In the world of male self-pleasure, the hand never fails to be that friend named “Old Reliable”. Sure, you go way back, and it’s what inevitably ushered you into the great wide world of sensual satisfaction, but the fact of the matter is there’s a new tool in town…and it delivers on so much more than just masturbation alone.

Introducing strokers—the toy whose versatility in the bedroom is like literally none other. And while they may as well be in the running for title of next-gen “man’s best friend” (sorry pups), the truth is their pleasure perks extend to all sorts of sexy play—namely, with your partner.

Different Strokes For Different Folks

Sleeves and strokers, and pocket pussies, oh my! Regardless of what you call them, the first thing that usually comes to mind is their use for a good ole fashioned solo fondle. But since we know the benefits of sex toys are as undeniable as the catchiness of Mambo Number 5, it comes as no surprise they can be just as handy for spicing up you and your boo’s sex life together.

First and foremost, strokers bring on unique sensations a hand (or vagina) simply can’t. It all boils down to texture; and when you have the choice of materials such as life-like UltraSkyn, silky smooth silicone, and delicious ribs, grooves and massage beads artfully nestled throughout, you can imagine that’s where the fun only begins.

Titillating Techniques

When looking to really tickle his pickle, we’re happy to report there are countless ways to do so—no matter what degree of sex toy aficionado you happen to fancy yourself.

A jazzed-up handjob is always a solid place to start, since all of these aforementioned textures can help bring foreplay to the next level. It’s no question a good handy can still be a sometimes-tricky feat. Incorporating a nice lubed-up sleeve filled with stimulating pleasure nubs, crannies and suction into your manual massage can ensure seamlessly smooth glides that’ll arouse him like nothing else he’s ever experienced. Consider using some CBD water-based lube to help relax him, which can offer more powerful climaxes.

Once you have that down, adding bolstered blowjobs into the mix can be another great way to make some sparks fly in the moment, too. It can be fun to switch between giving him head and hand love, blending the erotic wet warmth of oral with the adjustable squeezability (and sometimes vibration) of manual stimulation, all the while adding a stroker into the mix.

As you get the hang of using a stroker on him, you can also alternate different motions. Stroking up and down, twisting side to side, and even playing with the tightness that caresses every inch of his member each provoke a uniquely alluring sensation. And if it has a transparent shell, you also get the hot visual of seeing the throbbing action yourself.

There’s also a world of bliss in venturing beyond the penis itself. While using one hand to work the sleeve, take the other and explore all his other erogenous areas nearby, like the perineum and testicles. Each of those spots are full of almost as many nerve endings as the cock alone, so there won’t be any regrets going down this road of dual stimulation.

So whether you opt for strokers as a way to practice edging, ease into couples toys or simply spice up your sex life in general, never fear branching out from the confines of typical solo play. As with many of these seductive tools, the possibilities are truly endless; so do both of yourselves a favor and consider adding one of these to your collection for shared experiences you’ll never forget.

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With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, we all know the epic debate that never ceases to spark. This year, my boyfriend and I made a pre-game pact to start spreading special love leading up to the 14th’s debut. And in our case, that was hardly a chore when our ‘Play With Me’ Valentine Kit has been sitting pretty since its arrival. Although it was hard to pick just one thing from the kit at a tantalizing time, tonight we knew the super sleek set of arousal gels were calling our name.

‘His & Hers’ in every sense of the phrase, ON’s Clitoral Arousal Gel for me and ON’s Arousal Gel for Men looked like a match-made in heaven. But slowing our rolls for just a hot second, we decided to get cooking dinner out of the way before jumping into our even more carnal dessert.

As the temperatures rose and aromas began to waft…who were we kidding? It was way too tempting to put off! Already the suggestive back caresses were in full swing, when mid-chiffonade of the basil he began tracing his hand up my skirt. At that point all bets were off and we burst into a powerful make out sesh that brought us away from the cozy kitchen and straight onto the plushy couch.

Exchanging nibbles to the lips and ears, I grabbed ahold of his hair as his warm palms glided from my ass to waist, up around the ribs to both of my breasts. The kisses grew hotter and fondling stronger as we swore with each minute the heat of our bodies grew more intense—which is when we knew it was time to crank things up a notch.

By that point we were already half-way stripped down, so we reached for the gels to elevate our already steamy pre-foreplay. He took the lead and slid down my lacey leopard thong to mist my clitoris with a few slippery spritzes of the arousal gel; and not but ten seconds later, the sensations hit like a titillating tidal wave. The natural excitement, the warmth that enveloped my labia, this gel I could feel was drawing all the blood to where it mattered most. I wanted my boyfriend more than ever, and once he started massaging my tingling clit, I knew I couldn’t keep him from joining this heightened pleasure party for much longer.

As I laid on my back and he continued to swirl his fingers around inside me, I snatched up his arousal gel from the coffee table and squeezed a few drops onto my own fingertips. We made eye contact and he saw that I wanted to give him the same seductive joy, so I grabbed his already hardening dick to slather on the cool (and very concentrated) gel drops.

Just like my experience, I could tell in his subtle jaw drop that the effect was nearly instantaneous. I continued softly stroking his penis, which felt like it was getting harder and so much thicker. When he was able to pry open his eyes in between similar rushes of ecstasy-filled sensation, he couldn’t get over the elevation of feeling as well. It was one of the most solid, multi-dimensional erections he had ever experienced—which we both knew was ready for a lot more than just a hand job.

As the increased arousal continued, I pivoted myself around and assumed one of our favorites: 69. With so much feeling building up in our precious parts, we thought it’d be the perfect pairing with such passion-inducing elixirs as these. And boy, were we right!

The second he slid his tongue inside, my world was officially rocked. It was electrifying and totally satisfying in every sense of the two words combined. It already took a lot to edge myself away from orgasming just seconds in, because without a doubt, I didn’t want this pleasure train to end any time soon. At the opposite end, he was just as enthralled. Once my soft, wet lips simultaneously began sliding up and down his still incredibly hard dick, it was taking him through a whole new world of oral-fueled delight.

Of course this position always feel amazing, but combined with the power of the arousal gels, it magnified absolutely everything to planes of pleasure neither one of us had ever experienced. After a few minutes passed, we both were overwhelmed with sensitivity. Finishing a few minutes apart from each other, we got to watch the rousing rush come over one another’s face and lay there in the residual buzz that each of our semi-throbbing bottom halves were still experiencing.

So regardless of how you like to play, we can pretty well guarantee a few dabs of his & hers arousal gel can be just the thing to get your Valentine’s Day party started. Whether busting it out when getting down to business with a partner, or simply your own bad self, there’s no way you’ll regret the punch these little potions of pleasure can deliver.

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We’re not enigmas, ladies. We’re actually really easy to please once you know what we’re into—maybe even a little too easy. Every guy is different, of course, but let’s take a look at 10 of the most common fantasies guys have. Armed with this information, it’ll become alarmingly apparent what it takes to get and keep our attention.

1. Role-playing

I’m not talking about LARPing or D&D, of course, though I’m not ruling it out, either. Turning the bedroom into a stage can be a lot of fun for both of you, and it keeps things from growing stagnant. If your guy holds a powerful position in his professional life, for instance, there’s a good chance he may dig having the tables turned in bed, and being the submissive one. Maybe he needs a new boss. Or, maybe you’ve still got your high school cheerleading outfit and put your hair in pigtails, and pretend to be the “naughty babysitter.” Whatever the case, pretending to be someone else can be fun and liberating for both of you, and the rest of this list is going to give you plenty of ideas!

2. Oral sex

This is a no-brainer. At least, it shouldn’t be. I understand that some ladies may feel that giving head is gross, but it’s a great way to get our full attention, and then take things in a more mutually-beneficial direction once you’ve got us worked up. You can always use a flavored lube to make things a little more delicious. And if you’re at a loss when it comes to getting him a gift, a birthday blowjob will do just fine in a pinch.

3. Watching porn together

This can be awkward at first, for both of you, especially considering that guys usually watch it privately. Try turning some on under the guise of being just for laughs. When the plumber shows up onscreen and that awful music starts, you’ll roll your eyes and giggle. But you might just learn quite a bit about what he’s into if you ask him to show you something he likes. And by all means, don’t be afraid to show him something that you think is hot, too!

4. The risk of getting caught

I don’t think this one only applies to men at all. Whether it’s making love out in nature, or in a public place where someone might catch you in the act, it’s an extremely exciting experience. Some of my most memorable sexual encounters where in places we could have been busted at any moment.

5. Fetishes

Make sure he feels that he can tell you anything, and you won’t have to ask—he’ll tell you. It may take some time, especially if he’s into something most people would find strange. But once he knows you’re into him, too, he’ll muster the courage to tell you about his little kink. Whatever his fetish is, listen to him, and you’ll usually find that what he wants is relatively easy to deliver, and he’ll love it.

6. Anal sex

The fact is, most of us want it. Some of us even want it done to us. No pressure. Just think about it. We know it’s a lot to ask. Oh, just make sure to use lots and lots of lube. Like, too much lube.

7. Threesomes

This is a fantasy most guys have, usually of the MFF variety. But it’s not for everyone. I completely understand not wanting to share the one you love with anyone else. In that case, maybe you’d consider just letting him watch you and another girl go at it. Trust me, he won’t complain. Or, maybe he’s into being cuckolded—watching you with another guy. Again, it’s not for everyone, especially when trying to maintain a monogamous relationship. Just be aware that it might be something we fantasize about in one form or another.

8. BDSM

It turns out that women are even more into this, on average, than men, so don’t be afraid to give it a try. A really cool thing about BDSM is that it doesn’t necessarily have to involve sex. For many, it’s a lifestyle, and a very rewarding one. It’s a arguably a discipline, no pun intended, and exploring it together can lead to greater trust and mutual appreciation.

9. We like to watch

Everyone knows guys are into watching porn, whether they’ll admit it or not, so what does that tell you about us? We’re very visual. We like to see things play out. We’re not going to mind watching you touch yourself one bit. And if we know you’re into it, we’ll do it for you, too.

10. Facials

Of course, I don’t mean a day at the spa. I know you don’t want to get any in your eyes or hair, but this is something nearly all of us would be totally down with. It can be hard for us to ask sometimes, especially if he’s in love with you and doesn’t want you to feel degraded. Know that who you are in the bedroom doesn’t define you outside of it, nor is it something to be ashamed of. So don’t be afraid of that naughty side. If you’re with the right guy, he really will still respect you in the morning if you let him do this to you—once you’ve orgasmed, of course—and is ready to finish.

In conclusion, some of this stuff might sound wild—or even a little weird. But maybe keep an open mind. You might be surprised by some of the things which turn you on. Who knows, you might discover you’re more into some of this stuff than he is.

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My husband is still buzzing about his guybrator experience. And if you don’t know dick about this sex toy for his dick, you should. It’s a wrap around sex toy for his wiener. 

First things first. Most vibrators did nothing for my guy’s wiener. In fact, he would often whine that these toys would provide too much zip or too little zap.  But then he met the Pocket Pulse Penis Vibe, a palm-sized penis pleaser that provides a whole handful of stimulating, dual-motor, oscillating vibrations. It’s made exclusively for male members and it’s hands down the best vibrator my guy has ever used.

To begin, with we charged the toy for a few hours so it wouldn’t disappoint. 

When we were ready, we wrapped his dog in this tight little bun. He started off soft, which definitely made it easier to get him in the toy, and I started kissing his neck. First small pecks, and then full mouth sucks. I had one hand on his balls and could feel when his dick began to grow harder and thicker. We got out the lube (you’ll need it for this toy), and applied some to his penis. Then I gently stroked the Pulse up and down his shaft. We explored the various oscillation patterns from frenulum to base, and I noticed his dick was digging the vibes. So much so that after a little while of up and down movement, I let it go, hands-free. And as I sucked on his nipples and kissed him all over, his dick got the type of hard it gets before he comes.

So we did the unthinkable…we turned down the vibration. We wanted to prolong the experience and live on the edge for a while. His dick was still hard, but his body grew less stiff. He got into the groove of the lower vibration, and without further stroking, he jacked up the power. It wasn’t long before I watched with delight as my guy, using his guybrator, erupted like a geyser.  It was a semen filled explosion of epic proportions. 

There is both a plus and minus button on the toy, and, they are pretty intuitive.  This thing works well as a vibrator, and it can also be used as a stroker.  First time you charge it, it takes about three hours to get fully juiced. It’s pretty loud on the highest setting, so remember that if you’re masturbating in a house full of people you’d prefer didn’t know you were masturbating.

That being said, you should see it for yourself. It’s truly a magical manly experience. 

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