Every relationship has room for experimentation. Whether you and your partner have just started on your sexual journey or you’ve been together for years, there’s always potential for bettering your sex life. When we experiment both in and out of the bedroom,
Healing From a Break-Up Through Self-Pleasure
It really doesn’t matter how you slice it: break-ups are the worst. You’re essentially forced to unhinge your life from everything that formed your most long-term dreams, your daily routine, and pretty much everything in-between. The simplistic term “break-up” doesn’t
How to Navigate Your Partner’s Fetishes
Since Fifty Shades hit almost a decade ago, fetishes and kinky sex are experiencing a trendy revival. Humans have always been kinksters, but now that kink has gone mainstream, more people are feeling comfortable with sharing their deepest turn-ons. By
Slippery Kitty Made Everything (Down There) Tastier
There’s a huge stigma surrounding lube, especially with women. Some women are naturally slick, and that’s great. Consider lube your below-the-belt little helper. It makes sex more comfortable and pleasurable – especially for women. Especially if you experience dryness or
Gentle Vibes for Extra-Sensitive Women
Sex toys are on a trendy power high! Super-strength vibrators and intense toys are all the rage, but not all clitorises are created equal. For more sensitive clits, high-speed vibrators create more “ouch!” than “oh yes!” Don’t fret if your
Sexual Knowledge is Power
As a Sexologist, I love to help people overcome sexual guilt and shame so they can enjoy the best sex of their lives. I’ve travelled to six continents lecturing to singles and couples, and I can tell you that everyone
Outercourse: 9 Erotic Pleasures Without Going In
What do you call intercourse without the “in”? Outercourse, of course! Outercourse takes the penetration out of sex—but not the fun. You still enjoy deeply sensual, skin-on-skin lovemaking. You still share a thrilling physical connection. And you still experience explosive,
Palm Pleasure Will Never be the Same with this New Stroker
There’s an art and an etiquette to giving good hand. Whether I’m using my own hands, lending a hand (sometimes I like when my husband places his hand over my hand and uses my hand as a masturbation toy) or
How to Unlearn Negative Sexual Messages
I was woefully unprepared for life as a young woman. My parents never had the “talk” with me; I barely remember my mother talking to me about menstruation. It’s not all that surprising that I didn’t hesitate when it came
Discovering Your G-Spot—Lesson 1
Let’s talk about the elusive G-spot. Unlike unicorns, Bigfoot, and your chances of winning the lottery, the G-spot is 100% real. Every woman on earth is graced with a G-spot—a powerful epicenter of deep, satisfying, body-pulsing orgasms—yet none can experience