Summer is in full swing, and couples are non-stop Instagramming #ThrowbackThursdays with their best selfies from Coachella, Electric Daisy Carnival, and Lighting in a Bottle. The festival line-up grows every year and becomes a tradition for couples who love to immerse themselves in the freedom of artistic expression.

The close of festival season is marked by the end-all, be-all celebration of music, art, and radical human beings: Burning Man. This week-long August event in the sweltering Black Rock Desert of northern Nevada isn’t for the close-minded or the weak of disposition. In fact, even calling it a “festival” is a misnomer, and doing so always brings swift heat from veteran attendees (known as “Burners,” for the uninitiated). Burning Man is a temporary intentional community comprised of just about every walk of life, from artists, engineers, and musicians to entrepreneurs, 9-to-5-ers, and other bohemians of sorts. Traipsing around this community’s “streets” is like stepping into a literal Alice in Wonderful scene, complete with 2-story tall creatures, Mad Hatters handing out mysterious drinks, and character encounters that defy reality.

The goal of Burning is more complicated than the pursuit of fun. There is scarcely a “Burgin” who returns without grandiose tales of mind-awakening, life-changing experiences, both for better and worse. Venturing to The Burn is a big undertaking for couples who are new to the event. In the words of Depeche Mode, “it’s more than a party,” and expect your boundaries, brain, and social norms to be questioned and tested. If you’re up for some serious growth in your relationship, Burning Man can be an incredible place to give and receive love and feel a heightened sense of sexual electricity. Before you take the dusty plunge, prepare yourselves with open, honest communication and set the stage for a spark-igniting Burn.

Discuss Limits and Hypotheticals

If you can dream it up, it probably has happened or will happen at Burning Man. “What if my boyfriend is propositioned by a harem of beautiful women dressed as sexy kittens who all want to sleep with him?” “What if my wife meets a a Jared Leto-look-a-like (or actually Jared Leto) who calls her Goddess and wants her to lead him around all week on a leash?” Burning Man is a place where sexuality runs wild and nothing is taboo. At some point throughout the week, you or your partner are likely to be the focus of flirtation and attention (and probably vice versa). If you’re already in a less-than-traditional relationship, this might not be such a big deal. If not, it’s imperative to discuss how to keep your week from ending in a jealous rage. Discuss your feelings and possible reactions for something as simple as a long, tight hug from a sexy stranger to being asked back to someone’s tent for the night. Look deep and decide upon what you want to explore, like exhibitionism, and what is completely off-limits, such as kissing another person.

Get Ready to Explore

If you do decide to step outside your usual sexual comfort zone, you’ve got a lot of options. For those that have sexually exploration goals, like couple-swapping, joining an orgy, or embracing your bi-sexuality, this is the place to find like-minded interlinks. Don’t try too to hard to find willing participants, as this will scare off potentially interested people and goes against the super-important rule of consent. Instead, wander the Plays, engage others in friendly conversation, and eventually someone will point you in the direction of the Orgy Dome. Considering that Burning Man is made up of around 80,000 humans you’ve never met, protection is key. If there is even the tiniest chance of you and/or your partner hooking up (or even if there isn’t – for now!), have male condoms on hand at the very least. You can have even more fun if you’ve also got female condoms and dental dams.

Feel the Vibe

The minute you hug the gate-greeters and begin the slow drive to scope out a camp site, you’ll know: this ain’t Coachella, Part 3! Burning Man carries a heavy vibe that effects everyone differently, and sometimes it takes a day or so to get used to the atmosphere. With your per-Burn boundaries conversation in mind, make your way around the sculpture art, giant theme camps, and impromptu dance floors. Don’t be afraid to smile at everyone you see and ask for plenty of hugs. Once you’re feeling the good vibes, you might decide to ride the wave of sexual energy and go check out the Orgy Dome after all. Or maybe it’s all a bit much for your first time, and you’re not feeling up for making the decision to watch your partner make out with someone new. Even if you choose the latter, you can still have a ton of sexy fun with your significant other.

Celebrate Each Other

If you and your partner pick the monogamous route, think of Burning Man as a white-hot fire of sexual energy just waiting to be absorbed. It’s the ultimate playground where couples can express their love and lust for one another. Take a naked walk hand-in-hand, or find a cute couple to flirt with at a camp bar, or get off on being as loud as you want while having sex in your tent or camper. You can even have a Burning Man Wedding (which isn’t an actual legal ceremony) and exchange vows in your bathing suits or topless while wearing g-strings. When the giant Man effigy finally burns down, look your partner in the eye, make out like teenagers, and embrace the experience of growing closer together by opening up to the sensual power of Burning Man. And of course, don’t forget to bring all your favorite playtoys, and maybe a few news ones too*

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When I saw Liam arrive, my heart took off at a gallop. He looks so sexy in those jeans! Yum!

I made up my mind a week ago, and I’d been on pins and needles ever since. I laughed to myself at how long I spent finding just the right outfit two nights ago. I’d confessed my scheme to the salesgirl, and she was thrilled to be my partner in crime. We giggled like silly schoolgirls the whole time, but found exactly what I wanted. My naughty co-conspirator checked me out. “It’ll be like shooting fish in a barrel,” she laughed as we exchanged high fives. I couldn’t wait to see if it would work.

“Hey there, pal.” The tousled blonde giant gave me a big hug. “These are your new digs, eh? Congratulations! I’m thrilled for you, Sue.”

Was that a bigger smile that usual as he walked towards me? Is he squeezing harder than normal? Are we already on the same page?

He kissed the top of my head.

Groan. What if I’m wrong about all of this? What if he laughs at me? Talk about humiliation. … But damn this feels good!

I abruptly stepped out of his arms because I was afraid I couldn’t stop myself. “Thanks, pal.” That’s what we called each other at the office. “Pal.” And that was why it took us so long to get here … or at least where I hoped we’d get.

His electric blue eyes were so hypnotic, I couldn’t talk straight. “Uh … thanks … for coming … um …… go on inside … and … uh … get something to … uh …eat and … drink.”

Get it together, girl. You sound like a mindless bimbo not a high paid executive!

When he brushed my hair out of my face and tucked it behind my ear, my knees buckled. I fell against him and quickly righted myself. “Sorry. New shoes. Slippery soles,” I lied.

He looked back seriously. “Are you OK? You look flushed.”

“Sure. Yeah. I’m fine. No problem.” I blurted it out ten times faster than normal. “I’ve been out in the sun all day. That’s all it is. I’m fine. It’s just the sun. It’s makes my face a little red. I’m good. Really! I’m OK.”

Will you please stop rattling and shut yourself up!

I took a deep breath and centered myself. “Sorry. Nervous about meeting my new neighbors. Wander around. Go inside. Check out my castle. I’ve got to schmooze.”

The next two hours were an eternity. I’d never checked my watch so frequently. And I couldn’t help scanning the party every couple of minutes to make sure one of the sweet young things who showed up didn’t have her claws in Liam.

As soon as my last neighbor left, I knew my ‘pal’ would offer to help me clean up. “That’s really sweet. I’ll take you up on it. But first, are you going to keep your promise?”

He looked surprised. “Teach you to swim? You want to start today? Sure. Let me grab my suit from my car. Lucky you. I was surfing before I came here.”

I laughed. “Lucky, my ass. The only time you aren’t surfing is when you’re on the job. Use the guest room. I’ll meet you by the pool.”

I couldn’t get changed fast enough. I was so nervous I almost forgot to cut the tags off my suit and cover-up. Focus, girl! Take a breath. After sliding into my sparkly sandals and putting on my biggest sunglasses, I stood in front of the mirror and smirked. The picture of innocence. A virginal white one-piece with a scoop neck that shows no cleavage, and a white long-sleeved coverup buttoned almost all the way up.

Liam was swimming laps, so I hung back and admired his bronze, muscular body. Even though he was wearing board shorts, the way they clung to his behind was everything I’d hoped for.

After a few minutes of drooling, I walked close enough so he’d see me. He stopped and stood up. His wet, cut body was amazing. He wiped the water from his face and looked at me. I studied his expression. We’d worked together long enough that I could usually tell what he was thinking. Definite curiosity. Good!

“Into the pool, tadpole.”

I saluted sharply. “Yes, sir.”

When I unbuttoned and removed the cover-up, I was sure I saw a flash of disappointment. Perfect! He hoped for something sexy!

But when I turned around to put my cover-up on the chair—and then dropped it so I’d have to bend over and pick it up—I was sure I heard a muffled Holy shit! Backless with a G-string! I tingled all over knowing he was admiring my ass.

I turned back acting as though nothing unusual had happened. He blushed and looked quickly away. Gotcha! He’s interested.

I walked down the stairs into the pool. “OK, coach. How do we start?”

He took on a professional demeanor. “Take my hands. We’ll start by walking out to where the water’s up to your waist. Then, we’re just going to dunk up and down five times, making sure our heads go under water. I’ll hold on the whole time, so you’re safe.”

Perfect!

By the third time, my suit was completely wet—and, as designed, virtually transparent! Coming up out of number five, I pretended to stumble and pressed myself against him. His hard cock told me everything I needed to know.

I stepped back and gave him a naughty wink. “You know, I think I’m really going to like learning how to swim, pal.”

He laughed when I said “pal,” then looked at my body with such intense desire, my flesh tingled. No question. This mission is a ‘go’!

It felt like his hands were already running all over me. My dark nipples stiffened and pushed against the tissue-thin fabric. My heart pounded so hard it felt like my chest was about to explode. I felt warm and hungry deep inside. Every cell in my body screamed, Please! Please! Please!

“There’s only one problem, pal,” he said with a sexy smile. “That suit isn’t really appropriate for swimming. Not hydrodynamic enough. Too high a drag coefficient.”

I admired that he could actually say that with a straight face.

I put my finger against my cheek. “So, what do you recommend, kind sir?”

In a flash, he grabbed the shoulder straps, yanked them down to my waist and pulled me against him. I squealed in delight as my breasts pressed against his hard chest. Cradling my head, he kissed me passionately. As our tongues entwined, I moaned. I ground my mound against his stiff cock, and he let out a deep guttural groan. He grabbed the back of my suit and, with one powerful pull, I was deliciously naked. My mind was so drunk with passion, I didn’t see how he got his trunks off so quickly. His hands squeezed my aching breasts, and his warm, stiff dick slid between my legs and nestled against my lips. I closed my eyes and luxuriated in the moment. “Oh, Liam!”

“Oh, Sue,” he moaned. “I’ve wanted you from the first moment I saw you. I have never wanted anything more in my entire life than I want you right now.” His voice was thick with a primitive hunger. His cock pulsed hard against my pussy. I opened my eyes and saw the look I’d dreamed of. Pure, raw, desire by this fantastic man for me. I melted against him and my heart exploded. Our hands roamed all over each other. We kissed for what seemed like a blissful eternity.

When we came up for air, he pressed me against the side of the pool, spread my legs and penetrated me. I gasped as my pussy stretched to welcome him. Never had I felt so full, so complete. I lost control of myself as he pounded into me, splashing water everywhere. “Oh Liam! Fuck me! Oh fuck!” His steady rhythm and animalistic grunts shot me higher and higher. I wrapped my legs around him, squeezed and took him even deeper.

“Oh God, Sue. … So tight! … So warm! … So fucking amazing!”

When his cock swelled, throbbed and pulsed, he sent me over the edge. My cunt spasmed hard around his dick, and we both screamed out as we shook in ecstasy.

We remained fused while our bodies settled down. I squeezed my legs tighter. I wasn’t ready for this moment to end, even though my heart assured me this was only the beginning for us. We kissed tenderly.

Then he said with a naughty smirk, “You know, you’re really good at this. Are you sure you didn’t already know how to swim?”

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Finding time for sex in today’s busy life of work and family can be challenging. But having sex on a regular basis plays a key role in a healthy, well-rounded relationship—and should be high on the priority list. The great news is sex doesn’t have to be a long, deep experience every time. Quickies are perfectly fine! Not to mention they can be quite exhilarating and powerfully passionate. Make an afternoon “quickie date” with your man and make it amazing with these 5 tips:

1. Dress quickie-style.

When you get dressed that morning, be playfully strategic, for time will be of the essence. Slip on a sexy pair of panties—the kind you know he loves. Put on your best push-up bra. Wear a skirt or dress that will offer quick, easy access when you meet up. For a very special treat (for both of you!), slide into some Lace Panties with Pearl Pleasure Beads. You’ll be teased and aroused all day long as the pleasure beads caress your sensitive vulva… and then you get to enjoy the priceless expression on his face when he discovers them!

2. Tease with sexy sexting.

With a quickie date calendared in, you may find yourself with a constant perma-grin, as you’ll be looking forward to it all day long. Keep the fun and excitement building by sending him scintillating sexts throughout the day. They can be simple and flirty—or hot and provocative. It’s totally up to you. Interested in some ideas? Here’s 43 sexts ready to go. Just copy/paste and you’re in business! And don’t be shy… men love dirty notes.

3. Seduce your biggest sex organ.

I’m talking about your brain. Get your mind engaged with the power of sexual fantasy. Fantasize about coming together during intercourse, your hot neighbors getting it on, or your favorite celebrity going down on you! Everything is fair game when it comes to fantasy—and the best thing is that it’s safe and private. You can also feed your imagination by reading a 5-minute erotic short story before you get home, or by peeking into some steamy 50 shades role-play ideas.

4. Pre-heat your flower.

Enjoying a few moments of self-pleasure beforehand will create that sexual rush, priming your body and nerve endings for immediate pleasure. Just use some female body-safe lube on your fingertips and explore your favorite clitoral touching techniques. Or pull out your tried-n-true clitoral vibe to get you from 0 to 60 with the flip of a switch. Get your juices flowing for action-on-demand—and he’ll love you for it!

5. Ready, set, go-oooh!

It’s time. You’re dressed, hot and wet, and he’s cocked, locked and ready to rock. Get the most out of your limited sexy time! Get right to dirty talk. Gaze passionately at him with eyes locked tight. Tell him you need to have him NOW. Kiss passionately. Position yourselves for erotic mutual-masturbation or dive straight into 69.

Enjoy sex toys? Now would be the perfect time to reach for your favorite couples cock-ring. Slip it on, turn up the vibration and within minutes you may just have your one hell of an earth-shaking orgasm!

There’s a lot to be said for packing hours’ worth of passion into just a few, explosive moments.

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Make your quickie even more amazing with these suggestions from Tickle Kitty:

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What better way to celebrate our earth and nature than to have sex outside on Earth Day? Not only does having sex outdoors give a couple a change of pace and get the heart racing, it can enchant the senses. Ahh, the smell of fresh cut grass, the feel of the sun on naked skin… If you fantasize about making love by a tropical waterfall or under a starry sky—or even the swings at your local playground—sex outdoors can breathe new life into the most mattress-bound relationship, or empower you with an extra-exciting hookup.

Alfresco sex, or making love outside, is not for everyone. And certainly not for every time. But most people agree it can satisfy a deeply primal urge that’s very, very exciting—especially if you choose the right time and place. Just remember to think clean – lay down a towel or sheet when possible. It’s fun to go into the Great Outdoors, but you don’t want the Great Outdoors going in you!

Here are a few places we’ve come up with to show Mother Nature your O face today.

1. At the Park

This may be the most common place to have sex outdoors, but for good reason. Having park sex is just as sexy as doing it in the wild, but eliminates the risk of getting bitten in the ass by something weird. Just make sure to get the timing right and be discrete. Bring a blanket or two to cover up just in case. Pick a place that is not in view of the street or playground and get started on your naughty adventures.

2. On the Swing Set

After the kids have left the playground, its the grown-ups’ turn to have some fun. The swings are a perfect place for a pair of lovers to push each other to great outdoor pleasure. Have her lay over the swing as he gives it to her from behind. This is also a good way for him to keep an eye out for spectators.

3. In the Car

Take a drive, find someplace secluded, and hop in the back seat and go at each other like a pair of naughty high school sweethearts. Put on some tunes to set the mood, grab your handy glove compartment-sized sex toy, and don’t forget to open the moon roof and stargaze! Locking the doors would be important for this one too. And don’t forget to dispose of condoms appropriately—we love the earth after all.

4. In the Woods

Take a long day hike with your sweetheart in the nearest forested area. Along with your water and power bars, pack a sturdy hammock. Once you’ve gone far enough down the path to have complete privacy, pick two trees close together. Set up the hammock between the trees (and make sure your knots are tight!) and voila! She can bend over it and be cradled by the taught fabric, while he enters her from behind. Instant sexy support!

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