincter relaxing, and opening up to your touch.

Go slooowly with finger-play.

Only after she’s hot and wet, gently insert just the tip of a well-lubed finger to the first knuckle (just past your fingernail). Then sit still. See how she responds. Remind her to relax and enjoy. Then wiggle your fingertip slowly, moving in small circular motions or going in-and-out ever so slightly. Work your entire finger in slowly, and be sure to re-apply lube as needed. Experiment with the “cork-screw” in-and-out twisting technique.

Toss her salad. “Rimming”, that is.

Start with a wet, soft tongue and tap, lick, and swirl around the anus. Then graduate to a stiff tongue, insert it and then relax it, letting it get pushed out naturally. Repeat. Play with her clitoris while doing this and you may just find her begging you not to stop!

Start with an analplay kit that you can both get into.

If you’re looking for guidance on how to have safe, fun and pleasurable anal sex, explore the Couple’s HotTush Please Kit that comes with everything you need: my bestselling, illustrated Tickle My Tush guide, signature body-safe lube Slippery Kitty, a classic bullet vibrator, and a cute beginners butt plug.

Well gentlemen, if you follow the above guidance, there’ll be no ifs, ands, or butts about it—you’ll be on your way to giving magical pleasure to a new and exciting venue on your lover’s body. Just don’t be surprised if anal becomes her new favorite guilty pleasure and she backs dat booty up to you for more and more.

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Stay Harder and Last Longer with These 3 Simple Workouts https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/09/10/stay-harder-and-last-longer-with-these-3-simple-workouts/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/09/10/stay-harder-and-last-longer-with-these-3-simple-workouts/#respond Mon, 10 Sep 2018 21:46:39 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6722 Stay Harder and Last Longer With These 3 Simple Workouts

When we were at our sexual peaks at 18, we could eat whatever we wanted, and never gained a pound. But as those early days of adulthood fade, we’ve learned that maintaining a healthy body and sex life requires some

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Stay Harder and Last Longer With These 3 Simple Workouts

Stay Harder and Last Longer With These 3 Simple Workouts

When we were at our sexual peaks at 18, we could eat whatever we wanted, and never gained a pound. But as those early days of adulthood fade, we’ve learned that maintaining a healthy body and sex life requires some discipline and work. If you’re still in your easy-going twenties, you probably aren’t too concerned with what lies ahead, but the rest of us can agree that it’s going to happen to you, too.

Many of us become desk jockeys, develop a keen fondness for beer, or just have less time or desire for the physical activities we enjoyed in our youth. The bottom line is that, sooner or later, we have to develop new healthy habits to counter the factors that weigh us down as we grow into seasoned adult men.

The good news is, you don’t need to spend money on a gym membership to get back the stamina, drive and strong erection that came naturally in your teens and twenties. There’s a lot of clickbait out there, promising easy fixes for things like erectile dysfunction or sexual stamina, but we’ve researched and narrowed-down the exercises recommended by experts for improving the quality of your sex life, and here’s our top three:

1. Planks and Push-ups

I always thought planking was just that stupid thing kids did a few years back in photos all over the internet. But it turns out planks of a slightly different sort are really great for strengthening your core, shoulders and lower back, while push-ups work the arms. If you’re often on top during sex, working on these areas is a no-brainer.

While I won’t waste anyone’s time explaining how to do push-ups, planks5 ways to make a guy feel great about his member may be as new to you as they were for me, so let’s start with the basics, as there are many variations. It’s starts at the top position of a push-up, with your hands planted on the floor below your shoulders. Next, stretch your heels back, forming your entire body into a straight line, including your head (You may want the aid of a mirror to be sure this is achieved). You’ll find that tightening the glutes will help stabilize this position. Hold for as long as possible, and increase the holding time to meet your abilities as you get better at it. Along with a stronger core and arms, you’ll notice that planks increase your stamina and control during sex, and likely better thrusting too!

2. Kegels

Kegels became a sensation years ago for women wanting to tighten back up and control incontinence after childbirth. But more recently men have discovered the benefits for themselves, too. Kegels strengthen pelvic floor muscles, resulting in better control so you can avoid dreadful things like premature ejaculation.

The most challenging part of the exercise is narrowing down and isolating the correct muscles. So the next time you’re taking a leak, try to stop the flow in mid-stream. You probably won’t be able to, but at least now you’re getting an idea of the muscles you’ll be focusing on. Another way to locate the muscles is to try to lift your Johnson in the air, without using your hands, of course. The great thing about Kegels is that you can do it anytime and anywhere. Just tighten and hold for several seconds, and repeat. Three sets of 10 reps is a good routine that will lead to better orgasm control and a harder erection. You might also find that orgasms feel even better!

3. Cardio

Depending on where you’re at physically, we wouldn’t necessarily recommend starting with something especially vigorous. It’s alwaysWhat You Need to Know About Men's Sex Toys a good idea to check with a doctor before embarking on any new exercise regime. But the goal here is to increase your heart and respiration rates. That ultimately results in better blood flow, so if you don’t get as hard as you once did, or if you suffer from ED, this will help. It’s also going to reap you better endurance in bed. If you’re on the obese side, you may also have noticed a decrease in libido. A simple activity like walking for 30-60 minutes three to five times a week will begin to show positive results in no time. My personal favorite cardio activity is swimming because it’s actually fun, so it doesn’t feel like you’re exercising for exercising’s sake. And it burns calories like crazy, so you won’t just feel better—you’ll look better, too!

Bonus workout: More sex! Yes, having more sex will help you improve your sex life ipso facto and because it’s a workout—working you out in all the right ways.

The more you workout, the more you’ll be able to have sex, which will become an awesome cycle of sex and health. Just try not to let those wild sex sessions go all night long because you’ll also want a good sleep schedule and a healthy diet to supplement those workouts. Cheers to good health and a better sex life!

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Signs Your Partner is a Selfish Lover and How to Deal https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/09/04/signs-your-partner-is-a-selfish-lover-and-how-to-deal/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/09/04/signs-your-partner-is-a-selfish-lover-and-how-to-deal/#comments Tue, 04 Sep 2018 22:28:11 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6696 Signs Your Partner is a Selfish Lover and How to Deal

So your man isn’t being so generous in the bedroom… Do you just give up and return your guy for a new one? I suppose you could. Keep in mind this rash decision might not solve all your problems because

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Signs Your Partner is a Selfish Lover and How to Deal

Signs Your Partner is a Selfish Lover and How to Deal

So your man isn’t being so generous in the bedroom… Do you just give up and return your guy for a new one? I suppose you could. Keep in mind this rash decision might not solve all your problems because the next guy could be even worse.

If you really love the man you’re with—maybe he’s a cutie or has really sexy arms—there’s a better way to handle this. So, if you try the following advice, and your man still isn’t stepping up, we can think about letting him go.

Let’s identify some of the most common signs your lover is being selfish in the bedroom:

The Signs of a Selfish Lover

  • Always sitting back to receive and never reciprocating
  • Not concerned with your pleasure, never asking what you like, or how he can enhance his techniques to give you more satisfaction
  • Not making sure you orgasm—first—and more than once!
  • Won’t allow sex toys in the bedroom
  • Not listening
  • Never initiates anything new, or wants to experiment
  • Skips foreplay
  • No intimacy, eye contact, touching, cuddling, kissing
  • Going right to sleep after he comes—often too soon!

Is your lover guilty of any of the above? You’re not alone. The above list is filled with common sources of discontent for many couples. The good news is, there are effective ways to address this issue.

Many times, the main culprit of this disconnect comes from an innocent ignorance. That’s right, your man probably doesn’t even realize he’s an offender. He might even think he’s a total stud in the bedroom, especially if he’s going off what he’s learned from porn and those “sexpert” friends of his. This, ladies, is precisely why communication is imperative. You can’t exactly expect your partner to know what you want unless you tell him.

I understand sharing feedback with your lover might sound unbearably shop clitoral vibratorsawkward. But you don’t necessarily have to sit him down and go through all the ways he’s displeasing you in bed. Instead, you can guide your partner to what you like while you’re in the heat of the moment. Keep it on a positive note. For a lot of men, this can be a major turn on. Do things like moving his hands to where and how you want to be touched, tell him when he’s doing a good job and ask for more. Say things like, “Oooh that feels so good,” or, “A little slower baby.”

You can also try making a sexy game out of it! Tell your partner (in your sassy, sexy voice) you won’t give him what he wants until he makes you come.

If by this point your man is making an effort to communicate and give you what you want, it’s time to return the favor. Give him positive reinforcements to ensure he knows he’s doing a great job and that he’ll be rewarded whenever he’s generous.

Okay, so you tried the above communication strategies, and your beloved ain’t putting in the extra effort you’re craving? It’s time think hard about whether he’s worth it. You deserve to be with someone who genuinely wants to please you.

If you decide that you’re going to stick around despite his selfish ways, at least buy yourself a really nice vibrator. Now there’s something you can always count on to take care of your sexual needs.

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An Intro to Power Play https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/08/30/an-intro-to-power-play/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/08/30/an-intro-to-power-play/#respond Thu, 30 Aug 2018 23:11:38 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6671 An Intro to Power Play

From the most straight laced to kinkiest on the block, power plays just as big a role in each and everyone’s sexual dynamic. Of course there are different ways this exchange of power plays out in every relationship, but focusing

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An Intro to Power Play

An Intro to Power Play

From the most straight laced to kinkiest on the block, power plays just as big a role in each and everyone’s sexual dynamic. Of course there are different ways this exchange of power plays out in every relationship, but focusing on exactly how and why to incorporate power play into the bedroom can unleash a whole new dimension of sensual possibilities.

The Principles of Power

In its most basic form, a power dynamic often boils down to the concepts of dominance versus submission. The dominant party being more apt to initiate and call the shots; with the submissive more inclined to take their lead. Which role each partner assumes really depends on what gets them off, and the chosen role might not be as obvious as you’d think. At the end of the day, it’s all about mutual pleasure.

Certainly there are naturally assertive individuals who carry that trend into the bedroom, but other times people who lead more dominant daily lives enjoy handing over the reins to a partner for a euphoric end. The key to establishing these is open communication and honesty about personal desires.

So what’s the real appeal?

Like many things when it comes to sex, playing with power can be appealing to different people for different reasons. Those who dominate may find it pleasurable to take the lead in an intimate setting; while subs may feel liberated from worry by being in the hands of someone they deeply trust. Some may simply like the closeness they feel with their partner, no matter which end of the dom-sub spectrum they’re on.

But individual preferences aside, there’s a slew of benefits many couples collectively find in this erotic escape as well.

Adventure, Spice & Everything Oh So Nice

Depending on how “all out” you really go, power dynamics first and foremost are an exciting way to spice things up. It’s easy to fall into a rut of the same old song and dirty dance, so making subtle (or not so subtle) moves to establish each other’s roles can throw some tantalizing excitement into anyone’s habitual groove.

Something as simple as busting out a pair of handcuffs or bondage tape to restrain the sub’s hands above their head (or a bedpost) can be a great way to ease yourselves into the basics of power play 101. As the dom leads all the kissing, stroking, flogging and other alluring acts to follow, the sub can really let their mind go while knowing they’re both in for a riveting ride.

Playing with power is also a great excuse to venture outside of your comfort zone. We always hear praises of role play in and of itself, so dabbling with power by having one person “boss” the other through a series of seductively steamy acts is an additional way to embrace personas that may satisfyingly stray from your natural tendencies. Pro tip: add some exciting (and maybe surprising) dirty talk to the mix to really take things up a notch.

How To Approach It

So if power play has piqued your curiosity, but you just don’t know how to introduce it to your partner—fear not! It might be a lot simpler than you’d think.

Obviously, communication is key. Approach the subject outside of the bedroom first by expressing interest to your partner, then suggesting which acts you’d be interested in exploring. You two can even make your own individual lists of sexual acts that you either ‘would do,’ ‘might explore’ or are ‘out of the question.’ See where your lists align, then start with those acts. Once those boundaries are established, decide on a safe word that can be said if things get too intense for either one of you. Be sure to communicate throughout the entire experience by asking if your lover is enjoying what’s ensuing, and if any adjustments need to be made.

It goes without saying there’s no pleasure quite like being in sexual sync with a partner; so regardless of your intimate style, there are tons of benefits to be reaped from playing with power. Whether looking to take the full plunge or just get your feet a little wet here and there, it’s amazing the difference a sultry shift of control can make for chemistry between you and your lover. So strap in and buckle up—you never know what you may discover about a whole new side to sex.

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A Titillating Guide For Elevated NipplePlay https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/08/27/a-titillating-guide-for-elevated-nippleplay/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/08/27/a-titillating-guide-for-elevated-nippleplay/#respond Tue, 28 Aug 2018 00:13:59 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6647 A Titillating Guide for Elevated Nippleplay

If you play with nipples just so, you can signal all the same marvelous parts of the brain as the genitals do when they’re aroused. You can even trigger orgasms (for some lucky women). Nipples contain more than 800 sensitive

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A Titillating Guide for Elevated Nippleplay

A Titillating Guide for Elevated Nippleplay

If you play with nipples just so, you can signal all the same marvelous parts of the brain as the genitals do when they’re aroused. You can even trigger orgasms (for some lucky women). Nipples contain more than 800 sensitive nerve endings, and nippleplay can release the happy hormone, oxytocin, making these headlights a go-to erogenous zone for incredible sensual pleasure.

But how to play?

Some like licking, but can’t stand biting or sucking. Others like rougher play, like clamps, flicking or flogging. Some deem nipples a straight-up no touch zone—and that’s OK. Open communication and experimentation is key.

If you enjoy having your nipples played with, and find the possibility of nipplegasm intriguing, below I’ve included some wonderful pleasure techniques to request from your lover. I’m sure they’ll be happy to oblige:

Use breath. Get close and breathe hot breath across the nipples. Add a sloppy lick of saliva for the wetness then blow on them, which’ll then feel cool and breezy.

Light, gentle fingertip touches. With a feather or light touch, and some saliva, glide up and over nipples, then circle around the areola.

Focus on one nipple at a time. Incorporate a massage on one breast while stimulating the nipple with the other hand. The longer you focus on one nipple at a time, the more likely the elusive nipplegasm will be achieved.

Kiss, lick, and suck with your mouth. Make out with the nipples like you’re giving a french kiss. Wiggle your tongue quickly back and forth. Lap it like dog kisses. Suck each nipple alternatively while massaging the other with your hand and watch your lover become overwhelmed with pleasure.

Slowly drip or drizzle hot candle wax on nipples. Pouring warm wax on the nipples sends waves of intense pleasure straight to your southern region, as the nerves in your nipples are connected to your other erogenous zones. This is why some women can even be triggered to orgasm when breastfeeding.

And here’s some other quick tricks sure to surprise n’ please your lover:

  • Flick the nipples for a hurt-so-good rush, or slap them with a flogger
  • Tap slowly and quickly, or use a vibrator to achieve the same effect
  • Gently squeeze nipples in mini pulses
  • Roll the nipple back and forth gently between the fingers
  • Gently tug and release, then try a squeeze, twist and release

Things to add that can help achieve nipplegasm:

There are many fun and exciting ways to explore nippleplay. Toys, candle wax, lubricant, and a willing partner are great to have, but all you really need is an open mind and some nipples. From there, just go at your own pace to blissfully navigate what’s right for you and those two magical erogenous zones that drive everyone wild.

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The Art of the Tease https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/08/20/the-art-of-the-tease/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/08/20/the-art-of-the-tease/#respond Mon, 20 Aug 2018 22:32:23 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6625 The Art of the Tease

In today’s world we may be accustomed to everything “instant” and “on-demand,” but if there’s one area we guarantee will always remain an exemption, it’s the age-old art of the tease. Sexual tension. Slow burning sensuality. Whatever you want to

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The Art of the Tease

The Art of the Tease

In today’s world we may be accustomed to everything “instant” and “on-demand,” but if there’s one area we guarantee will always remain an exemption, it’s the age-old art of the tease.

Sexual tension. Slow burning sensuality. Whatever you want to call it, this game-changing difference for bedroom bliss is also known as the power of anticipation. But for something that’s been a staple of sexuality for so long, why exactly do we even find it so hot in the first place?

Anticipation = Arousal

Tracing back to the basics of seduction, lesson #1 is that anticipation always raises arousal.

When the heat of a moment starts to supersede a simmer, it’s easy to see where things are likely headed. Yet once everyone starts sensing the ultimate end game on the horizon, what fun is it to jump straight to the finish line?

In times like these, of course you know what your partner wants. So dropping hints to acknowledge exactly where the events are leading can really get those imaginative juices flowing. By planting sensual seeds, your partner’s thoughts will unfold themselves. And before you know it, you’ll find each other hooked down a one-way path of sensual desire.

The Power of Play

Now, like many things in the realm of intimacy, it should come as no surprise that foreplay is key in building up sexual tension.

Of course it’s not that we don’t all love a good quickie now and again, but the fact of the matter is—mental stimulation is just as important as physical. And after all, the brain is our largest and most complex erogenous zone, so giving the TLC it needs (and frankly—deserves!) is the vital first step in mastering a tease that’s sure to please.

When taking the time to get you and your partner warmed up, there’s a certain playful exploration brought into the mix. Starting slow helps set an alluring mood leaving the other wanting so much more. So whether it’s first kissing the body everywhere but where they want most, or playing up some ‘all talk, no action’ antics before finally jumping in, every way to delay the grand finale will only make the eventual release feel more explosive.

Slow & Steady

But above all to keep in mind is the low and slow nature that’s so critical in maintaining the mood as well.

Like a crock pot only sexier, a bona fide tease is not something that can be rushed. By taking the time to properly introduce the super hot string of events to come, everyone’s minds have the chance to marinade on each and every seductive step. Wandering from move to move, filling in all the gaps of climactic potential in between…it’s truly amazing the world of difference a simple change in pace can make.

And while we’re at it, need we even mention the orgasm gap? The dastardly discrepancy never ceases to strike time and time again, so taking an unhurried approach to the foreplay festivities is like knocking out two birds with one sultry stone. Regardless of gender (or pre-existing excitement), everyone can get the time they need to cross the finish while unlocking plenty of experience-heightening sensation along the way.

So despite the fact that waiting for anything nowadays can sometimes feel like a chore, savoring the strides building up to a power-packed orgasm will be anything but regretted in the end. Seductive, slow, and snowballing with climactic suspense—there couldn’t be an artform more deserving of lasting residency in one’s repertoire than that of the classic tease.

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How Orgasm Denial Builds You Up to Better Orgasms https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/08/13/how-orgasm-denial-builds-you-up-to-better-orgasms/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/08/13/how-orgasm-denial-builds-you-up-to-better-orgasms/#respond Mon, 13 Aug 2018 22:12:25 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6594 How Orgasm Denial Builds You Up to Better Orgasms

Orgasm denial can be an intensely cruel game, yet it can also be so excitingly erotic. It will take your orgasms to the next level—if you’re ever allowed to have one that is (I told you it was cruel). You

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How Orgasm Denial Builds You Up to Better Orgasms

How Orgasm Denial Builds You Up to Better Orgasms

Orgasm denial can be an intensely cruel game, yet it can also be so excitingly erotic. It will take your orgasms to the next level—if you’re ever allowed to have one that is (I told you it was cruel).

You see, orgasm denial is the practice of being sexually stimulated, but then having the stimulation stop suddenly, and the orgasm denied. Oftentimes, you won’t be the one controlling this. Whether or not you orgasm will be in the hands of your dominant lover.

The Three Main Types of Orgasm Denial

Complete denial is the practice of sexually stimulating and playing with your partner, but never allowing them to orgasm. This can take place over the course of hours, days or even months.

Edging is very similar to orgasm denial, but the ‘denied’ person is actually allowed to orgasm at some point.

Ruined orgasm is when one is stimulated to the point of orgasm, but then stimulation stops mid-orgasm, making it ‘incomplete’ and physically less satisfying for the receiver.

The Benefits

Orgasm denial adds an erotic element of powerplay to your sexual explorations, especially in BDSM communities. By withholding an orgasm, the dom has complete power over the pleasure their partner will receive, and if they ever get to orgasm. The sub enjoys and gets off on the fact they have no control and are in the hands of their dom on what they will or will not receive. Hence, a power exchange.

It’s a great practice if you’re looking to enhance your orgasm control. Your pelvic floor muscles are what contract involuntarily during orgasm. So the more you edge at your orgasm’s tip, the more your pelvic floor muscles are being pumped and exercised. This also keeps your orgasm muscles active and healthy. With more orgasm control, you can learn to last longer, and even learn how to orgasm on command.

This technique is also a great character builder. It teaches you to be patient and gives you the ability to savor the pleasure you do receive. Because when—and if—you finally do orgasm, the explosive release is unparalleled.

Lastly, the practice of orgasm denial can lead to bigger, better and more frequent orgasms. By withholding orgasm for a prolonged time period, the built up sensations lead to an even more explosive release. Who wouldn’t want that? Maybe it’s time you give it a try?

Orgasm Denial Experimentation

The easiest way to experiment with orgasm denial is through masturbation. Set goals to edge yourself up to orgasm say 3-5 times when you’re starting out. So don’t let yourself come until you’ve almost reached orgasm, paused, then restarted. Vary that as you become more comfortable and want to play even more.

With a partner, enjoy mutual-masturbation with edging. Make it a fun game: see who can last the longest receiving pleasure before reaching that point of no return. Whoever orgasms first, loses!

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Womanizer Deluxe—Orgasm denial via clitoral stimulation is very popular. The Womanizer Deluxe’s unique air-suction technology is designed specially to please the clitoris. And with its super easy-to-use buttons, you can quickly and comfortably switch between the lowest and highest settings, making it the perfect edgeplay accessory.

Le Wand Premium Massager—For those who are into powerplay, this is the epitome of power when it comes to vibrators. Known as the Cadillac of Vibrators, Le Wand is the strongest you can get. If your sub loves a lot of power, then this vibrator that won’t disappoint.

Rocking G Rabbit—Explore edgeplay with triple-stimulation using the Rocking G rabbit vibe. It offers the nice feeling of fullness, with a “self-stroking” G-spot tip and individual vibrating clit tickler. Wow. Now you can control each vibrating pleasure independently and get creative with edging your partner. Switch between G-spot and clitoral action, turn them both on at the same time, or make a fun pattern!

Butterfly Remote Venus Penis—This remote-controlled device gives your partner all the power. Simply insert the wearable vibrator, and hand over the remote, then be a good sub and enjoy the pleasures to come.

Pocket Pulse Penis Vibe—This next-gen penis vibrator offers two unique oscillating motors, and wraps snuggly around his penis. Its unique design allows for hands-free pleasure too! The Pocket Pulse will oscillate on one of his hot spots, the frenulum, or glide it up and down his shaft, stroking him til he’s at the edge.

Satisfyer Air-Pressure Penis Pleaser—Better than a regular handjob, use this masturbator to stroke him until he’s close to climax. Then remove it to show him who’s really the boss.

There’s no denying that orgasm denial isn’t for everyone. It takes a lot of patience to endure such a humbling experience. But, as you learned above, there are many benefits, including more powerful— and better control over—orgasms. And hey, who doesn’t want better orgasms?

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This Intimate Sex Position Brings Couples Closer Together https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/08/07/this-intimate-sex-position-brings-couples-closer-together/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/08/07/this-intimate-sex-position-brings-couples-closer-together/#respond Tue, 07 Aug 2018 21:26:43 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6577 This Intimate Sex Position Brings Couples Closer Together

There’s a sex position out there which is not like the rest. It’s been handed down by sexual gurus and has been perfected through the ages to become what many consider the most intimate position created. If you’re a fan

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This Intimate Sex Position Brings Couples Closer Together

This Intimate Sex Position Brings Couples Closer Together

There’s a sex position out there which is not like the rest. It’s been handed down by sexual gurus and has been perfected through the ages to become what many consider the most intimate position created. If you’re a fan of closeness and effortless orgasms like most of us are, I highly recommend the Lotus Position.

This position takes your passion beyond traditional girl-on-top positions because you’re straddling your man while you’re both sitting up, which provides a world of intimacy and touch at your fingertips.

With the face-to-face juxtaposition, you can connect in deeply intimate ways. how to climax together during intercourseYou can comfortably kiss and make-out, stare intensely into each other’s eyes without losing contact, caress hair, hug tightly, and even whisper sweet nothings into each other’s ears. It also offers more yummy skin-to-skin contact, and you can fully embrace each other, which is difficult to do in other positions.

While some positions lend themselves perfectly for full penis in-and-out thrusting, the Lotus is excellent for receiving him fully and deeply inside, while also being able to gyrate your hips, to stimulate those hard-to-reach sweet spots. It’s ideal for slow, sensual lovemaking and more for your enjoyment than his.

Lotus allows him to ‘thumb’ your clitoris in Figure 8 strokes while you sensually gyrate. A tried-n-true way to achieve orgasm while enjoying intercourse.

It’s also perfect for G-spot play. Not only will you feel your G-spot being stroked, but he can also enhance that by gently pushing inward on your lower abdomen (with 3-4 flats of his fingertips side-by-side) at the same time. This action will put more pressure against G-spot from the outside. Think of the G-spot as now getting “squeezed” between his penis head on the inside, and the pressure he’s putting from the outside.

By now, you’ve probably had enough of the foreplay, and want me to Dr. Sadie's Top 5 Positions for G-spot Strokingdivulge how to experience this yummy position. It’s very much like traditional Cowgirl, where you’re on top of him. With the Lotus, he’s sitting up, and your legs are wrapped around his waist. Prop pillows behind him against the bed’s headboard for comfortable support. He sits with legs crossed (or straight out if that’s more comfortable for him). Then you gently mount him, so you’re face-to-face, slide him deep inside, and wrap your legs around him. Bingo, you’re in Lotus. Now enjoy all that grinding friction action on your vulva and clitoris!

Note, make sure you’re tucked tight up against him so you’re not leaning back putting weight on his legs or feet/ankles, which can hurt. If you tend to start moving back with motion, ask him to hold you tight around your butt to help keep you in place.

Intensity tip: after mounting him, arch your back a little so your vulva and clitoris shift forward and lay flat against his lower abdomen and pelvis (like CAT). Once you’re both perfectly positioned, gyrate and grind against him in small circles, and feel the orgasmic rush of pleasure from the sensitive nerve endings of your clitoris and inner vulva being stimulated. Ask him to grab your hips tightly, and to help you gyrate—the extra strength and speed he can offer can do wonders for your orgasmic pleasure and make the difference between getting “oh so close” to “YA-HOOO!”

So if it’s intimacy, orgasms, and a little more control you’re after, The Lotus Position will treat you and your lover very well. The best part is, you’ll be able to see the look on your lover’s face to witness how much he enjoys it. I’m sure he’ll love it just as much as you will.

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Popular Fetishes and the Origins Behind Them https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/08/06/popular-fetishes-and-the-origins-behind-them/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/08/06/popular-fetishes-and-the-origins-behind-them/#respond Mon, 06 Aug 2018 21:23:36 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6559 Popular Fetishes and the Origins Behind Them

Everyone has a fetish, whether they admit it or not. And though some are more ‘open’ in their explorations than others, the fact is there’s a place for everyone across the dynamic spectrum of kink. In a nutshell, “fetish” is

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Popular Fetishes and the Origins Behind Them

Popular Fetishes and the Origins Behind Them

Everyone has a fetish, whether they admit it or not. And though some are more ‘open’ in their explorations than others, the fact is there’s a place for everyone across the dynamic spectrum of kink.

In a nutshell, “fetish” is best defined as an object, body part or act that gets someone aroused—regardless if a partner is present and/or involved. About 549 of them exist, and research has found they’re a lot more common than some would believe.

So where exactly do fetishes even come from in the first place? While there may not be token proof, both science and history have a few theories.

Not Just For Dogs

Some scientists have believed for decades that fetishes can develop from Fetish Funthe association of a stimulant or experience with arousal. This is called the Pavlovian theory. Since sex is one big connection between mind and body anyway, the idea that repeat exposure incites excitement that mentally sticks has long been both a popular and plausible school of thought.

Childhood Strikes Again

Another prevailing theory is the idea of early exposure. If someone has a sexual experience during or around puberty, many believe it’s more likely to stay with us as we grow older. Like anything else, we grow alongside our sexual behaviors, so memorable moments that occur as we first become aware of our own sexuality could very well have the potential to imprint your mind for years to come.

Nature’s Choice

And of course there’s also the fact it could just be to each their own! Since there’s such a wide range of sexual fantasy among us, it’s definitely possible fetishes could just be another layer of natural diversity. Everyone has their own unique taste and personality traits, so some could just be inherently more susceptible (and easily excitable) than others.

But overall theory is one thing—where do the most popular fetishes come from?

BDSM

Since the dawn of time, bondage has often topped the list of most popular sexual fantasies. So it’s not too hard to believe BDSM has had a place in the zeitgeist long before the likes of Christian Grey.

BDSM practices have been found in some of the oldest records on the planet. The Mesopotamians, Greeks, Romans, Japanese, Etruscans—you name it! Human civilization has been full of freaks since forever, so everything from power play and ritualistic flagellation, to being beaten and bound for pleasure have had their place in the history books for ages…just maybe not the ones we had growing up.

Foot Fetish

Whether it’s high heels or the foot itself, research has shown feet and toes How to Share Sexual Fantasies with a Partnertake the cake for most lusted after body parts. But in reality, foot fetishes dates back to the early 1200s when people were afraid of catching the plague (i.e. STDs) from sexual acts. As a solution, they opted to start experimenting in the “safer” territory of foot worship, which society has taken and ran with ever since.

Voyeurism/Exhibitionism

Humans have also always been captivated by nudity and the sexuality of others, so the prevalence of orgies and sex parties throughout history should come as no surprise as well. In addition to its place in art and literature, displays of sexuality have played significant roles in cultures throughout the world since the days of Ancient Egypt, Greece and Rome.

From then on it’s spread like wildfire, carrying on in many forms like sex clubs, live shows and pop culture’s obsession with threesomes. And not to mention its most obvious incarnation since the invention of motion picture—porn! Need we really say more?

If there’s one thing many psychologists can agree on in the end, it’s that fetishes are a healthy, perfectly normal thing to have (as long as they’re carried out between consenting, adult partners). So whether you’re well versed or are still exploring, we all can at least relish in the fact there will never be a shortage of ways to keep things spicy.

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Phylicia, Manuel, and Portia walked out of the stadium arm in arm after graduation practice. “Our last time together,” Phylicia sighed. “Our parents all arrive tomorrow. As soon as graduation’s over, we take off to different parts of the country.

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The Champagne Trio

The Champagne Trio

Phylicia, Manuel, and Portia walked out of the stadium arm in arm after graduation practice.

“Our last time together,” Phylicia sighed. “Our parents all arrive tomorrow. As soon as graduation’s over, we take off to different parts of the country. I’m going to miss you guys like crazy.”

“Me, too,” the others echoed as they wrapped each other in a group hug.

“In that case, we need to have a proper going away party,” Manuel said as he broke away and slipped under a temporary tent they were passing. He emerged with three champagne bottles. “The VIP reception tonight. The bartender’s a friend of mine. He even gave us chilled ones.”

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Once they got to Portia’s room, they plopped onto her bed, opened the champagne, and reminisced about their four years together. In no time, they were finished with the second bottle—and feeling the effects.

Manuel stopped in the middle of refilling the glasses with bottle number three. “Do you realize that all the stories we’ve been telling are about how hard we worked? Is that all we ever did?”

“Yup,” Phylicia took a sip. “But that’s what we had to do to end up in top grad schools. Why? Do you have regrets?”

He studied the bubbles in his champagne glass and frowned. “To be honest. Yeah.” He turned towards his friends. “You guys?”

Portia shrugged her shoulders. “Sure. But it’s normal to wonder what was going on at all those parties we missed—and what might have happened if we went.”

“Me too,” admitted Phylicia. “I wouldn’t have done things differently, but I wonder.” Then her face lit up. “Hey!” She held up her glass. “I propose that as part of the final gathering of the Three Musketeers, we do something outrageous. This way we’ll have at least one story about our ‘wild college top 12 Sexual Fantasies Women Crave Mostyears.’”

The trio cheered and clinked their glasses.

“Great idea,” said Portia. “I vote for getting really drunk.”

Phylicia laughed and put her arm around her. “You’re already really drunk, Sweetie. Something else.” Then a naughty glint appeared in her eyes. “I know. We each write down something that’s over-the-top and scandalous. Something really shocking—not at all like us. We put our ideas in a hat and pull one out. Everybody promises ahead of time that no matter what it says, we do it. And we never ask whose suggestion it was.”

They eyed each other with uncharacteristically naughty smirks.

“I’m in,” said Portia.

“Me too,” echoed Manuel.

Phylicia handed out sheets of paper. “Just make it really wild. Remember, this is our ‘no regrets’ moment. So, what shocking thing should the three of us do to cap off our days here?”

As each finished, they folded up the paper and put it in Manuel’s blue cap. Phylicia picked it up and held it out in front of Portia. “What’s our fate, Sweetie?”

She closed her eyes, reached in, and took one of the slips. She opened it and giggled. “If I weren’t so drunk, I’d be embarrassed. But champagne has this weird effect on me. Fuck it.” She took a deep breath. “This was mine. But I’m not going to read it out loud. You’re going to think I’m a freak anyway. Why humiliate myself even more?”

“Ooo, this must be juicy.” Phylicia snatched it away. She looked at it and her eyebrows went up. “This is yours?”

Portia pulled a blanket over her head. “That’s it. Rub it in. I’m a secret sex fiend.”

“That’s not what I’m saying. This is mine.”

“No. It’s mine. You don’t think I know my own dirty fantasy?” she giggled.

Manuel took the slip out of Phylicia’s hand. “What’s with you guys?” He read the paper and frowned. “I don’t know what you’re arguing about, this was my idea.”

Phylicia grabbed the hat. “This makes no sense.” She dumped out the remaining pieces of paper, opened them, placed them beside each other, and added the one in Manuel’s hand.

The three of them just stared at the pieces of paper with their mouths open. They all said the same thing: ‘What should we do? Each other! Because I’ve never been with a woman.’

They were stunned. The two women looked at each other.

“Really?”

“You too?”

“Holy shit!”

Then they looked at Manuel. “What can I say? I lied before. I was embarrassed to admit I was a still a virgin.”

They all burst out laughing and hugged one another. Fortunately, with everyone’s inhibitions washed away by the bubbles, they wasted no time enthusiastically getting each other naked.

Manuel and Portia yanked off Phylicia’s t-shirt, bra, and yoga pants.

“No panties! You slut!” teased Portia.

“Miss I’ve-been-secretly-lusting- after-my-BFF is calling me a slut? That’s a laugh.” Phylicia playfully shoved Portia back onto her back. She pushed her short red skirt up over her hips, and roared when she saw the writing on the panties. ‘If you lick it, it will cum.’ “Who’s the slut now?” As she pulled down the white cotton, a shaved and moistening pussy revealed itself. “I’ve dreamt about this! I’m in heaven.” In an instant, she dove between her friend’s legs and set off a cascade of deep, passionate moans.

As Portia squirmed against her lover’s hungry mouth, Manuel pulled off her tight, midriff baring top. Leaning over, he kissed her breasts and sucked her hard, pink nipples. She moaned even more. When Phylicia tongue-fucked her and Manuel ran his teeth against her nipples, she rocketed to a climax. “Oh, fuck!” she screamed. “Oh fuck! OH FUCK!”

After her body stopped vibrating, she reached down and pulled Phylicia on top of her. “I’ve always loved you, but I was afraid of doing that.”

“Me too, Sweetie,” she replied tenderly. “But before we give Manuel the impression that we don’t love him as much as we love each other, I think we have a virgin to deflower.”

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The look on Manuel’s face said he couldn’t believe his good fortune.

Giggling the whole time, the girls stripped off his shirt, slacks, and briefs. As his large cock sprang up, both girls said, “Oh my!” at the same time and exchanged naughty smiles.

“You lucky devil, Manuel. You are going to make any number of women deliriously happy. Starting with us!” She turned to Phylicia. “How do we decide who goes first?”

“Higher GPA?”

“Seems fair. Yours?”

“4.0 As perfect as my tits.” Phylicia caressed them as she winked at Manuel.

“Hold on there, sister. You forgot about my A+ in Calculus. 4.01. But don’t worry. Since his dick has no mileage on it, he’ll be able to give both of us a ride.” Sitting back on her heels, she turned to Manuel. “So, Romeo, what’s your pl—”

In one remarkable move, he leapt towards her, wrapped his arms around her, pushed her on to the mattress, and penetrated her. “Oh my God!” he yelled. The two of them let out deep, passionate groans. They kissed deeply as he pounded relentlessly into her.

“Oh, Manuel! Give it to me, baby! Give me that big, hard cock!” She wrapped her legs around him and pulled him deeper. Guttural, passionate, rough, hungry sounds came out of her mouth.

The couple writhed away like two animals in heat. Their bodies now coated with sweat, the scent of their furious coupling filled the room. To no one’s surprise, Manuel exploded quickly. “Oh my God! Oh Fuck! OH FUCK!”

Rolling off his partner onto the mattress, he looked at her sheepishly. “Sorry. I just couldn’t hold back. That was fucking amazing! I’ll make it up to you.”

“I’ll hold you to that, Bucko. But first we need to give Phylicia a taste of that great cock.” She slid down and sucked his dick. He was hard again in no time.

The third musketeer needed no urging. She straddled the young man and slowly slid down the stiff, veined penis. She luxuriated in its size. “Oh my God!” When she had it completely inside her, she moaned deeply. “Fuck, Manuel!”

Portia winked. “See what I mean?” Then, eyeing her friend mounted on the5 Tips for a Successful Threesome young stud, she said lustily, “I think Manuel deserves a treat for what he’s giving us.” Straddling him and facing Phylicia, she lowered herself so her pussy was in reach of his mouth. “You get to pleasure both of us at the same time, Stud. First time out of the gate, and you get a real-life threesome with a pair of sexy sluts.”

“Holy shit! You guys are fucking awesome!” He wrapped his arms around her legs, pulled her lips against his mouth, and sucked her sopping pussy.

Pleasure filled the girls’ faces as they squirmed against him. They mirrored each other as they played with their tits and rubbed their clits. The room filled with totally incomprehensible, animalistic, moans and grunts.

After a while, Portia raised herself and moved off. “So that Phylicia gets the full effect of that great cock of yours, Manuel, you need to fuck her brains out.”

Needing no further encouragement, he roughly pulled his partner against him, wrapped his arms around her so they’d stay joined, and flipped them over. He pinned her arms about her head and penetrated her, over and over. With every thrust, the two of them grunted.

“Jesus, Manuel! You are so big! Fuck me! Fill me up! FUCK ME HARD!”

Responding with a Neanderthal growl, he banged into her without mercy.

“Jesus, Manuel! So good! God! Fuck me, baby! FUCK ME!” Moments later, her body tensed, then erupted. “OH MANUEL! OH GOD!”

Once Phylicia’s body stopped shaking and she’d caught her breath, she turned to Manuel. “Holy shit, Manuel. You’re amazing. And don’t take this the wrong way, but now that I’ve had some cock,” she giggled, “I’m craving some pussy.”

The two girls lay down beside each other and kissed tenderly. They stroked, fondled, caressed, and licked every part of each other’s body. The growing intensity showed on their faces. Portia settled between her lover’s legs and feasted on her juicy, ruby labia. “You have the most delicious pussy, Sweetie.”

“Oh, Portia. I’m glad this is finally happening.”

After a few minutes, Portia sat back on her heels. “I want to watch you when you come.” She pressed Phylicia’s legs apart, slid two fingers into her pussy, and began working her clit with her other hand.

As her lover’s body tightened, she closed her eyes. “Christ, Sweetie! That’s it! Right there! Just like that!”

Portia kept up a slow, steady rhythm.

“Oh shit! I’m going to come! Oh shit! I’m coming!” Her face contorted even more. “I’M COMING! I’M COMING! I’M COMING!” She fisted the sheets hard as her back arched. “OH GOD!” As ecstasy tore through her, her body shook.

*

The trio were so drenched with sweat and sexy juices, they squeezed into Portia’s shower and rinsed off. Back on the bed, they picked up their champagne glasses. Manuel had a naughty smirk on his face. “Next year’s reunion?” They exchanged knowing looks and clinked glasses.

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These Pre-Foreplay Touches Take Lovemaking to the Next Level https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/08/01/these-preforeplay-touches-take-lovemaking-to-the-next-level/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/08/01/these-preforeplay-touches-take-lovemaking-to-the-next-level/#respond Wed, 01 Aug 2018 21:31:30 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6516 These PreForeplay Touches Take Lovemaking to the Next Level

You know all those things you should be doing before sex? Like kissing, and touching, and all that other sexy stuff called foreplay? (Which I hope you make lots of time for). Well, there’s some other important things I recommend

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These PreForeplay Touches Take Lovemaking to the Next Level

These PreForeplay Touches Take Lovemaking to the Next Level

You know all those things you should be doing before sex? Like kissing, and touching, and all that other sexy stuff called foreplay? (Which I hope you make lots of time for). Well, there’s some other important things I recommend you try before you even begin foreplay fun. Let’s call it foreplay before the foreplay, or pre-foreplay. I know, it sounds pretty awesome.

Just when you thought sex couldn’t get any better, these thoughtful pre-game touches may take lovemaking to the next level. So please consider the ideas below, and feel free to give these ideas your own creative twist, as no one would be better suited to plan out what will make his jaw drop.

Sensual Prep

Soothe your skin. Skip the Jergens and reach for Almond Oil to lather up with. It’s great for your skin, giving you a natural glow, while making you smell heavenly and feel delicious in his arms.

Add a dash of Vanilla. It’s one of the sexiest scents, and has been proven to drive men wild. Dab some in unexpected hot spots like your cleavage, nipples, navel, and inner thighs. The sultry scent on your erogenous zones will surely be a pleasant surprise.

Mental Prep

Stimulate the biggest sex organ of all—the Brain. Try reading some titillating literature like “5-Minute Erotica” together in bed—out loud. You may be surprised at how arousing that can be.

Get flirty. Try flirting throughout the day so you’ll both be hot from the minute you see each other. Send naughty sexts or voice-messages like “I’m dying to please you tonight,” and, “I love how you touch my ____.” Or, go saucier with, “I want you in my mouth,” and “I’m going to leave you exhausted tonight, baby.”

Physical Prep

Touch yourself. Take some you time before date night begins, by teasing, caressing and exciting yourself. This will get you nice and aroused for when the magical moment comes. But don’t go all the way—edge yourself and play just enough to get your cheeks rosy and your juices flowing.

Be Adventurous

Buy a new sex toy and lube. If you’re new to toys, I recommend The Wave couple’s orgasm ring. It’s easy on the eyes, perfect to use together during lovemaking, can give women amazing orgasms—and sometimes simultaneously with your lover!

Remember, it doesn’t take much to make a huge difference in the bedroom. It’s all the little things that make sex extraordinary, and I have a sneaking suspicion that the above ideas, along with a few of your own, will get you there perfectly. Meoow!

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Why Foreplay is Everything In the Bedroom https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/07/27/why-foreplay-is-everything-in-the-bedroom/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/07/27/why-foreplay-is-everything-in-the-bedroom/#respond Fri, 27 Jul 2018 20:29:10 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6495 Why Foreplay Is Everything in the Bedroom

You wouldn’t bake a cake before preheating the oven, or skip ahead to the last page of a book—so when it comes to sex, foreplay is an essential part of the recipe. When kicking off a budding fling or new

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Why Foreplay Is Everything in the Bedroom

Why Foreplay Is Everything in the Bedroom

You wouldn’t bake a cake before preheating the oven, or skip ahead to the last page of a book—so when it comes to sex, foreplay is an essential part of the recipe.

When kicking off a budding fling or new relationship, things like kissing, touching and everything else to help set the mood are second nature. With the fire alive and a super hot escapade on the horizon, all steps of foreplay come with exploring a new connection; but as things often move to a more comfortable state of being, savoring the appetizer can sometimes go by the wayside of the entree expected time and time again.

So here’s why that’s a problem

Efficiency is great when it comes to business and doing laundry, but in the intimate moment it can be a real buzzkill. Thanks to research and insight that’s brought the infamous orgasm gap to light, it goes without saying certain parties will notice a bigger difference in satisfaction than others when cutting straight to the sensual chase.

Of course guys can go zero to sixty at the drop of a heated hat, but biology says gals need a bit more time (and stimulation) to get in the zone. And for something that’s arguably just as important to one’s experience as the actual sex itself, it’s no wonder foreplay is the true ticket to heightened elation.

Preparation is everything

By setting the stage with a sultry sesh of pre-sex festivities, you’re able to prepare the mind as well as the body for the climactic action to come. Orgasm is just as much a mental process as it is a physical one (especially when it comes to the female body), so lining up all the needed elements is absolutely essential.

Stimulation is key when it comes to experiencing pleasure. So when guys require getting hard on the outside, it’s not always as apparent that gals need the same reaction…just internally.

Arousing clitoral nerve endings results in the flow of blood and lubrication that helps sexual encounters feel enjoyable. And since upwards of 80% of women struggle with orgasming from intercourse alone, survey says that 17 minutes of foreplay needed on average isn’t just an Internet myth.

And best part is—it doesn’t have to start in the bedroom itself!

The most basic form of foreplay is flirting, which can be done anywhere at (almost) any time. The simplest acts of hugging, kissing and talking dirty can really turn up the heat—beginning however early in the game you’d like! Sure, we traditionally think of foreplay as leading right into bedroom business, but our dirty little secret is stringing out the tease.

The lower and slower you’re able to extend the allure, the better and more powerful of an end product you’re able to have.

Which leads to the ultimate lubrication…

And when communication’s on point, that can really make all the difference.

It’s one thing to go for the most obvious erogenous zones, but another to pay attention and intuitively hit all the right spots of your partner’s dreams.

By talking and keying into your other half’s natural reactions, you can explore each other’s bodies and desires to discover what really gets them going. And by keeping every element of touch, sound and visuals in the mix, you have a sure-fire recipe for sexy success.

We know it, we love it, we need it—so next time you find yourself tangled between the sheets, think twice before you cut foreplay from the erotic agenda.

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15 Steamy Sex Ideas That’ll Make Your Summer Even Hotter https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/07/25/15-steamy-sex-ideas-thatll-make-your-summer-even-hotter/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/07/25/15-steamy-sex-ideas-thatll-make-your-summer-even-hotter/#comments Wed, 25 Jul 2018 20:31:58 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6472 15 Steamy Sex Ideas That Will Make Your Summer Even Hotter

Our philosophy: As summer days and nights heat up, so should your sex life. The season is a fleeting, vibrant time when you can take advantage of the weather—and the free, fun feeling that comes with it—to get some action. So pack

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15 Steamy Sex Ideas That Will Make Your Summer Even Hotter

15 Steamy Sex Ideas That Will Make Your Summer Even Hotter

Our philosophy: As summer days and nights heat up, so should your sex life. The season is a fleeting, vibrant time when you can take advantage of the weather—and the free, fun feeling that comes with it—to get some action.

So pack away your winter sex routine with your sweaters and boots, and give these creative summer sex ideas a try, from flamingo pool floats to rocket pops and boardwalks.

Go Commando

If you’re feeling extra frisky, try donning your denim shorts and flirty sundresses without underwear, says Gina Yannotta, professional matchmaker and COO of The Vida Consultancy. “Not only will you feel instantly sexier, but your partner will start squirming the moment you whisper in his/her ear about your certain lack of undergarments.”

Reduce Body Contact During Sex

Changing up positions is a great (and kinky) way to keep cool in the heat. Instead of positions that maximize body contact, like missionary or spoons, switch to those that minimize it, like cowgirl, doggie style or oral sex.

Have Sex on the Beach

Summer’s the time to realize this fantasy, if you’ve ever wondered about it (and who hasn’t?). “It could be a romantic rendezvous on an empty, moonlit stretch of sand, or a cheekier daylight romp hidden from the sight of nearby beachgoers,” says Yannotta. “For some beach-themed foreplay, give some frisky massaging as you work sunscreen into every inch of each other’s bodies.” Just, uh, make sure you don’t get any inside you, because ouch.

Make a Summer Sex Pact

Agree that with every barbecue, wedding, or event you attend together, Just Add Eroticayou’ll find a way to sneak off and get it on. Tiptoe away from the scene and fool around wherever you can, whether it’s a steamy make-out or a furtive quickie. You’ll both anticipate it from the moment you walk into the party, making everything more exciting.

Play Strip Checkers

You might not think of a rainy-day game like checkers as foreplay, but here’s how you can use it to get in the mood. Write the names of outer garments like shirts, pants, etc., on half of the black squares, and underwear garments on half of the red squares. “When a person lands on a square, the other person removes the designated garment—from themselves or the other person; you decide,” says Cardyn Brooks, erotic fiction writer.

Give (and Get) Some Road Trip Action

The next time you’re both in the car heading to the beach or a camping trip, try having the passenger pleasure the driver—carefully. Don’t let them take their eyes off the road, but get creative. If it’s not oral, maybe it’s a little hand or finger action that teases them and gets them excited to get to your destination—or even pull over and take a pit stop for a quickie. But we’ll repeat: Safety first. If you think you or your partner isn’t the multitasking type who can enjoy a little pleasure while also staying alert on the road, please skip this one.

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Experiment with Cool Sensations

Ice pops, ice cubes, ice cream … rubbing or dripping them all over your partner or even using a sex toy that’s been in the freezer for a while can give all the right kinds of goosebumps. It also brings a lovely, cooling twist to sex on a hot day.

Plan a Sexy Camping Trip

Camping is a great way to get the feeling of sex in public, but with the privacy and comfort of a tent. A spot by a river can allow you to enjoy that relaxing sound of flowing water, too. Be sure to find a secluded spot, bring comfy pillows and sleeping bags, an air mattress if you want some extra padding, bug spray, and everything you need to clean up afterward.

Get (Safely) Busy on the Beach

The secret to better, more comfortable sex on the sand: spreading out a bed sheet rather than a beach towel. There’s a lot less loose sand to worry about, and it’s harder to see what you’re up to from a distance. That’s because you can build up a little wall around you. The feeling of the sand underneath you and the sound of the crashing waves makes for a great time.

Try Fun, Frisky Inflatables

Take skinny-dipping to the next level by incorporating a pool raft or tube. Lie on the raft on your stomach and let your bottom half hang loose with your legs floating behind you. Have your partner grab your thighs or ankles and enter you from behind in wheelbarrow or doggy-style pose, or simply use their fingers to give you some pleasure in the water.

Play Kinky Twister

There’s something about summer that brings out the kid in all of us. Take Sex and Cannabis - A Newcomer's Intro to Higher Orgasmsthe classic game Twister and heat it up a notch. “Use a marker to write solitary actions—like, ‘take off shirt’—on the red circles; couple interactions like ‘give 2-minute back massage’ on the blue circles; intimate questions like ‘what’s the most public place you’ve ever screwed?’ on the yellow circles; and yoga positions on the green circles,” says Brooks. You’ll likely find yourself naked and twisted up with your partner in no time.

Take a Cold Shower Together

“During other seasons, showering together can be a logistical nightmare of trying—and usually failing—to keep warm, but during summer you can sit back and chill together, talking, making out, and appreciating each other’s bodies as you cool down under the nozzle,” says Yannotta.

Lick Jell-O Off Each Other’s Bodies

It might sound a little cheesy, but Jell-O is a classic summer dessert and can be used to slurp off of each other’s bodies. “Put some in your mouth before you lick your partner’s nipples or give them oral so they can enjoy the squishy, silky texture,” suggests Sadie Allison, Ph.D., founder of TickleKitty.com sex toy boutique and author. Just don’t use too much before oral sex—we’re talking no more than a teaspoon, just enough to give a little flavor—because the sugar could risk throwing off vaginal pH and even leading to an infection if you use much more.

Use Fans to Give You Frissons

Grab a fan or three and let them blow while you get busy. Super-breezy sex will feel like an entirely new experience. If you have a larger floor fan and are feeling crafty, you can also tie a light sheet to the end of it to get air flowing under the covers.

Pack Extra Lube

Sex under water washes away your natural lubrication, says Allison. “It doesn’t act as actual vaginal lubrication, as many people think. So it’s a good idea to be prepared and pack some lube, no matter where your sexcursions take you.”


This article was originally published on Stylecaster.


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The Kissing Technique You Should Try On Your Girl Tonight https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/07/24/the-kissing-technique-you-should-try-on-your-girl-tonight/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/07/24/the-kissing-technique-you-should-try-on-your-girl-tonight/#respond Tue, 24 Jul 2018 22:00:17 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6455 The Kissing Technique You Should Try On Your Girl Tonight

It’s often said that a woman can decide who they’ll fall in love with based on the magic they feel from the first kiss—no pressure, fellas! In fact, many women believe kissing is more intimate than intercourse. Time to listen

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The Kissing Technique You Should Try On Your Girl Tonight

The Kissing Technique You Should Try On Your Girl Tonight

It’s often said that a woman can decide who they’ll fall in love with based on the magic they feel from the first kiss—no pressure, fellas! In fact, many women believe kissing is more intimate than intercourse. Time to listen closely, because I’m about to teach those lips of yours some new tricks.

First, you can’t go wrong with tried-and-true techniques like wet, gentle pecks, sucking and biting her lips, sensual tongue swipes and neck suckles. These are scrumptious ways to create a mutually awesome kissing experience that can easily get juices-a-flowing. But to take her kissing experience to new heights, I recommend incorporating the elements of surprise, mental titillation and touch.

I call this trick “The Tongue Lover” and I have a good feeling it’s going to do more than make her mouth water:

After a good amount of warm up kissing when everything’s hot and steamy, and you’re both ready to head to the next level, place your hand tenderly on her cheek and swiftly suck her entire bottom lip into your mouth—use your suction to hold it there.

With her bottom lip snug inside your mouth, use the tip of your tongue to tickle, swirl and lick her bottom lip. Lick in circles and figure eights, go real slow, then speed it up. Spend a good 10 seconds tongue-teasing this area of her mouth.

While you’re teasing away, let your other hand travel south and ever-so-gently cup her entire vulva in the palm of your hand, and lightly knead and squeeze it, teasing her silly as you lick her lip inside your mouth. Observe her uncontrollable reaction to your simultaneous kiss and touch. You should feel her breathing getting stronger about now.

Next, slowly release her lip from your mouth and immediately look into her eyes and whisper in her ear, “That’s how I’m going to pleasure your clitoris next.” Then pull away while still gazing into her eyes and stay locked. Enjoy her blushing with excitement.

That, my eager pleasers, is The Tongue Lover. And whether you’re looking to make a whopping first impression or to spice things up with your lover, it’s definitely something to make her lips smack with joy. Just don’t be surprised if her mouth wants to kiss you somewhere other than your lips afterwards.

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Shocking Sex Statistics—How Does Your Bedroom Game Compare? https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/07/20/shocking-sex-statistics-how-does-your-bedroom-game-compare/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/07/20/shocking-sex-statistics-how-does-your-bedroom-game-compare/#respond Fri, 20 Jul 2018 23:10:47 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6429 Shocking Sex Statistics–How Does Your Bedroom Game Compare?

If there’s one thing people are dying to know, it’s whether they’re “normal” compared to everyone else.  And for something as complicated as sex, it’s hard to even say there’s such thing as a standard. But regardless of how you

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Shocking Sex Statistics–How Does Your Bedroom Game Compare?

Shocking Sex Statistics–How Does Your Bedroom Game Compare?

If there’s one thing people are dying to know, it’s whether they’re “normal” compared to everyone else.  And for something as complicated as sex, it’s hard to even say there’s such thing as a standard. But regardless of how you phrase it, everyone loves a good sensual stat, so here are just a few of our fave’s to see how your game may (or may not) rank among the average:

Firsts

How old are people when they had their first orgasm?

One of life’s greatest rights of passages tends to happen all across the maturity map. Research has shown ages 17-19 is when 27% of people experienced their first orgasm, followed by 19% experiencing orgasm at ages 14-16, and 18% at 20-24. And unsurprisingly enough, the smallest reported group was ages less than 11 years old coming in at 9.5%, but hey—to each their own.

How old are most people when they lose their virginity? 

When it’s just plain and simple intercourse, the average age of first-time males is 16.8 years old, and for females 17.2, according to the Kinsey Institute.

Masturbation

How often do people masturbate? 

Whether flicking the bean or wanking one off, men and women both find bliss in the pleasure-packed pastime of masturbation. A 2016 study by Japanese toy company TENGA revealed 95% of males and 81% of females admit to having masturbated at some point in their lifetime. On average, they found men masturbated around 15 times per month, and women around 8 times per month; as well as singles doing so 16 times per month, in contrast to couples at 10 times per month.

Why do most people masturbate?

(As if we need a reason) That same TENGA research revealed the most common goal 59% of people cited for masturbating is purely to relieve sexual tension. Closely behind, 56% of the group also credited it to sexual pleasure, 54% said for relaxation/stress relief, and last but not least 26% showed their love for it in order to help fall asleep.

Orgasms

How frequently do people orgasm?

It comes as no surprise that men typically orgasm more than women (during sex, at least), but how exactly does that break down? According to a nationwide study, 95% of heterosexual men reported ‘usually to always’ crossing the finish line when being intimate, with 89% of gay men and 88% of bisexual men following suit. On the flip side, 86% of lesbians with only 66% of bisexual women and 65% of hetero women claimed the same degree of frequency.

How long does it take to climax?

In a world where the orgasm gap has never been more alive, couples have long faced the contradiction of men needing around 5 and a half minutes to seal the sexy deal, as opposed to women who need about 17 minutes on average.

How do most women orgasm?

A Cosmopolitan study shows that masturbating with a hand or toy has shown to be the most popular route in a landslide for about 39% of gals, with 20% citing a vaginal intercourse/clitoral stimulation combo, 15% saying vaginal intercourse alone, 12% crediting oral sex, 9% loving a partner using their hand and a lonely 2% enjoying a partner using toys on them.

Toys

How common really are they? 

TENGA’s data also showed American men pale in comparison to women when it comes to owning sex toys at about 20% to 42%, respectively.

Which ones are most popular?

But of all the ones to choose from, vibrators definitely take the cake as the most popularly purchased toy online at 19.2%. Dildos come in second at 16%, followed by lube (which hello, is more essential than a toy) at 14%, anal beads at 12%, penis rings at 11.8%, rubber vaginas/masturbation sleeves at 8.5%, and blindfolds, strap-on’s, handcuffs and more at the bottom with 5% or less.

Porn

How long do most people spend watching porn?

According to PornHub’s healthy hoard of viewer data, the worldwide average of time spent per visit in 2017 clocked in at 9 minutes and 59 seconds. A whopping 23 second increase from the previous year! In the US alone, the average came in a bit higher at 10 minutes and 33 seconds, with Mississipians holding it down for the longest at 11 minutes, 33 seconds, compared to those going for gold in Kansas at 9 minutes, 5 seconds.

Ok, but what about women specifically?

We know guys always get the rap for porn habits, but research from Marie Claire revealed more than 60% of gals watch it a few times per month to every week, and upwards of 10% admitted daily. And while more than half noted they usually indulge alone, 33% get down with watching it with a partner on an occasional or regular basis as well.

And Lastly For Good Measure…

How long is the average penis?

Although size only matters to some, the great wide world of penises has proven to typically range anywhere from 1.6 to 10.2 inches. The average size when flaccid is around 3.5 to 3.9 inches, but when fully erect measures up to around 5.5 inches in all.

So even if you slept through your college stats class and think you’re the ultimate cheese that stands alone, remember there are always people that fall around you on the never-ending distribution curve of sextistics. Study up!

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10 Mistakes Preventing Men from Lasting Longer https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/07/19/10-mistakes-preventing-men-from-lasting-longer/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/07/19/10-mistakes-preventing-men-from-lasting-longer/#respond Thu, 19 Jul 2018 18:28:37 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6399 10 Mistakes Preventing Men From Lasting Longer

It happens. Sometimes you just get too excited, and you come before you (and she) would have liked. You’ve probably tried things, like imagining an elderly woman named Myrtle playing Bingo, in an effort to keep from coming too soon.

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10 Mistakes Preventing Men From Lasting Longer

It happens. Sometimes you just get too excited, and you come before you (and she) would have liked. You’ve probably tried things, like imagining an elderly woman named Myrtle playing Bingo, in an effort to keep from coming too soon. But if that didn’t work out for you, here are some things that may be standing in your way of escaping the awful label of being a minute man.

1. You’re skipping foreplay.

Not only do women prefer engaging in a number of acts before intercourse, it’ll also help you develop in the duration department. If you play your cards right, she will have orgasmed before you ever stick it in, and that’s one less thing to worry about—which takes us to another potential pitfall.

2. Performance anxiety.

If your thoughts during sex are consumed by the fear of finishing too quickly, it’s not going to help you avoid premature ejaculation. Relaxation is the key to lasting longer. Though it’s fairly normal to experience this anxiety in early adulthood, it could develop into full-blown erectile dysfunction later in life, and you don’t want that. Take charge of the anxiety, make it your bitch, and learn from the rest of our list.

3. Lack of control.

Though it can happen quickly, ejaculation doesn’t exactly sneak up on you. 5 ways to make a guy feel great about his memberWhen you feel like you’re getting close, you need to stop, at least momentarily. Don’t just finish and say, “Whoops, sorry.” Pull out and take a quick breather. If necessary, just tell her you don’t want to come yet because you’re having so much fun. It’ll not only flatter her, but it’ll show her that her satisfaction is important to you. Meantime, consistently exercising this control (“edging”) will aid your duration skills down the road, and the need for these pauses in the action will become less frequent.

4. You’re not masturbating.

You might be thinking: “I’m gonna get laid. I don’t need to jerk off!” Well, if lasting longer in bed is important to you, masturbating before taking part in the real thing will help. The less semen you have built up, just screaming to get out, the more stamina you’ll find you have when it comes time to work your magic on her. Masturbating is also a perfect time to practice your edging skills by recognizing when you’re getting close so you can slow things down as needed.

5. You’re not using a condom.

Loss of sensitivity is a common male complaint when it comes to wearing a rubber. So it stands to reason that putting one on may help you last longer by decreasing your little buddy’s sensitivity during an intimate moment. Some condoms even have an anesthetic built-in just for this purpose.

6. You’re breathing wrong.

You might even be holding your breath, and that’s bad. Mr. Miyagi wouldn’t steer you wrong, so remember to regularly breathe in through your nose and out your mouth. It’ll relax your muscles and diffuse tension in the pelvis that triggers ejaculation.

7. You’re not wearing a penis ring.

OK, this one is my favorite, because sex toys are so fun. The penis ring restricts blood flow in your penis, which keeps you hard for a longer period of time, as the blood has nowhere to escape. Vibrating rings add additional pleasure for her, since they provide some buzz right where she needs it. Overall, cock rings provide a win-win situation for all involved.

8. You don’t know where your PC muscle is.

As mentioned above, when the pubococcygeal (PC) muscles in your pelvis how to seduce him with your wordsget too tense, you’re going to ejaculate. You’ve probably heard that Kegel exercises can help men strengthen PC muscles, but if you don’t learn to control them, you’re not going to last any longer. The easiest way to find your PC muscle is by taking a leak. As you stand over the toilet draining your bladder, try to stop the flow using muscles only. The muscle you’ll find yourself tensing is your PC. By knowing exactly where it is, you’ll now be armed with the knowledge of what muscle to relax when you feel like you’re getting close to coming.

9. You’re not trying different positions.

Not only will she appreciate switching things up, it may actually help you last longer, depending on what typically sends you over the edge. For instance, I’m a face guy. That is, I typically finish while my partner and I are face to face. So, if there’s something about seeing the pleasure on her face that sets you off, try working her from behind for a while instead. Know what your triggers are so you can avoid them for as long as possible during sex.

10. You haven’t learned to squeeze.

Squeezing your Johnson just below the head can prevent an eruption. The idea here is close off the urethra that carries your semen to freedom. In addition to avoiding ejaculation, this squeezing technique can reduce the mounting tension by forcing blood out of the penis, thereby increasing the longevity of your sexual encounter.

So yeah, there’s a lot of little reasons which could be the culprit for comin’ too quickly. And trust me, these things can add up. Fast. Like, faster than premature ejaculation. Luckily, you’re now armed with the many mistakes which might prevent you from lasting longer, so you can do your part to avoid them and then go the distance.

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Why First Dates Aren’t Always the First Step Anymore https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/07/13/why-first-dates-arent-always-the-first-step-anymore/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/07/13/why-first-dates-arent-always-the-first-step-anymore/#respond Fri, 13 Jul 2018 18:22:16 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6376 Why First Dates Aren't Always the First Step Anymore

Butterflies in the stomach, overthinking outfits, being paranoid you’re not going to realize that ONE piece of black pepper that’ll inevitably get lodged between your teeth—these are the things we know all too well when it comes to the infamous

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Why First Dates Aren't Always the First Step Anymore

Why First Dates Aren't Always the First Step Anymore

Butterflies in the stomach, overthinking outfits, being paranoid you’re not going to realize that ONE piece of black pepper that’ll inevitably get lodged between your teeth—these are the things we know all too well when it comes to the infamous “first date” territory. But would you believe that could be on its way out the door?

According to Match.com’s eighth annual “Singles In America” survey, only 44% of the more than 5,000 single people polled had gone on a “first date” in the last year.

Now, it’s no secret the world of dating has been vastly redefined in the last five years alone, but it seems the road to finding companionship has branched off in several un-previously-conventional directions.

Despite 69% of singles claiming to be “looking for something serious,” the Why Women Should Make the First Movesurvey revealed 40% of them like to take up “hanging out” first, and 55% have started things out by just being “friends with benefits”.  From there, 29% said they’ve had “hanging out” relationships turn serious, and 45% reported the same of their FWB’s.

And with that said, it’s easy to see how months (or longer) of these casual dating dynamics can often strip away the hype of an official “first date” later on down the line. But in today’s hot potato culture of dating, keeping things more low-key and less committal seems to be the increasingly preferred route.

Given the surge of things like dating apps and unlimited Internet porn, it’s never been easier to get off or hook up. And encased in a world of constant streaming and on-demand action, it should come as no surprise people are getting over the notion of feeling like they have to “waste” their time to do so.

Since first dates have always served as a form of interpersonal ‘show & tell’, their biggest benefit is allowing two people to feel each other out and take the other for a test drive. Upon a night of walking, talking and navigating all the social ropes, they can each determine if the pairing is then worth any further investment.

But since Millennials are 48% more likely to have sex before a first date than any other generation, the tested tradition perhaps doesn’t hold quite the same value. We’ve learned the generation isn’t quite as promiscuous as sometimes thought to be; however, it does speak to the different lens they’re more often seeing relationships through.

Not typically held back by a lot of the same sexuality-oriented fears as pastIs It Okay to Have Sex on the First Date? generations, Millennials are overall thought to be significantly more sex-positive than those who’ve come before them. As a result, some even argue sex has become one of the least intimidating elements of dating, considering it’s much easier to land a random hookup than spend the time to actually get to know someone in general.

Even though first dates can provide a chance to skip over the initial text convos that can awkwardly lead to mixed messages of interest, excitement, and comfort most of all, many maintain “hanging out” and FWB’s can more conveniently accomplish much of the same instinctive mission.

But before you let first dates go by the way of dinosaurs and gaucho pants, consider the host of perks that still come along with the territory. From the allure of anticipation to confirming attraction and chemistry all around, there’s no reason to kiss this tried and true tradition goodbye just yet. Of course it can take a lot of courage to really go out on a limb, but hey—you never know quite where that first step could lead you.

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How Kegels Can Turn Your Penis Into Her Magic Wand https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/07/12/how-kegels-can-turn-your-penis-into-her-magic-wand/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/07/12/how-kegels-can-turn-your-penis-into-her-magic-wand/#comments Thu, 12 Jul 2018 18:09:07 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6353 How Kegels Can Turn Your Penis Into Her Magic Wand

While Kegels first came to popularity with women in order to tighten things up down there after giving birth, men have been increasingly drawn to these pelvic floor exercises in order to improve sexual performance. But do they work? Trust

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How Kegels Can Turn Your Penis Into Her Magic Wand

How Kegels Can Turn Your Penis Into Her Magic Wand

While Kegels first came to popularity with women in order to tighten things up down there after giving birth, men have been increasingly drawn to these pelvic floor exercises in order to improve sexual performance. But do they work? Trust me, if you commit to adding Kegels to your daily routine, you’re going to absolutely blow her mind!

First, let’s examine the muscles involved, then how they correspond to sexual experiences. This network of muscles begins at the base of your penis, and keeps numbers 1 and 2 from escaping before you reach the bathroom to release them. If you’ve ever had trouble peeing in a public bathroom because someone else was around, it was because these muscles tensed up. Science, yo.

But bladder and bowel control aren’t the only things these pelvic floor Make Your Penis Bigger with These Stretching Exercisesmuscles are good for, of course. When it comes to sex, strengthening and controlling these muscles can be a huge benefit on several levels. But chances are, these aren’t the ones you’re typically working on at the gym, so we’ll need to locate them before we go any further.

Step into the bathroom. If you’re like me, it’s not unusual to unleash a fart when you pee, as a result of these muscles relaxing. So try to find these pubococcygeus (PC) muscles when you’re taking a leak by trying to stop or slow the flow in midstream, while also doing that thing you do when you have to fart, but necessity requires you to hold it in. These are the PC muscles you’ll focus on when doing Kegels. And now that you’ve found them, let’s get to work.

Kegel exercises can be done while sitting or standing, or even when walking. You’re trying them already as you’re reading, aren’t you? That’s good! The key is being able to isolate the PC muscles from the others surrounding them. They can be strengthened by simply tightening them and holding it for several seconds, releasing, then repeating.

While you’re doing these exercises, be mindful to avoid tightening your buttocks, abdomen and thigh muscles. This is all about taking control of the PC muscles that are basically used to working without your conscious involvement. Avoid the temptation to hold your breath. Keep your breathing regular, as with any other exercise or activity. Three sets of 10 reps per day will provide results you’ll notice within as little as one week. But if you want her to notice, stick with it.

So, why are these muscles so important when it comes to sex? Well, these3 Rules for Going Down on Her are the same ones that contract when you have an orgasm. So if avoiding premature ejaculation is important to you —and it should be—being able to control them on-command will prevent you from climaxing too soon, so you can understand why this is such a huge benefit of Kegels.

Don’t make the mistake of doing Kegels during sex, though. Remember that you want the muscles down there relaxed, not tensed, which triggers the ejaculation you’re trying to put off. In fact, it’s impossible to ejaculate when they’re relaxed.

Most of us will experience erectile dysfunction at some point in our lives, if only temporarily. But after our sexual peak around age 18, the older we get, the greater the chance that we’ll be affected by ED in some manner. Kegels have proven to be an effective tool in combating forms of ED, including often being credited with increased blood flow in order to produce and maintain stronger erections.

All of these are great reasons to start a Kegels regimen and really take things up a notch for her in bed. But if providing her with better, unforgettable sex isn’t enough, there’s a selfish reason why you should give them a try—better orgasms for yourself. Makes sense, doesn’t it? By toning your PC muscles, those orgasmic contractions will become stronger and more intensely pleasurable. But only after you’ve sent her through the roof, of course.

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How To Beat The Heat While Keeping Things Steamy This Summer   https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/07/10/how-to-beat-the-heat-while-keeping-things-steamy-this-summer/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/07/10/how-to-beat-the-heat-while-keeping-things-steamy-this-summer/#respond Tue, 10 Jul 2018 23:57:07 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6332 How to Beat the Heat While Keeping Things Steamy This Summer

It’s hard to imagine describing sex as “too hot”, unless you mean it literally. With the scorching summer alive and well that means the heat is unfortunately here to stay, but don’t let that stop you from ringing in the

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How to Beat the Heat While Keeping Things Steamy This Summer

How to Beat the Heat While Keeping Things Steamy This Summer

It’s hard to imagine describing sex as “too hot”, unless you mean it literally.

With the scorching summer alive and well that means the heat is unfortunately here to stay, but don’t let that stop you from ringing in the year’s most sultry season. As temperatures rise, so do our desires; and with the annual spirit of adventure that sets in, so do the endless ways of spicing things up while keeping cool just the same.

Temperature Play

When looking for ways to beat the heat, consider the straightforward approach of temperature play. By incorporating things like ice cubes orYour Guide to Safe Sex Underwater cooling lubricant into your ordinary sexcapades, you can provoke all kinds of sensual reactions through the skin’s millions of neuroreceptors. Our bodies are used to the warmth of human touch, so a rush of sensation coupled with the chill of these objects can result in a newfound night of intimacy with an exciting edge. And if you’re really willing to kick things up a notch, try icing down a glass dildo or butt plug for an even more pleasure-packed effect.

Shower Sex

Not too hot, not too cold, but when the temp is just right, shower sex can be a great solution to stickiness and sweat. Although it can be tricky to master, a wet hot shower with your partner (and some slippery lube) can be one of the sexiest sights to see. Nice and slicked down, exchanging steamy kisses from beginning to end—you’ll feel refreshed and recharged without ever once feeling the discomfort of a sweltering summer.

Lingerie

When it comes to lingerie, we all have that special piece (or ten) we’ve been dying to show off. So what better way to do so than when it’s too hot to wear clothing anyway! On days spent close to home this summer, capitalize on the blistering temps by swapping out the baggy loungewear for that super hot getup that’s been collecting dust in your closet for far too long. Of course some pieces are fine to be worn under clothes, but others are just too gorgeous to keep contained, so surprise your partner with a seductive look that will have them (and you) vouching for minimal clothing year-round.

Low-Contact Positions

Getting a little sweaty can definitely be a turn on, but not when your bodies riding out the stormturn into full on slip-n-slides. Opting for positions that minimize bodily contact can be logical lifesavers that still capture the intimacy of sex without the warmth of something like missionary. Other choices like cowgirl, doggy style, a penetrative spooning, or plain old-fashioned oral can offer more comfortable solutions that of course are just as enjoyable…if not more.

Mutual Masturbation

Or you can avoid full-body contact all together through the ever-alluring act of mutual masturbation. Despite the lack of physicality, it’s a great way to guarantee you’re touched exactly how you like to be touched, plus it provides each person a first-hand guide to how the other likes it done. And not to mention, some super sexy visuals, too.

Get Creative Around The House

The first rule of spicing things up means getting out of your regular routine, so for some that may mean the bedroom itself. Once the summertime heat rolls around, we all know there’s no turning back. So let it be the perfect excuse to trade in the hot sheets for more exotic locations around the house. Getting down to business in chairs, up against a table or even right on top of a nice, cool countertop can provide some much-needed relief from the heat that often accompanies your bedroom backdrop. And if your house happens to have a basement (or downstairs), you may have really hit the jackpot! Since we know heat rises, it’s always so much cooler down below.

So as the sun beats down and the heat turns up, at least we can dive into this summer season knowing sensual sacrifices are the last things that have to be made.

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10 Things That’ll Make Her More Orgasmic https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/07/09/10-things-thatll-make-her-more-orgasmic/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/07/09/10-things-thatll-make-her-more-orgasmic/#respond Mon, 09 Jul 2018 21:35:13 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6307 10 Things That'll Make Her More Orgasmic

We all know it’s important to please our ladies in bed. But the enigmatic minds of women are quite unlike our own. In other words, they think about other things than just sex all the time. So, while it’s important

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10 Things That'll Make Her More Orgasmic

10 Things That'll Make Her More Orgasmic

We all know it’s important to please our ladies in bed. But the enigmatic minds of women are quite unlike our own. In other words, they think about other things than just sex all the time. So, while it’s important to ensure she orgasms, it’s not the most essential thing in the world to her. Let’s face it, guys, they’re into the love thing. They want to feel like you’re actually paying attention.

To keep her from straying, let’s first take a look some of the main reasons why women may become disinterested. Inattention is probably the biggest one, and that can open the door for her to turn to someone else—usually that friend who’s waiting in the wings for you to screw up. If the only time you show a real interest in her is when you’re horny, you’re at risk of losing her. If you want to keep her, here’s a cheat sheet of things women find irresistible in men when it comes to being attentive.

1. Cooking

You must have developed one or two decent recipes during your tenure as a bachelor. Instead of taking her out to eat, or expecting her to cook for you, try showing her your mad skills in the kitchen. Even if it’s a disaster, she’ll appreciate that you cared enough to try.

2. Laughter

If you can make her laugh, you’re well on your way. And keeping a sense of humor can help get a couple through any rough patches that may arise. Most importantly, don’t take yourself too seriously.

3. Remembering key dates

If you’ve ever forgotten a birthday or anniversary, you know what I’m talking about. If you miss an important day, it’s going to hurt her—but you’re the one who’s really going to feel the pain as a result. Women can hold a grudge, so expect to be reminded of it with great regularity if you ever make this mistake. Set reminders, it’s simple.

4. Date nights

Once you’ve settled into a relationship, it can be easy to fall into a routine 5 Things That'll Get Her More Excited About Sexwhere your nights together are merely spent in front of the TV. And that can be fine on many nights, but don’t let it turn into a rut. Take her out every once in a while. Dinners, movies, or even just going for a walk—they love that shit.

5. Compliments

Don’t assume that she knows you think she’s beautiful, or that you appreciate everything she does. Be thoughtful enough to articulate it, and reassure her that she’s still the world to you.

6. Looking nice

I know they’re comfy as hell, but for God’s sake, reserve the sweatpants only for when you’re alone. Especially the old, stretchy ones, with all the holes in them. And maybe get a decent pair of shoes. Let her know you actually care about how you look when she’s around.

7. Trust

This is a huge one, guys, and it’s developed through a variety of deeds and behaviors. First, allow yourself to be vulnerable with her. Let down the guard you hold between you and the outside world. Let her in. You’re not perfect, and neither is she, so stop pretending. When this becomes a two-way street, honesty, respect, and loyalty will prevail without room for jealousy or suspicion.

8. Listening

Just as it’s important to be open with her, you need to be there for her—and How Men Should Ask For Sexactually pay attention—when she has something to say. When you do, you’ll be armed with those sweet little details that you can drop on her later when you want to melt her heart. Few things can make a woman lose her clothes better than proving that you were listening and that you remember.

9. Compromise

You don’t always have to win or be right, and that can be a tough one for guys to get over. You might not always see eye to eye. When that happens, it’s important not to judge. Even if you disagree, show empathy—that you understand why she feels the way she does. When she knows that you’ve at least heard her out, she’ll feel validated, respected and accepted.

10. Affection

This should be a no-brainer, but it can be a pitfall once you’ve settled into the relationship routine. Remember that she will always like to kiss, hold hands and cuddle. Unless you smell, which has inspired me to add a bonus thing she likes: good hygiene.

Do you want to know the ironic thing about all this stuff? If you give her everything from this list, she’ll actually become more likely to climax, anyway. That’s because she’ll feel more comfortable and loved with you, and that’s an excellent recipe for orgasms.

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Though most guys have self-pleasured since the awkward years of teenhood, not nearly as many know what male sex toys can bring to the table. From inciting new ways to explore your body to heightening sensations unlike any experienced before,

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The 9 Best Solo Toys for Men

The 9 Best Solo Toys for Men

Though most guys have self-pleasured since the awkward years of teenhood, not nearly as many know what male sex toys can bring to the table. From inciting new ways to explore your body to heightening sensations unlike any experienced before, these titillating tools are something every guy can appreciate (and should have) at their bedside.

When the going gets tough, we know the tough get masturbating, so listen up, guys—here are some of the sexiest solo selections for you:

Good Vibes

When in need of a hearty buzz, it’s Pocket Pulse to the rescue. With its Pocket Pulse Penis Vibeunique, palm-sized, wrap-around design and two oscillating motors, this little vibe was made for stimulating your frenulum pleasure spot—the sensitive area where your shaft meets your penis head. Though don’t let this stop you from using the vibration anywhere that feels good. And best of all—this toy can be used for anyone at any time. Whether you’re already hard or just barely warming up, this little guy can help you reach the cusp of climax, regardless of how far from the finish line you are.

Stayin’ Alive

Plugged and ready, the Weighted Snug Plug will have you on the edge of weighted snug plugyour seat with arousal. Amplify your senses by combining this plug with any of the other masturbation toys to stimulate more than one erogenous zone at a time. With this butt plug’s two built-in weights for creating a thrilling tug, extra touches of excitement are added to your already tantalizing adventures. Whether donning this in the bedroom or wearing it out while painting the town red, you’ll be sure to see (and feel) the sexy sparks fly.

Pump It Up

Longer and stronger—what’s seriously not to love? With this Deluxe Penis Enlargement kitDeluxe penis enlargement kit, masturbation will never be the same again. Using the pump to increase blood flow throughout, you’ll have everything you need to see visible boosts in length as well as girth. And since more blood means increased sensitivity, every stroke of the hand means intensified surges of satisfaction.

Corkscrewed

Spiral into bliss with the latest innovation in Japanese luxury pleasure. TheTenga 3D Pleasure Spiral Tenga 3D sleeve can turn your masturbation sesh into a full-fledged work of art with just a flick of its abstract textured design. The silky sleeve features a spiraling, ribbed surface, fit to stimulate every groove of the penis, but can also turn inside out for a more traditionally smoother glide. And with a fully-squeezable design, your control over the tightness will help seal the sexy deal in no time.

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New Takes on Tradition

Perhaps a newsflash to some, but wands aren’t just for women and Harry Le Wand Premium MassagerPotter any more. Known as the “Cadillac of Vibrators,” the Le Wand Premium Massager can take you places you never before thought possible. With a wide head, exceptionally powerful motor, and seemingly limitless vibration variations, it can even double as a full-body massager. Just don’t be surprised when you find out what you’ve almost been missing out on all along.

Setting The Mood

If looking to spice up a classic hand job, look no further than the Mood Thrillmesmerizing Mood Thrill penis stroker. Made of lifelike UltraSkyn material, this masturbation sleeve will take you on a journey through three different orgasmic textures: large massaging beads toward the front, thick ribs throughout the middle, and tapered nubs that round out a tight finish to the end. Of course it works smashingly for masturbation, but when your lover uses it to jazz up a regular ole hand job, it can offer a whole new world of shared pleasure.

Plunging Perfection

Sink yourself into a new domain of pleasure with the lifelike Perfect Pussy The Perfect Pussystroker. So seductively similar to the real thing, this squeezable Ultraskyn tunnel will make you think twice about using only your hands again. When gliding against its soft, inner texture while clutching the outer case however tight that takes you to town, this stroker gives you a truly customized experience that’ll have you doing double takes if you leave your eyes closed for too long.

A Divine Duo

Snug but stretchy, the Hercules Penis Ring can help uncover new realms of stamina you may have thought were only possible in storybooks. By slipping into this little gem right before a hot and heavy solo sesh, your blood flow will be pleasantly restricted, meaning a longer-lasting boner and intensified sensations. And with the four ribbed sections engineered for additional lasting pleasure, you’ll find yourself wondering how you ever got this far in life without one.

Lube To Love

Few things in life comprise a match made more in heaven than the pairing Slippery Kitty Two-Ferof sex and lube. So if you think masturbation can’t possibly feel any better—it’s time to think again. Formulated by our very own sexologist Dr. Sadie Allison, her Slippery Kitty Lube is the cherry on top to any self-pleasuring experience. The long-lasting, water-based lubricant is paraben- and glycerin-free, plus safe to use with any sex toy material. So what’s the holdup? Get your hands on this 15-year industry favorite and add some glide to your ride.

So just when you think you’ve mastered it all, remember there’s always more to learn when it comes to the great wide world of sex. Although there are arguably more stigmas to overcome within the male sex toy arena, this list should go to show the pleasure perks should outweigh any pop-cultural cons. So next time you want to spice up your token “me time,” consider exploring one of these sensual tools of the trade. You won’t regret it.

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Your Guide to Safe Sex Underwater https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/06/29/your-guide-to-safe-sex-underwater/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/06/29/your-guide-to-safe-sex-underwater/#respond Fri, 29 Jun 2018 21:21:57 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6247 Your Guide to Safe Sex Underwater

Ever since that infamous scene in jaws, where those two promiscuous teens were attacked by a shark at the worst time, there’s been fear and uncertainty about getting frisky in bodies of water. Is it safe? Will fish swim up

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Your Guide to Safe Sex Underwater

Your Guide to Safe Sex Underwater

Ever since that infamous scene in jaws, where those two promiscuous teens were attacked by a shark at the worst time, there’s been fear and uncertainty about getting frisky in bodies of water. Is it safe? Will fish swim up my you-know-what? Let’s sort all this fishy business out once and for all, so we can all enjoy getting wet and wild this summer. Here’s what you need to know about having sex underwater:

1. Use precaution. Put condoms on before getting into the water; otherwise water can get inside the condom and cause leakages, breakage, or slip-n-slide right off.

2. Don’t get too dirty. Lakes and oceans are some of the dirtiest bodies of tips from a self-proclaimed squirting expertwater, so beware of the possibility of germs and the irritation they can cause. Dirt and particles can even compromise your condom.

3. Be safe. Don’t get so distracted with the hypnotic way your lover’s hair and breasts flow in the water that you forget to watch for wake-boarders and speed boats!

4. Get adventurous. Hot springs are a safer option than lakes and most pools. But since every hot spring has different minerals, see if you can find out what’s in the water before you have sex in it. Common minerals are sulfur (which is actually good because it’s an anti-bacterial) and lithium.

5. Bring lube. Sex underwater washes away your natural lubrication. It does not act as lubrication, as many people might think. So it’s a good idea to use some extra lube for her comfort. If you can plan ahead, make sure to pack some with your sunscreen and flip flops!

6. Try oral. Even with lube, penetration can be uncomfortable for her under 5 Erotic Playdates to Get Your Juice Flowingwater, so consider foreplay and oral in or under the water, then take it on land for intercourse. There’s nothing like a little surf ‘n’ turf.

7. Go natural. In pools and hot tubs, shoot for natural pools and hot tubs to avoid chlorine, which is it gets into the vagina, can cause infection. As an alternative, try giving oral instead, having your lady sit on the edge of the pool on top of a towel, while he’s submerged in front of her.

8. Be respectful. If you’re a couple of exhibitionists, make sure the pool or body of water is appropriate for that, or big enough so you won’t impose your slippery sexcapades onto others who may not want to see that—especially if there’s children around.

9. Plan ahead. Surprise your lover with waterproof sex toys like ”The Wave” couple’s vibrating orgasm ring or the ”Quick-Draw G-Vibe” Now this is where the real fun begins!

Now that we’ve washed away all the myths, and learned the best ways to make a little motion in the ocean, I think there’s only one thing left to ask: “which way to the beach?” Just remember: safety, comfort, and discretion are the main things to focus on. Hope you have a splashing good time!

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Main Squeeze See-Through Penis Pleaser

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10 Reasons Why Lube Leads to Better Sex https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/06/26/10-reasons-why-lube-leads-to-better-sex/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/06/26/10-reasons-why-lube-leads-to-better-sex/#respond Tue, 26 Jun 2018 20:43:44 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6229 10 Reasons Why Lube Leads to Better Sex

As pragmatic men, we like to keep things simple. What you see is what you get, and we say what we mean. And though we strive to be self-sufficient, we sometimes overlook the obvious. For instance, if the only lubricant

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10 Reasons Why Lube Leads to Better Sex

10 Reasons Why Lube Leads to Better Sex

As pragmatic men, we like to keep things simple. What you see is what you get, and we say what we mean. And though we strive to be self-sufficient, we sometimes overlook the obvious. For instance, if the only lubricant you own is in your car garage, you’re missing out on better sex, both for you and your partner.

But I’m not advocating applying motor oil to the genitalia, of course. When it comes to sex, there are four basic types on the market: oil-based, water-based, petroleum and silicone. Choose carefully.

For instance, an oil-based lube can weaken a latex condom, and we don’t want any accidents, so go for water-based if your Jimmie is wrapped. Silicone lube won’t compromise your condom, either, but it can deteriorate silicone sex toys. Perhaps the least desirable is the petroleum-based variety, which is more difficult to wash off, resulting in increased chances of bacterial infection.

If you can’t decide, it’s always a safe bet to stick with water-based lubricant in the bedroom. Whichever one is right for you, here’s our top 10 reasons for keeping sexual lubricant within reach anywhere you may become intimate:

1. It’s ideal for masturbation.

Yes, even when you have to rely on your own hand or a sex toy, you should be using some form of lubricant. A lot of guys use lotion, but I go straight for real, gential-safe lube that’s actually meant to go there. Not to mention it typically lasts longer, and simply feels better in my opinion.

2. It will make her feel at ease.

Whether your romantic moment was preceded by a bottle or two of vino, or she’s been under a lot of stress, her body may not always be in a ready-state when it comes to producing her natural lubricating fluids. In fact, this fluid level can fluctuate throughout her monthly cycle. Medications, including The Pill, can also cause dryness. It’s nobody’s fault. It just happens, so don’t feel insulted or inadequate if she asks whether you’ve got some lube. It doesn’t mean she’s not turned on by you. You should have some lube handy, and be enthusiastic about using it. It’s not just for anal, guys.

3. It’s essential for anal sex.

If you’re fortunate enough to have a lady who’s down with backdoor action, give her a break and be kind enough to use lube. The key to great anal sex is to use tons of lube and reapply often, since the backdoor doesn’t produce natural lubrication like the vagina does. The more comfortable she is, the more likely she’ll be to actually enjoy it—and we always want her to enjoy it, right gentlemen?

4. It’s safer.

By reducing friction, you’re mitigating the risk of pain and injuries. Even if you’re using a condom that started out lubricated, those things dry out. Don’t be afraid to add some more lube into the mix. Not only will the condom be less likely to break, you and your lover will have a much smoother ride.

5. It can make you last longer.

Now I’ve got your attention? Figures. Well, it’s true. Think about it. By easing the friction, you’re staving off premature ejaculation that can occur from too much stimulation of the penis. You might even enjoy the new sensations you feel while slippin’ and slidin’. And if you’re one of those guys who complains that condoms kill the feeling during sex, try a drop or two on the inside of it.

6. It’s great for foreplay!

By now we should all know that foreplay is where it’s at. And the longer that lasts, the better an overall sexual experience tends to be. So don’t be afraid to drip some on each other before physically stimulating one another’s organs. Hell, you can even set the mood by using lube as a massage oil. Have fun with it!

7. It can make blowjobs better.

No guy ever complained about a blowjob. It’s kinda like how there’s really no such thing as bad pizza. But just as factors beyond your control can cause her dryness down there, she may experience dryness in her mouth, too. In such cases, let me suggest a flavored lubricant. It may also help avoid fatiguing her jaw.

8. It’s fast and easy to use.

Assuming that you now have the sense to keep lube handy in the bedroom, you’re not going to ruin the moment the way putting on a condom often can. Just squeeze, apply, and let the fun begin!

9. It can help prevent infections.

When we reduce the friction, we’re actually keeping temperatures from getting too hot down there. Heat promotes bacterial growth, after all, so do yourselves both a favor, and refrain from letting things get too heated for extended periods of time.

10. It makes it easier for her to climax.

And that’s something we’re all interested in, right? If you want to know you’re doing a good job, try some lube. What many of us don’t realize is that, dry or not, sex can be painful for some women. You want her to be as comfortable as possible. When you achieve that, she’s going to have a better time. Lube simply makes sex more pleasurable, and you shouldn’t need a better reason than that.

In conclusion, you can never, EVER, have enough lube. Keep some everywhere—in your drawers, under your mattress, on your keychain —EVERYWHERE. Stop settling for awesome sex. Start having ridiculously awesome sex, instead.

Why are you still reading this? Seriously, get yourself some lubricant right now.

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“Lifeguard of My Dreams” https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/06/25/lifeguard-of-my-dreams/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/06/25/lifeguard-of-my-dreams/#respond Mon, 25 Jun 2018 20:01:02 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6206 Lifeguard of My Dreams

Taking Linzey by the hand, Matt led her into the shower. When he turned the faucet, hot water shot out from every direction. It was the most luxurious shower she’d ever been in. The handsome lifeguard gazed at her adoringly.

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Lifeguard of My Dreams

Lifeguard of My Dreams

Taking Linzey by the hand, Matt led her into the shower. When he turned the faucet, hot water shot out from every direction. It was the most luxurious shower she’d ever been in.

The handsome lifeguard gazed at her adoringly. He pulled her against his hard body and gave her the deepest, most passionate kiss she’d ever experienced. Their tongues entwined and their bodies—desperate to be joined—pressed together. She nearly swooned at his body’s edges—and his large and very hard cock cradled against her. She loved the feeling of their wet, naked skin sliding against each other.

She gave herself completely to the moment, overwhelmed by this amazing man’s love for her. He’d risked his life to save her when she was caught in the powerful rip current. There wasn’t anything she wouldn’t do for him. She was his—body, heart, and soul.

His face was filled with love and desire for her. No man had ever looked at A Birthday ButtPlugher that way before. “I cannot tell you how much I love you, and how much I want you.” The hunger in his voice was deliciously unsettling. There was no doubt what was about to happen. She toyed with the idea of resisting—just to see how much he wanted her. She smirked to herself. Maybe next time.

She shivered with excitement. She kissed him passionately and ground herself against his cock. She couldn’t wait to have it buried deep inside her—to be penetrated and possessed by this amazing man.

“Soon enough,” he smiled. “But first, …” He picked up the bottle of citrus scented shower gel, filled his hands with it and began lathering every inch of her body. His touch was gentle at first, then greedier.

Filled with the soapy lotion, his hands glided effortlessly over her skin. It felt like he was wearing the softest silk gloves imaginable.  He made large, slow circles around her breasts—always approaching, but never quite touching her nipples. Frustrated, she pushed out her breasts hoping her stiff peaks might get at least a glancing touch.

As he completed each circle around her breasts, he’d pause for a moment, then let his hands drift slowly down the front of her torso. Each time, his fingers would travel an inch lower—until he cupped her pussy. She moaned. He massaged her lips and teased her opening. “Matt … please …” was all she could manage. His stroking caused her world to shrink. All that existed now was the deep hunger inside her, begging for satisfaction.

He knelt down on the white tiles in front of her and looked up with a lusty smile. She couldn’t take it anymore. Her hunger was primal and overpowering. It took over her brain. “Eat me, Matt,” she said—begging and commanding at the same time. She couldn’t believe those words had just come out of her mouth. Her idea of ‘dirty talk’ was typically a lot tamer. But this sexy man was releasing a new part of her. She let her lust take control. She thrust her torso towards him. “Eat me, Matt. Eat my wet, pink pussy.”

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His face darkened. There was going to be nothing gentle and romantic about their first coupling. He was about to fuck her brains out. He roughly lifted her leg onto his shoulder and dove in. She moaned deeply as his large, warm tongue explored every bit of her swollen, ruby pussy. Holding her ass, he pressed her against his mouth. He sucked her labia, teased her clit and even tongue fucked her. His repeated moans against her sensitive flesh were making her crazy.

Remarkably, she was already surging towards an orgasm. She leaned against the wall and held his head against her pussy. “Oh, yes, Matt. Just like that. Just like that! RIGHT THERE!” Within seconds, her body shook. “OH MY GOD!” As she came, he continued licking her. Wave after wave of pleasure coursed through her. Her body jerked hard, but he held her tight against his mouth. “OH FUCK!”

While she was recovering, he grabbed under her legs, and lifted her effortlessly as he stood up. He pressed her into the hard white tile. His eyes said it was his turn. She loved feeling under his power. With her legs wrapped around him, she felt the warm head of his stiff cock nestle against her opening. As the first inch pressed into her, she felt herself stretch like never before. Her eyes went wide, and she gasped. He was so much bigger than any man she’d ever been with. She wanted to ask him to take it slow. She couldn’t. “FUCK ME, MATT! FUCK ME HARD WITH THAT DELICIOUS DICK!”

As he banged mercilessly into her, she let out a loud, deep, primal groan. shower voyeur 5 minute erotica“OH, MATT!” His penis felt like it was made of steel. It hurt to be penetrated so quickly, so sharply, so fully. But it was the most satisfying pain she’d ever felt. It was a drug she’d instantly become addicted to. “MORE MATT! FUCK ME!” When he penetrated her, all she could think of was how full—how complete—she felt. When his cock retreated, getting ready for its next powerful thrust, she felt so empty she was heartsick. All that mattered was having him inside her and feeling her body respond to him like it had with no other man. Her hunger for him was so great, so desperate, she was out of control.

When her whole body began to tingle, she knew what was hurtling towards her. An amazing wave of orgasm—even more powerful than the ocean waves that had almost drowned her. She squeezed her inner muscles as hard as she could. His cock immediately twitched, swelled, and exploded—jetting his warm come deep inside her. “Christ! Linzey! Oh God! Oh fuck!” he yelled as he bucked against her, pushing even deeper into her. The joy-filled pain pushed her over the edge. Her pussy spasmed, clenching his erupting dick. She screamed something raw, primeval, and inarticulate. Her body shook uncontrollably. She was filled with an ecstasy of the sort she’d never experienced—and couldn’t handle. She passed out.

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When she came to in a wondrously comfortable bed, she was still very groggy. She heard water running. Matt must be in the shower. She rubbed her eyes and looked around. Definitely not my bed. I hear waves. A lifeguard. Of course he lives by the beach. He must have taken me home. She was embarrassed she couldn’t remember how she got there.

The room was too bright, so she pulled the covers over her head. She felt exhausted, but also refreshed, energized. She smiled to herself. Just the way you want to feel after a great fuck. She sighed contentedly and decided to stay in bed and doze for a while.

The shower stopped. A couple minutes later, she felt him sit on the bed and gently stroke her hair.

“Are you OK? You were moaning and groaning so much in your sleep I was worried. One time it sounded like you were even in pain. I was about to wake you up, but then you quieted down.”

“Sorry. That must have been annoying. Actually, thanks to your pounding my pussy into submission, I had the best night’s sleep in ages. As a matter of fact, I wouldn’t mind an encore. So, Matt, you want to get lucky?”

She threw the covers off and shamelessly offered her naked body to her lover. She was greeted by a perplexed look on the face of her husband. “Well, … I can’t think of a better way to start our vacation. But first, who’s Matt?”

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The human body is pretty extraordinary. All of its systems working together to keep us alive, trying their best to keep us healthy (even with all the shit we put in our bodies), all so we can continue to delve

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3 Ways for Men to Be Multi-Orgasmic

3 Ways for Men to Be Multi-Orgasmic

The human body is pretty extraordinary. All of its systems working together to keep us alive, trying their best to keep us healthy (even with all the shit we put in our bodies), all so we can continue to delve into the pleasures, pains, and mysteries the world has to offer us.

One of the most complex of these systems is the reproductive—and while scientifically it is for, well, reproduction, it does oh, so much more.

Our sexual organs are wondrous things that we are still learning vastly more about. If you thought everything was covered in sex ed, you are quite mistaken. In fact, far too many curriculums on the subject barely scratch the pubic mound when it comes to anatomy. And don’t get me started on function or pleasure. But, I digress.

What subject is rarely, if at all discussed? Orgasms—specifically women’s (who even knew that was a thing until they were much older?). That’s why there are so many publications, like this one, dedicated to the learning, understanding, and implementing of women’s pleasure.

Now, because of science, articles, and sex positivity, women have found out that, not only are our orgasms stronger than men’s, but hey, we’re multi-orgasmic! It’s really great if you’ve mastered it.

But, what about men? While their orgasms seem to be easier to achieve, they also have a refractory period. This is the time after orgasm that a man can no longer maintain an erection—and it varies from person to person. So, are multiple orgasms out of the cards for our penile fellows? Actually, they’re not! It’s just not exactly written about as much.

So, if you’re still with me, there are a few ways to get that multi-orgasmic streak going.

Trains for Gains

Multiple orgasms all start with your pelvic floor health. A lot of people are under the impression that Kegel exercises are only for women, but men need to strengthen their PC muscles just as much. Since this isn’t exactly common knowledge, overall, men’s pelvic floors aren’t as strong, which means neither is their ejaculatory control.

The more you work out the muscles that start and stop your pee, the more control you can get over your ejaculation, and the more orgasms you’ll ultimately be able to have.

Utilizing the Prostate

Also known as the male p-spot, the prostate is a hidden gem in a man’s rectum full of untapped pleasure. Many have dabbled in prostate play, but for some, the thought may send a chill down their spine. This magical gland is one key to being multi-orgasmic.

Stimulating your prostate not only brings you insane pleasure, but it helps prevent cancer and improves your overall health. To work your prostate even more, the company behind the Intensity, Pour Moi, is in the process of creating a device that men will be able to use to work out your prostate and pelvic floor muscles for you (see reason above).

Once you achieve an orgasm this way, you’ll notice that you may have only been slightly erect, only ejaculated a little, or maybe not even at all. When you get used to this sensation, you can try to keep going after you’ve had one orgasm, and go on to have another. You could also switch to penile stimulation, OR try doing a bit of both. Talk about explosive.

Getting to the Edge

Okay, so now you have a PC muscle regimen and you’ve finally found and stimulated your prostate—what else can you do? Here comes the real test of your orgasmic strength—edging.

Edging is the practice of you or your partner bringing you to the point right before orgasm, and then stopping, so you don’t cross the threshold. What this does is help you to remember that feeling so when you’re having sex, you can pull it back, and go for longer.

Once you have that down, you’ll start to get more control over when you’re actually releasing ejaculate. To get even more practice, you can use the Fleshlight Surge, designed with this method of stimulation in mind. And to help you get used to this feeling, you can try using Promescent, a spray guaranteed to make you last longer in bed.

The more used to this feeling you get, the more you’ll actually orgasm without busting, allowing you stay hard, and being able to orgasm again. Essentially, you’re building muscle memory, just like any other workout you would do.

WOW. That was a whole lot to digest. While many of you will want to try this out, it does take time, focus, and patience to master. So, if you really want to go for gold, you’ll have to be dedicated to the masturbation marathons ahead of you. At the same time, don’t get discouraged if you get a little overexcited.


By Jamie Pityinger, originally published on

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A Beginner’s Guide to Nipple Clamps https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/06/19/a-beginners-guide-to-nipple-clamps/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/06/19/a-beginners-guide-to-nipple-clamps/#respond Tue, 19 Jun 2018 18:45:45 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6149 A Beginner's Guide to Nipple Clamps

Although nipple clamps might seem pretty self-explanatory (nipples: meet clamps, etc.), to get the most pleasurable experience with them, you’ve gotta know your stuff. Here, Dr. Carol Queen, PhD; Carmel Jones, a sex and relationships expert; and Dr. Sadie Allison, Sexologist and

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A Beginner's Guide to Nipple Clamps

A Beginner's Guide to Nipple Clamps

Although nipple clamps might seem pretty self-explanatory (nipples: meet clamps, etc.), to get the most pleasurable experience with them, you’ve gotta know your stuff. Here, Dr. Carol Queen, PhD; Carmel Jones, a sex and relationships expert; and Dr. Sadie Allison, Sexologist and author of Tickle Your Fancy–A Woman’s Guide to Sexual Self-Pleasure, break down everything you need to know about this lo-fi but still highly stimulating sex toy:

1. The feeling isn’t one-size-fits-all. As Jones explains, clamps attach directly to the nipple and increase sensation by clamping down and forcing out the blood flow from the nipple, similar to the feeling of being pinched. Jones says the resulting feeling from the pinch feels dull, almost numb. However, depending on the type of clamp, you can experiment with the intensity of the clamping and/or the slack of the nipple chain, if there is one.

2. They’re good for multitasking. Yes, nipple clamps are great on their own, Why You Should Pay Attention to Nipples During Sexbut as Dr. Queen previously has pointed out, they’re also great for hands-free nipple play. Investing in a pair means you or your partner can focus on other things, like oral sex or bringing different toys into the mix.

3. They’re very popular in the BDSM and kink communities. Although the sensation of a nipple clamp might not be for everyone, it would feel “exciting and intense,” rather than painful, for someone into BDSM.

4. But that doesn’t mean their usage is limited just to the BDSM and kink communities. Jones advises people looking to try out clamps that they shouldn’t be misled into thinking that the toy is exclusively BDSM. “They’re more widely used than you’d think,” she says, and suggests doing more research with an open mind.

5. There are many types of clamps. You can choose from clover, alligator, tweezer, vibrator, and vibrating tweezer hybrids. Clover clamps are usually metallic, and their default pressure is moderate, not light. You can increase the intensity by tugging on the chain and pulling together the clamps’ tips.

Alligator clamps are also metallic, but you adjust the pressure by loosening or tightening the screws at the tips. Most of these have rubber tips, though some might have “teeth” under the rubber to increase intensity. Jones says these are usually a bit harder to use for newbies when it comes to adjusting.

Tweezer clamps literally look like tweezers and often are attached by a chain. These also have rubber tips and usually have small metal rings around the arms to adjust pressure. They’re the most popular, because they’re the easiest to use.

6. For beginners, you can’t go wrong with tweezer clamps or tweezer-vibrator hybrids. Jones says tweezers are the best for beginners, as they’re easiest to use. They’re mild, easily adjustable, and a great “dip your toes” introduction into the wonderful world of nipple clamps. If you wanna ball out and get tweezer ones that vibrate for extra stimulation, even better.

7. They don’t have to be used just on the nipples. “They’re clamps, after all,” 3 Secrets to Having Nipple Orgasmssays Jones. “The nipple is the ideal place to use them, but if it’s a tweezer nipple clamp, for instance, it can easily double as a clit clamp.” Just make sure you’re not leaving them on for so long that you begin to feel uncomfortable.

8. They’re just as great during foreplay as they are during sex. Clamps are versatile enough that their usage is totally up to you. The idea is to keep the nipples constantly stimulated, as they’re often only paid slight attention to during foreplay and forgotten entirely during sex.

9. You’ll probably want to adjust them during play. “When pressure fluctuates, the blood flow changes, and the nipples don’t ‘settle’ into a certain state,” Jones says of adjusting the clamps’ pressure. To try this on your own, she suggests tugging on the cord, stopping and starting in rhythm to keep your nipples on their toes, so to speak.

10. They’re also fun to experiment with during climax. Dr. Allison suggests wearing the clamps during sex and removing them as soon as you start to climax. Not only will the blood flow rush back into the nipples, but nipple play also releases a chemical in the brain called oxytocin (the same chemical released during orgasms), so you’ll be in for a super-concentrated rush of sensation.

11. The length of time you’ll want them on varies based on tightness. You can leave on looser clamps for as long as 30 minutes and tighter ones for up to 10 to 15 minutes.

12. They’re great for all genders. As Allison explains, “Men and women have the same amount of sensitive nerve endings in their nipples and areolas. For some men, nipple play is an extremely pleasurable and preferred type of stimulation. For others, they may have overlooked this erogenous zone altogether, so it’s worth an introduction.”


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6 Effective Ways to Close the Orgasm Gap https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/06/18/6-effective-ways-to-close-the-orgasm-gap/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/06/18/6-effective-ways-to-close-the-orgasm-gap/#comments Mon, 18 Jun 2018 23:03:55 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6127 6 Effective Ways to Close the Orgasm Gap

By now we’ve all heard of the gender pay gap, and how women typically make only 80-percent of what a man earns during a lifetime in the workforce. I know what you’re thinking: “I’m not even an employer. And if

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6 Effective Ways to Close the Orgasm Gap

By now we’ve all heard of the gender pay gap, and how women typically make only 80-percent of what a man earns during a lifetime in the workforce. I know what you’re thinking: “I’m not even an employer. And if I were, I wouldn’t be short-changing any woman who works for me.” That’s good. But what you may not be aware of, however, is that women are being cheated in the bedroom, too—and that means some of us aren’t doing our jobs, guys.

The National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB) revealed that, although 85-percent of us apparently believe we gave our partner an orgasm during our last sexual encounter, only 64-percent of the women surveyed said that was true. Meanwhile, 91-percent of us came during that most-recent romp. That, my friends, is an orgasm gap, and here are some ways we can close it.

1. Open dialogue

If there’s one thing these numbers tell us, it’s that our ladies are being too kind, letting us believe we’ve adequately performed, when they actually the art of penetrationfaked an orgasm for our benefit. Make sure she knows it’s important to you that she’s satisfied—and not to let you off the hook with a fake orgasm that essentially means, “Finish up, and get off of me.” Every woman is different, so don’t assume they all like the same things. She may be too shy to tell you outright, so ask her what it takes to put her over the top.

2. Become cliterate

If you don’t know where the clitoris is, or what to do with it, you’re failing. While it’s easy for us to come during vaginal intercourse, women aren’t built the same way, and that clit needs stimulation if you’re going to satisfy her. Just bangin’ is not going to be enough to do the trick. The clit is where all those wonderful nerve endings are, and you need to work it. Protip: Most women prefer having the clit indirectly stimulated through contact with the hood or labia during penetration.

3. Ask her to masturbate for you

No, seriously. Because 64-percent of the women surveyed did not orgasm during their last sexual encounter, it stands to reason they may have had to pleasure themselves while we reveled in our believed prowess. In fact, according to the NSSHB’s findings, 60-percent of women are masturbating alone before the age of 20, and the numbers rise from there. If she’ll let you, you’ll pick up a lot by watching her reach the Big O. You’ll notice that she’ll alternate speeds and intensity. Don’t just watch—learn.

4. Oral sex

We’re not alone in enjoying getting head, fellas. If you’re worried about your ability to make her come during regular vaginal intercourse, you sure as hell better be going down on her to get the job done before you even think about finishing. Again, know how to stimulate the clit, and remember to switch up your speed and pattern. You know, like spelling out the alphabet with your tongue down there, instead of incessantly up and down, or side to side, only. When you do something right, she’ll respond, so pay attention.

5. Foreplay

The NSSHB study found that variety really is the spice of life for women 5 Things That'll Get Her More Excited About Sexwhen it comes to sexual satisfaction. In other words, don’t just drop your pants and jump on her. She doesn’t want to be rushed. Take the time to really get her worked up. Think of it as building steam until she goes off. Findings indicated that the more acts involved during an encounter, the better the chances are that she’ll climax. While more than 90-percent of us guys have no problem reaching an orgasm by jumping right into intercourse, barely half of the women surveyed said it was enough for them. It’s wasn’t until five different acts were performed that women’s orgasm rates approached 90-percent, so be sure to try different positions.

6. Bring in the toys

Honestly, guys, this is the easiest and the most surefire way for her to orgasm. And this isn’t an “if all else fails” idea—you should be using toys, anyway. Supplementing your lovemaking with a sex toy is what Batman or James Bond would do. They use cool gadget all the time. So should you. I recommend using a small vibrator to stimulate her clit while you penetrate her with your penis (if she can handle it).

In most cases, it’s not that difficult to help her climax. I do not doubt if us gentlemen put in a little extra time and care, we can finally close that gap for good. Who knows, women might even start having multiple orgasms. And then, for the first time probably ever, we can see a surplus. I mean, if women aren’t getting paid as much as men, they should at least be getting more orgasms.

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10 Easy-to-Fulfill Male Fantasies https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/06/15/10-easy-to-fulfill-male-fantasies/ https://blog.ticklekitty.com/2018/06/15/10-easy-to-fulfill-male-fantasies/#respond Fri, 15 Jun 2018 22:15:45 +0000 https://blog.ticklekitty.com/?p=6093 10 Easy-to-Fulfill Male Fantasies

We’re not enigmas, ladies. We’re actually really easy to please once you know what we’re into—maybe even a little too easy. Every guy is different, of course, but let’s take a look at 10 of the most common fantasies guys

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10 Easy-to-Fulfill Male Fantasies

10 Easy-to-Fulfill Male Fantasies

We’re not enigmas, ladies. We’re actually really easy to please once you know what we’re into—maybe even a little too easy. Every guy is different, of course, but let’s take a look at 10 of the most common fantasies guys have. Armed with this information, it’ll become alarmingly apparent what it takes to get and keep our attention.

1. Role-playing

I’m not talking about LARPing or D&D, of course, though I’m not ruling it out, either. Turning the bedroom into a stage can be a lot of fun for both of you, and it keeps things from growing stagnant. If your guy holds a powerful position in his professional life, for instance, there’s a good chance he may dig having the tables turned in bed, and being the submissive one. Maybe he needs a new boss. Or, maybe you’ve still got your high school cheerleading outfit and put your hair in pigtails, and pretend to be the “naughty babysitter.” Whatever the case, pretending to be someone else can be fun and liberating for both of you, and the rest of this list is going to give you plenty of ideas!

2. Oral sex

This is a no-brainer. At least, it shouldn’t be. I understand that some ladies may feel that giving head is gross, but it’s a great way to get our full top 12 Sexual Fantasies Women Crave Mostattention, and then take things in a more mutually-beneficial direction once you’ve got us worked up. You can always use a flavored lube to make things a little more delicious. And if you’re at a loss when it comes to getting him a gift, a birthday blowjob will do just fine in a pinch.

3. Watching porn together

This can be awkward at first, for both of you, especially considering that guys usually watch it privately. Try turning some on under the guise of being just for laughs. When the plumber shows up onscreen and that awful music starts, you’ll roll your eyes and giggle. But you might just learn quite a bit about what he’s into if you ask him to show you something he likes. And by all means, don’t be afraid to show him something that you think is hot, too!

4. The risk of getting caught

I don’t think this one only applies to men at all. Whether it’s making love out in nature, or in a public place where someone might catch you in the act, it’s an extremely exciting experience. Some of my most memorable sexual encounters where in places we could have been busted at any moment.

5. Fetishes

Make sure he feels that he can tell you anything, and you won’t have to ask—he’ll tell you. It may take some time, especially if he’s into something most people would find strange. But once he knows you’re into him, too, he’ll muster the courage to tell you about his little kink. Whatever his fetish is, listen to him, and you’ll usually find that what he wants is relatively easy to deliver, and he’ll love it.

6. Anal sex

The fact is, most of us want it. Some of us even want it done to us. No pressure. Just think about it. We know it’s a lot to ask. Oh, just make sure to use lots and lots of lube. Like, too much lube.

7. Threesomes

This is a fantasy most guys have, usually of the MFF variety. But it’s not for 4 Surprising Foot Fetish Techniques to Try Tonighteveryone. I completely understand not wanting to share the one you love with anyone else. In that case, maybe you’d consider just letting him watch you and another girl go at it. Trust me, he won’t complain. Or, maybe he’s into being cuckolded—watching you with another guy. Again, it’s not for everyone, especially when trying to maintain a monogamous relationship. Just be aware that it might be something we fantasize about in one form or another.

8. BDSM

It turns out that women are even more into this, on average, than men, so don’t be afraid to give it a try. A really cool thing about BDSM is that it doesn’t necessarily have to involve sex. For many, it’s a lifestyle, and a very rewarding one. It’s a arguably a discipline, no pun intended, and exploring it together can lead to greater trust and mutual appreciation.

9. We like to watch

Everyone knows guys are into watching porn, whether they’ll admit it or not, so what does that tell you about us? We’re very visual. We like to see things play out. We’re not going to mind watching you touch yourself one bit. And if we know you’re into it, we’ll do it for you, too.

10. Facials

Of course, I don’t mean a day at the spa. I know you don’t want to get any in your eyes or hair, but this is something nearly all of us would be totally down with. It can be hard for us to ask sometimes, especially if he’s in love with you and doesn’t want you to feel degraded. Know that who you are in the bedroom doesn’t define you outside of it, nor is it something to be ashamed of. So don’t be afraid of that naughty side. If you’re with the right guy, he really will still respect you in the morning if you let him do this to you—once you’ve orgasmed, of course—and is ready to finish.

In conclusion, some of this stuff might sound wild—or even a little weird. But maybe keep an open mind. You might be surprised by some of the things which turn you on. Who knows, you might discover you’re more into some of this stuff than he is.

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