The holiday season has our heads spinning! We scramble to organize ourselves, clear our schedules, and think hard on what we can give our significant other. Will it be a fancy new piece of jewelry? A gift card to their favorite shop? Perhaps a dream vacation or a puppy? Let’s think BIGGER. Nothing comes (and cums) close to the joy that is giving your partner relentless, undying, forgoing pleasure like a sex toy. Compiling some of our newest and hottest products, we’re here to guide you on the juiciest options for giving your lover a sex toy treat.

Why get my partner a sex toy for the holidays?

If you’re in a rut wondering what your partner will truly be head over heels for, consider gifting them a sex toy. Sex toys aren’t just an item we keep stashed in our drawers for nighttime. They are the gift that keeps on giving, and will last quite some time.

When you give your lover a sex toy, you are truly gifting your relationship additional fulfilling experiences. We recommend using new sex toys together, while you’re apart, or to facilitate new experiences. Novice and looking to add an element of “new” to the bedroom? Long distance and want to keep your sexual connection strong? Curious to try a new form of stimulation together? It can all be done with the sweet, buzzing, squeezing, and humming love that sex toys have to offer. 

Where do us naughty people start with sex toys? 

Lovers, don’t get flustered on where to start! The greatest recommendation we have for figuring out the magic selection is going off what your partner may already like. Think…

• If your partner likes oral sex, they may enjoy toys that mimic the sucking or flicking sensation of a tongue. We recommend the French Kiss Sweet Talker for women, or the Self-Lubricating Lucy for men. Add to partnered sex for some mutual masturbation, or use the toy on them — we promise you’ll fall in love with this experience.
• If your partner gets off on internal stimulation, try a vibrating dildo like the Noje Rechargeable Slim G or curved dildo like the nJoy Pure Wand for ultimate G-Spot stimulation. These toys are great to use solo or coupled, being a great asset for squirting! 
• If your partner likes to touch their clitoris during sex, try a rabbit vibe! Jumping to a rabbit vibe will stimulate them from the inside and outside with ease. We recommend our newest California Dreaming Pasadena Player for vibes and thrusts that never disappoint. Buckle up though, these are powerful toys that will make your lover squirm!
• Does he like a tight grip when you stroke him or blow him? He may totally love a masturbation sleeve like The Head Honcho, or a cock ring. Many cock rings like the Charged Big O not only keep him rock hard and sensitive, but have a vibe attached to give your clitoris the attention it deserves. 
• Been playing with fingers for some exciting anal play? Level it up with a butt plug! We love training kits like the Luxe Beginner Plug Kit and plugs like the Sassy Vibrating Booty Plug that can be worn during sex by your lover, but also a comfy prelude to anal sex. 

Don’t like guessing? Just ask!

Taking your partner by surprise by giving them a sex toy is usually a fantastic idea. Above are great examples, but sometimes the best course of pleasure is to ask your partner. Let them know you would like to get them a sexy gift for the holidays, there’s no shame! Tell them you would love to know more about what interests them to help pick your selection. While this builds amazing anticipation and shows that you care about their pleasure, open the platform to find out:

• Is there a specific toy they’ve been eyeing or thinking about?
• Have they had fantasies they can’t get out of their head that can be fulfilled with toys?
• Is there something new they would like to try like BDSM or kinky activities?
• What kind of sensations do they want more of? Perhaps more G-Spot love or clitoral vibrations?

Sure this may spoil the initial “surprise” of a sex toy gift, and that’s okay. This can put you at ease knowing you’ll get them something they absolutely want and love. 

Get a sex toy you can both benefit from

We’ve heard it all! “Sex toys take away from coupled experiences”, “Sex toys are replacements” etc. We don’t believe in replacements, we believe in added benefits. Many sex toys are created strictly for couples or with couples in mind, and here are our faves!

Some of our favorite options include:

• Cock rings with a vibe. Equipped with a vibrator to feel good for both parties, and are a small addition to a steamy session. The vibes not only hum the shaft, but gently graze against your lovers clit with every pump and stroke. Rings like the Tongue Her—Couple’s Double Ring Vibe are uniquely made with soft silicone to feel like a wet tongue, giving your woman an experience of a lifetime. The squeeze of the cock ring keeps you rock hard, and sensitive enough to feel every little move.
• Plugs anyone? Anal play is an equal opportunity employer, with all parties being able to enjoy its love. Your man can greatly benefit from some thrilling prostate stimulation, making sex ultra sensitive with powerful orgasms. For your female lover, she will experience heightened sensation in her vulva. With every touch, move, and technique many women report experiencing anal orgasms. We recommend our Tushy Beads for easy to use, and sensational anal beads that can be worn during play or plugged n’ pulled gently by your lover.
• Toys like the Masturwand double as a vibrating wand for your partner’s clit, and a vibrating stroker for your partner’s penis. Incorporate this into your sexy sessions, and watch how much you can both enjoy TOGETHER. 

Watch them smile with joy

You’ll never go wrong with a sex toy for your lover! On the contrary, you may just land in their naughty (and nice) list this holiday season! Opening the door to pleasure, we can’t wait to see what adventures are in store for you. 

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If you’re reading this, bless you for giving oral sex the respect it deserves. Sadly, some people are unwilling to take the time and effort to properly to reciprocate oral sex with their partners, though they are enthusiastic to be on the receiving end. Enter the orgasm gap: the statistical fact that in heterosexual encounters, men orgasm more than women. Statistics show over 80% of women require clitoral stimulation to orgasm, which is why oral sex can be critical. Aside from your cunnilingus capabilities, developing a compassionate mentality is a way to tip the orgasm equality scales. Here is a breakdown on becoming the best (oral sex) partner you can be.

Act (and ask) selflessly.

It’s no secret that communication is a challenge for lovers during intimacy, whether we are worried about hurting someone’s feelings, sounding pushy, or killing the mood. Cultural conditioning leads us to believe that staying quiet is easier than speaking up, or learning each other’s love languages. However, there’s a simple solution to remove the guesswork while taking pressure off your partner. Just ask! Let her know how much you love making her feel good, and you want to know what she loves best. Instead of asking “How does this feel?”, be more specific. Tell her you will perform a series of techniques that she will assign with a number. Example: 1 for “Meh” and 5 for “Eff yes!”. This game is an opportunity to demonstrate that you’re not just going through the motions, rushing to get your piece of the action. It will equip you with the knowledge of what works, while empowering her to communicate what she wants. (Why this concept isn’t the Golden Rule of Pleasure, I’ll never know!)

About those tips and techniques…

To start, never overlook the importance of a comfortable environment. Believe it or not, the lights off can make or break our ability to orgasm. Ask if she prefers the lights on or off before getting down to business. Next, grab a pillow or two and slide it underneath her pelvis, to give you a better angle while easing pressure on her back.

As far as oral sex techniques, slow, repeated ice cream licks on the vulva and the U-spot (the opening to the urethra, just above the vaginal opening, above the lips) are a crowd pleaser. Once you get into a rhythm, practice writing the letters of the alphabet with your tongue…in cursive if you’re fancy! Don’t be afraid to get up close and personal, either. By that I mean—use your face. All of it. Big noses are a plus. If you’re nimble, ask if she’d like internal or external finger or sex toy stimulation. For women who like simultaneous stimulation, there is nothing like the gift of a blended orgasm (G-spot and clitoris at the same time). Truth be told, what it really comes down to is dedication, and attention to detail. If all else fails, stop and ask for directions!

Don’t stop, get it, get it!

If your partner is expressing verbal or physical signs of sexual bliss, keep the same motion flowing. It may be an innocent knee-jerk reaction to abruptly switch up the tongue techniques when your partner approaches the edge. Their pleasure is peaking, and one might interpret that as needing to up the level of intensity all around. I have been guilty of this in the past. When their orgasm approached, a voice in my head would whisper, “Lights! Camera! Jazz Hands!”, at which time my hands and mouth would operate frantically with no rhyme or reason. (Just…why?) I ended up learning this later, unfortunately, as each partner was too coy to tell me otherwise. Repeat strokes aren’t boring; they are the stairway to orgasm heaven. If you are experiencing symptoms of lockjaw or carpal tunnel and your partner is enjoying that technique, just stay…right…there.

The female orgasm is a bi-product of something bigger than fancy techniques and vibrators combined. It is the result of mental clarity; thoughts free of sexual expectations and daily stress. There is a ways to go before equal pay in the workforce, but in the meantime, orgasm equality is attainable. One small step for man, one giant leap for mankind. One blog at a time.

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Give her the gift of pleasure with sex toys from  TickleKitty.com:

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Nothing says Happy Valentines Day like the Rocking G Rabbit. The “precision G-spot technology” will lure you in—hook, line and sinker. The way the curved head rocks back and forth in a “come hither” motion literally made me scream in delight. And those bunny ears, yeah those took me to the edge and back. But, I’m jumping ahead of myself…

The hubby and I decided it was time to do a throwback to the wild and crazy days of making out in closets. We called our game “seven functions for seven minutes in heaven.” The idea was that we would use each of the seven functions on the rabbit ears for one minute and one minute only, while also allowing the continuous rocking head to move around inside of me.

We had just received our Valentine’s Day gift to ourselves—Dr. Sadie’s “My Valentine Kit” from our favorite sex toy boutique. It came equipped with a variety of 5 luxurious sex toys, a free sex positions book, and free Slippery Kitty Lube. We got to choose which rabbit toy we wanted of two options: the Self-Thrusting and the Rocking G. I left the choice up to my husband, and I was more than excited to see if he had made the right choice. 

The night before game night, we charged the rabbit. It’s not only USB Rechargeable, but it has a sealable port for waterproof play. The next night, my husband led me to our bedroom closet, which we decided was the perfect place to reenact high school makeouts, put on a blindfold, and shut the lights.
He removed my panties and slid a finger inside my already wet pussy. He slowly lifted up my nightie, and pressed me to the floor. With my back against a wall, my husband carefully lubed up the toy and spread my legs wide. He took the shaft of the rabbit and teased the tip of my clit. Slowly moving the bulbous part of the head down in between my inner lips, he gently slipped the shaft inside. He turned it on for a few thrusts and then shut it down completely. 

For the first two of the seven minutes, we moved the rabbit independently, the ears building up strength and becoming stronger in vibration. At that point, I wanted that rocking cock inside of me. And as he turned the shaft on, my body began to loosen. The sensation of the smooth tip massaging my g-spot was unimaginable. Minute-by-minute and moan-by-moan, we made it through all seven functions.

Between the seven functions on the clitoral stimulator, and three more on the shaft, you can have a whole lot of sexy goodness and never do the same thing twice. And that rocking head—it’s a game changer.

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Tantalize your lover this Valentine’s Day with pleasure gifts from TickleKitty.com:

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