With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, we all know the epic debate that never ceases to spark. This year, my boyfriend and I made a pre-game pact to start spreading special love leading up to the 14th’s debut. And in our case, that was hardly a chore when our ‘Play With Me’ Valentine Kit has been sitting pretty since its arrival. Although it was hard to pick just one thing from the kit at a tantalizing time, tonight we knew the super sleek set of arousal gels were calling our name.

‘His & Hers’ in every sense of the phrase, ON’s Clitoral Arousal Gel for me and ON’s Arousal Gel for Men looked like a match-made in heaven. But slowing our rolls for just a hot second, we decided to get cooking dinner out of the way before jumping into our even more carnal dessert.

As the temperatures rose and aromas began to waft…who were we kidding? It was way too tempting to put off! Already the suggestive back caresses were in full swing, when mid-chiffonade of the basil he began tracing his hand up my skirt. At that point all bets were off and we burst into a powerful make out sesh that brought us away from the cozy kitchen and straight onto the plushy couch.

Exchanging nibbles to the lips and ears, I grabbed ahold of his hair as his warm palms glided from my ass to waist, up around the ribs to both of my breasts. The kisses grew hotter and fondling stronger as we swore with each minute the heat of our bodies grew more intense—which is when we knew it was time to crank things up a notch.

By that point we were already half-way stripped down, so we reached for the gels to elevate our already steamy pre-foreplay. He took the lead and slid down my lacey leopard thong to mist my clitoris with a few slippery spritzes of the arousal gel; and not but ten seconds later, the sensations hit like a titillating tidal wave. The natural excitement, the warmth that enveloped my labia, this gel I could feel was drawing all the blood to where it mattered most. I wanted my boyfriend more than ever, and once he started massaging my tingling clit, I knew I couldn’t keep him from joining this heightened pleasure party for much longer.

As I laid on my back and he continued to swirl his fingers around inside me, I snatched up his arousal gel from the coffee table and squeezed a few drops onto my own fingertips. We made eye contact and he saw that I wanted to give him the same seductive joy, so I grabbed his already hardening dick to slather on the cool (and very concentrated) gel drops.

Just like my experience, I could tell in his subtle jaw drop that the effect was nearly instantaneous. I continued softly stroking his penis, which felt like it was getting harder and so much thicker. When he was able to pry open his eyes in between similar rushes of ecstasy-filled sensation, he couldn’t get over the elevation of feeling as well. It was one of the most solid, multi-dimensional erections he had ever experienced—which we both knew was ready for a lot more than just a hand job.

As the increased arousal continued, I pivoted myself around and assumed one of our favorites: 69. With so much feeling building up in our precious parts, we thought it’d be the perfect pairing with such passion-inducing elixirs as these. And boy, were we right!

The second he slid his tongue inside, my world was officially rocked. It was electrifying and totally satisfying in every sense of the two words combined. It already took a lot to edge myself away from orgasming just seconds in, because without a doubt, I didn’t want this pleasure train to end any time soon. At the opposite end, he was just as enthralled. Once my soft, wet lips simultaneously began sliding up and down his still incredibly hard dick, it was taking him through a whole new world of oral-fueled delight.

Of course this position always feel amazing, but combined with the power of the arousal gels, it magnified absolutely everything to planes of pleasure neither one of us had ever experienced. After a few minutes passed, we both were overwhelmed with sensitivity. Finishing a few minutes apart from each other, we got to watch the rousing rush come over one another’s face and lay there in the residual buzz that each of our semi-throbbing bottom halves were still experiencing.

So regardless of how you like to play, we can pretty well guarantee a few dabs of his & hers arousal gel can be just the thing to get your Valentine’s Day party started. Whether busting it out when getting down to business with a partner, or simply your own bad self, there’s no way you’ll regret the punch these little potions of pleasure can deliver.

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What do successful people do? Google that question and you’ll come up with lists from every business magazine out there—Entrepreneur, Business Insider, Forbes, Inc…the list goes on. Each of these Wall Street bibles discuss everything from learning the power of ‘No’ to drinking lemon water. The one thing missing on all the lists? Morning sex. But according to a 2018 sleep study, morning sex could be the key to unlocking your productivity. A survey of more than 1,000 people either in a relationship or living with their partner asked if sex in the morning leads to greater productivity.

Survey says? Yes.

According to the study more than 53 percent of men and 45 percent of women said that they were more productive on the days that they have morning sex. With the facts staring you in the face, why aren’t more people doing this?

Time. We all live down to the wire these days. Our days are micromanaged so minutely that anything out of the schedule throws our entire worlds into whack. But putting “morning sex” into your iCal is probably the least sexy thing out there. The survey reports that people would much rather sleep in or drink coffee than have morning sex.

Turns out getting busy has all the same benefits—it boosts energy levels and relieves stress. Plus, having an orgasm is not the worst way to start the day. For both men and women their estrogen and testosterone are at peak levels in the morning, so already you’re setting yourself up for an advantage, rather than at the end of the day when you both might be tired or distracted. Morning sex is also a massive stress reliever, bringing down stress hormones. Other benefits? It releases endorphins, counts as a workout, and can even help you look younger because it releases oxytocin and other anti-inflammatory molecules.

Still, not everyone is willing to do it. Morning sex feels like a luxury, amid all the other things we have to do like showering, making breakfast, getting the kids ready for school, checking emails, scrolling Instagram, and just about any other priority you can think of that is not sex.

But carving out just a little bit of room to get yours in the morning can make all the difference. According to the survey, men said they would give up 41.5 minutes of sleep for sex, while women would give up 30 minutes. A half hour each morning of less sleep for more sex isn’t so much to ask. In fact, according to the survey, the majority of those surveyed who were satisfied in their relationships were having sex just 4 mornings a month. Of the men and women surveyed, sex lasted on average 26 minutes.

Still, even 26 minutes might be a lot to ask for some people. But they don’t need to miss out on getting (a)head in the morning. Set the alarm 20 minutes early and experiment with foreplay. This, at the very least, will leave you both wanting more for later. Pick positions that aren’t super exotic, like missionary or spooning. This at least makes it a little more alluring in the morning when you’re probably exhausted. Or multitask by showering together, giving you the opportunity to have some frisky fun while you prep yourselves for the day ahead.

Another fun option? Try some toys to get you into gear—and in record time. The Womanizer Starlet, for example, is legendary for orgasms in 60 seconds. Surely there is enough time for that. If you’re feeling sluggish in the morning you can also try the Main Squeeze See-Through Penis Pleaser, which is a masturbation toy you can use on him that takes the job out of ‘hand job.’ You can also turn his penis into a vibrating sex toy with The Wave, a penis ring that enhances sex through vibrations, and makes simultaneous orgasms within reach.

The point is the only one standing in the way of your morning orgasm (and productivity) is you. With a little bit of time management, and the desire to get yours, you could be climaxing your way to a more productive day.

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There’s a sex position out there which is not like the rest. It’s been handed down by sexual gurus and has been perfected through the ages to become what many consider the most intimate position created. If you’re a fan of closeness and effortless orgasms like most of us are, I highly recommend the Lotus Position.

This position takes your passion beyond traditional girl-on-top positions because you’re straddling your man while you’re both sitting up, which provides a world of intimacy and touch at your fingertips.

With the face-to-face juxtaposition, you can connect in deeply intimate ways. You can comfortably kiss and make-out, stare intensely into each other’s eyes without losing contact, caress hair, hug tightly, and even whisper sweet nothings into each other’s ears. It also offers more yummy skin-to-skin contact, and you can fully embrace each other, which is difficult to do in other positions.

While some positions lend themselves perfectly for full penis in-and-out thrusting, the Lotus is excellent for receiving him fully and deeply inside, while also being able to gyrate your hips, to stimulate those hard-to-reach sweet spots. It’s ideal for slow, sensual lovemaking and more for your enjoyment than his.

Lotus allows him to ‘thumb’ your clitoris in Figure 8 strokes while you sensually gyrate. A tried-n-true way to achieve orgasm while enjoying intercourse.

It’s also perfect for G-spot play. Not only will you feel your G-spot being stroked, but he can also enhance that by gently pushing inward on your lower abdomen (with 3-4 flats of his fingertips side-by-side) at the same time. This action will put more pressure against G-spot from the outside. Think of the G-spot as now getting “squeezed” between his penis head on the inside, and the pressure he’s putting from the outside.

By now, you’ve probably had enough of the foreplay, and want me to divulge how to experience this yummy position. It’s very much like traditional Cowgirl, where you’re on top of him. With the Lotus, he’s sitting up, and your legs are wrapped around his waist. Prop pillows behind him against the bed’s headboard for comfortable support. He sits with legs crossed (or straight out if that’s more comfortable for him). Then you gently mount him, so you’re face-to-face, slide him deep inside, and wrap your legs around him. Bingo, you’re in Lotus. Now enjoy all that grinding friction action on your vulva and clitoris!

Note, make sure you’re tucked tight up against him so you’re not leaning back putting weight on his legs or feet/ankles, which can hurt. If you tend to start moving back with motion, ask him to hold you tight around your butt to help keep you in place.

Intensity tip: after mounting him, arch your back a little so your vulva and clitoris shift forward and lay flat against his lower abdomen and pelvis (like CAT). Once you’re both perfectly positioned, gyrate and grind against him in small circles, and feel the orgasmic rush of pleasure from the sensitive nerve endings of your clitoris and inner vulva being stimulated. Ask him to grab your hips tightly, and to help you gyrate—the extra strength and speed he can offer can do wonders for your orgasmic pleasure and make the difference between getting “oh so close” to “YA-HOOO!”

So if it’s intimacy, orgasms, and a little more control you’re after, The Lotus Position will treat you and your lover very well. The best part is, you’ll be able to see the look on your lover’s face to witness how much he enjoys it. I’m sure he’ll love it just as much as you will.

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By now we’ve all heard of the gender pay gap, and how women typically make only 80-percent of what a man earns during a lifetime in the workforce. I know what you’re thinking: “I’m not even an employer. And if I were, I wouldn’t be short-changing any woman who works for me.” That’s good. But what you may not be aware of, however, is that women are being cheated in the bedroom, too—and that means some of us aren’t doing our jobs, guys.

The National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB) revealed that, although 85-percent of us apparently believe we gave our partner an orgasm during our last sexual encounter, only 64-percent of the women surveyed said that was true. Meanwhile, 91-percent of us came during that most-recent romp. That, my friends, is an orgasm gap, and here are some ways we can close it.

1. Open dialogue

If there’s one thing these numbers tell us, it’s that our ladies are being too kind, letting us believe we’ve adequately performed, when they actually faked an orgasm for our benefit. Make sure she knows it’s important to you that she’s satisfied—and not to let you off the hook with a fake orgasm that essentially means, “Finish up, and get off of me.” Every woman is different, so don’t assume they all like the same things. She may be too shy to tell you outright, so ask her what it takes to put her over the top.

2. Become cliterate

If you don’t know where the clitoris is, or what to do with it, you’re failing. While it’s easy for us to come during vaginal intercourse, women aren’t built the same way, and that clit needs stimulation if you’re going to satisfy her. Just bangin’ is not going to be enough to do the trick. The clit is where all those wonderful nerve endings are, and you need to work it. Protip: Most women prefer having the clit indirectly stimulated through contact with the hood or labia during penetration.

3. Ask her to masturbate for you

No, seriously. Because 64-percent of the women surveyed did not orgasm during their last sexual encounter, it stands to reason they may have had to pleasure themselves while we reveled in our believed prowess. In fact, according to the NSSHB’s findings, 60-percent of women are masturbating alone before the age of 20, and the numbers rise from there. If she’ll let you, you’ll pick up a lot by watching her reach the Big O. You’ll notice that she’ll alternate speeds and intensity. Don’t just watch—learn.

4. Oral sex

We’re not alone in enjoying getting head, fellas. If you’re worried about your ability to make her come during regular vaginal intercourse, you sure as hell better be going down on her to get the job done before you even think about finishing. Again, know how to stimulate the clit, and remember to switch up your speed and pattern. You know, like spelling out the alphabet with your tongue down there, instead of incessantly up and down, or side to side, only. When you do something right, she’ll respond, so pay attention.

5. Foreplay

The NSSHB study found that variety really is the spice of life for women when it comes to sexual satisfaction. In other words, don’t just drop your pants and jump on her. She doesn’t want to be rushed. Take the time to really get her worked up. Think of it as building steam until she goes off. Findings indicated that the more acts involved during an encounter, the better the chances are that she’ll climax. While more than 90-percent of us guys have no problem reaching an orgasm by jumping right into intercourse, barely half of the women surveyed said it was enough for them. It’s wasn’t until five different acts were performed that women’s orgasm rates approached 90-percent, so be sure to try different positions.

6. Bring in the toys

Honestly, guys, this is the easiest and the most surefire way for her to orgasm. And this isn’t an “if all else fails” idea—you should be using toys, anyway. Supplementing your lovemaking with a sex toy is what Batman or James Bond would do. They use cool gadget all the time. So should you. I recommend using a small vibrator to stimulate her clit while you penetrate her with your penis (if she can handle it).

In most cases, it’s not that difficult to help her climax. I do not doubt if us gentlemen put in a little extra time and care, we can finally close that gap for good. Who knows, women might even start having multiple orgasms. And then, for the first time probably ever, we can see a surplus. I mean, if women aren’t getting paid as much as men, they should at least be getting more orgasms.

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Even though Henry Kissinger was not referencing BDSM when he stated, “power is the ultimate aphrodisiac”, he was onto something. The exchange of power is a primary pillar of BDSM (Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission) and truth be told, experiencing a rush of power as the Dominant or submissive partner can be intoxicating. A misconception about BDSM or kinky sex is that pain is required. This is not true; erotic power exchange simply involves one partner handing over control to the other in a meaningful way.

A classic component of bondage is impact play. This includes spanking, flogging, and even caning. Playful spanking (and other elements of BDSM) can be a gateway to a stronger bond with your lover, and incorporating a sexual fantasy into your repertoire has its rewards:

• It turns your partner on. Is there anything hotter than taking your partner’s sexual excitement into overdrive?
• The communication, trust, and care required is a vehicle to deeper emotional connection and intimacy with your lover.

Here are some basic steps to get your feet wet.

Before

Communication before, during and after any sort of power exchange or BDSM role playing is crucial. This includes establishing a safe word initially to use when either partner wants to immediately stop activity. This can be as lighthearted as the word ‘banana’ or ‘pussycat’. It is okay to change your mind at any given moment if you have reached your personal comfort threshold.

If you are in the research phase for spanking instruments, reach for something already in your home, such as a paddle hairbrush, or a wooden spoon. Note that any tool with a smaller surface area, like a crop, will create a very sharp sensation. For beginners, choosing a tool that makes a ‘thuddy’ sound as opposed to a snap, crackle, or pop will be less painful. Think a wide, fur-lined paddle, or a flogger with thick, soft straps.

During

• Position: For beginners, the traditional over-the-knee (OTK) is a classic position. However, instructing the submissive to lean against an object like a chair is just as reliable as long as the object remains sturdy.
• Placement: Keep impact confined to the peek of the butt and below. Anywhere above could put the kidneys and tailbone in jeopardy. The fleshiest part of the butt should be the bullseye. The ‘sweet spot’ is where the upper thigh meets the butt. By focusing on medium-to intense impact here, the sweet spot is close enough to the genitalia to send pleasurable aftershocks to the testicles or the vulva.
• Pace: Rapid, repeat strikes can be jarring. As the Dominant, take your time and distribute calculated strokes that allow for breathing room and suspense! The element of surprise goes hand-in-hand with spank-induced euphoria.

Aftercare

Whether you spank for pain, pleasure, or both, it will result in a rush of adrenaline and release of endorphins. Effective aftercare can range from:

• A verbal re-cap to discuss what was good, or what you may want to change next time
• Eating chocolate to replenish oxytocin
• Kisses, light strokes or a massage to promote relaxation
• Applying lotion or chilled aloe vera for cooling relief (unless you enjoy the pain and prefer to bask in the sting)

Pro tip: Always keep an open mind, and don’t knock it ‘til you spank it!

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Let’s be real: most guys are satisfied with women even showing up in the first place. We’ll take what we can get. Hey, you’re naked! Amazing.

The list of sexual stuff women do that men love could probably go on forever. So for the sake of my editors and the average reader’s attention span, I’ve narrowed the compilation down to some noteworthy feats women do which take everyday, pedestrian sex (which again, we’re more than okay with) to the next level. Here are six things women do in bed that men love…

1. Narrate what they’re doing.

“And now, I’m playing with your dick like it’s my own personal lightsaber. Ffffkrrrrshhzzzwooom. Bzuhzzzuhzzzuhzzz. Kkkksshhhh.”*

*lightsaber sounds were curated from a Reddit post discussing lightsaber sounds.

This kinda stuff is the best! Ah man, we love it when women do this. It creates anticipation for what she’ll do next, and we get to hear it in that sultry, bedroom voice. Vocalization is a major turn on, and when it’s used to narrate all the naughty things she does to us, it can heighten any lovemaking sesh.

2. Offer alternatives to rejected ideas.

Okay, so maybe you don’t want it in the butt. We get it. We’re freaky, and for some reason we’re intrigued with your bumholes.

But what about titty-fucking? Or 69ing? We understand that some women have boundaries and we respect that. When she’s willing to compromise by firing right back with another fun thing to try, guys really, really, REALLY like that. It beats getting the look of judgment.

3. Nurture us.

We have feelings too, okay? *Sniff* We might not show them often because we’ve learned to hide our vulnerabilities behind the metaphorical fig leaf, but they do exist.

When women can make us feel loved—with tenderness, care, intimacy—there is nothing better. We can get back to that raunchy, kinky sex tomorrow, but baby, just for tonight, can we get some of that good love?

4. Initiate.

Women know that we want it. We’re not exactly subtle. But do women want it too or do they just humor us so we’ll cuddle them and take them on dates? It’s hard to tell if we’re the ones who are constantly initiating.

Believe it or not, it can hurt our egos when we’re always pursuing. It feels nice when we’re wanted too. Even if it’s something small like suggesting a certain position or leading us with their hands, it’s very much welcome.

5. Be patient and understanding.

The penis is a fickle thing. It goes hard when one needs to pee. It stays soft when one needs to make love. It also encounters retraction periods. But with a woman’s patience and understanding, we’ll be able to overcome performance anxiety, and maybe we’ll be roaring to go tomorrow. Or maybe even in a few minutes… Oop! There it goes. Can we try again now?

6. Share their fantasies.

I want to live in a world where we can just help each other actualize all of our fantasies. Even our deepest and darkest ones (as long as they are morally okay).

Men want to feel needed. So when women confide in us their fantasies, it’s not only super sexy by definition, but it also gives us a chance to be an integral part of fulfilling her wildest desires—which could be the hottest thing EVER.

It also opens up a dialogue so we will feel confident to bring up our own fantasies. We have some fun and wild stuff we’d like to explore too.

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What tickles your fancy? Women have a rich, diverse world of fantasies – more than most of their lovers or friends realize. This guide will show you what’s going on in women’s minds, but also inspire you to create new worlds for yourself or with your lover. So start your imagination engines – and have fun!

1. Power exchange: Sex with Men in Uniform

Uniforms equal power and authority, but also men who serve the public and…women! This form of role-playing often involves a woman being rescued and ravished by a man who can take charge in bed. They’re often thinking about men who are handsome, all business, and well-equipped – firemen are popular. On the other side of the power coin, some women fantasize about taking control and commanding the authority figure to have sex with them or to perform specific acts.

2. Strangers in the Night: Sex that Always Feels Like the First Time

For many women, great sex involves liberation from inhibitions or separation from the identities of their real lives. By losing identity in a fantasy – or a sexy game – sex loses boundaries and creates the fresh buzz of being with someone for the first time. A woman can dream of doing anything with anyone and under any conditions. Common to these fantasies is the notion of spontaneity, where the woman and her lover connect at random or mysteriously in darkness.

3. Body and Soul: Bisexual or Lesbian Fantasies

Fantasies of sex with other women focus on tenderness and sensuality. They often fulfill missing elements of sex with men, where the woman feels what it is like to be with another soft, gentle lover who knows just how to set her passion on fire. In addition, many women find a fantasy in which both lovers can achieve multiple orgasms to be an extra turn-on. These fantasies are filled with romance and involve a deep, intuitive, nurturing, spiritual connection between lovers.

4. Tie Me Up, Fuck Me Hard, and Set Me Free: Non-Consensual Sex

Sometimes known as “rape fantasies,” these are not about violence but about a woman compelled to experience pleasure against her will. Held captive or physically overpowered, a rough, attractive stranger will drive her to orgasm or coerce her into performing acts she might normally never perform. The key issues at hand are power and responsibility; being swept away by a man’s physical strength over her, she can find release from responsibility for her actions or desires. Relieved of this burden, her desire can run wild, unlocking new levels of pleasure with abandon.

5. Master and Servant: the Erotic Power of Domination

For some women, power is the most potent aphrodisiac of all, where they can take command of their environment in ways they may not feel are possible in their normal lives. By commanding a man to perform certain acts, such as cunnilingus, she gains the extra pleasure of orgasm without the need to reciprocate. In a similar way, domination fantasies can focus on a certain person over whom the woman seeks to be powerful, making him beg or giving him a thorough spanking.

The same principle of power can work the other direction, where the woman is forced to do things against her will, yet rewarded with pleasure. Similarly, receiving discipline in this power relationship can be turn-on, where she gets spanking herself or is tied up and pleasured to her limit. By removing her responsibility from sex, she can lose any feelings associated with experiencing “guilty pleasures” or being a “naughty girl.”

6. Screaming for More: the Turn-On of Having an Audience

Whether with a single, passive voyeur or a stadium of cheering crowds, many women fantasize about being watched. It is an opportunity to be seen for her true womanhood – open, wild, uninhibited, sexy – and loved for it. Better yet, the power that comes from the ability to arouse others is a tasty ego boost. In a number of scenarios, such fantasies evolve into complete audience participation, all revolving around the woman as she presides over her subjects as a grand sexual goddess.

7. Give me Your Latex Love: Strap-Ons and Wild, Erotic Toys

A wild and fun fantasy category, strap-on sex and related toys often work in two directions. First, women see themselves penetrating their male lovers, thriving in the power of an erection and seeing his vulnerability as he gets a dose of his own medicine. Second, many women who have lesbian fantasies see themselves screwing their girlfriends, either vaginally or anally. Either way, strap-ons become a source of delivering both power and pleasure. Toy fantasies specifically tend to be highly personalized and tailored to a woman’s unique turn-ons, whether with a lover or solo. Toys are a very powerful way for a woman to re-create many different types of fantasies and can stimulate incredibly powerful orgasms, so they are worth exploring!

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8. Some Like a Crowd: Threesomes and Group Sex

A very popular fantasy category, three-way encounters and group sex tend to fall into a few broad areas. With threesomes, some women fantasize about double penetration, while others envision penetration while another man performs cunnilingus. In any such scenario, the woman’s pleasure is paramount, with the men dedicated to serving her every desire. With groups, women often fantasize about several men (football teams, motorcycle gangs) who adore her and complement her sex appeal as they ravish her in turns. Alternately, groups can include more participatory, active scenarios, such as wild, romantic orgies that include both men and women experiencing all pleasures of each other’s bodies. These fantasies often include opulent settings, elaborate rituals and outlandish characters, almost like a grand opera of sex!

9. Backdoor Boogie: Hot, Undiscovered Pleasure with Anal Sex

Anal sex connects to one of the body’s key pleasure zones and can feel as though a woman is breaking a taboo. In addition to the visuals in her own mind, anal sex fantasies are easy to help fulfill with fingers or toys if a willing boyfriend is unavailable. Anal fantasies can accompany vaginal sex and include multiple partners, whether gentle or rowdy. For many women, fantasies of anal sex evolve slowly over time and often precede acting them out with lovers or toys. For the uninitiated, anal fantasies are best accompanied by plenty of lubrication – take your time and enjoy it – you will probably be surprised by how much pleasure you discover.

10. Show Me the Money: Getting Paid for Getting Laid

As a variation of an audience or commanding power over their lovers, some women fantasize about working as a well-paid prostitute. More than being compensated, such fantasies often involve elaborate settings and wealthy patrons with the ability to bring her to explosive orgasms. As with some other types of visions, getting paid for sex is as much about an exchange of power as for the sex itself. In addition, there is a connotation of working as a courtesan, where the woman is taken care of in addition to providing a service.

11. Come Fuck Me on the Wild Side: Erotic Encounters in Public Spaces

There are many scenarios that fit into this fantasy genre, from wide-open fields and forests to sex at the office. Though natural settings can have the association of living in a primal state, with its affiliated simplicity and rawness, the most common theme between all settings is the possibility of being caught in the act. For women, being caught in the act not only has the implication of danger, but also of being with a confident lover who takes risks and creates sexual adventures. Equally important to many women is the opportunity of being seen, if not caught, similar to having an audience, as above. She is adored by her lover, free and open in nature, and lusted for by random strangers.

12. Let Me Show You the Way: Teaching and Learning

In various ancient cultures, special women in a tribe or civilization would initiate young men into sexual expertise, training them how to be good lovers. The same applies to this type of fantasy, though perhaps in more common settings. For some women this genre can represent the desire to have a better lover or to feel sexually powerful, yet caring for their pupil. There are elements here of a magical discovery, of teaching what she would like to receive, or finding a young man with untapped sexual genius. On the other side, some women fantasize about being the student themselves, swept away by a confident, tender, strong, sexually sophisticated man.

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