Have you been acting more like an old married couple than two lovers in lust lately? Remember when you were that couple? You know what I’m talking about; the twosome who held up the drink line at the bar because you won’t stop making out; the pair constantly making googly eyes over brunch; the duo whose friends joked invented PDA because you couldn’t keep your hands off each other for a minute.

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It IS possible!

For more than two decades I’ve been a daily Magic Wand devotee. But the Womanizer Next rocked my world. Instead of providing super-strong direct clitoral stimulation, like the Magic Wand, The Womanizer uses PleasureAir technology to tease the almighty clit via gentle vibration and suction.

I’ve been around the sex toy block and there’s nothing on the market remotely like this orgasm-inducing beauty.

The Womanizer Next arrives in an elegant box, perfect for gift giving. Compared to a lot of plastic  wrapped sex toys, it’s a classy presentation. Once opened, it can be stored discreetly in its accompanying black satin bag. It doesn’t look at all like a traditional vibrator—and at first glance, you may not know what to make of it, but boy does it deliver.

Orgasm is a reflex and some women need more time than others to ramp up arousal. That’s a-OK. But if you’re looking to step up your response time – whether oral sex, intercourse or masturbation is next on the agenda – give this a shot. Although full disclaimer: I’m not advocating for women to put a stop clock on their pleasure. I’m all for women taking all the time they want and need to achieve pleasure – whether orgasm is the end game or not. (Sex should never be a race and the Big O doesn’t have to be the finish line.)

But the Womanizer can help get you from Point A to Point B faster than any toy I’ve ever tried. And I’ve tried A LOT of them.

For starters, the toy is extremely easy to use. Push the button to turn it on and off, then adjust between eight levels of intensity. (I tend to stick to the first four settings.) Depending upon the size of your clit, there are two clitoral stimulator silicone heads to choose from. You can also purchase replacements separately. The Womanizer Next runs with a USB rechargeable cord, so you never have to worry about replacing batteries – always a plus for those of us who have a well-stocked toy drawer.

I use the Womanizer Next for speedy solo sex experiences, as well as to also get warmed up for other sexual adventures. It’s much quieter than most of my vibrators, which makes it less intimidating to introduce into partner sex scenarios. Nothing kills a sexy mood faster for me than obnoxiously loud toys. “Oh, hey there! Want to play with my pussy and this phallic shaped jackhammer?” Umm, nope.

I typically enjoy giving oral sex more than receiving it and have a hard time climaxing from cunnilingus alone.

However, a quick stint with the Womanizer Next will get me to a point where I can actually come from oral alone. Go figure.

Another scenario: Sometimes, a gal needs to get off – pronto. When I’m stressed, there’s no faster way for me to relax than to masturbate. Orgasms release the happy-inducing hormone oxytocin, which has been shown to relieve tension, and the Womanizer Next often produces fast, multiple orgasms. See, it’s good for you!

For menopausal woman, it’s a godsend.

A recent study, the Treatment of Orgasmic Difficulty in Perimenopausal, Menopausal and Post-Menopausal Women, found that The Womanizer Next may be exactly what women need. Even though the study involved a small sample, every single woman in the study, as in 98 percent, had an orgasm while using The Womanizer Next, and 50% of them in less than 60 seconds. Wow.

Sure, how easily orgasmic a woman is to begin with plays into the equation – how turned on she is when stimulation starts or whether stimulation is optimized to provoke orgasm in the first place. But believe it or not, this technological wonder makes lightning fast orgasms a reality. As in your kitty will purr in one minute or less. I’m not making this up.

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Enjoy this one of a kind 60-second orgasm toy, bonus gifts and free shipping exclusively from Tickle Kitty. Once you’ve got your hands on it, and need more more more multiple O’s, check out some of Tickle Kitty’s top picks for powerful orgasms.

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What if I could tweak your talents even higher? From everyday lover to Clitoris Connoisseur? How will she thank you—after the biggest, strongest heart- poundingest orgasms of her dear life?

As America’s Pleasure Coach, I’ve uncovered surprising truths about female orgasms. Easily, the orgasmic upgrades that’ll turn your hands into living sex toys are often simple tweaks to what you’re already doing!

In fact, look at this one surprising truth:

Your clitoral moves are mostly sound. But these guided tweaks are your passport to ecstasy.

Really! With the few hints you’ll read below (and maybe even try tonight!), I guarantee you will take your girlfriend or wife by storm, bring out her TRUE orgasmic potential – then feel her passion come roaring back to you with erotic pleasures you’ll love, time and again.

But first, a quick word to every woman curious enough to be reading this! If you find yourself cheering and applauding the sensual touches I am now revealing to the guys in our lives we love so much (and want to love more), that blue Tweety bird at left will gladly carry your orgasmic tip-offs to all your adventurous friends (including one in particular!).

Okay guys, try this tweak next time you’re in the heat of foreplay: Do Nothing.

That’s right. When was the last time you got good advice, and that advice was to Do Nothing. Yet here’s what I mean: As you’re gently fingertipping her clitoris, and you feel her excitement on the rapid rise, instead of rubbing faster and faster, simply pull back your fingertip ever-so slightly and do Absolutely Nothing!

I guarantee you will drive her insane with lust. In fact, her clitoris may actually begin chasing your fingertip in search of the intense pleasure of your touch. So enjoy the chase – then resume giving her what’s now become a matter of urgency!

But what if her clitoris is still a bit of a mystery to you?

Try this:

Too bad they don’t teach this in school. Bet you’d pay attention then!

Knowing the “how” of clitoral touch works best when you know the where. And while every clitoris is as different as every snowflake – some hiding and others easily seen – you’ll always find the clitoris atop your lover’s two inner vaginal lips, cradled just below where they gracefully arc together (see illustration).

So how does it feel to her when you caress her clitoris just right?

Pretty close to how the head of your penis feels when she touches you just right. (And that’s a BIG clue to controlling the pace and pressure of how you touch her!) Now, the moment you try on your lover the technique I’m about to share with you—I guarantee you will magnify the sensuality of your touch so much, you will easily send her down that slippery slope to splashdown in Orgasmland.

Here you go:

The BIG secret to delight her with the biggest orgasms EVER comes in one 4-letter word.

That word is Lube – as in personal lubricant – which I guarantee will light up every one of the THOUSANDS of clitoral pleasure receptors packed into her tiny pleasure button!

Some may say that the natural lube provided by Mother Nature is all that’s needed. True… for some women, some of the time. But vaginal dryness, caused by medications or dehydration or bad timing will cause your gentle fingertip to feel like SANDPAPER on her clitoris. (I speak for all womankind when I say, “OUCH!”) Next time, try a little drizzle of a slippery water-based lube you can easily get at any pharmacy, or online, and you will QUICKLY glide her to sexual ecstasy.

How on earth do you think she’ll reward you??

Whenever you learn a cool new move playing your favorite sport, you probably score more, right? Same goes for sex. I hope you’ll try these moves I just shared with you, and I guarantee you’ll run up the scoring!

To sum up: Passion is a two-way street. Being a giving, generous lover always comes back to you in unexpected, erotic ways.

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Our philosophy: As summer days and nights heat up, so should your sex life. The season is a fleeting, vibrant time when you can take advantage of the weather—and the free, fun feeling that comes with it—to get some action.

So pack away your winter sex routine with your sweaters and boots, and give these creative summer sex ideas a try, from flamingo pool floats to rocket pops and boardwalks.

Go Commando

If you’re feeling extra frisky, try donning your denim shorts and flirty sundresses without underwear, says Gina Yannotta, professional matchmaker and COO of The Vida Consultancy. “Not only will you feel instantly sexier, but your partner will start squirming the moment you whisper in his/her ear about your certain lack of undergarments.”

Reduce Body Contact During Sex

Changing up positions is a great (and kinky) way to keep cool in the heat. Instead of positions that maximize body contact, like missionary or spoons, switch to those that minimize it, like cowgirl, doggie style or oral sex.

Have Sex on the Beach

Summer’s the time to realize this fantasy, if you’ve ever wondered about it (and who hasn’t?). “It could be a romantic rendezvous on an empty, moonlit stretch of sand, or a cheekier daylight romp hidden from the sight of nearby beachgoers,” says Yannotta. “For some beach-themed foreplay, give some frisky massaging as you work sunscreen into every inch of each other’s bodies.” Just, uh, make sure you don’t get any inside you, because ouch.

Make a Summer Sex Pact

Agree that with every barbecue, wedding, or event you attend together, you’ll find a way to sneak off and get it on. Tiptoe away from the scene and fool around wherever you can, whether it’s a steamy make-out or a furtive quickie. You’ll both anticipate it from the moment you walk into the party, making everything more exciting.

Play Strip Checkers

You might not think of a rainy-day game like checkers as foreplay, but here’s how you can use it to get in the mood. Write the names of outer garments like shirts, pants, etc., on half of the black squares, and underwear garments on half of the red squares. “When a person lands on a square, the other person removes the designated garment—from themselves or the other person; you decide,” says Cardyn Brooks, erotic fiction writer.

Give (and Get) Some Road Trip Action

The next time you’re both in the car heading to the beach or a camping trip, try having the passenger pleasure the driver—carefully. Don’t let them take their eyes off the road, but get creative. If it’s not oral, maybe it’s a little hand or finger action that teases them and gets them excited to get to your destination—or even pull over and take a pit stop for a quickie. But we’ll repeat: Safety first. If you think you or your partner isn’t the multitasking type who can enjoy a little pleasure while also staying alert on the road, please skip this one.

Experiment with Cool Sensations

Ice pops, ice cubes, ice cream … rubbing or dripping them all over your partner or even using a sex toy that’s been in the freezer for a while can give all the right kinds of goosebumps. It also brings a lovely, cooling twist to sex on a hot day.

Plan a Sexy Camping Trip

Camping is a great way to get the feeling of sex in public, but with the privacy and comfort of a tent. A spot by a river can allow you to enjoy that relaxing sound of flowing water, too. Be sure to find a secluded spot, bring comfy pillows and sleeping bags, an air mattress if you want some extra padding, bug spray, and everything you need to clean up afterward.

Get (Safely) Busy on the Beach

The secret to better, more comfortable sex on the sand: spreading out a bed sheet rather than a beach towel. There’s a lot less loose sand to worry about, and it’s harder to see what you’re up to from a distance. That’s because you can build up a little wall around you. The feeling of the sand underneath you and the sound of the crashing waves makes for a great time.

Try Fun, Frisky Inflatables

Take skinny-dipping to the next level by incorporating a pool raft or tube. Lie on the raft on your stomach and let your bottom half hang loose with your legs floating behind you. Have your partner grab your thighs or ankles and enter you from behind in wheelbarrow or doggy-style pose, or simply use their fingers to give you some pleasure in the water.

Play Kinky Twister

There’s something about summer that brings out the kid in all of us. Take the classic game Twister and heat it up a notch. “Use a marker to write solitary actions—like, ‘take off shirt’—on the red circles; couple interactions like ‘give 2-minute back massage’ on the blue circles; intimate questions like ‘what’s the most public place you’ve ever screwed?’ on the yellow circles; and yoga positions on the green circles,” says Brooks. You’ll likely find yourself naked and twisted up with your partner in no time.

Take a Cold Shower Together

“During other seasons, showering together can be a logistical nightmare of trying—and usually failing—to keep warm, but during summer you can sit back and chill together, talking, making out, and appreciating each other’s bodies as you cool down under the nozzle,” says Yannotta.

Lick Jell-O Off Each Other’s Bodies

It might sound a little cheesy, but Jell-O is a classic summer dessert and can be used to slurp off of each other’s bodies. “Put some in your mouth before you lick your partner’s nipples or give them oral so they can enjoy the squishy, silky texture,” suggests Sadie Allison, Ph.D., founder of TickleKitty.com sex toy boutique and author. Just don’t use too much before oral sex—we’re talking no more than a teaspoon, just enough to give a little flavor—because the sugar could risk throwing off vaginal pH and even leading to an infection if you use much more.

Use Fans to Give You Frissons

Grab a fan or three and let them blow while you get busy. Super-breezy sex will feel like an entirely new experience. If you have a larger floor fan and are feeling crafty, you can also tie a light sheet to the end of it to get air flowing under the covers.

Pack Extra Lube

Sex under water washes away your natural lubrication, says Allison. “It doesn’t act as actual vaginal lubrication, as many people think. So it’s a good idea to be prepared and pack some lube, no matter where your sexcursions take you.”

This article was originally published on Stylecaster.

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Could it be her orgasm isn’t playing hide and seek after all? Maybe Mother Nature’s just playing a harmless little tease on the two of you.

Why is it that many women don’t climax from pure penetrative sex? It’s because a whopping 80 percent of women need some sort of clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm—either directly or indirectly. This means standard missionary-style penetration often misses the mark from Mother Nature’s little flaw of design. Thankfully, I have the resolution to your non-orgasmic sex woes. Let’s beat Mother Nature at her own fun—by creating an abundance of orgasms for your lover, and even simultaneous orgasms for you both!

All it takes is a little CAT, or coital alignment technique. That’s textbook talk for the pleasurable sensations of aligning her clitoris and vulva with your pubic mound and shaft during missionary-style sex. Now, you can go from barely sideswiping her orgasmic trigger, to directly rubbing and stroking her clitoris for glorious orgasms while deep inside her.

You just need to make a small adjustment to what you’re doing now. Here’s the scoop:

Start in traditional missionary position, only with a small pillow under her hips (this’ll give her some lift along with support for her pelvic angle). After you gently glide inside, shift your body up several inches, so your pelvis is directly atop hers. You should be higher up on her now, with your chest near her shoulders (and no longer face-to-face). With this new alignment, your shaft is now providing pleasurable friction on her vulva and clitoris with every stroke.

Now amp it up: While staying snug and pressed against her, slowly grind and gyrate your pubic mound in small circles as you press against her vulva. Try visualizing her clitoris as you press on it, and resist the natural temptation to lift off and thrust in and out. Just keep your penis snugly inside her, and sense the rhythm she needs. You’ll know you’ve found it when you feel her holding you tighter and pulling you closer with her legs!

Here’s how it works: By simply sliding yourself up slightly, you’re giving her all the clitoral contact and delicious friction she needs to come. And with only that tiny position adjustment, you’ll advance from “good in bed” to “super-generous-five-star-giver-of-orgasms-good-in-bed lover”—and who wouldn’t proudly wear that merit badge?

Now that you’ve got the hang of it, take it to the next level: try incorporating a subtle sextoy like a luxurious vibrating penis ring along with masterful clitoral fingertip touching to keep the orgasms coming and coming…

You’d think Mother Nature would’ve set all this all up for you with CAT-like precision, but it seems she’s left a few fun things for you to still figure out on your own. So next time: Shift > Contact > Come!

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Once you’ve got the alignment down, spice up your bedroom fun with sex toys from  TickleKitty.com:

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Father’s Day is right around the corner. The kids are getting Dad a card… What are you giving your man…?

Instead of giving your man a tie, shirt or sweater, why not have some fun this year?

I’m going to make it easy for you with my special list of unique gift ideas that use your sensuality and passion to make this Father’s Day one he’ll never forget—most don’t cost a penny. And this’ll be one Father’s Day that you’ll enjoy as much as he does!

Throughout the year, men feel a lot of pressure to perform—sexually or otherwise. Why not take away that pressure? Show him how much you adore him by making him feel like a rock star. How do you that? Well, there’s one thing that every man wants. And the best part…? It’s not just about him. It’s about you, too!

I’m talking about pleasure—the gift that only you can give.

You know your lover’s body and turn-ons better than anyone. This is your chance to show him that you’ve been paying attention to his desires and demonstrate how much you want to make him feel good—both inside and outside the bedroom. So ladies, why not make this Father’s Day the start of a new tradition. Create your own celebration. Here are some fun ideas to help you plan that super sexy gift for your man that’s uniquely tailored by you:

1. Start early with text messages

• Hint that you have surprises waiting for him.
• Keep it mysterious—don’t give him too many details.
• Tell him how much you’re going to rock his world.
• Start heating things that morning with my free list of sexy sext-messages.

2. Get naked

• Help him with a task he’s been trying to finish at home—in your birthday suit!
• If he loves his car, wash it for him naked.
• If he’s into video games, take him on in the raw.
• If he loves golf, wash his balls—naked!

3. Shower together

• Lather him up and scrub him from head to toe. Take your time worshiping his body.
• Give him a good head massage when washing his hair.
• Offer extra TLC when washing his most sensitive body parts…
• Added benefit: When you get down to business later, you’ll know he’s squeaky clean!

4. Get playful on a dinner date

• Wear his favorite slinky dress or out fit—the one you know he really loves you in.
• Whisper sweet something’s in his ear. Remember… slooowly, quietly and breathy.
• Let your hand “accidentally” fall into his lap. Or, from across the table, slip off a shoe and tickle his crotch with your toes.
• Halfway through your meal, let him know that you “forgot” to wear panties. Then prove it.
• Bring a mini whisper-quiet vibe in your purse and excuse yourself to the ladies room for 10 minutes. When you return, tell him you just gave yourself an orgasm with it!

5. Let it ride with visuals

• Men are visual creatures. They LOVE watching you. So let ‘em.
• Get into positions that let him see you and your curves, and how much you’re enjoying yourself.
• Have you tried Reverse Cowgirl? Guys love this position. Try it, or another exciting new position.

6. A big finish

• That’s right. The thing that every man wants. A 5-Star blowjob.
• Use lots of lube and start with your hands. Why not surprise him with a new foreplay stroker?
• Remember, enthusiasm is the #1 thing a man wants from his woman when getting a great BJ.
• BJ’s are the ultimate way for you to let him know how much you appreciate him.

Just like you, men today want to feel connected to their lovers. They want to know that you are satisfied and that you enjoy pleasing them as well.

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Ladies, show him just how much you care. This Father’s Day give him the gift of pleasure—mentally, emotionally and sexually! He’ll appreciate it more than you know. www.ticklekitty.com

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Let’s be honest: diving into the vast ocean of porn online can stir up all kinds of feelings — some hot, some not. One moment you’re turned on, the next you’re cringing, confused, or wondering, “Did everyone in that scene actually consent to this?” That’s where female-friendly and ethical porn come in — and it’s a game-changer for modern viewers.

This isn’t just about candlelit storylines or “porn for women.” Ethical porn is about pleasure that’s mutual, intentional, and real. It’s for everyone who wants to feel turned on and tuned in.

What Is Ethical Porn, Really?

Ethical porn centers consent, chemistry, and care. It celebrates all kinds of sex — from sensual and romantic to kinky and intense — but with a deeper respect for what happens behind the scenes. That means:

Everyone on screen is a consenting adult, fully aware of what they’re filming

• Safe practices are prioritized
• Performers are fairly paid and often involved in creative choices
• Body diversity, gender representation, and authenticity are embraced
• It’s not about limiting what sex looks like — it’s about lifting the standard for how it’s made.

How to Find Ethical, Female-Friendly Porn

Search With Intention

Skip the clickbait. Instead, follow your curiosity to creators who align with your values and turn-ons. Social platforms like X, Instagram, and even Reddit are where many indie performers connect with fans.

Pay for Your Pleasure

If you love it, support it. When you buy directly from a performer’s site or clip store, you’re helping them thrive in a career they choose. Even small purchases or subscriptions go a long way. Avoid pirated or free tube sites that profit without paying performers. Try:

• OnlyFans (https://onlyfans.com)
• ManyVids (https://www.manyvids.com)
• Fansly (https://fansly.com)
• JustFor.fans (https://justfor.fans)

Choose Top Female-Focused Producers and Porn Studios

Prefer polished, cinematic content? These trailblazing studios blend high-quality production with values you can get behind.

• Bellesa Films – Real chemistry, directed by women (Known for female-friendly erotica and ethical production.)

• Four Chambers – Artistic indie erotica by Vex Ashley (A beautifully curated, avant-garde erotic film studio based in the UK.)

• Lustery – Real-life couples, real intimacy (Features authentic, unscripted sex between real-world partners.)

• Sssh – Erotica with real chemistry, values & ethics (Founded by women, Sssh creates thoughtful, ethical, and inclusive erotic films.)

• XConfessions – Anonymous fantasies turned into films (A project by Erika Lust, turning real fan-submitted fantasies into cinematic porn.)

Why This Matters

Supporting ethical porn means you’re helping shift the adult industry toward:

• Safer work conditions
• Better representation
• Sex that’s shown with mutual respect and real pleasure
• It’s a win-win. You get off — and you help create a healthier world for the people on screen.

Quick Takeaways

• Follow indie performers you admire
• Buy a clip or subscribe to a content platform
• Read up on your favorite studios’ mission and performer treatment
• Look for BTS (behind-the-scenes) content — happy, healthy performers say a lot
• Avoid free tube sites that steal content or underpay creators

For the Curious Couple

Watching porn together is one of the easiest ways to explore fantasies, open up communication, and deepen intimacy. Ethical porn is a great entry point because it sets a safe, realistic, and respectful tone that both partners can enjoy.

Pick a clip, press play, and talk about what turns you on. You might just discover something new — in the video and in each other.

Your pleasure is powerful. Choose content that honors it — and the people who make it possible. Conscious viewing is sexy.

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You may already know this, but chances are, your girl uses a sex toy (or several). Pretty dang hot to think about, right? And although she’ll always enjoy using them alone as an essential and healthy part of her sexual release and discovery, she’d probably love to have you join.

Sex toys are super efficient and amazing and will probably take over the world one day. But they lack in one crucial area: emotion (for now). My friend, that’s where you come in. Along with your undoubtedly magical body, you bring laughter, affection, and unforgettable memories the two of you will never be able to stop talking about. If that wasn’t enough, here are five reasons sex toys will lead you to better and more frequent sex.

1. It exudes selflessness

Some fellas have it in their head that using sex toys is cheating as if sex was some kind of game fueled by the ego. Without getting too poetic on you, sex is so much more than that.

Therefore, the man who can check his ego and enhance bedroom activities for the selfless reason of improving his lover’s experience is the same man who will not only be considered an ideal lover but also receive admiration and reciprocity sevenfold.

2. It helps you, like, get to know yourself, man

It’s all about self-discovery, man. So spark a joint, put on some smooth jazz or that other stuff you’re into, maybe light a few candles… Sex toys will help you map out your body, unleashing the unique and surprising things that make you feel really good. You’ll be all like, “Whoa! Hey now, what the heck was that? I kind of like that.” Then, you can take your newfound body awareness to your lover, so she knows exactly what you like. This will make you a more confident lover (which is one of the hottest things a girl could ever want in the bedroom).

3. It’ll help you last longer

When you practice alone with a self-masturbater like the Hummer, which is as close as it gets to the real thing, it will feel awesome, while helping you build up your sexual stamina for your next encounter with a real-life woman.

And when you use a penis ring with your lover, it can help you go the distance in two ways. First, when applied around the base of your penis and testicles, it can effectively prolong ejaculation via the “squeeze technique.” Secondly, it will trap blood in your penis, so if you have trouble maintaining an erection for an extended time, cock rings will help your erection compete with your appetite (and your cardio). The Tammy Couple’s Ring is the perfect choice because it will help you last longer, while making her come quicker, so you can hopefully orgasm at the very same time.

4. It leads to more orgasms

Sexual pleasure, in its many forms, could not be as accessible as it is today without sex toys. Whether you’re physically disabled, single, or have trouble climaxing, sex toys will ensure you don’t miss out on all the fun.

There are even sex toys if you’re in a long distance relationship. The Moxie gives all the power to the person with the remote, so even if your lover is across the globe, you can still give her orgasms.

5. It will enhance her experience

Guys, you’ve probably already noticed this because you’re totally on it, but many women have trouble climaxing if the clitoris is neglected. It’s biology. So what humanity did was create toys for the clitoris like vibrating wands and clitoral suction toys and vibrating cock rings to more effectively give the attention her clitoris deserves while you’re able to focus on your penetration game. This combination of pleasure will drive her wild, and possibly more so than any other item on this list, make the sex better and more frequent.

Even after reading the points above, some may think introducing sex toys in the bedroom will only benefit her. But who do you think benefits the most when she benefits from something in her life? First her cat, and then… YOU. That’s right, man. If you’re ready for your life (especially your sex life) to reach new levels of greatness, I highly recommend surprising your girl with a new toy.

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Giving great oral pleasure is an art, and if you want to create a masterpiece, you’ve got to equip yourself with the right tools. Even the most talented fingers, lips, and tongues can level-up their oral expertise with a drawer full of sexy accessories. Tickle Kitty has got you covered on the best vibrators, lubes, and sensation-enhancing toys to play wing-man (or woman) to your mouth, and we’ve listed the best ways to play:

1. Keep it Wet and Slippery

Wetter is always better, especially when it comes to oral lovin’. Even the wettest and wildest babes will feel the difference between plain ol’ body fluids and an extra dose of moisture from a sensual lubricant. Spring for a tasty delight like with flavored lube for an added bonus. Once you’ve drenched your partner’s penis or vulva in strawberry sweetness, enjoy lapping it up with your lips and tongue as you explore every inch of their nether regions. For vagina owners, always double-check your ingredients, especially when flavor is involved. A healthy, hypoallergenic lube that’s safe for your insides and outsides—like Slippery Kitty—will be pH balanced, water-based, and free of glycerin and paraben. Drizzle on the wet stuff like you’re making an ice cream sundae and go to town!

2. Suck and Stroke

Just when he thought it couldn’t get much better than a warm mouth and soft tongue, introduce your new secret weapon: a men’s stroker. Penises love texture, and a squishy oral-friendly sleeve, like the Hummer Penis Stroker, brings a new dimension to your head-giving game. The Hummer is full of soft bumps, twists, and turns that feel incredible as they bob up and down his erect penis. Lube him up and alternate between licking and sucking his member with your mouth while stroking him with the masturbator sleeve. If you’ve got a sensitive gag reflex, use the sleeve as an extension of your mouth and suck on the tip of the penis while using the masturbator to stimulate his shaft. No matter how you choose to play, he’ll be in ecstasy with his two favorite things: smokin’ hot oral sex, and a new toy just for him.

3. Pulse and Play

Men’s sex toys have been catering to blow job lovers since the invention of the wheel. It’s about time the ladies had the luxury of top-of-the-line oral delights. Thanks to the Womanizer, vulva owners can now experience all the body-tingling sensations of the most skilled oral giver, all in the palm of your hand. The Womanizer uses tiny pulses of air to recreate the feeling of a gently sucking pair of lips. Although this unique toy is awesome for solo time, we think it also makes the perfect addition to couples’ oral play. Hand it to your partner and use it during foreplay to jump-start the sensitive nerve endings in the clitoris. Once you’re warmed up, move the Womanizer’s suction cup lower on your labia while your lover gently licks your clitoris (or vice versa with a tongue on your labia and the toy on your hot button). This little oral wonder is also a great way to reach your big-O with the helping hand of your partner if you can’t always climax during oral. For tireless lovers (and the occasional tired tongue), the Womanizer hits the spot every time.

4. Jump, Jive, N’ Moan

There’s nothing like a blended orgasm—that toe-curling combination of clitoral and g-spot climax in harmony. Bring some good vibrations to your oral session with a wearable internal sex toy, like the Warming G-spot Swirl. Insert the Swirls curved, bulbous head into your vagina while letting the flatter, outer piece rest on your vulva and clitoris. The internal G-spot shaft will rock you like no other while the vibrating pad simultaniously carresses your vulva’s sensitive nerve endings. Before you get down to sexy business, make sure you’ve got your cell phone handy. This sex-tech vibe connects to an app on your smart phone, where your partner can easily control the vibrational patterns with a single swipe. Givers, take note: to drive her absolutely wild, change your tongue technique every time you click to the next vibration setting. As an added bonus, the Jive teases your partner across the bedroom or across the world. When you can’t get a taste of your lover, the bluetooth connection enables long-distance play time.

5. Booty Rockin’

Oral connoisseurs are always looking for their next thrill. If you’ve tried every sex tip in the book and are looking for a truly unforgettable orgasm, anal stimulation can be a mind-blowing new addition to your oral repertoire. Start slowly with a beginner-friendly small plug, like the Little Zinger. This gently-weighted anal toy is comfortable to insert and offers a little extra fullness as it’s shape stimulates the nerve endings in your anus. Wear it while receiving oral sex and you’ll immediately notice those extra tingles that can only come from teasing your tush. Once you’ve fallen in love with the delicious mix of oral and anal pleasures, spring for a pyrex anal toy like the App-Controlled Ditto+. Let your lover buzz you into orgasm as they take control of the Trio’s remote and three strategically-placed motors while working their mouth over your vulva. If you love blended orgasms, simultaneous clitoral and anal play take pleasure to the next level.

Just when you thought oral sex couldn’t get any better, add a vibe, lube, or stroking tube to bring an extra zing to your tongue skills. There’s no better way to blow your partner’s mind than with some spine-tingling toy tricks!

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You probably give good blowjobs. Actually, you probably give great blowjobs. But have you mastered the art of deep-throating? This hard-to-attain skill can come in handy for a truly mind-altering blowjob.

Disclaimer: Deep-throating is not at all necessary for a great BJ, so if it’s not something that appeals to you there’s no reason to feel bad. Its merely something to add to your repertoire if the idea of taking a whole penis in your mouth excites both you and your partner.

And if it does…here are a few tips and tricks to getting it done just right.

Train Your Gag Reflex

Usually the number one reason why people have a tough time with deep-throating is that they have a sensitive gag reflex. A gag reflex is the trigger your brain sends your body when it thinks you might be choking, and releases that lurching in your throat and stomach to get you to cough up whatever might be harming you. (Thanks, brain!) And while that is good for our survival, it’s not great for deep-throating because we’re not really going to choke on a dick.

You can train your gag reflex, however, so that it becomes more resistant. You can try putting his penis into your mouth a little deeper each time so that your body gradually gets used to the sensation of having it there. You can try this with a safe object that is not his penis, as well, but just be careful and take it slow.

Breathe Through Your Nose

You’d be surprised at how many people forget to breathe when they’re giving a blowjob. Deep-throating can be a lot of mental work, but while you’re concentrating you should also be breathing the entire time—through your nose. You’ll be amazed at how much easier it becomes. Also, tighten your abs while you do it. This helps to ease up the gag reflex, as well. We’re not sure why, but it works.

Change Positions

Every person’s penis and throat are different, so changing up positions could be the way to deep-throat sensationally. One position that seems to work (almost) across the board is when the giver lays on the bed with his/her head hanging over the edge of the bed. This opens up the L-shaped throat so that a penis can fit fully in. I recommend starting with this position, then adjust as necessary. Always listen to your body and do what feels the most natural for you and your lover.

Use Lube

Just do it. Spit is not a lubricant. It will get dry. Lube makes everything (EVERYTHING) in sex better. There’s no reason to not use it. There’s even flavored lubes to make your deep-throating experience even tastier. 

Use Your Hand

If it’s still a challenge for you to master the deep-throating, wrapping your hand around his penis as you put it in your mouth can create a similar sensation to deep-throating for him. Keep the up-and-down movement of your hand at the same pace as the movement of your mouth for the full effect. Every inch of his penis will be stimulated using this technique, so it will feel fantastic but is also less work for you.

Be in control

Blowjobs can and should be just as much fun for the giver as they are for the receiver. Yes, the act is designed with the pleasure of the receiver in mind, but this should be fun for you, too. As hot as it might be to have him “fuck your face”, you want to be in control when you’re deep-throating. Go at your pace. Stop when you need to. Use your hand, use lube, slow down, speed up. This is about your comfort and enjoyment, just as much as it is about his pleasure.

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Upgrade your deep-throating with the help of toys from TickleKitty.com

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You know all those things you should be doing before sex? Like kissing, and touching, and all that other sexy stuff called foreplay? (Which I hope you make lots of time for). Well, there’s some other important things I recommend you try before you even begin foreplay fun. Let’s call it foreplay before the foreplay, or pre-foreplay. I know, it sounds pretty awesome.

Just when you thought sex couldn’t get any better, these thoughtful pre-game touches may take lovemaking to the next level. So please consider the ideas below, and feel free to give these ideas your own creative twist, as no one would be better suited to plan out what will make his jaw drop.

Sensual Prep

Soothe your skin. Skip the Jergens and reach for Almond Oil to lather up with. It’s great for your skin, giving you a natural glow, while making you smell heavenly and feel delicious in his arms.

Add a dash of Vanilla. It’s one of the sexiest scents, and has been proven to drive men wild. Dab some in unexpected hot spots like your cleavage, nipples, navel, and inner thighs. The sultry scent on your erogenous zones will surely be a pleasant surprise.

Mental Prep

Stimulate the biggest sex organ of all—the Brain. Try reading some titillating literature like “5-Minute Erotica” together in bed—out loud. You may be surprised at how arousing that can be.

Get flirty. Try flirting throughout the day so you’ll both be hot from the minute you see each other. Send naughty sexts or voice-messages like “I’m dying to please you tonight,” and, “I love how you touch my ____.” Or, go saucier with, “I want you in my mouth,” and “I’m going to leave you exhausted tonight, baby.”

Physical Prep

Touch yourself. Take some you time before date night begins, by teasing, caressing and exciting yourself. This will get you nice and aroused for when the magical moment comes. But don’t go all the way—edge yourself and play just enough to get your cheeks rosy and your juices flowing.

Be Adventurous

Buy a new sex toy and lube. If you’re new to toys, I recommend The Wave couple’s orgasm ring. It’s easy on the eyes, perfect to use together during lovemaking, can give women amazing orgasms—and sometimes simultaneously with your lover!

Remember, it doesn’t take much to make a huge difference in the bedroom. It’s all the little things that make sex extraordinary, and I have a sneaking suspicion that the above ideas, along with a few of your own, will get you there perfectly. Meoow!

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Stumbling through the proverbial ocean of porn sites leads to a lot of different emotions, many of which seem to happen at the same time: arousal, attraction, confusion, disgust, envy. In an effort to weed out the stuff we don’t want to see, a sort of catch-all phrase has popped up in response to the negative stereotypes built around typical male-centric content.

“Female-friendly porn” has become a buzz phrase and trend in modern adult film-making. It’s a huge, positive step in the right direction towards a healthier adult industry, but sometimes the topic needs a little explanation. What is actually meant by this phrase is “ethical porn,” which doesn’t limit itself to specific kinds of sex acts. Humans of all sexes and gender identities are turned-on by all different kinds of sex, which can range from slow-burning romance to hard-and-heavy BDSM scenes to one-night stands with strangers. It’s a misconception that women only like plot-driven porn with lots of dialogue and first dates prior to the main event. Ethical porn seeks to create various sex scenes that focus on consent and chemistry between performers, safe and sane sex acts with respect to the actors’ limits, and proper compensation for the actors who make a living as sex workers.

The amount of adult videos online is daunting when you’re trying to narrow down your turn-ons and find porn that is produced with the utmost respect for the performers. We’ve got some tips for finding the hottest scenes that you can watch while knowing the people on screen are happy, healthy, and having fun.

Search Social

Before you get down to real business, do some research on porn actors that have the same turn-ons as you. Social media is a great place to begin because many performers love sharing their latest content with their adoring fans. Sex-positive culture websites and organizations are also usually linked to performers who focus on positive porn ethics. Search hash tags like #sexualwellness, #sexworkisrealwork, #sexpositive, and #fetishmodel to get started on your search for like-minded porn actors and actresses. You can also use porn tube sites to preview different kinks and fetishes and the people who love showing them off. Once you start clicking around, you’ll probably stumble on more than a few performers whose pique your interest. Whether you’re searching on Instagram or Porn Hub, dig deeper to find the performer of your choice and learn more about what kind of specialty content they create and where you can find it.

Support the Cause

We know, the internet is full of free porn, but the people who are turning you on via video are also paying bills and student loans. If you’re enjoying their performance, they deserve to be paid. Whenever possible, support your favorite porn actor directly through their website or independently-run online content store. This ensures that every cent goes straight to the performer every time their photos or videos are purchased. Quite often, less ethical producers hire porn actors for a low flat fee per scene and then profit endlessly each time they re-sell the content, leaving the performer without any rights to royalty payments when their videos are sold. When you buy content through a performer’s self-run site, you’re ensuring that they can support themselves, just like anyone else who works hard at their day job. 

Sex-Positive Productions

Some performers prefer to work solely for producers rather than host their own website or content shop. Luckily there are many ethical production companies that treat their actors with respect and seek to create a healthy atmosphere for the people they hire. Wellness-focused porn directors and producers are generally vocal about their mission, making them easier to research on their websites and social media. Give their “About Me” profile a good read to see if a director or producer shares your ethics and views on what makes sex-positive porn. You can also search the performers they hire and discover more about their on-screen experiences with different production companies. Purchasing content from ethical producers is another way to support the people who are creating a better standard for sex workers. These types of video creators want their actors to feel safe during their scenes, and happy long after they leave the studio. If you see a porn performer continuously featured on a director’s website or smiling on-set in their behind-the-scenes photos on social media, it’s a often good sign that they’re working in a healthy environment.

Many of today’s adult performers are a new breed that seek to abolish false stereotypes and push for positive change within the porn industry. There’s still a lot of content floating around the internet that is less than positive for the people on screen, and it’s up to viewers to help raise the bar on healthy standards. Supporting ethical porn is a double turn-on: it arouses your sexual senses while giving you those warm, fuzzy feelings for funding a good cause.

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Once you’ve discovered your favorite ethical porno, finish setting the mood with one of these pleasure toys from TickleKitty.com:

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Sexy gifts? Yes Please! Pleasure is the gift that keeps on giving, and believe us lovers — we are experts in pleasure. In fact, you’ll probably want to be extra naughty this holiday season to get a very sexy gift!

We’ve compiled our top 10 favorite sexy gifts from our NEWEST collection to keep you or a partner on your toes this holiday season.

Self-Lubricating Lucy

Sexy gifts like the Self-lubricating Lucy is every penis owner’s dream. She’s soft, warm, wet, and always ready to embrace your erection with a loving grasp. Simply add some saliva or water and she’ll moisten up for immediate action, with every ridge and curve ready to please. Even better? When you squeeze her to open and close the air valve, the powerful suction strengthens to send you over the edge. We recommend giving Self-Lubricating Lucy to your lover for long distance pleasure, or to use together for and extra hot addition to foreplay.

California Dreaming Pasadena Player

Can you handle some dual-action? We totally think you can. Come play with this soft, contoured cup on your clitoris, and feel the hidden silicone tongue slowly dancing everywhichway on you. Now, as the shaft swirls, grooves, circles and vibrates your G-spot—try clicking your clitoral flicking pleasure up to the passion speed that races you to orgasm. Enjoy Pasadena Player solo with a good water-based lube, or show your partner how to pleasure you in absolute style.

Finger Wand

A dream is a wish your wand makes, and the power is in your hands! Get naughty this holiday season by getting handsy with the Finger Wand. Use the soft, silicone sleeve to guide the bullseye tip to your clitoris, nipples, or other sensitive spots — better yet, make it a public experience. Have your partner slip on Aria and caress your clitoris while driving, on a date, or in public — discretion is key with a bullet so small, yet so mighty! Maybe that secret trip to the bathroom during Christmas dinner may be more exciting than anticipated, lovers.

Wearable Vibra Plug

Ever worn a butt plug in public? Now is your chance with this sexy gift, daredevil! The Vibra Plug’s silky smooth feel and anchor base are made for play, or if you’re brave enough, wear it all day long. We recommend heating up the festivities by asking your partner (or yourself) to wear the Vibra Plug in thrilling occasions. Think cooking Christmas dinner, opening presents, or even building ginger bread houses. Let’s see if you can handle the heat!

Glam G Bullet Vibe

Love vibes but always longed for a more intense, pinpoint curve? We got you. Made exclusively for women who crave STRONG, intense, rumbling vibrations, come ramp-up the buzzzz from one to ten (although you’ll swear it’s ten to a hundred!). Use on the clit or reach inside with the perfect G-Spot curve, it hits the spot everytime. Trust us, your partner will be entertained for a VERY long time with the Glam G Bullet Vibe.

Two way pleasure: Wand for you, stroker for him. A true gift for two people to enjoy, the Masturwand is the future of couples pleasure. Grip this vibrating stroker like a handlebar, lube up the sleeve, slip inside, and gun the engine. Feel the open-sleeve design rattle and hum you in ways you’ve not yet imagined. Race it up and down— or hold against your partners clitoris as you stroke your way through – thank us later for the versatility!

Butterfly Arousal Kiss

Say hello to your partner’s (or your) best friend! Sleek, cute, and oh so flexible —the Butterfly Arousal Kiss hugs every curve. Tantalizing your G-Spot and teasing your clitoris with gentle butterfly flutters, self-pleasure sessions are going beyond the clock! Going up up and away with the strength of each vibration, you and your partner will be absolutely delighted.

Tushy Beads

Whether you’re curious about anal play or an experienced anal lover, this delicately sized plug stretches you gently with each bead. Pairing with a water-based lube, tease the Tushy Beads into your partner slowly, enjoying every ridge and pop. Who said your holidays couldn’t be a bit… eye-opening.

Silky Smooth Nöje G-Vibe

Want to hit that magic spot every single time? Look no further, lovers! The elegant Silky Smooth Nöje G-Vibe is the perfect pleasure tool for internal G-spot stimulation and exciting external clitoral play. With a perfectly curved length and bulbous tip, this joytoy was designed to specifically target the g-spot with deep, rumbling vibrations.

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The holiday season has our heads spinning! We scramble to organize ourselves, clear our schedules, and think hard on what we can give our significant other. Will it be a fancy new piece of jewelry? A gift card to their favorite shop? Perhaps a dream vacation or a puppy? Let’s think BIGGER. Nothing comes (and cums) close to the joy that is giving your partner relentless, undying, forgoing pleasure like a sex toy. Compiling some of our newest and hottest products, we’re here to guide you on the juiciest options for giving your lover a sex toy treat.

Why get my partner a sex toy for the holidays?

If you’re in a rut wondering what your partner will truly be head over heels for, consider gifting them a sex toy. Sex toys aren’t just an item we keep stashed in our drawers for nighttime. They are the gift that keeps on giving, and will last quite some time.

When you give your lover a sex toy, you are truly gifting your relationship additional fulfilling experiences. We recommend using new sex toys together, while you’re apart, or to facilitate new experiences. Novice and looking to add an element of “new” to the bedroom? Long distance and want to keep your sexual connection strong? Curious to try a new form of stimulation together? It can all be done with the sweet, buzzing, squeezing, and humming love that sex toys have to offer. 

Where do us naughty people start with sex toys? 

Lovers, don’t get flustered on where to start! The greatest recommendation we have for figuring out the magic selection is going off what your partner may already like. Think…

• If your partner likes oral sex, they may enjoy toys that mimic the sucking or flicking sensation of a tongue. We recommend the French Kiss Sweet Talker for women, or the Self-Lubricating Lucy for men. Add to partnered sex for some mutual masturbation, or use the toy on them — we promise you’ll fall in love with this experience.
• If your partner gets off on internal stimulation, try a vibrating dildo like the Noje Rechargeable Slim G or curved dildo like the nJoy Pure Wand for ultimate G-Spot stimulation. These toys are great to use solo or coupled, being a great asset for squirting! 
• If your partner likes to touch their clitoris during sex, try a rabbit vibe! Jumping to a rabbit vibe will stimulate them from the inside and outside with ease. We recommend our newest California Dreaming Pasadena Player for vibes and thrusts that never disappoint. Buckle up though, these are powerful toys that will make your lover squirm!
• Does he like a tight grip when you stroke him or blow him? He may totally love a masturbation sleeve like The Head Honcho, or a cock ring. Many cock rings like the Charged Big O not only keep him rock hard and sensitive, but have a vibe attached to give your clitoris the attention it deserves. 
• Been playing with fingers for some exciting anal play? Level it up with a butt plug! We love training kits like the Luxe Beginner Plug Kit and plugs like the Sassy Vibrating Booty Plug that can be worn during sex by your lover, but also a comfy prelude to anal sex. 

Don’t like guessing? Just ask!

Taking your partner by surprise by giving them a sex toy is usually a fantastic idea. Above are great examples, but sometimes the best course of pleasure is to ask your partner. Let them know you would like to get them a sexy gift for the holidays, there’s no shame! Tell them you would love to know more about what interests them to help pick your selection. While this builds amazing anticipation and shows that you care about their pleasure, open the platform to find out:

• Is there a specific toy they’ve been eyeing or thinking about?
• Have they had fantasies they can’t get out of their head that can be fulfilled with toys?
• Is there something new they would like to try like BDSM or kinky activities?
• What kind of sensations do they want more of? Perhaps more G-Spot love or clitoral vibrations?

Sure this may spoil the initial “surprise” of a sex toy gift, and that’s okay. This can put you at ease knowing you’ll get them something they absolutely want and love. 

Get a sex toy you can both benefit from

We’ve heard it all! “Sex toys take away from coupled experiences”, “Sex toys are replacements” etc. We don’t believe in replacements, we believe in added benefits. Many sex toys are created strictly for couples or with couples in mind, and here are our faves!

Some of our favorite options include:

• Cock rings with a vibe. Equipped with a vibrator to feel good for both parties, and are a small addition to a steamy session. The vibes not only hum the shaft, but gently graze against your lovers clit with every pump and stroke. Rings like the Tongue Her—Couple’s Double Ring Vibe are uniquely made with soft silicone to feel like a wet tongue, giving your woman an experience of a lifetime. The squeeze of the cock ring keeps you rock hard, and sensitive enough to feel every little move.
• Plugs anyone? Anal play is an equal opportunity employer, with all parties being able to enjoy its love. Your man can greatly benefit from some thrilling prostate stimulation, making sex ultra sensitive with powerful orgasms. For your female lover, she will experience heightened sensation in her vulva. With every touch, move, and technique many women report experiencing anal orgasms. We recommend our Tushy Beads for easy to use, and sensational anal beads that can be worn during play or plugged n’ pulled gently by your lover.
• Toys like the Masturwand double as a vibrating wand for your partner’s clit, and a vibrating stroker for your partner’s penis. Incorporate this into your sexy sessions, and watch how much you can both enjoy TOGETHER. 

Watch them smile with joy

You’ll never go wrong with a sex toy for your lover! On the contrary, you may just land in their naughty (and nice) list this holiday season! Opening the door to pleasure, we can’t wait to see what adventures are in store for you. 

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We’re dead smack in the middle of “No Nut November”, and truly, we aren’t holding up. If you don’t know, “No Nut November” is an internet trend started to challenge people to avoid “nutting” or having an orgasm for an entire month. Crazy, right? Primarily this trend has been aimed at men and avoiding masturbation — but is it just another gimmick? 

We’re debunking 5 common masturbation myths, helping you (and your self pleasure) stay strong, sexy, and healthy!

“Masturbating reduces testosterone levels”

A common argument against masturbation, and used heavily when asking men to withhold from orgasm and masturbation, is the idea of reduced testosterone or lower sperm count. This myth about masturbation has been found to be untrue, with masturbation in males having no long lasting side effects on hormones. A study that took place at a sex club found that “In both men and women, testosterone levels were highest after intercourse. Levels were lower before sex and on days with no intercourse. These results suggest that sexual activity influences testosterone rather than testosterone influencing sexual activity.” 

In many ways, we can actually predict that no sexual activity perhaps keeps testosterone levels lower, which doesn’t sound like much of a benefit to us. Keep cumming, lovers!

“Masturbation lowers sex drive”

While masturbation can help curve our sexual appetite when we are craving it, it most definitely doesn’t wipe out sexual desire. Ironically, regular masturbation can actually help us stay sexually hungry for more with ourselves and our partners. We highly recommend masturbating regularly even when you’re in a relationship, as it’s a lovely time for self-care and heating things up for when your partner(s) isn’t around. If you feel your sex drive has been off, set aside 15-30 minutes each day to self pleasure for a sexy boost in your routine.

“Don’t masturbate in a relationship”

A common misconception is that masturbating in a relationship means you aren’t satisfied with your relationship — on the contrary! Masturbating regularly is some well deserved “you time”, and keeps your sex drive thriving. Make it fun by having some mutual masturbation, watching each other get off and seeing your partner’s reaction. We recommend bringing some sextoys to the mix, or ones that you can control from afar to see them squirm with excitement. 

“Masturbating desensitizes you”

Ahhhh, the age old idea that if you masturbate you may desensitize your genitals! Back in the day, this myth was used to scare off people from engaging in some good ol’ self pleasure. Technically, you can’t get desensitized but, you can get used to the same sensation and seek more. 

If you’re masturbating often and feel like it’s lost its spark, try these few tips:

• Take a few days off in between masturbating. While some of us can masturbate easily 2-3 times a day, perhaps it becomes routine or doesn’t feel as exciting. Allow a few days in between to build anticipation, and see how good it feels  “cumming” back to yourself.
• Slow down: As we said above, masturbation can become routine for some. Instead of quickly slamming out the big O before work or bed, slow down when you pleasure yourself. Taking your time while you masturbate can help you build more sensation and anticipation — try popping on a film you love, or reading some erotica to get your imagination going. 
• Shake up your touch! Do you masturbate the exact same way, every time? This can get repetitive, and lose its magical sensation. Experiment with different strokes, rhythms, and pressures. If you have a penis, try using a sextoy like a masturbation stroker or cock ring to enhance the experience. If you have a vagina, consider switching your sessions between using hands and vibrators to keep every experience new and varied with sensation.
• Try using a lubricant like GoLove CBD Lube, which can help calm anxiety, decrease inflammation, and add a kick ass glide to your masturbation routine. 

“Masturbation is addictive”

Just like anything in life, masturbation can become a problem for some. But, this isn’t to say that frequent masturbation is any cause for concern, in fact it’s pretty typical. It’s totally normal to masturbate frequently, and yes, multiple times a day. If you have time, why not? Remember to shake up your routine when you masturbate so it’s not repetitive. Try varying with how much time you take, and take a couple of days off to see if that varies your sensation. There is absolutely nothing wrong with touching yourself, and doing it often — we strongly encourage it. 

It’s best to listen to your own body, and needs

Bottomline — don’t worry so much about masturbation myths or fad internet challenges. Masturbation is completely normal, healthy, and in many ways an essential in keeping us sexually vibrant and satisfied. The key is finding the best ways to make masturbation work for you, and your lifestyle. You are your most important (and safest) sexual partner!

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We get it, the heat of the moment is oh’ so hot and sometimes we just want to stick it in. But wait, lovers: There is so much more you can do, without even reaching penetration. Arousal at its finest is finessed through a number of ways, and even hotter when it’s a slow burn. 

This is especially true to women’s pleasure, considering peak arousal can take anywhere from 3-30 minutes in order to near orgasms. When orgasms do happen, they rarely come from penetration: clitoral stimulation is an absolute must. 

It’s a no brainer that we should take a step back and indulge in all the sexual treats we have to offer before starting penetration. Besides, why wouldn’t you want to be the most aroused you could be? Many people and couples also enjoy healthy and satisfying sex lives without ever engaging in penetration of any kind – which is deliciously fun! 

Here are our 3 favorite ways to let your pleasure simmer and enjoy waves of sensation without even penetrating yourself or your partner. 

Your hands are your best pleasure tool

Don’t underestimate the power of your hands when it comes to turning your partner on. They can be used to squeeze, grope, caress, pull, and massage all parts of the body. With lubricated fingers, ask your partner how they liked to be pleasured and have them show you. Perhaps they have a stroke and rhythm they enjoy most, or a rubbing motion that feels best for them. If they enjoy being dominated, try grasping their hair by the nape and pulling them closer to you while you kiss them, or gently placing your hands around their neck. Perhaps your partner likes to have their nipples pinched, or have their hips squeezed and pulled into you as you caress them. 

This can also be tied into mutual masturbation, which is masturbating together. Not only do you get to see your partner pleasuring themselves, but you see how. You learn the touch they love, the methods they use the most often, and their reaction. You can step in and help, or get off on watching each other. 

Get mouthy, literally & figuratively 

Just like your hands, your mouth can be utilized on every single part of your partner’s body. Make it count! Before jumping straight into oral sex, try trailing your lips and tongues along your partner’s body. Start with their inner thighs, work up their stomach, to their chest, and up to their neck and earlobes. These are incredibly sensitive parts of the body and the warm, wet feel of your mouth will be absolutely mind-blowing. 

Performing oral sex is perhaps more satisfactory than penetration for most women, considering it has the highest rate of orgasm turnout. When going down on your partner, ask them what kind of rhythms, pressures, and strokes they enjoy. If you’re giving head to a penis, do they like tongue circles around the head? Deep or shallow strokes with your mouth? How fast? If giving head to a vulva, perhaps they like circular tongue strokes or gentle sucking of the clitoris. 

Just as the physical is important, don’t forget dirty talk! Dirty talk can be very hot, and get your partner hot and bothered even if you’re in public. Try whispering something naughty in their ear while at dinner, or send them a sensual text. The mental stimulation can sometimes be more enticing than the physical, leaving your partner wanting more. 

Sex toys give pleasure in all forms

Sex toys are always our favorite option to recommend, since they can be used in so many ways. Whether you have one around for yourself or want to share with a partner, there are countless scenarios. We love having people teach their partners how to use a toy on them, and make it part of play. 

Have your partner rub a vibrator on your clitoris (we love the Le Wand Petite) while kissing, or on your body as they massage you. You can use a stroker on your partner as they sit back and relax, or apply a cock ring to watch their erection get stronger and stronger. 

Getting a bit more daring, have your partner wear a panty vibe while you go out in public. Using its remote control, play with different vibrational speeds and rhythms to watch their reactions. Besides, who said the movies or a fancy dinner can’t be sexually fun too?

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Role play? We may see it as something cheesy in movies or deep in the recommendations of a “sex tips” section in magazines, yet we do it every year. Does Halloween ring a bell?

Halloween is the time of year we all look forward to: The themed parties, the fun photos, running around like crazy to get last minute costume items. If we take roleplaying this seriously for Halloween, it’s obvious how much fun dressing up can be in the bedroom.

Role play is so much more than a costume

Beyond the costume, dressing up in the bedroom is a chance to live out fantasies, play certain characters, and add an element of thrill you’ve been seeking. Have you always had a crush on TinkerBell? Wanted to live out your Cat Woman fantasy? Waiting for Iron Man to swoop in and save you? Role play opens up the arena, making anything possible… with sex.

What’s your ideal role play fantasy?

Before roleplaying, have a conversation with your partner about it. Discuss what characters, costumes, or scenes have interested you: Have fun with this portion! You can set up a scenario with your partner, decide on characters, and discuss what you would like done. None of it has to make sense, which is the best part. If you want to dress like a hot nurse and they want to be a safari guide, make it happen and see how those two characters can come (and cum) together. 

Be your partner’s fantasy

Has your partner ever expressed that naughty cop fantasy or wanted to see you with blond hair? Now is the chance. Some have avoided role-play because they feel it’s their partner desiring someone else. This is rarely the case, more so, they are excited to see another version of you. Besides, what would be the fun of role-play without you in it? Talk to your partner about their fantasies, and vice versa. You’ll be surprised at the juicy ideas you come up with together, and actually get to live out. 

Embrace your alter ego with practice

Ideally, you’ll want to prepare for this moment and get into your character. Your character is not you, it’s your alter ego. Where you may be shy in person, perhaps your alter ego is daring and bratty. Perhaps you lead a dominant life, and your character takes a submissive, receiving role. We totally get it though: Acting and embracing an alter ego can make us nervous, or even give us stage fright. For this reason, practice being them in your day to day life. Think, how would Cat Woman start her day? Respond to that message? Put on her lingerie? 

If you’re having trouble with inspiration, try mirroring a movie scene. Observe how a character walks, talks, and even their mannerisms. Are they fast to respond? Move sexually? Talk loudly or low? Just a bit of practice can really make or break this piece. When we embody, we become – and your partner will love seeing you switch into character. 

Set the role play scene

The scene is almost as important as the characters and costumes! Plan out the best time, place, and what you need to make the fantasy come to life. Do you need to get props? Make decorations? Maybe plan out something daring, like saving your partner in public? If you aren’t sure about the setting, try meeting each other in public as “strangers”. While in your character, introduce yourself to each other and let the fantasy flow from there. Halloween is the best time to do it, and no eyes will turn your way as you both enjoy the most creative of thrills. 

Make your role play sexier with sex toys

How can you use sex toys to add to your scene and character? Say you’re meeting in public, can your partner control a vibrator while you act out your scene with the We-Vibe Jive? Can a wand vibrator like the Le Wand Massager be used as a character prop, say to replace a sword? Is your partner a cowgirl that needs a saddle, like the Cowgirl Sex Machine? Perhaps delicious blood can be replaced with an edible lube like Strawberry Slipper Kitty Lube? 

It’s your time to shine, lovers

Kick your characters into gear, set your scene, get your props, and buckle up for a night of delicious fun as your new characters. Be daring, be bold, and most importantly remember to have a few laughs: This is fun, and new!

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On the one hand, there’s undoubtedly a need for legal boundaries when it comes to le sex. Otherwise, decent society would likely spiral into a cavalcade of wild debauchery—we’ve all heard the story of Sodom and Gomorrah. But on the other hand, and just as the old adage goes, “the laws of man aren’t perfect.” Here are a few examples of certain governments doling out those sex statutes less for the benefit of society than they are just to f*ck with you (but, you know, not in a good way).

1. Lights Out in Hungary!

Ah, the eternal debate: lights on or lights off? Some of us prefer the sensual ambience that making love in the dark provides, while others prefer to see their partner in the throes of passion as they slip and slide all over each other. Well, in Hungary, the government automatically makes that decision for you. In no way are partners allowed to have any sex with the lights on. So, you could bring a friend; try introducing vegetables in bed; or, hell, you could even try dabbing some hot sauce on your junk to literally spice things up! But you better make sure that no one sees that weird-ass “O” face you guys make when you finish, or it’s jail for you!

2. Moms Lock Up Your Daughters—And Yourselves

If there’s one thing the male-dominated porn industry has taught us, it’s that getting it on with your girl AND her mom grants you an instant stud badge. Well, you’re out of luck if you’re a resident of Santa Cruz, Bolivia though, as local law states you can’t have a mother-daughter threesome when you’re in town. This had us thinking: how much mother-daughter ménage à trois’ were these Bolivians having BEFORE this law was passed?

3. Boinging Lebanese Beasts

Getting your jollies on with a different species is considered not just taboo, but a legitimate medical condition in most parts of the world. Lebanon thinks otherwise, though. In what could be one of the most absurd sex laws in existence, the Lebanese government ALLOWS men to have sex with animals. Just one caveat, though: said animal must be female. Because in Lebanon, it’s apparently okay to get intimate with your goat before turning it to stew, but under no circumstances should you have same-sex relations.

4. Colombians Need Proof, Dammit!

Colombia is known for many things: beautiful women, lovely beaches, coffee, beautiful women, Shakira, and beautiful women. Well, here’s another thing to add to your list of Colombian trivia: mothers are mandated by law to watch their newlywed daughters get their cherries popped! Now, this particular practice isn’t really new, as European nobles were rumored to have practiced this sometime around the Renaissance era, but it doesn’t make it any less weird. Its purpose: to have a witness around to ascertain the marriage has been consummated. Still, having your mom watch your defloration is like something out of a porn video. Then again, life imitates art and all that.

5. Indonesia Doesn’t Like DIY

A friendly reminder to all our chronic masturbators out there: Indonesia considers stroking the snake and flicking the bean a punishable offense. If you want to orgasm, then you better have someone doing it for you! Otherwise, you could be facing up to almost three years in jail, which is more than enough time for other inmates to make you their wife.

6. Estonia Wants You to Focus

Do you know what really grinds our gears? It’s when you can’t conduct a proper Sicilian defense while your partner tosses your salad, which is why you won’t see us visiting Tallinn, Estonia anytime soon. This Eastern European town expressly forbids people from playing chess while you’re intimate with your partner. This means Tallinn either wants you not to take the sexual experience for granted by legally compelling you to focus on your partner or, many an emergency room encountered cases of chess pieces being “misplaced” before passing this law.

7. Hong Kong So Long

Divorce can be a long, exhausting, and expensive process for countries that allow it, what with all the lawyer’s fees and drama that happens along the way in many cases. But if you happen to be a female citizen of Hong Kong, all you’d need is a few months of physical conditioning and mixed martial arts training to get the job done, because it’s totally legal there for women to kill their lying, cheating, piece-of-shit husbands… with their bare hands. POW! BAM! SNAP! You’re single again!

8. India, We Just CAN’T—Okay?

Whelp. There’s no better way to put this: India doesn’t consider marital rape a punishable offense. Now, we don’t want to sound like a bunch of self-righteous imperialists, and we understand that specific laws are governed by certain traditions that are dependent on any given culture. But really, India? Objectify much? Can’t we all just get along, treat one another equally, and have male-female divorce-settling deathmatches like Hong Kong does? Ugh!

9. Ecstasy With The Devil

Oh, you Californians and your weird hippy-dippy hibbie-jibbies. The Golden State understands that there are simply things that good ol’ Christianity can’t give you. To remedy that, California state law has made it legal for you freaky fellows to have sex with Satan. That’s right: you could absolutely get it on with THE BEAST, DESTROYER OF WORLDS AND EATER OF SOULS, SCOURGE OF HUMANITY AND ETERNAL RULER OF THE DAMNED. You’ll have to use a condom, though, because dicking around with the devil is all well and good, but no one wants you lugging the antichrist around nine months after you’re done.

10. Thailand Accepts No Substitutes

To say that Thailand is a hotspot for all your weirdest desires is no exaggeration. Want affordable sex change procedures? They’ve got you covered. Fancy your women with penises? All you need to do is ask. That’s why it’s quite understandable that the Thai government bans sex toys of any kind in their country. Come on, they’ve got masterful professionals who could literally shoot ping-pong balls out their cooch, and you’d rather play with penis-shaped silicone? Experience the culture, honey.

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Having just broken up with my boyfriend of three years, I was in agony all night. My plan was to hide out in my office. As manager, however, I had to handle the Concierge desk when my regular called in sick.

I forced myself to smile at the naughty giggles from the girls in their short, tight dresses and fuck-me stilettos as they stepped into the elevator with their horny partners to revel in a night of hot sex. My heart felt like it was being filleted. That was supposed to be me.

I was sure Evan was going to propose on Valentine’s Day. I reserved a suite, bought a new dress and shoes, and made hair, mani, pedi, waxing appointments. I even promised my assistant manager an extra week’s vacation to cover for me on such a busy night. Everything was perfect—right up until when he said, “I love you, Brooke, but I’m not ‘in love’ with you in the way someone as special as you deserves. You’re worthy of so much more than I can give you.” He was so earnest, I almost believed him. But when he stuttered, looked at the ceiling, and continued, “And, uh, I’ve met someone,” my heart was shattered.

As I finished with a guest at the desk, I thought I saw someone familiar out of the corner of my eye. A tall, dark-haired man had just checked in and was heading towards the elevator. (‘Is that?’)

I walked to the desk. “What’s the name of the gentleman who just registered?” I asked Marie casually.

“Allen Windsor. He’s some sort of professor. He’s here for that conference we’re hosting. Do you know him?”

“No,” I lied, hoping Marie didn’t detect the excitement in my voice. (‘Wow! Of all the gin joints in the world …’) “I’ll be in my office going over today’s numbers.”

As I closed my office door and plunked down in my chair, impossibly powerful yearning flooded my body. My head spun. My heart pounded. My pussy felt swollen and wet. I felt transported five years into the past to when I had the world’s worst crush on my Shakespeare prof—the drop-dead gorgeous hunk I’d just spotted. I moaned out loud. (‘If anything could save this Valentine’s Day. This would be it!’)

My ‘thing’ for Professor Windsor started because he was young, fit, handsome, single, and sexy, sexy, sexy. I’d always been attracted to older guys, and unlike the ‘boys’ I dated, he was mature, confident, and sophisticated. Yum! But my nuclear-powered crush came from how kind he’d been when my grandfather died suddenly. I got the call from my parents right before I was supposed to take his midterm. I went to his office to beg him to let me take it some other time. As soon as I started to explain, I burst into tears. He closed the door, put his arms around me, and let me sob it out. When I finished, I started to apologize, but he stopped me with the warmest smile, “You never need to apologize, Brooke. You’re perfect the way you are. Don’t forget that.” I couldn’t control myself. From that point on, he was the man of my dirty dreams. I got the biggest lifelike dildo I could find, named it ‘Allen,’ and pictured him fucking me a hundred ways to Sunday.

My favorite fantasy was that we’d consummate our love at the Graduation Ball.

As I arrived, my shimmering, uber-sexy red dress caught his eye. He strode over and led me to the dance floor. Between the desperate desire flooding his face and my painful hunger, there was no question what was about to happen. As he pulled me hard against him, he looked deep into my eyes. “Time’s a funny thing.” His voice was so sensuous, my knees buckled. He inched the zipper on the back of my dress down. “If I did this before today’s ceremony, we’d be in big trouble. But a few hours later, you’re no longer my student. Now there’s nothing to stop us.”

Furious pulling, tugging, and ripping left us naked in seconds. Throwing me onto the pile of torn clothes, he took me right there. Passionately. Repeatedly. Completely. The stunned crowd stepped back to give us room as we writhed, groaned, and moaned loudly. No one could take their eyes off us. Some were shocked, but most were envious. Screwing in front of an audience was intoxicating. My body shook as I exploded in ecstasy like never before.

***

I stood outside his door, shaking—a bundle of nerves and barely controlled craving. I took a deep breath. [Knock. Knock] “Room service.”

“Brooke! What a nice surprise. I thought that was you downstairs. I was about to come look for you.” His smile made me melt. The rest of him made me warm all over.

“We had some extra champagne.” I handed him a chilled bottle. “I thought we could catch up.”

“Wonderful idea. Let me get some glasses.”

I decided to go for broke. “You have one of our most scenic rooms. Floor to ceiling windows. Spectacular view.” Turning on all the lights in the room, I walked over to the drapes, and opened them as far as they’d go.

He came up behind me. “Time’s a funny thing.” His voice was pure lust. He pulled down the zipper on the back of my dress, slid his warm hands under the cloth until he cupped my aching breasts. “If I did this—”

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From clitoral erections to whether the G-spot is a myth, here’s 6 surprising sex facts you probably didn’t know:

The first electric vibrator was invented to treat hysteria in women.

The electric vibrator was invented in 1869 to treat women with “hysteria” or “female disorders”. This steam-powered massager was designed as a medical tool for treating “hysteria,” a medical term developed to describe a woman’s display of mental or emotional distress. This behavior was considered a disease in need of treatment – and was viewed as the most common health complaint among women. Physicians used these massagers for genital massage treatment, with the goal of inducing “hysterical paroxysm” (better known as orgasm) in the patient.

The G-spot is not a myth. And every woman has one.

The “G-spot”, named after Dr. Grafenberg (the doctor who discovered it), anatomically, is the urethral sponge. Every woman has a urethral sponge, which serves a biological purpose. This small, rigid, oval area of the spongy tissue surrounds the urethral cord and engorges with blood during excitement and intercourse, protecting the woman’s delicate urinary passageway from her lover’s pleasure-pounding. And when stimulated, it can provide great sexual pleasure for some women.

Women get boners, too.

The phrase “Lady Boner” is accurate. The clitoris is made up of the same spongy erectile tissue as the penis, which expands and engorges with blood when aroused. So, women can get adorable little lady-boners. The clitoris can double in size in some women! To observe this for yourself, simply look at your clitoris and vulva in a mirror when aroused, and you should see the difference. You can touch and feel it too – your clitoris may be bigger and more firm. But please note, every woman is different and clitoral erections come in all forms. If you don’t see or feel a huge difference, that’s totally normal as well.

If you don’t keep your clitoris active, you can lose it.

Use it or lose It. It’s incredibly rare, but there is a medical condition known as “clitoral atrophy”, which occurs when the clitoris doesn’t receive enough blood flow for an extended amount of time. This can cause the clitoris to retract into the body, or even result in the clitoral hood fusing to cover the clitoral head. So, it’s not just a good mantra, but good practice: “an orgasm a day keeps the doctor away!”

Contrary to popular belief, Cowgirl is the best position for a woman to orgasm.

The best sex position for a woman to orgasm isn’t Missionary, as many think. It’s actually cowrgirl, or girl on top. This is because she is in complete control of the speed, depth, angle and positioning, and can tailor it all to exactly what she needs to gyrate herself to climax! Pro tip: if you tilt your pelvis forward so your pubic mound and clitoris is pressing against his body with more constant contact, you’ll get more of the friction you need, and be able to create that amazing orgasm you desire.

The #1 thing men say makes for a 5-star BJ is enthusiasm.

When it comes to blow jobs, people often think it’s fast, deep stroking with your mouth that he wants, and that will bring him to orgasm. But the truth is while many men love the feel of your mouth, they also desire the added stimulation of incorporating your hands. And most important, being enthusiastic about it all. The combination of good technique, desire to please and enthusiasm is the winning combination. To learn about the popular “Double Twister” illustrated hand-stroking technique, pick up a copy of my bestsellnig book Tickle His Pickle – Your Hands-On Guide to Penis Pleasing and turn to page P. 71.

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One of the drawbacks of Ian’s plan to study in the U.S. was that he couldn’t afford to return home to London for Christmas. Fortunately, his advisor invited him to spend the holiday with her family. When he arrived on Christmas Eve, he was pleased to see that, in addition to his professor and her husband, her striking niece from L.A. was joining them.

Brittany was blonde, tanned, and gorgeous. Her radiant blue eyes were outdone only by her warm personality. Ian was enchanted by everything about her. Never having been to California—and suffering in the sub-zero Chicago cold—he couldn’t get enough of her stories about a place where bikinis, waves, and surfboards ruled.

The evening was wonderful. Eggnog. Dinner. Wine. Carol singing. Brandy. A roaring fire. More wine. Full of good cheer—and feeling the effects of having too much to drink—everyone hugged warmly and went to bed.

Just as Ian was about to turn off the light, however, there was a knock on his door.

“I’m sorry to bother you.” Brittany sheepishly poked her head around the door. “The window in my room is open a crack and I can’t close it. Will you help me?”

As they wrestled with the window, the lock broke and more frigid air rushed in. It was clearly too late to wake up their hosts and do repairs. “Don’t worry,” he said, “Take my room. I’ll sleep on the couch downstairs.”

“I appreciate the gesture, but this is a drafty old house. You’ll freeze. We’re both adults and I trust you,” she smiled. “There’s no reason we can’t sleep in the same bed. You just better not snore,” she joked.

Back in Ian’s room, the young man couldn’t stop from laughing when Brittany removed her robe. She had on a red union suit—complete with feet and a drop-seat. She turned beet red. “Laugh if you want, but visiting the Windy City is like returning to the Ice Age for me.” She jumped into bed, pulled the covers over her head, and muffled ‘good night.’

Drinking too much had an odd effect on Ian. He’d sleep so well, it was like he passed out. He slept so deeply, he could barely remember any dreams he had.

Tonight, he had two. In the first, he and his bedmate were spooning. It felt so natural, he reached around to put his hand on her waist. But instead of flannel, he landed on her soft, warm stomach. The bottom button of her pajamas was unfastened. Curious and hopeful, his hand inched up. He discovered all the buttons were undone, and the front of her garment was completely open. Unable to resist, he cupped one of her breasts. He gently massaged it, then the other. She sighed. As he continued, her breathing deepened. His cock stiffened and poked through the opening of his pajama pants. She adjusted her body slightly, and his shaft settled against her moist lips. Her drop seat had also somehow come undone! To his delight, he felt her hand on his cock. She positioned its head against her opening, and he instinctively entered her. There was no sense of urgency or need for passionate release. They moved only enough to keep him hard and buried deep inside her warm, wet pussy. He was in heaven. Sadly, the dream faded.

Later, he had another. In this one, he was lying on his back, completely naked, and rock hard. A passionate, nude Brittany mounted him. Coating his cock with her juices, she enthusiastically slid up and down on it. When she let out a deep groan, her pussy spasmed around his shift, and he came as well. As she lay on top of him, he sank into darkness again.

As daylight streamed into the room, he put his pillow over his face with a painful moan.

Brittany laughed. “Hangover?”

He moved the pillow just enough to uncover his mouth. “I shouldn’t have had so much to drink.”

“Sleep well, otherwise?” she prodded.

“I guess so. I think I had a couple of dreams, but I don’t remember anything. Couldn’t have been very interesting.”

When the pillow was yanked from his face, he was forced to open his eyes. Brittany was sitting against the headboard wearing only a naughty smirk. Looking down, he realized he was naked as well.

“It was a better way to stay warm than that onsie,” she laughed. “But if you can’t remember what happened and thought those were dreams, I’m insulted,” she pretended to be mad. “So if you don’t want to hurt my feelings,” she slid towards him seductively, “you’ll let me give you a Christmas present you’ll never forget!”

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They might look odd at first glance, but penis rings – also known as cock rings, love rings, couples’ rings – can be really easy to use, super FUN, and offer you the ability to achieve hands-free orgasms with your partner, during intercourse.

What are penis rings?

Penis rings are sex toys designed to be placed around a penis, usually at the base when semi-erect. They can offer an incredible feeling of pleasurable tightness and pressure and offer other amazing benefits too.

Some styles are available with two rings, so you can place one around his penis and testicles for enhanced sensation throughout his entire erogenous zone. Penis rings come in all shapes, sizes and materials that range from simple, super-stretchy silicone for newcomers to stainless steel for the experienced penis ring aficionado.

This is how they work

Penis rings slow blood flow from the erect penis, making it easier to stay hard for an extended period-of-time. This incredible men’s pleasure product can help with endurance and prevent premature ejaculation, while enhancing his every sensation. And with a now slightly thicker, larger penis! Plus, the built-up pressure from the snug ring at the base of his shaft can set off even more explosive orgasms. What guy wouldn’t want that?

The skinny on vibrating penis rings

These brilliant little sex toys turn a regular penis into a real-life vibrator. Not only do they feel great on his penis and testicles, but they offer the powerful vibrations needed to stimulate her clitoris that can lead to orgasm during lovemaking. Special features can boast multiple and rhythmic vibration settings, special clitoral ticklers, enhanced comfort shapes, waterproof designs and charging capabilities—to name a few.

Top voted bedroom accessory for lovemaking

When working with couple’s, I often suggest they have a vibrating ring in their pleasure chest. They’re a true game-changer for women’s pleasure, since about 80% require direct clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. For newcomers, a great place to start is with a disposable model like the Screaming O—it’s cost effective, comfortably stretchy, easy to use and has a powerful micro-bullet that’s sure to get you off.

Enjoying a vibrating penis ring

When selecting a vibrating penis ring, it’s important to choose a model that has the right vibration, features and best clitoral stimulator for you. For example, The Wave is a vibrating penis ring with a larger clitoral pad that effectively stimulates the clitoris’ 8,000 nerve endings.

Apply some of my newly formulated, water-based GoLove CBD Intimate Lubricant to yourself, and the vibrating penis ring, and make sure its snug and in-place on his penis. Then position the clitoral vibrator so its comfortably aligned against your clitoris. Ask him to try and keep the vibrator in constant contact with your clitoris as he gyrates during lovemaking. Or, if you want to be in control and navigate the vibrator positioning, gyration style and pressure, hop on into Cowgirl position!

More pleasure for him: Spin the ring upside down, so the vibrations are felt under his shaft and on his testicles and perineum. Many men enjoy the ultra-pleasurable vibration sensations and some even wear vibrating penis rings during solo-loving!

Keep these important tips in mind as you explore

Keep His Bits Trimmed

To avoid getting his pubic hair torn and tangled up, be sure to encourage he keep things tidy downstairs. An added benefit will be the enhanced sensations, because the nerve endings on his skin will light up from the all the heightened stimulation.

Don’t Overdo It

Try to limit your penis ring usage to 20 minutes per session. You might want to consider less time if it’s his first time until you get the hang of it. And be sure to remove it immediately if there is any discoloration or discomfort.

They’re Not For Everyone

Avoid cock rings if he is on blood-thinning medications, is prone to blood clots, is diabetic or suffer from any vascular diseases.

Unlimited Pleasure

There are so many options to choose from when it comes to penis and vibrating penis rings. It’s all about having fun exploring with your partner to find the style(s) that work best for you. Where to start? Grab your partner and peruse though the most comprehensive line of penis rings and beyond at Tickle Kitty and see what tickles your fancy.

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So you really like this girl, huh? Then this is no time to be lazy when planning a date that will not only impress her, but increase the likelihood of things really going your way. Whether this a first date, you’re still in the getting-to-know-you stage, or you just want to take your game up a notch, here are seven date ideas so hot they’re almost like foreplay.

1. Drive-In Movies

There are fewer drive-ins around than, say, when your parents or grandparents were young, but they’re still out there—and for good reason; there’s not much movie-watching going on. It’s way more fun than your typical megaplex. I mean, what could be better than a movie in the privacy of your car? The movie might not be all that good, but at least you’re free to talk without disturbing anyone around you. And there’s just something about that intimate setting that always leads to making out, or perhaps even more? But before you get to that, it’s not a bad idea to flex your creative prowess by hiding snacks in the various nooks and crannies of your car. Just don’t hide anything perishable in case you get squirrel-like amnesia.

2. Where Everybody Knows Your Name

I hesitate to put bar hopping on this list, as it’s not the most creative date idea. But there’s an opportunity for both of you to put a little twist on it: Take one another to your favorite watering holes. Even if we’re talking about a neighborhood dive bar, it’s always a good move to take her to a place where people know you (which, of course, doesn’t have to be a bar). It’ll put her at ease, and the atmosphere will tell her a little something about you, hopefully making her even more curious. Then, let her take you to her favorite spot. By now, you may have a little social lubricant in you, and have plenty to talk about.

3. Anything With Animals

I hope this isn’t news to you, but chicks dig animals. Don’t act like you’ve never noticed dog-walking is a great way to meet girls. Furthermore, don’t act like you’ve never considered adopting a dog to meet girls. Now that you’ve already met her, melt her heart by taking her somewhere she’ll be up to her ears with those adorable little panty droppers. A zoo is OK, but make sure there are hands-on experiences available. Otherwise, a shelter could be a fun little date that’ll show her your sensitive side, especially if you’re good with animals.

Protip: If you’re an experienced rider, she would love to go horseback riding. If there’s anything girls have adored their entire lives besides mermaids and unicorns, it’s horses.

4. In-Town Tourism

Every city has at least one place it’s known for—a place tourists visit while locals roll their eyes. But maybe there’s one in town that neither of you has ever been to in all your years there. While it may not sound all that exciting, this works on many levels. First, it puts you on even ground, in that it’s new to both of you. Second, it’ll actually be fun. Whether it’s a cultural institution, a sporting event, or whatever, there’s always something there to fill any lapses in conversation, and may even share some laughs at the expense of other tourists.

5. Brunch

This is an amazing outside-the-box date that’ll let her know you’re not stuck in the Netflix-and chill rut, and that you’re more imaginative than resorting to the typical dinner-and-a-movie fare. It also sends a signal that, being morning and all, you’re not expecting to bring her home with you, even if that’s secretly your intent. Some great food and late-morning drinks can be a perfect start to a date she’ll want to continue into the afternoon and beyond, so keep it going by following up brunch with another tip from our list.

6. Dancing

I’m certainly aware it’s not for all of us, but most ladies love to dance. If you can get by without making a fool of yourself (you actually know how to dance, for instance), this is a really great, even sensual, activity that will get the blood pumping and your bodies touching. And a couple drinks aren’t going to hurt in terms of lowering inhibitions for you both. Because clubs tend to be loud, make sure your time together also includes a quieter place to talk. Going for a walk is always a good addition to any date.

7. Wine Tasting

Independent wineries seem to have sprung up everywhere, so there’s probably one near you. If not, there are plenty of bars and restaurants that host tastings. This is a great afternoon start to a date that could last long into the night. Be sure to start with a tasting where you can sample the winery’s wares. It’s an opportunity to try one another’s selections and find out which ones you like. Then you should each get a full glass of your favorite and venture outside, where you’re bound to find some live music, food, and an opportunity to walk the vineyard and talk.

This type of date shows her you’re at least slightly cultured, while providing plenty to occupy you both in the event awkward silences sneak up between good conversation. And, typically being an afternoon activity, it naturally leads to, “What should we do next?” Plus, just saying, but a 2009 study in Italy suggested that moderate imbibing of red wine resulted in higher scores related to “sexual desire, lubrication, and overall sexual function” in women. So, there’s that.

In conclusion, you might want to consider bringing along a condom or two because these dates are pretty much foreplay. I mean, playing with puppies? A drive-in movie? Fella, you’re going to want to prepare yourself. While you’re at it, order some lubricant as well to make sure it all goes smoothly when things (inevitably) escalate. Hope you two have a magical time!

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1. Lover’s Foreplay Dice Game

2. Crystal Chain Nipple Clamps

3. Stretchy Couple’s Vibrating Climax Ring

4. Manta Men’s Vibrating Stroker

5. Clone-A-Willy

6. Flash Star Erotic Pasties

7. Pump Up The Love – Couple’s Suction Kit

8. Stay Hard Adjustable Loop Ring

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Vibrator Addiction & Desensitization

Easy O’s From Penetration Alone

Partners Being Responsible For Each Other’s Orgasms

“Good Sex” Equals an Orgasm

Multiple Orgasms For Women, Only

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After a glorious spa day, the two women lounged in the hot tub, sipping champagne.

Rebecca winked at her friend. “I’d say it’s time.” She walked to the electrical panel and flipped a switch. The waters stopped swirling and the tub’s lights extinguished. “Oh my, something’s wrong. Whatever will we do?” she smirked.

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“I know I said we wouldn’t bother you, Sweetie, but the hot tub died. Would you be a dear and take a look?”

Her husband groaned. “OK. But if I can’t fix it right away, we call someone tomorrow. I’m in the middle of a great game.”

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Two seconds after Carl peered into the electrical box, he snapped the switch back. The two women were enveloped by the swirling waters and bathed in the tub’s sensual red light.

“Sorry to bother you,” his wife apologized. “Go back to your game. We were just reminiscing about college.”

He turned and hurried towards the door. The game was a real nail-biter. As he put his hand on the doorknob, he heard his wife say, “I still can’t believe I let you seduce me that time.” The two women giggled. Stunned, he froze in place and listened.

“From what I remember,” Stephanie replied, “it didn’t take much convincing.”

“I guess I was at that curious stage.”

Carl turned and walked to the tub. “Did you just say what I think you said?”

“The time the two of us had sex? I’m sure I told you.”

His prim and proper wife had sex with her friend in college? There’s no way he would have forgotten that. “Trust me. You didn’t.”

“Sorry. I guess I forgot,” she replied casually. “It was just one of those silly freshman things that didn’t mean anything.” She waved her hand in the air. “Go back to your game, honey. We’ve kept you long enough.”

Carl took a step towards the door … turned back … turned around again. His face showed how much he was struggling.

Stephanie came to his rescue. “I think your hubby is being a gentleman. He wants to respect your privacy, but he’s dying to know the details.”

“Seriously, it was nothing, Sweetie. Go watch your game.” She paused long enough to dash his hopes. “But … if you’re really interested, you have to get in with us. I don’t want to shout over the sound of the tub and entertain the neighbors with details of my escapade.”

Carl quickly stripped down to his navy-blue boxer briefs, climbed in, and sat on the bench facing the two women.

“So, freshman year,” Rebecca began. “We’d partied a lot and felt like hot, sexy, women of the world. For spring break, we went to Steph’s home in Florida. Her parents were away, so we had the run of the house—especially the wine cellar.”

“One night,” Stephanie took up the story, “we got nicely toasted, put on our bikinis and slid into the hot tub. I said Becky’s suit was so cute, I’d love to see what it looked like on me. She offered to let me try it on—and I accepted immediately. But I freely confess I was just trying to get her naked. I insisted on helping her untie her top and then—. You know, it would be easier to show you. Stand up, Becky.”

Carl’s eyes popped as he saw two naked women emerge from the swirling red water. His wife always insisted on wearing a bathing suit in the tub. She worried about the neighbors catching a glimpse of her if she were naked.

“I told Becky I thought her boobs were beautiful. Stroking them like this …” Her hands proceeded to massage her friend’s breasts. … “I oohed and aahed over how soft they were … how sexy it was that her nipples were poking out.” She squeezed the prominent dark chocolate points. Her friend moaned.

“Seeing how gorgeous Stephanie’s girls were, I couldn’t resist.” Becky squeezed her friend’s ample breasts. “Nature took its course. And …”

The two women embraced and kissed passionately. Their hands explored one another’s body. They moaned, groaned, and sighed. Carl was speechless. Enthralled. Hypnotized. And so aroused, it hurt. He’d never imagined his wife had any interest in women. He was stunned at how much pleasure she was feeling. Stephanie’s hand settled between Becky’s legs.

His wife’s breathing deepened. She closed her eyes. Two minutes later, Carl saw the distinctive look on her face. She was about to come! “Oh God!” she moaned deeply. She hugged Stephanie tightly as her body shook.

When she calmed down, she looked proudly at her husband. “And … that.”

Carl stared back with his mouth open. His super-modest, Sunday school teacher wife just had sex with a woman in full view of anyone who might be watching! And she had a powerful orgasm! He’d never been so turned on.

Rebecca took Stephanie by the hand and walked towards her still stunned husband. “I think we’ve been rude, Steph. It’s Carl’s birthday and all we’ve let him do is watch.”

“You’re right. That’s not much of a birthday present. What do you think we should do?”

“For starters, he needs to get naked.”

Each grabbed hold of one side of his boxers and yanked them off.

“Then we both fuck him.”

Carl’s jaw dropped yet again. He finally remembered how to talk. “Both of you?”

“Happy birthday, cowboy. I thought you deserved something special to take the sting out of turning that-number-that-must-not-be-named. I love you. And Stephanie has been lusting after you since the day you met her. She was easy to convince.”

Her husband opened his mouth to say something.

“No more talking.” She quickly straddled him and lowered herself on his unusually stiff cock. “Ooooo. Someone’s happy to see me.” He groaned deeply. They kissed passionately. As she ground against him, he thrust up into her. “God, I love you.”

After a few minutes of grinding, thrusting, and moaning, she stopped. “Wait. I don’t want you to come too quickly. Let’s give Steph a ride.”

Her friend took her place. “Jesus, Carl! Your cock is every bit as magical as Becky says. She is such a lucky woman.”

“Are you kidding? Giving me a birthday present like this? I’m the lucky one.”

“Enough with the small talk, you two. Come on, Carl. This is your chance to fuck two women. Let’s see some action. Show her what an animal you are when you let go. She can handle it. She likes it rough.”

He grabbed Stephanie’s ass with both hands and pulled her against him. He stood up, and she wrapped her legs around him. He walked the two of them to the edge of the tub and seated her down.

Spreading her legs as wide as they’d go, he began pounding into her forcefully. Kissing her passionately, he squeezed her breasts hard. Lowering his head to her chest, he teased her nipples with his teeth.

“Fuck, Carl. That feels so good.”

Rebecca came up behind him and rubbed her breasts against his back. She egged him on. “That’s it, baby. Fuck her. Make her come. Make her feel as good as you make me feel. Let that big … hard … angry … cock explode inside her tight … wet … hungry … pussy.”

His wife had become a completely different woman. His brain was so drunk with lust, all he could process was that he was sandwiched between two naked women enjoying the sexiest experience of his life.

He was fucking one and being cheered on by—his wife!

Rebecca pressed her hips against him and matched his rhythm when he thrust in and pulled out. As he pounded into Stephanie, the two of them moved in unison.

“That’s it, baby. We’re both fucking her. … Fuck that pussy.” She chanted with every thrust.

“Yes!” screamed Stephanie. “Fuck me hard! Both of you.”

Carl’s head was spinning. What they were doing felt so primitive, so forbidden. He couldn’t believe that he and his wife were joining up to fuck another woman.

Stephanie’s moans got deeper. “Fuck! I’m coming!” When her pussy rhythmically clamped around his cock, he couldn’t contain himself. With a roar, he exploded inside her.

When he pulled out, the three of them flopped into the tub’s soothing waters and relaxed.

After a few minutes, Carl looked at his smirking, self-satisfied wife. “If this is what comes with big number birthdays, I can’t wait until my next one.”

Rebecca winked at Stephanie, then gave her husband a melodramatic frown. “Well, if we’re going to have to wait that long, I suppose Steph and I can keep going by ourselves. But we were hoping you’d—” He grabbed the two women with such force, the water sloshed out of the tub.

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1. Change things up…

2. Focus on her…

3. Take a break…

4. Throw on a rubber…

5. Squeeze your lemon…

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Can being labeled a sex addict boost your career in Hollywood? Sure it can and it hasn’t hurt celebs like David Duchovny who voluntarily entered a treatment facility for sex addiction or Michael Douglas who was labeled a sex addict by his ex-wife or Gene Simmons and Charlie Sheen who both reportedly had sex with thousands of women. Super model Amber Smith was a contestant on VH1’s Sex Rehab with Dr. Drew, so it’s not just men who suffer from sex addiction.

Tiger Woods is probably the most unlikely celebrity you would ever expect to be categorized as a sex addict. The most successful golfer of all time, married to a beautiful model wife with two children was tempted by multiple women with the list of lovers growing each day. So does Tiger fall into the category of (70%) of men who seek the satisfaction of sexual fantasies through cheating or is he a sex addict?

A sex addict is someone who has a compulsive sexual disorder and can’t control him or herself. Here are 12 symptoms of a sex addict:

1. Do you think about sex so often that it interferes with your concentration?
2. Are you obsessed with a specific sex act such as oral or anal sex?
3. Do you find your sex habits are affecting your ability to manage your life?
4. Do you feel you are entitled to have sex with whoever you want?
5. Would life have no meaning without sex?
6. Do you think that sex is the only thing that really gives you value?
7. Do you use sex as an escape from your problems?
8. Have you ever had sex with someone you didn’t even like?
9. Do you keep a list of the partners you have had sex with?
10. Do you thrive on the “high” that sex and the risk of being caught?
11. Are you unconcerned about catching an STD?
12. Do you feel powerlessness over controlling your sexual urges?

If your answers to all of these questions is “yes,” then you have the propensity towards sexual addiction and like all addictions, treatment begins by recognition that you have a problem. Seek professional guidance; understand that you are destroying a family, reputation, income or career instead of denying the problem and making excuses for your actions. Don’t use sex addiction as a way to cope with your stress and don’t blame others for your sex addiction.

Root causes of sexual addiction include:

1. Psychological and emotional disorders such as paranoia
2. Personality disorders such as schizophrenia
3. Childhood trauma such as rape
4. Stress and escapism from problems
5. Obsessive-compulsive disorder
6. Neurological disorders such as epilepsy
7. Hereditary. One study found that 80% of recovering sex addicts reported some type of addiction in their family’s origin.
8. Biochemical abnormality. The brain tells the sex addict that having illicit sex is good the same way it tells over-eaters that over eating is good.
9. Abusing power and feeding the ego to control others sexually
10. Dependent personality disorder
11. Narcissistic personality Disorder
12. Impulse control disorder

There are three-stage progressions in becoming addicted:

1. In the first stage, the person actually believes that his or her addiction is healthy, normal and pleasurable.
2. In the second stage, the person has conflicting thoughts about whether or not the addiction is healthy, normal and pleasurable.
3. In the third stage, the person realizes that they are addicted and feels unhealthy, abnormal and more pain than pleasure, yet he or she maintains and feeds the addiction.

Sufferers can destroy their lives by cheating, getting arrested for public nudity, losing your job because of inappropriate behavior, or having to deal with a major health crisis due to unsafe sex.

There are various treatments to help people with sex addiction, including psychotherapy, 12 Steps program, Project Know, SAA, Smart Recovery, ACA and religious intervention. All of these methods are legitimate and have worked for many people, but not for everyone. Each person is unique and needs to follow a custom plan of action to help them overcome their sexual addiction.

I call my approach, Tantric Solutions to Sexual Healing:

As an AASECT Certified Sex Counselor, I’ve helped clients with sexual compulsion by introducing them to Tantric sex, which channels that energy in a more positive, healthy and spiritual direction.

Tantra has been around for over 5000 years and it’s still around, so it must have some value to it. We are having a resurgence of it now because people are looking for natural and spiritual ways of healing. You have to open up to your emotional and sensory feelings when learning Tantra. Through Tantra you can begin the journey of sexual healing, the deepest form of healing which includes forgiveness of self and others, reconnecting with yourself, letting love in and creating your own healthy love life. Meditation is part of this powerful program and is used with the intention of reaching altered states of awareness. Tantra is a spiritual form of self-express and lovemaking that can show a sexually addicted person a new healthy way to give and receive love.

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1. Grow a filthy mustache

2.  Attempt an insane physical feat

3. Travel the world solo

4. Do a little mingling

5. Find your calling

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