The human body is pretty extraordinary. All of its systems working together to keep us alive, trying their best to keep us healthy (even with all the shit we put in our bodies), all so we can continue to delve into the pleasures, pains, and mysteries the world has to offer us.

One of the most complex of these systems is the reproductive—and while scientifically it is for, well, reproduction, it does oh, so much more.

Our sexual organs are wondrous things that we are still learning vastly more about. If you thought everything was covered in sex ed, you are quite mistaken. In fact, far too many curriculums on the subject barely scratch the pubic mound when it comes to anatomy. And don’t get me started on function or pleasure. But, I digress.

What subject is rarely, if at all discussed? Orgasms—specifically women’s (who even knew that was a thing until they were much older?). That’s why there are so many publications, like this one, dedicated to the learning, understanding, and implementing of women’s pleasure.

Now, because of science, articles, and sex positivity, women have found out that, not only are our orgasms stronger than men’s, but hey, we’re multi-orgasmic! It’s really great if you’ve mastered it.

But, what about men? While their orgasms seem to be easier to achieve, they also have a refractory period. This is the time after orgasm that a man can no longer maintain an erection—and it varies from person to person. So, are multiple orgasms out of the cards for our penile fellows? Actually, they’re not! It’s just not exactly written about as much.

So, if you’re still with me, there are a few ways to get that multi-orgasmic streak going.

Trains for Gains

Multiple orgasms all start with your pelvic floor health. A lot of people are under the impression that Kegel exercises are only for women, but men need to strengthen their PC muscles just as much. Since this isn’t exactly common knowledge, overall, men’s pelvic floors aren’t as strong, which means neither is their ejaculatory control.

The more you work out the muscles that start and stop your pee, the more control you can get over your ejaculation, and the more orgasms you’ll ultimately be able to have.

Utilizing the Prostate

Also known as the male p-spot, the prostate is a hidden gem in a man’s rectum full of untapped pleasure. Many have dabbled in prostate play, but for some, the thought may send a chill down their spine. This magical gland is one key to being multi-orgasmic. Just be sure to use a “CBD” lube as it’s ideal for CBD’s relaxation and anti-anxiety properties.

Stimulating your prostate not only brings you insane pleasure, but it helps prevent cancer and improves your overall health. To work your prostate even more, the company behind the Intensity, Pour Moi, is in the process of creating a device that men will be able to use to work out your prostate and pelvic floor muscles for you (see reason above).

Once you achieve an orgasm this way, you’ll notice that you may have only been slightly erect, only ejaculated a little, or maybe not even at all. When you get used to this sensation, you can try to keep going after you’ve had one orgasm, and go on to have another. You could also switch to penile stimulation, OR try doing a bit of both. Talk about explosive.

Getting to the Edge

Okay, so now you have a PC muscle regimen and you’ve finally found and stimulated your prostate—what else can you do? Here comes the real test of your orgasmic strength—edging.

Edging is the practice of you or your partner bringing you to the point right before orgasm, and then stopping, so you don’t cross the threshold. What this does is help you to remember that feeling so when you’re having sex, you can pull it back, and go for longer.

Once you have that down, you’ll start to get more control over when you’re actually releasing ejaculate. To get even more practice, you can use the Fleshlight Surge, designed with this method of stimulation in mind. And to help you get used to this feeling, you can try using Promescent, a spray guaranteed to make you last longer in bed.

The more used to this feeling you get, the more you’ll actually orgasm without busting, allowing you stay hard, and being able to orgasm again. Essentially, you’re building muscle memory, just like any other workout you would do.

WOW. That was a whole lot to digest. While many of you will want to try this out, it does take time, focus, and patience to master. So, if you really want to go for gold, you’ll have to be dedicated to the masturbation marathons ahead of you. At the same time, don’t get discouraged if you get a little overexcited.

Originally published on sexwithemily.com

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What if I told you that the holy grail of orgasms has nothing to do with an intricate sex position, a magic pill, or even a partner? This ‘secret’ is a technique called edging, otherwise known as orgasm control. Anyone of any experience level can incorporate edging into their arsenal of bedroom tricks. Additionally, you may hear it being referred to as ‘surfing’ or ‘peaking’. This pleasure practice focuses on delaying climax one or more times during intercourse or masturbation, stoking a slow, intentional fire that will result in an orgasmic explosion like no other.

Think of the amplified feeling of gratification that happens the moment you finally achieve a sneeze, after losing it several times beforehand. The first climax after partaking in edging is much like that coveted sneeze, if you can imagine it being relocated to an erogenous zone. Just like a delayed sneeze, the more times you ‘lose’, or delay your orgasm, the more powerful it becomes.

Bringing yourself to the brink of climax is not for everyone; the 60 second orgasm may be your cup of tea, and that is a wonderful thing! Overall, the purpose is to tantalize, not to torment. Successful edging, which requires equal parts patience and self-control, serves a valuable purpose when it comes to harnessing sexual energy.

Benefits:

• Deeper, more intuitive understanding of your and/or your lover’s body, knowing when that moment of ecstacy will happen, and how to control it
• A great introduction to BDSM. Edging is a common form of power exchange, as an exhibition of power and control on behalf of the Dominant partner. Imposing restraint is a staple for maintaining control over your partner
• Results in increased stamina for both men and women
• Excellent natural option for male ejaculation control

Challenges:

• Inadvertently going over the edge while skirting the line of sweet release during solo play
• Learning to know your partner’s physical signs and cues, including breathing, body movements, and physical reactions
• Throwing in the towel because orgasms are, um, awesome. Why wait?

Tips & techniques:

• Master it by yourself first. Practice makes perfect! Work your way up to 20-25 minutes at a time
• Alternate sex toys, finger fun, and sensory play. On a male partner, a masturbation sleeve is a great toy to bring into the mix
• Press pause: Get your juices flowing and ramp up arousal with yourself or your partner.  Identify the moment that you are close to climax, and STOP for a few seconds. Go back to the beginning with less pinpointed pressure, targeting everything but the bullseye (Looking at you, clitoris!) Rinse and repeat at least one more time; enjoy!
• Distraction: If you are experimenting solo, alternate your favorite toy with your fingers when you feel yourself about to burst
• Get creative! You are not limited to just foreplay here. The fun part about edging is that it can be a grab bag of whatever stimulation you prefer—whether you incorporate penetration or not

If you are new to edging, don’t get discouraged! It may take a few weeks or a couple months until you’ve perfected your technique. Like anything worth waiting for, patience is a virtue, young grasshopper.

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