Although it’s often the fodder of silly jokes and teasing, the penis is truly a remarkable appendage. As you’ll soon discover, it’s also mysterious. For instance, it’s not as big as you think, and it evolved from something you may have never expected.

Let’s not forget, the penis is crucial to the survival of humanity. There was a long line of functioning penises before us which have helped to keep us going. So the next time you laugh at a good old dick joke, keep this stuff in mind.

That said, we felt it necessary to honor this sacred appendage by listing out some of its most impressive stats. Here are 6 hard facts about the penis…

1. It’s about twice as big as you may think.

You’re welcome, gentlemen. A lot of fellas can totally say they’re packing double-digit inches now. That’s because there’s more to the penis than meets the eye. About half of the dong resides within the body, where it teams up with the rest of the anatomy for super important bodily stuff.

2. It enters and leaves society ready to party.

As soon as males come somersaulting into this world, many of them do so with tiny, raging boners. I guess we’re just super excited to get living. Ultrasounds have also shown that we sometimes get them when we’re just little fetuses too.

We can also leave this planet with a bang (or at least ready to bang). There have been cases reported of stiff bodies with total stiffies. This phenomenon is known as a terminal erection and most often occurs from deaths by hanging. Scientists presume it could be pressure from the noose on the cerebellum which causes the one-eyed trouser snake to rise from the dead.

3. It evolved from a clitoris.

That’s right, all penises—even the biggest and baddest of them all—begin their journey as a clitoris. When we’re all just cute little embryos, mindlessly floating around, we were lucky enough to have vulvas. Then the Y chromosome transformed some of these embryos into males. The clitoris grows into a penis, and the outer labia is stretched into testicles.

4. It can break.

Although boners have no bones, the penis can still be broken. It’s known as a penile fracture and happens during vigorous sex. So take it easy, man. Your dick isn’t a battering ram.

Okay, so if you really want to know the gory details, the breakage occurs when the fibrous covering of tissue inside your penis, responsible for expansion when filled with blood, ends up rupturing. Did you just cringe? I totally cringed when I wrote that.

5. It doesn’t leave clues.

Your shoe size. Whether or not your middle finger is longer than your ring finger. The distance between your eyebrows. Big Dick Energy. None of these traits are an indication of the size of one’s penis. Even the size of one’s penis (when flaccid) is no indication of the size of one’s penis when erect. Some folks are growers, and some are show-ers. And others are just always stupidly big.

The only way to find out the immensity of one’s dick is to get it excited and discover for yourself. Nature is super mysterious that way.

6. Its head doesn’t have a brain.

Believe it or not, some guys aren’t just selfish dicks who climax early on purpose. Many fellas have very little control over when they are about to ejaculate. The order to blow one’s load doesn’t come from the big guy upstairs (the brain), but instead from this hilariously named centre in the spine called the spinal ejaculation generator.

That’s why it’s critically important to adopt habits which counteract this, like wearing a cock ring. Also, check out our blogs, 10 Mistakes Preventing Men From Lasting Longer and Stay Harder And Last Longer With These 3 Simple Workouts to help you harness that self control.

So yeah, the penis. It’s pretty cool. I’m a fan—especially of my own. I hope y’all learned a few things about this mysterious part of the body. The next time the conversation inevitably ventures to penis town, you’ll be armed with some fascinating tidbits about these naughty bits to share with everyone.

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It happens. Sometimes you just get too excited, and you come before you (and she) would have liked. You’ve probably tried things, like imagining an elderly woman named Myrtle playing Bingo, in an effort to keep from coming too soon. But if that didn’t work out for you, here are some things that may be standing in your way of escaping the awful label of being a minute man.

1. You’re skipping foreplay.

Not only do women prefer engaging in a number of acts before intercourse, it’ll also help you develop in the duration department. If you play your cards right, she will have orgasmed before you ever stick it in, and that’s one less thing to worry about—which takes us to another potential pitfall.

2. Performance anxiety.

If your thoughts during sex are consumed by the fear of finishing too quickly, it’s not going to help you avoid premature ejaculation. Relaxation is the key to lasting longer. Though it’s fairly normal to experience this anxiety in early adulthood, it could develop into full-blown erectile dysfunction later in life, and you don’t want that. Take charge of the anxiety, make it your bitch, and learn from the rest of our list.

3. Lack of control.

Though it can happen quickly, ejaculation doesn’t exactly sneak up on you. When you feel like you’re getting close, you need to stop, at least momentarily. Don’t just finish and say, “Whoops, sorry.” Pull out and take a quick breather. If necessary, just tell her you don’t want to come yet because you’re having so much fun. It’ll not only flatter her, but it’ll show her that her satisfaction is important to you. Meantime, consistently exercising this control (“edging”) will aid your duration skills down the road, and the need for these pauses in the action will become less frequent.

4. You’re not masturbating.

You might be thinking: “I’m gonna get laid. I don’t need to jerk off!” Well, if lasting longer in bed is important to you, masturbating before taking part in the real thing will help. The less semen you have built up, just screaming to get out, the more stamina you’ll find you have when it comes time to work your magic on her. Masturbating is also a perfect time to practice your edging skills by recognizing when you’re getting close so you can slow things down as needed.

5. You’re not using a condom.

Loss of sensitivity is a common male complaint when it comes to wearing a rubber. So it stands to reason that putting one on may help you last longer by decreasing your little buddy’s sensitivity during an intimate moment. Some condoms even have an anesthetic built-in just for this purpose.

6. You’re breathing wrong.

You might even be holding your breath, and that’s bad. Mr. Miyagi wouldn’t steer you wrong, so remember to regularly breathe in through your nose and out your mouth. It’ll relax your muscles and diffuse tension in the pelvis that triggers ejaculation.

7. You’re not wearing a penis ring.

OK, this one is my favorite, because sex toys are so fun. The penis ring restricts blood flow in your penis, which keeps you hard for a longer period of time, as the blood has nowhere to escape. Vibrating rings add additional pleasure for her, since they provide some buzz right where she needs it. Overall, cock rings provide a win-win situation for all involved.

8. You don’t know where your PC muscle is.

As mentioned above, when the pubococcygeal (PC) muscles in your pelvis get too tense, you’re going to ejaculate. You’ve probably heard that Kegel exercises can help men strengthen PC muscles, but if you don’t learn to control them, you’re not going to last any longer. The easiest way to find your PC muscle is by taking a leak. As you stand over the toilet draining your bladder, try to stop the flow using muscles only. The muscle you’ll find yourself tensing is your PC. By knowing exactly where it is, you’ll now be armed with the knowledge of what muscle to relax when you feel like you’re getting close to coming.

9. You’re not trying different positions.

Not only will she appreciate switching things up, it may actually help you last longer, depending on what typically sends you over the edge. For instance, I’m a face guy. That is, I typically finish while my partner and I are face to face. So, if there’s something about seeing the pleasure on her face that sets you off, try working her from behind for a while instead. Know what your triggers are so you can avoid them for as long as possible during sex.

10. You haven’t learned to squeeze.

Squeezing your Johnson just below the head can prevent an eruption. The idea here is close off the urethra that carries your semen to freedom. In addition to avoiding ejaculation, this squeezing technique can reduce the mounting tension by forcing blood out of the penis, thereby increasing the longevity of your sexual encounter.

So yeah, there’s a lot of little reasons which could be the culprit for comin’ too quickly. And trust me, these things can add up. Fast. Like, faster than premature ejaculation. Luckily, you’re now armed with the many mistakes which might prevent you from lasting longer, so you can do your part to avoid them and then go the distance.

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While Kegels first came to popularity with women in order to tighten things up down there after giving birth, men have been increasingly drawn to these pelvic floor exercises in order to improve sexual performance. But do they work? Trust me, if you commit to adding Kegels to your daily routine, you’re going to absolutely blow her mind!

First, let’s examine the muscles involved, then how they correspond to sexual experiences. This network of muscles begins at the base of your penis, and keeps numbers 1 and 2 from escaping before you reach the bathroom to release them. If you’ve ever had trouble peeing in a public bathroom because someone else was around, it was because these muscles tensed up. Science, yo.

But bladder and bowel control aren’t the only things these pelvic floor muscles are good for, of course. When it comes to sex, strengthening and controlling these muscles can be a huge benefit on several levels. But chances are, these aren’t the ones you’re typically working on at the gym, so we’ll need to locate them before we go any further.

Step into the bathroom. If you’re like me, it’s not unusual to unleash a fart when you pee, as a result of these muscles relaxing. So try to find these pubococcygeus (PC) muscles when you’re taking a leak by trying to stop or slow the flow in midstream, while also doing that thing you do when you have to fart, but necessity requires you to hold it in. These are the PC muscles you’ll focus on when doing Kegels. And now that you’ve found them, let’s get to work.

Kegel exercises can be done while sitting or standing, or even when walking. You’re trying them already as you’re reading, aren’t you? That’s good! The key is being able to isolate the PC muscles from the others surrounding them. They can be strengthened by simply tightening them and holding it for several seconds, releasing, then repeating.

While you’re doing these exercises, be mindful to avoid tightening your buttocks, abdomen and thigh muscles. This is all about taking control of the PC muscles that are basically used to working without your conscious involvement. Avoid the temptation to hold your breath. Keep your breathing regular, as with any other exercise or activity. Three sets of 10 reps per day will provide results you’ll notice within as little as one week. But if you want her to notice, stick with it.

So, why are these muscles so important when it comes to sex? Well, these are the same ones that contract when you have an orgasm. So if avoiding premature ejaculation is important to you —and it should be—being able to control them on-command will prevent you from climaxing too soon, so you can understand why this is such a huge benefit of Kegels.

Don’t make the mistake of doing Kegels during sex, though. Remember that you want the muscles down there relaxed, not tensed, which triggers the ejaculation you’re trying to put off. In fact, it’s impossible to ejaculate when they’re relaxed.

Most of us will experience erectile dysfunction at some point in our lives, if only temporarily. But after our sexual peak around age 18, the older we get, the greater the chance that we’ll be affected by ED in some manner. Kegels have proven to be an effective tool in combating forms of ED, including often being credited with increased blood flow in order to produce and maintain stronger erections.

All of these are great reasons to start a Kegels regimen and really take things up a notch for her in bed. But if providing her with better, unforgettable sex isn’t enough, there’s a selfish reason why you should give them a try—better orgasms for yourself. Makes sense, doesn’t it? By toning your PC muscles, those orgasmic contractions will become stronger and more intensely pleasurable. But only after you’ve sent her through the roof, of course.

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Though most guys have self-pleasured since the awkward years of teenhood, not nearly as many know what male sex toys can bring to the table. From inciting new ways to explore your body to heightening sensations unlike any experienced before, these titillating tools are something every guy can appreciate (and should have) at their bedside.

When the going gets tough, we know the tough get masturbating, so listen up, guys—here are some of the sexiest solo selections for you:

Good Vibes

When in need of a hearty buzz, it’s Pocket Pulse to the rescue. With its unique, palm-sized, wrap-around design and two oscillating motors, this little vibe was made for stimulating your frenulum pleasure spot—the sensitive area where your shaft meets your penis head. Though don’t let this stop you from using the vibration anywhere that feels good. And best of all—this toy can be used for anyone at any time. Whether you’re already hard or just barely warming up, this little guy can help you reach the cusp of climax, regardless of how far from the finish line you are.

Stayin’ Alive

Plugged and ready, the Weighted Snug Plug will have you on the edge of your seat with arousal. Amplify your senses by combining this plug with any of the other masturbation toys to stimulate more than one erogenous zone at a time. With this butt plug’s two built-in weights for creating a thrilling tug, extra touches of excitement are added to your already tantalizing adventures. Whether donning this in the bedroom or wearing it out while painting the town red, you’ll be sure to see (and feel) the sexy sparks fly.

Pump It Up

Longer and stronger—what’s seriously not to love? With this Deluxe Penis Enlargement kit, masturbation will never be the same again. Using the pump to increase blood flow throughout, you’ll have everything you need to see visible boosts in length as well as girth. And since more blood means increased sensitivity, every stroke of the hand means intensified surges of satisfaction.

Corkscrewed

Spiral into bliss with the latest innovation in Japanese luxury pleasure. The Tenga 3D sleeve can turn your masturbation sesh into a full-fledged work of art with just a flick of its abstract textured design. The silky sleeve features a spiraling, ribbed surface, fit to stimulate every groove of the penis, but can also turn inside out for a more traditionally smoother glide. And with a fully-squeezable design, your control over the tightness will help seal the sexy deal in no time.

New Takes on Tradition

Perhaps a newsflash to some, but wands aren’t just for women and Harry Potter any more. Known as the “Cadillac of Vibrators,” the Le Wand Premium Massager can take you places you never before thought possible. With a wide head, exceptionally powerful motor, and seemingly limitless vibration variations, it can even double as a full-body massager. Just don’t be surprised when you find out what you’ve almost been missing out on all along.

Setting The Mood

If looking to spice up a classic hand job, look no further than the mesmerizing Mood Thrill penis stroker. Made of lifelike UltraSkyn material, this masturbation sleeve will take you on a journey through three different orgasmic textures: large massaging beads toward the front, thick ribs throughout the middle, and tapered nubs that round out a tight finish to the end. Of course it works smashingly for masturbation, but when your lover uses it to jazz up a regular ole hand job, it can offer a whole new world of shared pleasure.

Plunging Perfection

Sink yourself into a new domain of pleasure with the lifelike Perfect Pussy stroker. So seductively similar to the real thing, this squeezable Ultraskyn tunnel will make you think twice about using only your hands again. When gliding against its soft, inner texture while clutching the outer case however tight that takes you to town, this stroker gives you a truly customized experience that’ll have you doing double takes if you leave your eyes closed for too long.

A Divine Duo

Snug but stretchy, the Hercules Penis Ring can help uncover new realms of stamina you may have thought were only possible in storybooks. By slipping into this little gem right before a hot and heavy solo sesh, your blood flow will be pleasantly restricted, meaning a longer-lasting boner and intensified sensations. And with the four ribbed sections engineered for additional lasting pleasure, you’ll find yourself wondering how you ever got this far in life without one.

Lube To Love

Few things in life comprise a match made more in heaven than the pairing of sex and lube. So if you think masturbation can’t possibly feel any better—it’s time to think again. Formulated by our very own sexologist Dr. Sadie Allison, her Slippery Kitty Lube is the cherry on top to any self-pleasuring experience. The long-lasting, water-based lubricant is paraben- and glycerin-free, plus safe to use with any sex toy material. So what’s the holdup? Get your hands on this 15-year industry favorite and add some glide to your ride.

So just when you think you’ve mastered it all, remember there’s always more to learn when it comes to the great wide world of sex. Although there are arguably more stigmas to overcome within the male sex toy arena, this list should go to show the pleasure perks should outweigh any pop-cultural cons. So next time you want to spice up your token “me time,” consider exploring one of these sensual tools of the trade. You won’t regret it.

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The human body is pretty extraordinary. All of its systems working together to keep us alive, trying their best to keep us healthy (even with all the shit we put in our bodies), all so we can continue to delve into the pleasures, pains, and mysteries the world has to offer us.

One of the most complex of these systems is the reproductive—and while scientifically it is for, well, reproduction, it does oh, so much more.

Our sexual organs are wondrous things that we are still learning vastly more about. If you thought everything was covered in sex ed, you are quite mistaken. In fact, far too many curriculums on the subject barely scratch the pubic mound when it comes to anatomy. And don’t get me started on function or pleasure. But, I digress.

What subject is rarely, if at all discussed? Orgasms—specifically women’s (who even knew that was a thing until they were much older?). That’s why there are so many publications, like this one, dedicated to the learning, understanding, and implementing of women’s pleasure.

Now, because of science, articles, and sex positivity, women have found out that, not only are our orgasms stronger than men’s, but hey, we’re multi-orgasmic! It’s really great if you’ve mastered it.

But, what about men? While their orgasms seem to be easier to achieve, they also have a refractory period. This is the time after orgasm that a man can no longer maintain an erection—and it varies from person to person. So, are multiple orgasms out of the cards for our penile fellows? Actually, they’re not! It’s just not exactly written about as much.

So, if you’re still with me, there are a few ways to get that multi-orgasmic streak going.

Trains for Gains

Multiple orgasms all start with your pelvic floor health. A lot of people are under the impression that Kegel exercises are only for women, but men need to strengthen their PC muscles just as much. Since this isn’t exactly common knowledge, overall, men’s pelvic floors aren’t as strong, which means neither is their ejaculatory control.

The more you work out the muscles that start and stop your pee, the more control you can get over your ejaculation, and the more orgasms you’ll ultimately be able to have.

Utilizing the Prostate

Also known as the male p-spot, the prostate is a hidden gem in a man’s rectum full of untapped pleasure. Many have dabbled in prostate play, but for some, the thought may send a chill down their spine. This magical gland is one key to being multi-orgasmic. Just be sure to use a “CBD” lube as it’s ideal for CBD’s relaxation and anti-anxiety properties.

Stimulating your prostate not only brings you insane pleasure, but it helps prevent cancer and improves your overall health. To work your prostate even more, the company behind the Intensity, Pour Moi, is in the process of creating a device that men will be able to use to work out your prostate and pelvic floor muscles for you (see reason above).

Once you achieve an orgasm this way, you’ll notice that you may have only been slightly erect, only ejaculated a little, or maybe not even at all. When you get used to this sensation, you can try to keep going after you’ve had one orgasm, and go on to have another. You could also switch to penile stimulation, OR try doing a bit of both. Talk about explosive.

Getting to the Edge

Okay, so now you have a PC muscle regimen and you’ve finally found and stimulated your prostate—what else can you do? Here comes the real test of your orgasmic strength—edging.

Edging is the practice of you or your partner bringing you to the point right before orgasm, and then stopping, so you don’t cross the threshold. What this does is help you to remember that feeling so when you’re having sex, you can pull it back, and go for longer.

Once you have that down, you’ll start to get more control over when you’re actually releasing ejaculate. To get even more practice, you can use the Fleshlight Surge, designed with this method of stimulation in mind. And to help you get used to this feeling, you can try using Promescent, a spray guaranteed to make you last longer in bed.

The more used to this feeling you get, the more you’ll actually orgasm without busting, allowing you stay hard, and being able to orgasm again. Essentially, you’re building muscle memory, just like any other workout you would do.

WOW. That was a whole lot to digest. While many of you will want to try this out, it does take time, focus, and patience to master. So, if you really want to go for gold, you’ll have to be dedicated to the masturbation marathons ahead of you. At the same time, don’t get discouraged if you get a little overexcited.

Originally published on sexwithemily.com

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We’re not enigmas, ladies. We’re actually really easy to please once you know what we’re into—maybe even a little too easy. Every guy is different, of course, but let’s take a look at 10 of the most common fantasies guys have. Armed with this information, it’ll become alarmingly apparent what it takes to get and keep our attention.

1. Role-playing

I’m not talking about LARPing or D&D, of course, though I’m not ruling it out, either. Turning the bedroom into a stage can be a lot of fun for both of you, and it keeps things from growing stagnant. If your guy holds a powerful position in his professional life, for instance, there’s a good chance he may dig having the tables turned in bed, and being the submissive one. Maybe he needs a new boss. Or, maybe you’ve still got your high school cheerleading outfit and put your hair in pigtails, and pretend to be the “naughty babysitter.” Whatever the case, pretending to be someone else can be fun and liberating for both of you, and the rest of this list is going to give you plenty of ideas!

2. Oral sex

This is a no-brainer. At least, it shouldn’t be. I understand that some ladies may feel that giving head is gross, but it’s a great way to get our full attention, and then take things in a more mutually-beneficial direction once you’ve got us worked up. You can always use a flavored lube to make things a little more delicious. And if you’re at a loss when it comes to getting him a gift, a birthday blowjob will do just fine in a pinch.

3. Watching porn together

This can be awkward at first, for both of you, especially considering that guys usually watch it privately. Try turning some on under the guise of being just for laughs. When the plumber shows up onscreen and that awful music starts, you’ll roll your eyes and giggle. But you might just learn quite a bit about what he’s into if you ask him to show you something he likes. And by all means, don’t be afraid to show him something that you think is hot, too!

4. The risk of getting caught

I don’t think this one only applies to men at all. Whether it’s making love out in nature, or in a public place where someone might catch you in the act, it’s an extremely exciting experience. Some of my most memorable sexual encounters where in places we could have been busted at any moment.

5. Fetishes

Make sure he feels that he can tell you anything, and you won’t have to ask—he’ll tell you. It may take some time, especially if he’s into something most people would find strange. But once he knows you’re into him, too, he’ll muster the courage to tell you about his little kink. Whatever his fetish is, listen to him, and you’ll usually find that what he wants is relatively easy to deliver, and he’ll love it.

6. Anal sex

The fact is, most of us want it. Some of us even want it done to us. No pressure. Just think about it. We know it’s a lot to ask. Oh, just make sure to use lots and lots of lube. Like, too much lube.

7. Threesomes

This is a fantasy most guys have, usually of the MFF variety. But it’s not for everyone. I completely understand not wanting to share the one you love with anyone else. In that case, maybe you’d consider just letting him watch you and another girl go at it. Trust me, he won’t complain. Or, maybe he’s into being cuckolded—watching you with another guy. Again, it’s not for everyone, especially when trying to maintain a monogamous relationship. Just be aware that it might be something we fantasize about in one form or another.

8. BDSM

It turns out that women are even more into this, on average, than men, so don’t be afraid to give it a try. A really cool thing about BDSM is that it doesn’t necessarily have to involve sex. For many, it’s a lifestyle, and a very rewarding one. It’s a arguably a discipline, no pun intended, and exploring it together can lead to greater trust and mutual appreciation.

9. We like to watch

Everyone knows guys are into watching porn, whether they’ll admit it or not, so what does that tell you about us? We’re very visual. We like to see things play out. We’re not going to mind watching you touch yourself one bit. And if we know you’re into it, we’ll do it for you, too.

10. Facials

Of course, I don’t mean a day at the spa. I know you don’t want to get any in your eyes or hair, but this is something nearly all of us would be totally down with. It can be hard for us to ask sometimes, especially if he’s in love with you and doesn’t want you to feel degraded. Know that who you are in the bedroom doesn’t define you outside of it, nor is it something to be ashamed of. So don’t be afraid of that naughty side. If you’re with the right guy, he really will still respect you in the morning if you let him do this to you—once you’ve orgasmed, of course—and is ready to finish.

In conclusion, some of this stuff might sound wild—or even a little weird. But maybe keep an open mind. You might be surprised by some of the things which turn you on. Who knows, you might discover you’re more into some of this stuff than he is.

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It used to be that we were only bombarded with ads for male enhancement products when we were looking at porn (research purposes only, ladies, we swear). Now we’re forced to see old men with pill-induced, eight-hour boners during commercial breaks on every channel. Whether we’re talking about pharmaceuticals or devices, like penis pumps, advertisers are preying on a basic male instinct to desire being well endowed.

Though it’s probably true that most women prefer their man to have a big heart, it’s not uncommon for us to equate larger penis size with being more of a man. Our porn research typically yields us only very-large specimens to compare our own members to, after all, so it’s easy for many of us to have occasional feelings of inadequacy.

You might be wondering if there’s a no-cost, pill-free way to increase length or girth. Have you considered stretching?

Simple penis-stretching exercises have been shown to provide a recognizable boost in the size department. I’m no doctor, and you’re not receiving medical advice here. In fact, science hasn’t looked into this practice much at all, from what I can tell. I’m just going to tell you about the three stretches that worked for me—and without you having to worry about intercepting the mail before your lady opens a mysterious, discrete package that causes a bunch of embarrassment.

First, if at any point you feel pain—stop! You’re doing something wrong. That said, you don’t want to be erect at all when you do the stretches. That’s how things get hurt when you’re just starting out. The concept isn’t so foreign from stretching muscles before and after exercise. Though the penis is an organ, not a muscle, the general idea here is to gradually increase blood capacity by gently stretching the tissue over time. And greater blood capacity means bigger erections.

And like with any physical activity, you’ll want to start off warmed-up. We’ve all had our George Costanza moments in cold water, so you know what I’m talking about. We don’t want our ‘lil guy to be contracting into the body when we begin, so a warm, damp cloth will make things more conducive. Better yet, take your stretching into a nice shower or bath. It doesn’t matter if you’re lying down, sitting or standing, as long as you’re comfy. Now, you’re ready to begin stretching.

The Simple Stretch

I begin by gripping the shaft slightly below the head, essentially holding it in an OK sign made with my thumb and index finger, then gently pulling it away from my body. I hold it for 10-30 seconds, then slowly release. Remember, start off easy. It’s not supposed to hurt at any point. Don’t tense up or hold your breath. Breathe and be relaxed.

I repeat by stretching in other directions—left, right and upward—though I personally avoid stretching in the downward direction because some speculate that could be bad. All said I spend about 10 minutes twice a day (or 20 minutes once a day) doing these easy stretching exercises, and the result is definitely noticeable.

But you have to be committed to putting in the time, and understand that it will take at least a month before you start to notice the difference. Even 10 minutes a day will do when you’re just starting off. Plus, you can turn on your favorite series on Netflix to help get you through it.

Jelquing

Once you get into a good flow, you can begin supplementing these simple stretches with jelqing. To properly jelq, you’ll need some lube and a penis at half-mast (50% full). I recommend using a water-based lube because it’s better in every way, but especially for jelqing, as it can really go the distance when you add water. And just like for the previous exercise, make sure to warm up your bits before stretching.

Now, you’re ready to milk your dong like a cow. Make the OK sign you learned about during the previous stretching exercise, and place it at the base of your shaft, right against your pubic bone. With a little pressure, slide your hand towards the tip. Stop when you reach your penis head, and the next hand will perform the second jelq. Continue making this motion with each hand, and now you’re jelqing, my man. When starting out, I recommend doing about 50-100 jelqs about five times per week, and then slowly increase that number at your own pace.

Hanging Weights

Ready for another workout for the old meat thermometer? Try hanging weights over long periods of time. This method may be impractical for most men, as it’s not exactly easy to saunter through the workplace with a marble-filled sock hanging from your cock. But if you live alone or you work from home in a robe as I do, it’s definitely worth considering. As mentioned earlier, some people believe stretching downward is not a good idea, so try this exercise at your own risk—or maybe do some research first.

Hanging devices can be bought online, but you can MacGyver your own with a sock, some marbles (or any other small, heavy things you can find), and some string. Just don’t tie the string too tightly, or you can cause damage. And, as always, start slow. Maybe begin with a few marbles and gradually increase the weight and the hang time.

Now that you’ve read this, there might be a voice in the back of your head, skeptical of what I’ve shared with you today. Perhaps it’s convinced you that increasing the size of your manhood is impossible. Maybe you’ll even check out what “experts” or doctors have to say on the matter. To that little voice, and to all the haters, who for some reason want to crush man’s collective dream of having a larger penis, there are two relevant pieces of knowledge I want to drop.

First of all, human beings can stretch every other part of their body to be larger, like their ears, and even their necks. So why can’t the penis be pulled bigger, hmmm?

Secondly, scientists can get four football fields of skin from one baby’s foreskin. Sooo, yeah. It’s pretty stretchy down there.

If your romantic partners are cruel about your size, or the fellas in the locker room keep teasing you—who gives a f*ck? Dicks are funny things,  so laugh with them. Grow yourself a bigger weenie because you want to grow yourself a bigger weenie, and get on with your bad self. Just be sure to share these sacred teachings with your friends, just as it’s been handed down by the skin flute masters before us.

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Most men are simple beings. And at the end of the day, they just want to be validated and appreciated for all that they do for their women and families. Men like to be recognized for their good qualities and thoughtful actions. They want to know that they’re doing a good job, and that their efforts are noticed and appreciated. That’s not too much to ask, right?

It’s important to show plenty of gratitude to the man in your life. Here are some wonderful things he may be doing on a regular basis, but that may be flying under your appreciation-radar:

His compliments or spontaneous acts of affection.

When you get a “hey baby, I really like that dress on you”, or a “just because” hug and kiss, respond with returned affection or genuine compliments about him. Put that smile right back on his face, because you know how good it feels!

All the little things he does.

Men are do-ers and this is often how they show their love. While it may not be flowers or a new purse (or your preferred love language), it’s his way of caring. So acknowledge the tasks he does like fixing the car, changing the lightbulbs or mowing the lawn. Let him know you’re thankful for all those little things he does. Just your acknowledgement will mean the world to him.

His generous loving in the bedroom.

If you’re lucky enough to have a man who knows how important your sexual pleasure is, let him know you fully appreciate it! Not only does he love his ego stroked with compliments, but you can also show him your gratitude by returning the favor. Stroke his ‘other ego’ with some Slippery Kitty Lube or use his favorite toy and give him a new and exciting sexual experience. For dozens of illustrated oral pleasure techniques, pick up my bestselling book, Tickle His Pickle. You can never go wrong with a “Thank You BJ”.

His no-drama attitude.

Most men could care less about the small stuff, or squabbling over standard female-fare. This is a huge benefit—imagine what it’d be like if he were as sensitive as some of us women can be! Even though he may totally miss the mark on some things, revel in the fact that he’s able to let things roll off his back easily, and enjoy the peace.

His communication skills.

Some guys are challenged when it come to being a good communicator. If you’re fortunate enough to have an open communicator, who’s not afraid to be transparent and share his feelings, take the time to not only listen—but thoroughly hear—what he’s saying. Then acknowledge, validate and take his words to heart.

His thoughtful planning and surprises.

When he springs for a surprise date night, unexpected flowers, or does some of the household chores, don’t let that go unappreciated! Let him know how much you love his thoughtfulness. Take your turn and surprise him back with some romance and playful seduction. He’ll definitely appreciate your appreciation!

His listening and reasoning skills.

When your man gives you his undivided attention and takes time to really listen to you, bless your lucky stars. Every woman deserves a man who will happily talk things through when something (anything) is on our mind. No woman wants to hear a big poopie sigh when we ask “can we talk”. So if you’re fortunate enough to have an engaged, thoughtful listener, let him know you appreciate it by always giving him the same respect when he needs to talk. Also encourage more open dialogue, if you know that’s not his strong suit and that it could help him along.

While this is a short list of all the wonderful things our men do, and there’s certainly a matching list for women’s appreciation, I hope this inspires thoughtful conversation and promotes closeness, mutual understanding and personal growth in your relationship.

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