Did you know that some men and women have the ability to orgasm from nipple play alone? It’s science. Nipple play releases a chemical in the brain called oxytocin (the same chemical released during orgasms), which activates the good feeling of pleasure. We all have the same sensitive nerve endings in the nipples and areolas, meaning we all have access to this pleasure hub. The next time you hit the sheets, give it a go, either solo, or with your partner. Pay attention to your clitoris—does a nipple kiss make you tingle? If so, you’re on your way to a nipple-gasm! Here are three secret tips to climax through nipple stimulation:

Secret 1: Communication is king.

Some men don’t realize nipples are an entire other erogenous zone that can be extremely arousing for them as well. So it’s worth an introduction!  Two-way communication is key to fine-tuning sexual pleasure with your lover. Ask if they’d like to gently experiment. Or, approach the nipples slowly and very gently when you’re in bed. Observe their reaction and you’ll know for sure. Ask how she/he wants it. Urge them to deeply focus on the nipple sensations. As you experiment, continue to check in, gauging vocal reactions and body language. Then ask again if they like what you did and how you can adjust it. Start slow and work your way up as you learn your lover’s unique preferences.

Secret 2: Relaxation rules.

Just like a vaginal or clitoral orgasm, our bodies respond best when we are relaxed. It may be worthwhile to devote an entire foreplay or lovemaking session just to the nipples! When the focus is solely on nipple arousal, the more likely an orgasm from nipple stimulation will be reached . Start slow and let your instincts navigate your fingers or mouth. Try massaging a breast with the full hand and work your way into nipple play after your lover is well massaged. Then, tease with kisses, moving down the neck, chest, and eventually to the nipples. Use a lot of tongue and slow, juicy kisses. (This can be a fun way to lead to oral sex, too.) The Tickle-Time Feather is a great beginner’s tool for light breast brushes (or anywhere). At this point, your lover will be eager for your mouth to be all over their man-or-womanhood. If you do migrate south, try edging your partner and make a pact to return to the nipples frequently. For romantic beginners, this luxury Afterglow Massage Oil Candle liquefies at body temperature so it’s never too hot when applying to skin. Full-body arousal means you’re more likely to orgasm from one final lick of the nipple.

Secret 3: Perfect your technique.

Between your hands, mouth, and nipple toys, there are limitless techniques at your fingertips. Focus on one nipple at a time, and alternate to avoid overstimulation. If you are using your mouth, blow and breathe across the nipples. Add a lick of saliva for wetness first, then blow, which will offer a cool, titillating breezy feeling. Nipple stimulating creams like the Nip Zip Ice Balm cause the same pleasurable cooling effect. Don’t be afraid to get sloppy! French kiss, lick, and suck with your mouth. Slither your tongue quickly back and forth. Wiggle your tongue quickly like a snake. Give ‘em sloppy puppy kisses! Or faintly glide over the nipples using saliva or a dab of lube. With your fingers, start with a light, gentle touch. Run the palms of your hands up and down the nipple, and circle around on the areola. The simple Nöje Wand vibrator is a must-have for buzzing stimulation on nipples—or all over the body. You can pinpoint stimulation by squeezing in mini pulses, rolling the nipple back and forth gently between the fingers, tugging, or tapping. If you like it rough, try spanking or flogging nipples. The Heart Beat Crop is great for precise tapping and slapping, and can be used for gentle or rough nipple play.

It may be tempting to jump to penetration, but be patient and communicate! This is the key to achieving an orgasm through nipple arousal. Once you determine the techniques that turn you on the most, stick with them, and let the nipple orgasms roll on in.

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Now that you have the nipple play techniques down, dip your toe into the world of nipple toys from TickleKitty.com:

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How well do you know your handjobs? For a lot of us, it was the first time we ever involved another person in our sex lives. It was a gateway to steamier sex acts, and for that it will always have a special place in our hearts. But you don’t have to think of them as relics from your high school hook-ups!

We believe in all kinds of manual stimulation appreciation! Whether you’re a seasoned pro with your favorite keep-him-coming grip, or you’ve only dabbled in the fine, underrated art of handjobs, you’ll want to check out some of our favorite techniques. We go from simple and reliable strokes to wrist-twisting, finger-sliding, two-handed showstoppers.

Before we start, let us give you the basics.

For a real holy-smokes handjob, always grab the lube! Use silicone-based lube for maximum slipperiness, or your favorite water-based lube if you’re going to bring in toys.

Once you’re ready to get your manual massaging on, start with teasing to get him all worked up. When you’re driving, you don’t go from 0-60 right out of your garage, right? Start with slow strokes that build up for an unforgettable ride to pleasure.

And for any technique, you can always use both hands. Start with one, then bring in the other… or switch off to mix it up. Your less-dominant hand can be for teasing, while you can use your dominant one for power-stroking. Then go at it simultaneously the grand finale!

Now let’s move on to the fancy stuff…

1. Knob Polisher

Place your open palm on the top of the head of his penis, enclose him in your fingers, and begin twisting around like you’re polishing a knob.

2. Upside-Down Sausage Wrap

Add a little something extra to an old favorite by  repositioning your wrist. Have your thumb face the bottom oh his shaft, and then go to town!

Dr. Sadie Sez: It doesn’t always have to be a quickie. Stroke him slowly for a few minutes, then speed up for 10 seconds. As soon as he’s ready to explode, back off his head and work just the shaft. You’ll see him get rock-hard and beet-red. When you’re ready, give him some relief with his favorite technique.

3. Double Twister

Now it’s time for the two-handed moves! Place one hand, then the other along his shaft. Now twist together in one direction, then back again. Just glide smoothly over his skin. Now try twisting your wrists in opposite directions. Be careful of “rope burns”!

4. Two Thumbs Up

Straddling yourself over his legs, wrap both hands around his shaft, placing the fingerprints from both your thumbs directly on his V-spot. Now massage that V-spot in small circular motions ’til it stands for Victory!

Dr. Sadie Sez: Aside from a sensual thumb massage, you can also try tapping! Lightly tap up and down his penis–and on his V-spot–to drive him insane. Or try this to wake up a penis that’s playing hard to get!

5. Human Cock Ring

The silicone version is wonderful, but you can get the same effect with your own hand. While you’re stroking him with one hand, grasp him tightly at the base with your thumb and middle finger of the other. This will keep the blood in his dick and give him an explosive orgasm!

Dr. Sadie Sez: With your stroking hand, create a slippery twisting rhythm. Each time you reach the head, add in a little extra swirly motion to make sure you light up every single nerve ending he’s got.

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For more tried-and-true hands-on pleasure techniques, pick up a copy of Dr. Sadie’s bestseller, Tickle His Pickle: Your Hands-On Guide to Penis Pleasing. You’ll have him begging for more in no time!

Ready to take it to the next level? Here are a few of Tickle Kitty’s favorite toys to make your stroking even more out-of-this-world aah-mazing… Or get him something that’ll be almost as good as your loving touch for when you’re out of town.

The Head Honcho
If he loves oral action, this sleeve may be the next best thing. Extra thick, easy to grasp and simulates the feel of your own lovely and passionate lips… BUY NOW

Tenga Fliphole Men’s Masturbator
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Tenga “Wavy” Self-Pleasure Egg – Single Serve
Stretchy yet slippery; the perfect way to add a touch of texture to your five-star hand job at an economical price. Flexible and snug enough for any size!.. BUY NOW

Fleshlight Surge
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