Stumbling through the proverbial ocean of porn sites leads to a lot of different emotions, many of which seem to happen at the same time: arousal, attraction, confusion, disgust, envy. In an effort to weed out the stuff we don’t
Female MMA champion Ronda Rousey couldn’t be more wrong – using lube doesn’t make you or your partner lazy, and there’s never a bad time to reach for a bottle of extra topping to add to your sex sundae. There are
Don’t be frustrated if your guy is having problems finding your G-spot—it can be tricky, which is why I suggest taking matters “into your own hands” when it comes to discovering your G-spot, the kind of stimulation you prefer, and
My ex’s porn was what brought up my first deeply insecure sexual revelation. As I began typing out a web search, predicative text tattled on him. Several phrases came up regarding porn featuring pegging, the act of a woman wearing
I’ve always been a sexual being. In my 20s, I had an all-you-can-eat meal deal when it came to sex, but it wasn’t until my 30s and 40s that I realized my voracious sexual appetite plus experience meant empowerment. I
Vibrators are a magical, sometimes mysterious, source of pleasure. They often inspire questions—is that wand for internal or external use? How do you hold a contoured vibe? And what do bunny ears have to do with the clitoris? Here I’ll dish
Mother’s Day doesn’t usually evoke sexy thoughts. Typical Mom’s Day events usually involve hand-colored cards from the kids and breakfast in bed crafted by some rather unskilled but adorable tiny chefs. Sexy gifts might not be the standard on Mother’s
We’re forced to give up a part of ourselves every day. We have responsibilities to meet that can consume us, both in the home and in our careers. Some of us might be shouldering more than we can bear out
Spilling sexy desires to your partner can be difficult. But it can also bring you closer together. The erotic imagination is a powerful tool that can take your mind places you’d never dare go in real life. For example, I
As a Sexologist, I love to help people overcome sexual guilt and shame so they can enjoy the best sex of their lives. I’ve travelled to six continents lecturing to singles and couples, and I can tell you that everyone
