Matthew opened the door. “Great to see you. Come on in.”

Yvonne smiled as she stepped inside and handed him a box of wine. “I hope you like this. The salesman said while the cabernet’s been aged for only two weeks, the cardboard comes from trees hundreds of years old.”

They both laughed as he presented her with a single artificial daisy.

“I’m happy to see we’re approaching Valentine’s Day in the same spirit.”

“I’m just glad you agreed to have dinner with me tonight,” he said taking her coat. “I had such a great time on our first date, I couldn’t wait to see you again.”

She’d initially hesitated having their second date on Valentine’s Day. But it would have been another few weeks before they were both back in town, and she was thrilled they clicked so well so fast. “Me too. And I really appreciate your being willing to make dinner. This way, we aren’t surrounded by all those lovey-dovey couples.”

“And like I promised, not a bit of romantic ambiance.” He laughed as he handed her a red plastic cup of the wine she brought. “Dinner will be informal and casual. Spaghetti and meatballs. Then we watch any movie that isn’t a love story.”

“Terrific. And I’m sorry I’m so dressed up. I know we said ‘comfortable hang-out’ clothes, but I got held up at work and couldn’t get home to change.”

*

Yvonne was delighted with how things went. Dinner was great. Conversation flowed easily. The movie was perfect. And there was no question they had real chemistry, even if all they did during the movie was snuggle a bit.

“This was just what I needed after the day I had,” she said. “The elevator in our building was down. I spent all day walking up and down stairs to meetings in heels. My feet were killing me by the time I got here. It was so good to be able to kick off my shoes and relax.”

“I wondered why you kept rubbing your feet during the movie. Let me help. I give great foot rubs,” he winked.

“I’m sure you do,” she laughed, “but that’s the oldest trick in the book to get a girl naked. And remember we agreed to take things slow. No sex until at least our third date.”

“Which I’m absolutely OK with. But while I’m not going to deny having fantasized about you naked, for this you’ll stay fully clothed. I promise.”

She looked at him skeptically, then at her swollen feet. The thought of having to squeeze them back into her heels tipped the scales. “OK. That sounds innocent enough.”

“Just one thing—and, of course, this is totally your choice. I’d like to turn off all the lights. It will make it easier for you to relax, and you’ll better appreciate a couple of ‘surprises’ I have in mind.”

She laughed. “Ha! That sounds like a Plan B seduction to me.”

He raised his hand. “Seriously. Fully clothed at all times. I swear.”

She hesitated. She didn’t want anything to ruin the night. But a completely dark room sounded both innocent and naughty enough to be tempting. The slightly sexy look in his eyes sealed the deal. “OK.”

Matthew gathered his ‘surprises’ out of Yvonne’s sight, put on some relaxing music, and switched off the lights.

Between the hot towels, silky skin cream, and a pair of talented hands, Yvonne was in heaven. Her breathing slowed, and every cell in her body relaxed. The only thing keeping her awake was that she didn’t want to miss how indulgent the moment felt.

When he stopped using his hands and switched to something that produced remarkably gentle, sensual caresses, electricity sparked deep inside her. “Wow. Whatever that is feels amazing.”

“It’s a pair of faux mink gloves.” His hands were so large, he was able to envelope each foot in softness. Do you like them?” He massaged each gently.

All she could do was sigh. She shifted on the sofa, sank back into the cushions, and let the sexy charge building inside her intensify.

After a few minutes, the gloves inched higher. Caressing her calves. Her knees. The ultrasensitive skin on the inside of her thighs. Her breath caught at how much warmth and desire flooded her body. As the fur slid higher, she silently begged that he wouldn’t stop until he got to her now soaked panties. When he did, she moaned softly. Pressing her crotch against his hand, she ground against the glove and moved her hips so that her clitoris would get the attention it ached for. “Oh, Matthew,” she moaned. The sensation of his firm hand pushing against her clit and the soft fur covering her pussy was intoxicating. The passion pushed her breathing and heart rate up another notch, as her body tightened in anticipation of its climax. When he stopped, she groaned deeply in frustration.

But he was actually only pausing. Removing the gloves, he pushed her skirt up. Desperate for release, she happily helped. The room’s total darkness made everything feel more sinful. Feeling freed by the blackness, she offered herself to him shamelessly and spread her legs as wide as she could.

His warm breath against her damp panties sent chills through her body. The fact that his mouth was less than an inch away from her pussy was torture. When he kissed the insides of her thighs, she squirmed. As his mouth settled on the thin fabric covering her wet pussy, she pushed herself hard against his mouth and moaned deeply, “Oh Matthew!”

She couldn’t believe she was doing this with someone she’d met so recently. But it felt so good she couldn’t stop herself. Desperately wanting more, she reached down and pulled the lace thong aside. He responded hungrily, kissing and teasing her swollen lips. When he sucked her clit, she moaned. “Oh yes! God that feels good.”

The steady rhythm of his warm, wet mouth exploring her sensitive flesh made her crazy with desire. With her body so wound up, all that mattered was release. Each press of his lips and touch of his tongue pushed her closer and closer. Her pleas became more urgent and louder. The darkness surrounding her helped unleash her passion. “Oh Matthew! Oh God! Oh Fuck! Please! Please! Please!”

With a final flick of his tongue against her clit, she exploded in ecstasy. She screamed and bucked hard against his mouth. He held her pussy tight against him as he drank in her juices and moaned darkly.

*

Sipping her wine in the now candlelit room, Yvonne blushed. “You devil. We said we’d take it slow. You tricked me. … Not that I’m complaining,” she smirked naughtily.

“Maybe a little,” he laughed. “But, like I promised, you were fully clothed at all times. And, technically, I’m honoring our ‘no sex before our third date’ understanding. Besides, I’m crazy about you, and it was killing me that it’s going to be weeks before I can see you again.”

Yvonne smiled warmly. She looked away and furrowed her brow. “Speaking of which, get your phone so we can set a date.”

Matthew was back in a flash.

She studied the screen looking at her calendar. “Let’s see, today is the 14th. We both fly out to different cities tomorrow, and aren’t back before the second week of March, right?”

“Right,” he groaned.

“And what time is it now?”

Matthew looked puzzled. “A couple minutes before midnight. It’s right there on your screen.”

“OK,” she replied impishly. “Give me a minute.” She clicked away on her phone.

Matthew’s phone chimed signaling a new text.

“You should read that,” she smirked.

‘Hi, Matthew. Thanks for the great evening. I can’t wait to see you again. What about the 15th? 12:05 would be perfect for me.’

He let out a naughty chuckle. “Now who’s the devil?” He texted back. ‘You do mean 12:05 AM, right?’

‘Yes. How about if I come to your place again?’

‘Perfect. See you then.’

Yvonne got up off the couch. “I had a lovely time, Matthew, but I need to leave.”

He walked her to the door. They hugged and she left. As soon as the door closed, there was a knock. He opened the door.

“Hi Matthew. Ready for our third date?”

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Think back to one of your hottest dates. Not necessarily where you went, but how you felt when the passion started to peak. When you were still out in public, ready to rip your date’s clothes off. At that point, the sexual chemistry has evolved from pretty obvious to palpable, and you may have just heard someone shout, “go get a room!” in your direction. Often times, the decision arrives to throw in the towel during dessert, and high tail it home for hot sex.

That feeling of insatiable anticipation and desire before stepping foot into the bedroom—isn’t it delicious? This fiery dynamic is #RelationshipGoals, whether you’re in a long term relationship or on a first date. No matter what stage of the relationship you’re in, that dynamic is VITAL to your success. Here are some tips on fostering that vibrancy no matter what stage you’re at, or where you go on your date.

On a first date, romantic synergy isn’t 100% guaranteed. However, focusing on your confidence prior to a date is a sure-shot way to shine even if the date doesn’t. Bringing your A-game even if your date sex isn’t on the menu is what counts. Nipple pasties are a discreet way of drawing out your inner sex goddess. The feeling of these sexy adornments underneath your bra will invoke serious sensual energy and a bold sense of empowerment. Your posture and mannerisms will perk up, right along with your nipples. For a more erotic experience, Lace Panties with Pleasure Pearl Beads are insanely thrilling to wear in public. They don’t vibrate; there are no crazy bells and whistles, but you will seriously make people wonder why you’re smiling. The strip of soft pearls down the center will roll backward and forward with your every move, whether sitting or standing. Generating secret arousal will make it impossible to NOT smile, despite any awkward moments. Women who take longer to climax may also benefit from a pearl thong or vibrating underwear, because it will kick start your stimulation. Who knows, you may even come before you go home. And that is a win-win whether you’re alone, or otherwise.

On the other hand, long term relationships take effort when it comes to keeping it spicy. Getting out of the house is half the battle; ending the night with a bang takes intention. If you are looking to create an ideal sexual environment, make foreplay the focus of your date, instead of the bi-product. Typically, foreplay is considered a bedroom ritual, but why wait for the toys to come out at the end of the night? Some couples and individuals wear sex toys in public unbeknownst to anyone else, just for the thrill of it. Have you ever thought the two people at the next table are giggling because one is wearing a vibrator? It is totally possible. Certain sex toys are designed to put the power of your pleasure in someone else’s hands. The compact Jive – Bluetooth Controlled Wearable Vibrator is a quintessential hands-free sex toy, with an egg shape that fits snugly alongside the G-spot. It is so discreet and quiet, you can wear it during sex, on a date, or even at work! The Jive is controlled through a wireless app which your partner can operate from anywhere in the world (but would highly enjoy watching you squirm from across the table).

Another vibrator that you can wear comfortably underneath your clothes is the Butterfly Remote Penis Venus, which stimulates the clitoris as it penetrates, a bonus for the clit queens. Handing the compact remote to your partner, knowing very well you could totally orgasm in public takes confidence and trust. To amp up the adrenaline, visit a karaoke bar and test your willpower while belting out a song for your lover. This activity could turn into something you really enjoy together. If not, it will make an awesome story.

Just keep in mind that where you choose to go, and what you choose to do is really just a vehicle to foster authentic joy with each other, and ultimately strengthen a relationship. Next date  night, consider thinking outside the box (and the bedroom)!

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