Giving great oral pleasure is an art, and if you want to create a masterpiece, you’ve got to equip yourself with the right tools. Even the most talented fingers, lips, and tongues can level-up their oral expertise with a drawer full of sexy accessories. Tickle Kitty has got you covered on the best vibrators, lubes, and sensation-enhancing toys to play wing-man (or woman) to your mouth, and we’ve listed the best ways to play:

1. Keep it Wet and Slippery

Wetter is always better, especially when it comes to oral lovin’. Even the wettest and wildest babes will feel the difference between plain ol’ body fluids and an extra dose of moisture from a sensual lubricant. Spring for a tasty delight like with flavored lube for an added bonus. Once you’ve drenched your partner’s penis or vulva in strawberry sweetness, enjoy lapping it up with your lips and tongue as you explore every inch of their nether regions. For vagina owners, always double-check your ingredients, especially when flavor is involved. A healthy, hypoallergenic lube that’s safe for your insides and outsides—like Slippery Kitty—will be pH balanced, water-based, and free of glycerin and paraben. Drizzle on the wet stuff like you’re making an ice cream sundae and go to town!

2. Suck and Stroke

Just when he thought it couldn’t get much better than a warm mouth and soft tongue, introduce your new secret weapon: a men’s stroker. Penises love texture, and a squishy oral-friendly sleeve, like the Hummer Penis Stroker, brings a new dimension to your head-giving game. The Hummer is full of soft bumps, twists, and turns that feel incredible as they bob up and down his erect penis. Lube him up and alternate between licking and sucking his member with your mouth while stroking him with the masturbator sleeve. If you’ve got a sensitive gag reflex, use the sleeve as an extension of your mouth and suck on the tip of the penis while using the masturbator to stimulate his shaft. No matter how you choose to play, he’ll be in ecstasy with his two favorite things: smokin’ hot oral sex, and a new toy just for him.

3. Pulse and Play

Men’s sex toys have been catering to blow job lovers since the invention of the wheel. It’s about time the ladies had the luxury of top-of-the-line oral delights. Thanks to the Womanizer, vulva owners can now experience all the body-tingling sensations of the most skilled oral giver, all in the palm of your hand. The Womanizer uses tiny pulses of air to recreate the feeling of a gently sucking pair of lips. Although this unique toy is awesome for solo time, we think it also makes the perfect addition to couples’ oral play. Hand it to your partner and use it during foreplay to jump-start the sensitive nerve endings in the clitoris. Once you’re warmed up, move the Womanizer’s suction cup lower on your labia while your lover gently licks your clitoris (or vice versa with a tongue on your labia and the toy on your hot button). This little oral wonder is also a great way to reach your big-O with the helping hand of your partner if you can’t always climax during oral. For tireless lovers (and the occasional tired tongue), the Womanizer hits the spot every time.

4. Jump, Jive, N’ Moan

There’s nothing like a blended orgasm—that toe-curling combination of clitoral and g-spot climax in harmony. Bring some good vibrations to your oral session with a wearable internal sex toy, like the Warming G-spot Swirl. Insert the Swirls curved, bulbous head into your vagina while letting the flatter, outer piece rest on your vulva and clitoris. The internal G-spot shaft will rock you like no other while the vibrating pad simultaniously carresses your vulva’s sensitive nerve endings. Before you get down to sexy business, make sure you’ve got your cell phone handy. This sex-tech vibe connects to an app on your smart phone, where your partner can easily control the vibrational patterns with a single swipe. Givers, take note: to drive her absolutely wild, change your tongue technique every time you click to the next vibration setting. As an added bonus, the Jive teases your partner across the bedroom or across the world. When you can’t get a taste of your lover, the bluetooth connection enables long-distance play time.

5. Booty Rockin’

Oral connoisseurs are always looking for their next thrill. If you’ve tried every sex tip in the book and are looking for a truly unforgettable orgasm, anal stimulation can be a mind-blowing new addition to your oral repertoire. Start slowly with a beginner-friendly small plug, like the Little Zinger. This gently-weighted anal toy is comfortable to insert and offers a little extra fullness as it’s shape stimulates the nerve endings in your anus. Wear it while receiving oral sex and you’ll immediately notice those extra tingles that can only come from teasing your tush. Once you’ve fallen in love with the delicious mix of oral and anal pleasures, spring for a pyrex anal toy like the App-Controlled Ditto+. Let your lover buzz you into orgasm as they take control of the Trio’s remote and three strategically-placed motors while working their mouth over your vulva. If you love blended orgasms, simultaneous clitoral and anal play take pleasure to the next level.

Just when you thought oral sex couldn’t get any better, add a vibe, lube, or stroking tube to bring an extra zing to your tongue skills. There’s no better way to blow your partner’s mind than with some spine-tingling toy tricks!

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What Are Kegels?

The Gift That Keeps On Giving

But Really, That’s Not All

No Pain, All Gain

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While you’re reading this, teams of designers, engineers and sexperts around the globe are dreaming up new devices for the betterment of humankind: pleasuring the prostate (Also known as the “P-spot” or “He-spot). You could spend a lifetime trying their many orgasmic creations. But then you’d have a funny walk.

Instead, why not narrow your choices to a handful of exciting prostate toys that’ll thrill you or your lover the most? And with this personal guide to P-spot play, you can get right to the bottom line.

First Things First: Finding the He-spot.

Look familiar? The prostate is identical to a woman’s G-spot. It’s located in approximately the same area as the G-spot, though it’s accessed through the anus, or “A-spot.” So, if you can easily find the G-spot, locating the He-spot will be a piece of cake.

If not, we’ve shared some pointers to guide your He-spot discovery. Slide your finger(s) about 2-3 inches inside the A-spot. With your fingers shaped in the classic “come-hither” motion, press upward against the anal wall, toward the belly button. The prostate is walnut-sized, with a squishy “palm-of-the-hand” texture.

Bingo! You’ve found the prostate. Now it’s time to play.

He-Spot Massagers: Precision on a mission.

By seeking out direct contact with the prostate, a He-spot massager can stimulate you or your partner to unexplored heights of pleasure. Your mileage may vary, yet it’s almost always worth the ride.

A He-spot massager is cleverly designed with a gentle upturn at the tip for precision aim at the He-spot, as well as easy insertion. The toy’s bulbous chassis is designed to feel good as it curves inside the Pleasure Tunnel. And its flared safety-base serves as a convenient joystick while it prevents the toy from slipping completely inside.

Start your adventure with plenty of preheating—never begin from a cold start. Lube up the toy, then insert it slowly into the A-spot, with the curved tip arching toward the belly button. If you’ve already found the He-spot with your finger, you’ll find it a lot easier with the toy. Be sure to talk it through, so you’ll know when there’s direct contact. Then gently rub and massage directly on the delicate P-spot—never poke or prod. Or you can simply maintain a steady light pressure while turning your full attention to the art of penis pleasing.

Once you’re comfortable with a basic He-spot massager, you can try hands-free models, which use natural muscle movements to excite the He-spot during lovemaking. And some designs even offer simultaneous taint stimulation for extra pleasure.

Once you or your partner gets comfortable with A-spot play, you’ll discover a new world of pleasure—along with better control over pelvic muscles and orgasms. This can lead to a highly coveted new-and-improved prowess in bed.

Do It the Right Way: Your Guide to Toy Safety

Toys are meant to be all fun and games—and they are—when you follow a few safety guidelines:

Smooth it. Feel around on new toys for any sharp edges or rough seams. Make sure the toy is perfectly smooth. For ultimate smoothness, roll a condom over it.

Clean it. Wash toys thoroughly before and after each use with an adult toy cleaner or antibacterial soap—then rinse thoroughly and air dry. If there are batteries, be sure to remove them first.

Stow it. After cleaning and air drying, wrap each toy in its own clean cloth or fresh plastic storage bag, then store it in a cool place that’s out of direct sunlight—and away from prying eyes.

Cover it. Certain toys have microscopic nooks and crannies that can harbor germs even if you clean those toys thoroughly. For the best protection, roll a condom over every toy—every time.

Lube it. Always lube-up your toys—but do not use silicone lube with a silicone toy. It seems like the opposite of what you’d expect, but silicone-on-silicone will actually melt the toy. Instead, use a water-based lube with your silicone toy, or wrap it in a condom.

Never do it. Do not insert bullet vibrators into the A-spot—unless you want to explain to the ER doc why it’s lost inside your anus. Always use toys designed specifically for buttplay: models that are made with flared safety-bases to prevent them from disappearing inside.

Now that you know the ins-and-outs of P-spot play, you’re ready to begin your backdoor exploration mission. Enjoy the ride.

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If you’re old school like me, and you enjoy the physical feeling of holding an actual book (or a penis) in your hands, then you’re about to score a 2-for-1 special! I was so excited to crack this pocket-sized book open and flip through the eye candy that decorated each page. Upon first glance, the pocket sized Tickle His Pickle appeared as an instructional guide with a bit of a graphic novel vibe.  By page 6, I was hooked, and we had only just begun to hit the tip of the surface.

In the beginning, Dr. Sadie sheds a comforting light on some common intimacy inhibitors, such as overcoming hesitations about your partner’s scent or taste. These topics are portrayed as a cue to uplevel your love life by experimenting with new positions or pleasure products—just do it! One point that resonated with me the most is so simple, so accurate, and yet so overlooked at times—“Good communication starts at the lips.” Bless you, Dr. Sadie! Solid communication is THE foundation of a more intimate and exciting experience with any partner. We all deserve to feel good—and heard! I appreciate the fact that she addresses this before getting the sausage party started (in the book and otherwise).

As we all know, communication can be complicated—even if you are completely comfortable in a relationship. Not sure how to start communicating on a deeper level with your significant other? She suggests using the book itself as a suggestive stepping stone by leaving it somewhere your partner can see it. Depending on the reaction you receive—whether excited, or none at all, you will have a better idea of how to gauge the rest of the conversation.

Physical anatomy is also covered, starting with the sexual response cycle and the most ‘potent parts’ to incorporate during a romantic romp. Spoiler alert: they aren’t sexual organs. They are our eyes and ears! At this time, “Aural Aphrodisiacs” are explained, with Dr. Sadie stating ‘honesty is your best aphrodisiac’. This is such an understated approach to trying sexy talk without feeling cheesy or self-conscious. Focus on how your body is reacting to stimulation by calling it as you feel it, in a way that feels true to you.

One section of the book illustrates the contrasts in our sexual desires, and tips on accepting them. If your partner is turned on by anal play and you aren’t there yet, indulge them by watching an adult video that features anal sex. We participate in different types of negotiation on a regular day-to-day basis with all sorts of people including clients, children, and customers. Our sexual partners are no different.

The book pushes way past how to please the cock and balls, chock full of insightful details on everything from shaving to lubrication, and how to shop for it. (You don’t have to look very far—Dr. Sadie has her own line of female formulated lubricants, Slippery Kitty! Seriously, her intellectual limits know no bounds.)

My favorite part of the book was the prostate play section, a topic that can be tricky to navigate. Dr. Sadie recommends using medical role play as a vehicle to prostate exploration. The only reason I finally put this book down (vs. immediately reading it a second time) is because I was SO ready to put my new tips to work that I hauled ass to the lingerie store to purchase a hot nurse costume!

As a sex educator, I’d like to think I can be a pretty well-seasoned meat handler, but Dr. Sadie is on another level. Not only does the book provide accessible tips for all levels of penis lovers, but it is accompanied by the Tickle His Pickle Pleasure Kit, too! Tickle His Pickle is a prime example of Dr. Sadie Allison’s fine-tuned expertise, and as Adam Corolla likes to say, she truly is a penis genius.

Overall: Gripping

Grade: A!

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Try out your newly learned sexy tips ‘n tricks with the help of pleasure products from TickleKitty.com:

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Every woman on earth is graced with a G-spot—a powerful epicenter of deep, satisfying, body-pulsing orgasms—yet none can experience its profound pleasures without the secret of its magic touch.

Hello, guys…are you listening?

The G-spot is a small, ridged, oval-ish area of spongy tissue that’s 2-to-3 inches inside the vagina, on its upper wall, just behind the pubic hairline. It’s easier to locate than you might imagine. Slide a lubricated finger or two inside the vagina, along the upper wall, with fingertips facing up so you can curve your fingers toward the belly. At 2-to-3 inches inside, when the vagina’s sensual softness turns to sensational ridgy-ness—eureka—you’ve found it!

Now that the G-spot has been located with fingertips, grab your partner and find it using a penis! Try out these top G-spot positions and be wowed with direct G-spot stimulation.

G Marks The Spot

Both grind in tiny circles, he resists the in’n’out temptation, and she keeps his penis pressed into her G-spot. Want more gyrating power? She leans forward and hugs his neck.

Lady Godiva

Hold still, mister! She’s ready to rock out right on her own G-spot. As she’s nearing a lusty finish, he grasps her hips and sends her gyrations into overdrive.

Leap Frog

If he’s tall, and her quads are fit, this may very well be the perfect G-spot pleasure-angle.

Bull’s-eye

For precise aim and a snug fit, his legs go outside hers. She holds perfectly still ’til he presses into her G-spot, then both gyrate together as her fingers—or a clitoral vibrator—find her clitoris.

Tilt-A-Whirl

She gyrates wildly, pressing his erect penis into her excited G-spot with her entire body. He sits perfectly still (although he CAN go up on tippy-toes to assist her angle).

Introducing these G-spot lovin’ moves in the bedroom is sure to lead to body-melting pleasure and heart-racing orgasms. Want to know more secrets to better lovemaking? Grab a copy of one of my best-selling books, Ride ‘Em Cowgirl! Sex Position Secrets for Better Bucking.

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Do you think squirting is just for a lucky few? We’ve got good news. Any woman can learn to squirt. With just a few tweaks to your lovemaking sessions, you can find yourself having earth-shattering, mind-blowing orgasms. Don’t believe us? Take a look at the expert-tested tips below:

Get Comfortable

One of the most important aspects of learning to squirt is getting comfortable with yourself and your partner. In fact, the key to squirting is relaxation.

So, first get comfortable. How?

1.  Empty your bladder prior.
2. Play some soft, gentle music.
3. Light a few scented candles, and dim the lights.
4. Ask your partner to give you a massage.

It’s also important that you’re comfortable with your partner. Even with a partner you’ve been with for awhile, it can take a bit to get to this level of intimacy.

Get Warmed Up

A squirting orgasm–or, any orgasm really–cannot take place in a rush. In fact, the more time you take to “warm up”, the easier the task will be to achieve. But what do I mean by getting “warmed up”?

Practice Foreplay. Of course, the right sexual mood is crucial to successfully learning to squirt. To set that mood–and to remove the pressure to “perform”–foreplay is a must.

20-30 minutes of foreplay can increase relaxation and improve feelings of intimacy, both for you and your partner. This will prepare you for squirting, and your partner for the task of making you squirt.

Use Some Lube. As has been discussed previously on the blog, lube truly is your best friend. And, in the case of those just learning to squirt, it can also be your saving grace.

While foreplay is likely to get you aroused enough to not need lubricant, its use can increase sensitivity. As such, it never hurts to have a bit of lube on hand to get things going.

How To Get Your Body to Squirt

Now that you’re sufficiently prepared, it’s time to discuss the more “mechanical” aspects of squirting.

There are two anatomical structures that play a role in squirting–the G-spot, and the Skene’s gland. The G-spot is a tissue that surrounds the urethra and engorges with blood when aroused. The Skene’s gland is located just above the G-spot, and it’s more commonly known as the “female prostate”.

When the G-spot is stimulated, so too is the Skene’s gland. This can cause it to release into the urethra where it is then ejected from the body (i.e. squirted).

As such, we’re going to focus on G-spot stimulation. This isn’t to say that clitoral stimulation can’t cause squirting, but it’s not as common as with G-spot stimulation.

Techniques for Stimulating the G-Spot

You’ll first need to find your G-spot. Then, it’s time to stimulate it. Here’s how:

The Hook. This can be done by yourself or your partner. Place the palm of your hand against your clitoris, and rest your pinky and index finger on either side of thevaginal opening. Now insert the ring and middle fingers, and rest these on the G-spot (which you found with the above exercise).

Use these two fingers to massage the G-spot (using a hook-like) motion. With continuous stimulation, you’ll begin to feel a buildup of pressure. Continue to stimulate the G-spot until the orgasm has built, and follow through until the release.

It is very important to be completely relaxed at this point in time. Only with relaxation will squirting occur.

Penile Penetration. It’s also possible to squirt during intercourse. However, it can be a bit more difficult for inexperienced squirters (so I only recommend this once you’ve practiced a bit yourself).

Foremost, the angle (not depth) is most important to the stimulation of the G-spot. This means you’ll have to use sex positions that focus more on G-spot pressure. A few of these positions include the modified cowgirl position (you on top, but slightly bent backwards using your arms on his knees as leverage) and the lazy doggy style position (with you lying on your belly, legs straight and hips slightly raised).

Sex Toys. If a squirting orgasm still proves to be elusive–or if you’d just like to add a bit more spice to the bedroom–I recommend you give G-spot vibrators a try, like the Jive – Bluetooth Controlled Wearable Vibrator.

For some women, this is the best way to get started with squirting (whether alone or with a partner).

The bottomline: all women can learn to squirt. While it may come naturally for some, others will have to practice. And that’s okay. By implementing the tips above, you’ll be off to a good start.

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A vibrator is a classic sex toy—one that’s been around since the late 1800’s. Sure, vibrators have gotten smaller and more powerful, but it seems like a challenge to make a classic vibrator feel modern. Unless, that vibrator is the iBend.

The silicone, velvety iBend is—in a word—luxurious. It’s silky smooth to touch and glides inside easily, with a little lube. And because you get to choose the places it curves—it’s guaranteed to hit all the right places. 

The iBend is a traditional high-end vibrator; only it’s more flexible than most state-of-the-art vibes. And let’s be real, flexibility is fantastic. It’s why yoga is super trendy and why gymnastics is a 
popular Olympic sport. During sex, flexibility can mean that you’re open to new ways of doing old things. The iBend is also waterproof and easy to clean, making wet fun an enticing option.

The iBend was screaming for me to be flexible with my masturbation practice. While often a clitoral girl when I go at it solo, the iBend was begging to go inside and stroke my G-spot.

 It was as if I could literally hear it calling for me from the depths of the box, Saaarrrahhhh, stroke me, stroke me…

As soon as the family was off to work and to school, I plugged it in to charge it up. The rechargeable vibe lasts up to 80 minutes and needs a charge before the first go-round. As I patiently ate breakfast, I re-read How to Have Your First G-Spot Orgasm. I’ve had them before, but rarely on my own.

After reading up, I locked the iBend in place, with as much of a “come, hither” motion as I could muster. I gently began teasing the vibe around my outer lips, then used the textured tip to focus on my clitoris. My right hand guided the toy into my pussy, and my left hand delicately continued to play with my clit. As the tip hit the top wall of my vagina, I moved slowly through all seven stimulating patterns. I was surprised at how perfectly the toy was contoured to reach my G-spot. As I began to climax, I switched to my favorite pulsating vibration pattern using the easy button controls, and let the waves of ecstasy take over my body. 

I generally, and predictably, have orgasms from a steadier and stronger vibrational pattern, but not this time. This time, I was flexible. Just like my vibe.

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Once you’ve experienced the iBend, check out what our other vibes have to offer, from TickleKitty.com:

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The birds and the bees aren’t what they used to be! In a lighting-fast internet culture of easily accessible porn, increasing peer pressure, and misinformed abstinence-only sex education, it’s hard to know where to begin when preparing your kids for a safe, healthy sexual future.

Though some parents have that coveted, BFF-level relationship with their kids, not every family has it so easy. Kids naturally become more aloof and distanced from their parents as they reach adolescence, so it’s important to start the sex talk while they’re young and build their trust in you as a guiding adult. You don’t have to hide their eyes from every movie sex scene or snoop through their online history. Start your kids’ sex education with a foundation in honest, candid information, and they’ll have the decision-making smarts to pick healthy choices as they mature into sexual beings.

Anatomy Lessons

Previous generations often equated anatomy with sexuality. Hence, a lot of girls thought they could get pregnant from kissing, but assumed the pulling-out method was effective birth control. Don’t feel shy when they start to ask about the vagina and vulva or penis and testicles. Start with the basics, and see where the kids steer the conversation. They might know more than you’d expect, or they might be more concerned with imaginary friends and toys, in which case they’re telling you to wait for a better moment to explain how babies are made. In either case, a basic, age-appropriate anatomy book is a good way to test the waters. Let them page through it alone, and then pick it up together to see what connections they’ve drawn. Encourage questions, and never let them leave the conversation confused.

Knowledge Equality

Schools are fond of separating girls and boys for respective talks on menstruation and spontaneous erections. It’s understandable that children might not feel comfortable learning about sensitive topics with the opposite sex in the room. However, make sure they get the other half of the puberty lesson at home. It’s important for boys to understand periods, and for girls to understand the hormonal changes in their male classmates. Let them know that everyone their age will experience these changes as they get older, and that it’s a time to extend empathy and camaraderie to their peers instead of teasing and laughter. Periods and boners are normal, and it’s about time we raised a generation of kids that understood that from the start.

Safer Sex, Safer Teens

Since when has denying teens access to birth control or condoms convinced them not to have sex? Ask your parents and, with a sigh, they’ll probably reply, “never.” If your kids are on the brink of puberty, educate them on safe sex and allow them ample access to various forms of birth control. Make sure they know you’re available for advice without fear of punishment or shame. Explain the physical and emotional commitments required for sex without trying to scare them away with moral judgements. Talk about the importance of consent and caring for your partner’s well-being. Equip teens with the facts, but don’t try to stop them from having sex by grounding them from the weekend party. They’ll just find a way to sneak out later, and they certainly won’t ask your advice on being safe. Giving teens the chance to make their own right decisions instills confidence and foresight into their actions.

Lead with Honesty and Heart

We know, parents—there is no instruction manual for raising kids, and every child needs an educational experience that is tailored to their personality and learning style. No matter what topic you’re discussing, always be honest and show your kids that you’re teaching from the heart. It can sometimes be embarrassing or even intimidating to reveal the truths of human sexuality to impressionable young minds, especially when they’re your own. When you’re unafraid to bare your soul and approach everything from a place of love, kids pick up on that. Even if they don’t always say it, they’ll gain a newfound respect for their parent as a wise, guiding sage, and will forever seek to maintain your trust.

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Amazingly, guys have a powerful orgasm trigger besides the penis, yet many have never gone near it. A bit surprising, huh?

That spot is the prostate, which some call the “P-spot,” and others call the “He-spot.” After all, it is about him. This walnut-sized gland is two-to-three inches inside the A-spot (anus), just behind the pubic hairline. The prostate’s job is to create and store much of the fluid for ejaculation, so millions of sperm can hitch a ride out of the body during orgasm.

Stroking the He-spot directly can actually trigger orgasms quickly and easily—even if the penis isn’t being touched! Guys describe this type of orgasm as locally intense and mind-blowing (whereas women describe their G-spot orgasms as more full-bodied).

What holds so many guys back from experiencing this magnificent gift of pleasure? Penetration inhibition. Yet by exploring techniques with a caring, willing lover, he may discover an entire new world of sexual satisfaction awaiting at his own back door. And all you need is a single fingertip to get him there!

How to Stimulate His He-Spot

Whether your guy is confident or cautious, giving him a He-spot orgasm can change his outlook on life—and on you. If he’s game (all you have to do is ask!), here’s what comes next:

Always touch his He-spot with care. Remember, it’s a gland. Start with light fingertip rubbing, using the same pressure you’d use to rub your eyeball through a closed eyelid. Try stroking the He-spot with either a “come hither” stroke or a windshield wiper motion (but no poking, please!).

No matter how you’re stroking him, he may not be able to discern your exact motions. Try two different stroking styles, and then whisper, “Do you like A…or B?” This will make it practical for him to guide you. From there, it gets easier by simply asking: Harder? Softer? Slower? Faster?

Don’t be surprised if he loses his erection—it’s perfectly common—but you may need to reassure him as well. This doesn’t mean he’s not having the time of his life, or that he won’t come—it’s just his body’s way of directing all his energy and focus to your loving touch as his pelvic muscles relax. If you want to really blow his mind, blow him at the same time!

If he does orgasm from prostate play, his ejaculate may flow out—rather than in his customary squirts or streams. Or he may show all the physical signs of coming, yet nothing comes out. Or he may never come this way at all. And guess what? It’s all okay.

If you’re wearing a strap-on, review these penetration tips first, then get ready for the time of his (and your) life!

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Take a look at any modern sex toy line-up and it’s obvious that humans love to please multiple erogenous zones at once. There isn’t some big secret as to why The Rabbit, with it’s magical ability to hit the clitoris while penetrating you, is still one of the best selling and most copied vibrators on the market. Our orgasms intensify to electric proportions when two of our anatomical hot spots are stimulated at once. This is what’s called “dual stimulation,” and it’s so popular that it’s even become a buzz word in sex toy culture.

There are endless permutations of body parts to pair up and touch, but we’ve got a few tried-and-true favorites to kick-start your sexual multi-tasking. The best part about doubling up is that you can do it solo or with a partner, and if you don’t have the perfect equipment handy, improvisation is easy. We’ll show you what parts to please to find your match made in orgasm heaven and how to treat them to the caresses, buzzing, and touching they deserve.

Combo #1: Vagina and Clitoris

Most dual-stimulation toys for women are crafted in this super-popular combination for a big reason. Many women love penetration, but can’t orgasm without something happening around the clitoris. When you add clitoral pleasure to a bit of internal thrusting or fullness, it’s rare that you won’t start seeing stars. If you’re ready for a dual-stim toy of the vaginal and clitoral variety, The Ohhh Kinky Bunny is a great intro version that’s similar to the design of the original Rabbit Pearl. Try the Foreplay Frenzy if your clit craves more broad stimulation or you want to extend the vibrations to more of your labia. You can even mix and match a dildo and external vibrator for a truly customized experience. Wands like the Nöje are often paired with g-spot-reaching dildos like the Icicle for choosy babes who like to move each toy independently. 

Combo #2: Penis and Testicles

You didn’t think we’d leave the boys out in the cold, did you? He loves dual stimulation just as much as you. His testicles are extra sensitive, and this is exactly why he loves having them touched while you’re playing with his penis. Just don’t squeeze too hard, and let him tell you what feels good. The easiest way to get started is with some lube and your hands. Gently massage his scrotum while you stroke or suck his lubed-up member. Figure out how much pressure he enjoys, and then bring in the toys. The Tenga 3D Pleasure Spiral makes stroking his boner even more fun than usual. Then dig into your own toy collection for a vibrator like the Le Wand Petite or the Magic Wand. The long handles make it easy to reach underneath and around his sack, and the wider heads offer more broad stimulation so you don’t miss any of his tender pleasure places. 

Combo #3: Anus and Clitoris or Penis

Opinions are like asses: everyone has one. That’s why our opinion is that adding anal stimulation to your sex play is fantastic for everyone. Butt stuff can be a touchy topic for both men and women, but adding a bit of clitoral or penile pleasure helps you relax and reap the full benefits of your booty. If you’re both anal newbies, start with something small like the vibrating Silhouette Butt Plug. Vibrations help the anal muscles to relax, so it’s always good to have the option to turn them on. Slowly work in the toy with lots lube while you stimulate your partner. For him, the Mood Thrill stroker keeps the good vibes flowing as he gets used to the new sensation in his bum. For her, The Butterfly’s multiple vibrational speeds arouse the clitoris, which will awaken the delicious feelings of anal penetration. Once you’ve gotten the hang of things, upgrade to a premium butt plug like the Spark His Spot or a glass piece like the Pink Daisy, which you can warm up in water for an extra yummy buttplay experience. 

We love dual stimulation because it’s all-inclusive! We’ve all got some variety of penises, vaginas, clitorises, butts, nipples, and other hot spots to combine for full-body orgasms. Pairing up your erogenous pleasures is the quickest, easiest route to spicing up your solo or coupled sex life. 

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Choose your favorite pleasure combo and try out these other dual stimulators:

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Don’t be frustrated if your guy is having problems finding your G-spot—it can be tricky, which is why I suggest taking matters “into your own hands” when it comes to discovering your G-spot, the kind of stimulation you prefer, and what your unique sexual response is like.

Ever since German researcher Dr. Grafenberg identified the elusive erogenous zone in the 1940s, the G-spot has been a hot topic among sex scientists—and the women who have them.

While there’s been a lot of debate, the truth is, every woman has a G-spot. The G-spot is simply a nick-name for the “urethral sponge”, the soft spongy tissue that surrounds the urethra (named after Dr. Grafenberg). The urethral sponge engorges with blood during sexual arousal, and protects the delicate urethral cord during intercourse. And as it turns out, this spongy tissue can be incredibly arousing when stimulated. This is not the case for all women, but for the ones who swear by it, I say it’s worth exploring.

But no pressure ladies. The G-spot is just another pleasure zone to add to your repertoire. It may become your new BFF, something that you enjoy once in a blue moon, or something that’s just not your thing.  Wherever you fall on the spectrum is perfectly fine. Here’s a few things to consider as you begin your self-love G-spot explorations:

1. Prep for Your G-spot Journey

There are lots of positions from which you can discover your G-spot. An easy one might be on your back, with plenty of pillows propped up behind you for support. Settle in, turn on your most sensual tunes or light your favorite scented candle. You need to be fully in tune with your body to discover new sensations, so you want your mental space to be calm and ready. Generously apply lubrication to your vulva and middle fingers.

2. Get Feelin’

Gently insert your fingers into your vagina a couple inches in from the vaginal entrance, and bend them toward the front wall in a “come here” finger position, applying pressure toward the pubic bone. Initially, the G-spot will feel like a small mass of rigid, firm tissue about the size of a dime. Stroke the upper vaginal wall with your finger, pressing around and feeling for this small mass of tissue. Remember: The vaginal canal doesn’t have many nerve endings. When you experience new, unique feelings, you’ve likely found the G-spot.

The G-spot’s location differs from woman to woman, so take your time and discover the location of your personal pleasure spot. Pay attention to the feelings you induce as you touch and explore. Be open to these feelings and learn to enjoy them. It could take many sessions of playing and experimenting with your G-spot to really feel these sensations from stimulation, so be patient.

3. Grab Your Fave G-spot Toy

One or two fingers may not sufficiently stimulate the G-spot to become fully aroused. Some women need to be “filled up” with a G-spot dildo or vibrator to enjoy it. Take your G-spot dildo and apply lube to it. Let your mind travel to a comfortable and uninhibited state. Take a moment to play with yourself by engaging in manual clitoral stimulation or finger penetration. After you reach a heightened state of sexual arousal, slowly insert the G-spot dildo into your vagina with the curved tip pointing upward. Experiment with different strokes and pressure against the vaginal wall as you would with any type of penetration, getting familiar with this erogenous zone. Now apply extra pressure on the G-spot with the tip of the dildo fully inside, at the top and toward the belly.

Dr. Sadie Sez: Remember, this unique pleasure spot requires firmer pressure and quick rubbing strokes, not in-and-out thrusting. Don’t be alarmed if you feel the urge to urinate. Remember, the G-spot surrounds the urethral cord, so that’s par for the course.

4. Try External G-spot Play

As you feel your way through the different sensations while exploring your G-spot, use your other hand or a vibrator to incorporate clitoral stimulation. This combination of G-spot and clitoral stimulation creates pure delight for many women. You can also enhance G-spot stimulation with pressure from the outside. While your G-spot dildo is snug inside and firmly rubbing against your G-spot, use the flat of your free hand to push down firmly on your abdomen (the lower stomach just above your pubic hair line). This is known as “external G-spot stimulation.” The combination of internal and external pressure may be quite pleasurable.

Now pump away with your pelvic muscles, building toward orgasm. Close your eyes to fully feel and enjoy all the stimulation you’re providing. Focus on the clitoris and the orgasmic feelings you’re inducing. Again, since the clitoris is the main source of orgasm, adding this to G-spot play can help you achieve orgasm and intensify the overall experience.

As with all techniques, breathe in and exhale deeply while you build your orgasm. When you achieve orgasm, the added pleasure of G-spot stimulation may take your breath away. Some women feel as if they’re having two types of orgasm at the same time. It’s perfectly natural for some women to ejaculate when they climax from G-spot orgasms, so don’t mistake this for urine.

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The idea of getting all sexed up for a dial-in date via my laptop or smartphone screen used to seem pretty silly. Sure, it’s hard to argue with the convenience of on-demand, albeit, cybersex. But as an extroverted introvert, I can be the life of the party, but the second I’m put on the spot and have to perform, I’m a socially awkward mess.

When you’re dating/seeing/screwing people who live in far off places, you have to resort to desperate, I mean, different, more creative measures. And if you’re a human with a high sex drive, Kik chat, text and Facebook messages don’t entirely cut it in the pleasure department.

As soon as I got the confidence to strip down for long distance lovers, Skype, FaceTime and WhatsApp became my go-tos for the virtual Big-O. What was once awkward and intimidating put a seductive visual twist on “it’s good to hear your voice.” Think phone sex or sexting, but on steroids.

Here’s how I embraced a sizzling hot digital sex life:

1. Create a sexy space

In reality, virtual voyeurs are only going to see a tiny snippet of my living space. They’re never going to see the stack of dirty dishes in the sink or the piles of unfolded laundry. Still, it doesn’t stop me from creating a space in which I feel sexy. I generally don’t need to make my bed for cybersex, but will light a candle, adjust my lighting, and if I’m feeling especially frisky, put on some Al Green in the background. Because nothing and no one beats this man in sexy time music.

2. Think about appearance

I don’t put a ton of effort into my day-to-day appearance. Sure, I work out regularly, wear SPF (despite living in Seattle) and can pull it together when necessary. But I’m in no way a makeup-every-day, matchy-matchy kind of gal. (I also work from home.) When I make plans to “see” a virtual playdate, I try to present my best self. There’s a bit of exhibitionism involved with fueling online fantasies and I prep for the part, whether it’s wearing skimpy lingerie, doing a slow tease or indulging a hot mommy roleplay.

3. Request verbal consent

I’m not one to strip down in a hot second for strangers on the internet superhighway, whether it’s via sexting or having digital sex. I’ve been the victim of naked photos falling into the wrong hands, thankfully, well before the dawn of social media. When playing with a new partner via Skype, FaceTime or WhatsApp, play it safe. Always get verbal confirmation that risqué screenshots and recordings are not OK to share. There’s no absolute guarantee that someone won’t still violate your sexual privacy, so proceed with caution.

4. Make eye contact

IMO, eye contact is the ultimate foreplay. A person can send a bolt of electricity through my entire body with a penetrative gaze. To be slowly undressed by one’s eyes is such a primal tease. With a look, a partner can convey power, confidence and send nervous butterflies to my stomach. Eye contact is one of the easiest ways to create and deepen a connection. The more you practice, the easier it will be to perfect this important skill.

5. Stay in the moment

Don’t dilute the moment by checking your smartphone. There’s nothing more annoying than getting all hot and bothered, many miles away from your sweetie, only to hear and a notification tone and “I’m listening,” as their eyes wander elsewhere. Do yourself (and your partner) a favor, by trying to stay present. If you live far apart, make your limited amount of pseudo-in-person time count.

6. Be vocal

When you take touch out of the equation, it helps to make up for the lack of physical connection elsewhere. One way to satisfy erotic desires is by being verbal. Don’t be shy! Speak clearly and paint a sexy picture for your partner with your words – between “oohs”, purrs and moans, of course. You don’t have to be loud or particularly dirty to step up the sexy in a cyber date.

7. Solo or mutual masturbation

If one partner is too shy to perform, but is game, one partner can get off while the other one watches. If both people are comfortable taking pleasure into their own hands on camera, mutual masturbation can be a super-hot way for couples to connect. Don’t be afraid to bring sex toys into the mix. Right now, there are a variety of Bluetooth sex toys on the market that create a more (wink, wink) interactive experience.

How do you stay connected to lovers and loved ones from afar? Send us a tweet at @TickleKitty. We want to hear your sexy time tips and tricks!

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“Bring the butt plug,” Jim texted me.

“Okay,” I replied. “I want you to fill me up. In every possible way.”

“Bring another toy too, in case I can’t perform. Then I can work the two of them inside of you,” he wrote. I’d seen how much booze he’d consumed the previous night and took his concern into serious consideration.

I was on vacation at Hedonism II in Jamaica and had told this sweet Canadian the previous night about my newest sex toy, the Trio Triple-Vibe Remote-Control Butt Plug.

At the clothing optional, anything goes resort, it was not uncommon for our conversation to jump from his admiration for my tits to my love of anal play in a hot second. We set up a tentative play date for the following morning.

The minute I received his text, I grabbed the clutch-sized storage black case that housed the Trio and its remote control. As I walked across the resort to Jim’s room, I admit, the idea of anal play aroused me. (It usually does.) I entered his room, we briefly made out, then stripped down to get down to the butt business at hand.

We lubed up the Trio, then he slowly slid it into my ass as I positioned myself in reverse cowgirl and he fingerfucked my pussy from behind. As a gal who likes a wide variety of anal toy sizes depending upon my mood and dynamic, the Trio is a good mid-range, easily insertable size. It could easily be worn out and about comfortably under clothes for pseudo-public sexy time (on my to-do list, for sure). Although I could’ve orgasmed right then, I wasn’t ready, so I moved my body to his side and went down on Jeff as he grabbed the remote control to have some fun.

With my ass in the air, he switched between the Trio’s vibrations and patterns, making my ass twitch in anticipation of what was coming next. Did I mention there were mirrors on the ceiling to admire this whole super-hot scenario unfold? The 5-inch butt plug touts three tiny motors that run the length of the toy, which means a triple threat delivery of pleasure from the tip, body and stem of the plug. My hips squirmed as he switched between settings and I continued to suck him off and circle my clit with my forefinger. Eventually I came, then stroked him to orgasm.

The remote itself is sleek and palm-sized, so it could be used in public without attracting attention. It works up to a 30-foot radius. It’s also shower-friendly and splash-proof, which makes my frequently-traveling head spin at all the potential, on-the-road hotel room scenarios.

If you’re new to anal play, this toy is the perfect size for testing the waters. For more experienced backdoor enthusiasts, the remote control feature allows for all sorts of beyond-the-bed play options. And if you have exhibitionist tendencies (like moi), you’ll want to take the Trio out on the town. No matter how you decide to enjoy this quality plug, it’ll make your ass and your partner happy. Jim can attest.

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My Secret Vibrating Lipstick

For a sweet, discreet “O” on-the-go, keep this stylish beauty in your purse! The ultrasoft silicone flex tip will caress your sweet spots, whenever – and where ever you like… BUY NOW

The Mystical Mushroom Mini Plug

Your body is a Wonderland. Start exploring it now! Soft, flexible and elegantly patterned – this plush little plug is the perfect companion to take down the rabbit hole… BUY NOW

Prostate Training PlayKit

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The Tongue Lover

Worn snug with one ring for his balls and one for his shaft, he’ll enjoy perfect support and stimulation, with a buzz of delicious clit-focused tongue-loving for her… BUY NOW

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We all love a guy that lasts. And at the moment, a few of my male play partners keep their stamina up with a little help from a cock ring. In fact, we’ve turned their inability to last into a sexy game, so they usually arrive at my place with the cock ring on and ready to go. But this time I provided the ring – a brand new Ultimate Lasso.

If you’re unfamiliar with cock rings, they’re designed to be placed around a penis, usually at the base. Its primary purpose is to slow the flow of blood from the erect penis, making it easier to stay hard for an extended period of time. Basically, this sex toy is all about creating a major league boner.

Until recently, I’ve stuck to straightforward cock rings made of rigid materials. Think metal, plastic or wood. They’ve served me well (and so have the wearers,) but I’ve recently discovered the next level of C-rings. The Ultimate Lasso is a game-changer on several levels. Namely its stretchy, vibrating element. This is paired with a unique, adjustable cinch that would be perfect for members on either far side of the size spectrum.

My go-to stunt dick (let’s call him Jeremy) usually opts for an industrial steel ring, but was intrigued when I asked him to road-test the Ultimate Lasso. Jeremy has a thick, beautiful tool, so it’s a big plus that the Lasso adjusts to a wide variety of sizes.

Once I got him lubed up and hard, I shimmied the Lasso down to the base of his shaft. The soft, skin-like material is far more appealing than your typical cold, hard steel. Also, the small stimulator packed a lot more power than I expected (in a good way). Jeremy’s long-lasting erection plus hands-free clitoral stimulation produced several waves of orgasms. I’ve road tested several of these clitoral stimulating C-rings, and the Ultimate Lasso is up there at the top. The vibrating ticklers are just pronounced enough for you to feel the delicious texture without being bulgy and annoying like some.

As for how Jeremy was doing—I have to admit, seeing his hard cock in the Lasso was a total turn-on. I got off on making him wait to ejaculate. When he finally did release, it was intense – unlike any orgasm we’d shared before. We plan to play around with the positioning of the cock ring in future romps to see how the vibration feels in other sexy places. One quick warning: be mindful of his pubes when putting the Lasso on and off – we had a bit of unintentional tugging.

The Lasso may look like a small toy, but for below the belt pleasure and lasting power, it packs big (O!) benefits for both men and women. For beginners, its elasticity makes it an easier-to-use option than rigid rings.

The Lasso is waterproof and requires three watch batteries.

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The Lasso is perfect for your time together, but if you need something helpful and buzzy for your solo time, Tickle Kitty’s got what you need!

Egg McTerrific

Expertly-crafted triple-curved bullet contoured for right where you crave pleasure. Adjustable speed dial, to customize to your personal pleasure setting. A perfect way to start the day! BUY NOW

Midnight Plug

Velvety-soft, seductively tapered and sensationally ribbed. Ten powerful vibration settings to tease and please buttplay lovers both new and experienced… BUY NOW

LUVIT A Delicious Plaything

For an inviting twist and twirl inside, try this unique rabbit. Gyrating shaft, 4 milt-to-wild vibrations and clitoral ticklers for irresistible pinpoint stimulation… BUY NOW

Callie Vibrating Mini-Wand

Get down glamorously with Callie. Available in 4 or 6 inch lengths, she’s a satiny smooth, whisper-quiet addition to your collection when you’re in the mood for some decadent me-time… BUY NOW

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It was one of those hot mornings. “I just want an orgasm,” I thought to myself. Luckily, my Red Hot Spark arrived just the night before.

Excited to try my new toy, I plucked it from its pretty packaging, and waited…two and a half hours (That’s how long it takes to completely charge). Good thing I’m patient, and that I believe the best things come to those who wait.

Not only is the Red Hot Spark a fiery little flame of love, it measures a significant buzz on the vibration scale.

If my flowery language isn’t cutting it, let me just say it straight – this shit works.

The unique selling point of the Spark is in its design. Its pointed tip packs so much power that if you use it directly on your clit, you will get off if you need that kind of stimulation. Another unique feature of the tip is that in certain pulsation modes it looks, and feels, like oral. The Spark can deliver all the flickering and fluttering of your lover’s tongue but at turbo speed.

But it’s not only the tip that’s impressive. The super strong vibrations can be felt throughout the toy.

Imagine your favorite rumbly, vibrating bullet but with a tickling stimulator bonus.

The packaging is simple and the instructions are boldly placed on the back of the box and easy to follow. The toy itself is velvety soft to the touch. It’s also waterproof and comes with a one-year warranty. And, it has a secure travel lock.

The Spark is USB Rechargeable. It runs on high for 30 minutes, and can last on the low speed for 3 hours. This lower speed can be great for long, drawn out loving. Especially if your partner is making sweet love to you in missionary position, or doggie style, while you place the tip on your clit.

Since it’s Masturbation May, I started out solo. Well, until my husband came in and began playing with my tits. For me, bringing in my breasts can be the key to prolonged orgasms. As he kissed my nipples, I felt the intensity of the Spark’s pulsations coursing through my body. And just as he was really getting into it (licking, flicking, twisting, mmm yes please), I couldn’t contain myself any longer.

The equation of pinpoint clitoral stimulation and my husband’s tongue equaled an out of control orgasm.

At least an 8.9 on my bed-rocking Richter scale.

I encourage you to let this be the Spark you need to get more creative. Whether this is the first vibe you introduce into your partnered play, or your first buzzing friend on solo adventures, this Spark can, and will, ignite your sex life.

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Now that the Spark’s got you nice and hot, grab another steamy Tickle Kitty toy for solo love. Or, like Sarah, bring your partner in on the fun.

Nöje (That’s Swedish for Pleasure)

All the power of a full-sized power wand—masterfully miniaturized! Indulge in over-the-top orgasms from this tiny and compact pleasureizer… BUY NOW
 

Raspberry Turbo Glider

Indulge in this turbo delight that encases the motor at the vibe’s see-through ‘tip’ for precise vibration right where you want it… BUY NOW
 

Mystic Wand Rechargeable

A whole lotta’ vibration in one light, ergonomic power wand. 3 intensities, 1 vibrating head, unlimited orgasmic potential… BUY NOW
 

Trio Triple-Vibe Remote-Control Plug

The most luxurious toy for backdoor partner (or solo!) fun. Simply slip it inside, and hand the remote to your lover to put them in control of your backdoor bliss… BUY NOW

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Every relationship has room for experimentation. Whether you and your partner have just started on your sexual journey or you’ve been together for years, there’s always potential for bettering your sex life.

When we experiment both in and out of the bedroom, we learn about what makes us tick. What we like. Who we are. When there’s growth, it’s natural to feel a sense of happiness and fulfillment, because developing as a human being is something we all crave. Sex just happens to be a really fun way to accomplish personal growth! And the great thing about sexual experimentation is that it doesn’t have to look or act any certain way. It’s about meeting you where you’re at and taking as tiny (or huge) of a step outside your comfort zone as you like.

In addition to learning about your body, your sexuality, and your babe, when you expand your horizons your brain might bestow a gift upon you: a cocktail of feel-good hormones and chemicals (like oxytocin and dopamine, among others) that give us some of those punch-drunk-love feelings. It’s pretty standard to feel all these things at the beginning of a relationship, but over time, as we adjust to being in love and having sex available a lot of the time, the output can “fizzle.” This isn’t to say we fall out of love with our partners or stop finding them sexy, just that we’ve moved onto the next stage of the relationship. 

If you’re trying to build a stronger bond or just rustle up some excitement, experimentation is a great place to begin. Here are a few ideas and some handpicked products to get started.

1. Start a Sexy Book Club with Your Boo

Both of you should grab a different colored highlighter and a steamy read for this one. Take turns reading the book’s sections, highlighting the points you want to talk about, then open up a dialogue. If you’re feeling a little bolder, try taking turns reading sections aloud to one another and see how long you can go without diving under the covers.

2. Glide the Way with Lube

Find a brand you love. If you don’t have a favorite yet, shopping and testing out different brands can be half the fun. I recommend steering clear of anything containing glycerin, as it’s commonly problematic for certain anatomy and it can also get super sticky. Anything water-based (like Dr. Sadie’s Slippery Kitty) will be compatible with all anatomy and toys!

3. Treat Yourselves with Toys

There are a million to choose from, but the We-Vibe Sync is particularly popular. It features a great app that can connect you and your sweetie both near and far. Once you both have it, you can pass the controls back and forth so whether you’re using it for some up close and personal one-on-one time or long distance nookie, you have something to use anytime you want to ramp up the buzz.

4. Try a Little Kink-Lite!

Something as simple as a skin-friendly massage candle or a pair of soft cuffs can be an excellent way to begin exploring your sensual side together. You never know what sexy desires you might awaken. Take turns using these items on each other to get to know your respective dominant and submissive sides!

5. Share Your Hottest Fantasies

This one can be the toughest of all for some, because talking about your secret desires is a significantly intimate interaction. It can be ultra-vulnerable, but along with that scary aspect comes a lot of room for hot revelations. Besides, how will you ever achieve those fantasies if your lover doesn’t know what they are? Dreams do come true, but only if you make them! If you can’t bring yourself to talk about them, try writing them out as erotica for each other and see how you feel reading them. Keep an open mind, and also maybe keep that bottle of lube nearby. 

Just in case.

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Foreplay Frenzy

A brand new vibrating pleasure toy with a wide clitoral scoop to accommodate all anatomies, 12 intense functions and a state-of-the-art memory chip that records your favorite vibration setting… BUY NOW

BCharmed Classic Ring

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 Silicone Ball Spreader

The comfort ring around your shaft gives steely-hard erections, and the snug separator makes everything down there more sensitive, and the orgasms more explosive… BUY NOW

The Mystical Mushroom Mini Plug

Your body is a Wonderland. Start exploring it now! Soft, flexible and elegantly patterned – this plush little plug is the perfect companion to take down the rabbit hole… BUY NOW

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Since Fifty Shades hit almost a decade ago, fetishes and kinky sex are experiencing a trendy revival. Humans have always been kinksters, but now that kink has gone mainstream, more people are feeling comfortable with sharing their deepest turn-ons.

By definition, a fetish is a very specific desire for an object, a body part, or a sexual act. If you ask your partner to cuff you to the bed and strap a blindfold over your eyes, then you’re dabbling in kink. However, if you salivate at the mere thought of the smooth, shiny surface of the cuffs and the coolness of the metal digging into your skin, then you probably have a handcuff fetish.

All kinks and fetishes, no matter how seemingly unusual, are perfectly healthy as long as they’re practiced between trusting, consenting adults. However, even the most open-minded couples can stumble upon a surprising fetish desire from a partner. Happy relationships stay happy through constructive conversation, and navigating fetishes is no different. Stay positive, informed, and willing to listen, and your partnership can grow through the connecting experience of kink.

Discuss Your Sexual Needs Early

If you’re embarking on a new relationship, make sure you both get your fetishes out in the open as early as possible. It might seem a bit like jumping the gun, especially if you haven’t slept together yet, but this is especially important if you’re serious about your fetish. Waiting until you’re head-over-heels to spill the fetish beans just makes things more difficult down the line. For example, if you can’t live without spanking, but your partner is extremely sensitive to pain, it could get uncomfortable if the two of you figure this out in the middle of a romp session. Communicate your kinks early to avoid any serious mismatches in sexual tastes that can’t be fixed through compromise later on. (And just think – you might find that you both dig a lot of the same things!)

Educate Yourself

If you’re unsure of how a fetish will work out in practice, read up! Make sure to canvas as many online resources as possible: medical articles, advice from kink-focused sex educators, amateur experiences, and accounts from serious fetish lifestylers. Like everything you read online, take it all with a grain of salt and double-check your facts. Some rather extreme practices are only easy for a chosen few, and others might be willing to dismiss and bash anything beyond the missionary position. Fetish “lifestylers,” a term often used to describe those in the active kink community, are generally very friendly and open to answering questions from curious newcomers. Check out online fetish communities of like-minded souls and seek out knowledgable, respected members. Be open and willing to be educated, and many experienced fetishists are happy to help.

Start Slow and Speak Often

No matter how soft or hard your fetish, always introduce new kinky activities slowly, and preferably without a mouth gag until you’re solid on other types of communication. You might have heard of a “safe word,” which is a single word discussed prior to play time that unmistakably communicates “stop activity immediately!” It’s also helpful to come up with a “safe action” if your activity involves inhibited speech through a ball gag or other material covering the mouth. For example, if you’re gagged and you need a break, you could agree that tapping three times with a hand or foot is the signal to stop. However you choose to communicate, both partners should do it often, especially when testing out new fetishes. The more you engage in fetish play or roleplaying while explaining how it feels, the better your partner will understand how to make the fetish enjoyable for both of you.

Communicate and Compromise

Though it’s rare between committed, loving partners, some couples might hit a wall when trying to find a comfortable middle ground for their sexual needs. Try as you might, your partner’s fetish could be too painful and rough, physically or mentally, to endure. Indulging a partner’s foot fetish, even if it’s a turn-off, is a lot easier than, say, more extreme fetishes like fisting or strap-on play. Engaging in certain acts just isn’t going to work for certain people. However, what you don’t want to do is close the conversation completely. Fetishes don’t disappear out of love, and forcing your partner to give up their fetish isn’t fair. If you’re polyamorous or in an open relationship, encourage your partner to see others who enjoy the stuff you’d rather skip in bed. For monogamous couples, explore every possible avenue of compromise. Fisting might be too much, but four fingers below the knuckles could be your meeting-in-the-middle. And don’t dismiss the power of porn. What you cannot do, you can always watch, and then everyone wins.

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If you’re the one seeking extra spice in your love life, consider picking up some of Tickle Kitty’s fetish favorites – great for old hands and newcomers alike.

Midnight Plug

Velvety-soft, seductively tapered and sensationally ribbed. Ten powerful vibration settings to tease and please buttplay lovers both new and experienced… BUY NOW

Comfort Handcuffs with Easy-Velcro

Total surrender at an economical price. Plush, comfy wrist cuffs to bind arms behind your back, over your head, or right to the bedframe… BUY NOW

Prostate Training PlayKit

A thin starter probe, a full sensation probe and a buzzy two-piece combo. Must have, if powerful prostate orgasms are on your bucket list… BUY NOW
 

Stimulating Lace Panties with Pearl Pleasure Beads

Feel unbelievable clitoral thrills simply from walking, playing or working. These sexy panties are inset with a row of stimulating pleasure pearls for intimate, secret delights all day long… BUY NOW

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There’s a huge stigma surrounding lube, especially with women. Some women are naturally slick, and that’s great. Consider lube your below-the-belt little helper. It makes sex more comfortable and pleasurable – especially for women. Especially if you experience dryness or discomfort, there are ways to get busy that don’t involve spit. I know, the wetter I am, the more I enjoy oral, anal and vaginal sexual pleasure. Ladies, there’s no reason to have bone-dry sex, ever. So, why wouldn’t you use lube?

If you haven’t found a lube that feels good, you haven’t found the right one. Strawberry Slippery Kitty Lube is lightweight, silky and definitely not too sticky. My skin is super sensitive, and Slippery Kitty’s water-based formula is friendly to my sensitive fleshy bits. It’s latex friendly and plays nice with my arsenal of silicone toys. It’s also made without parabens and glycerin, which makes my ingredient-conscious self happy. Make a mess? (I sure hope so.) It’s a breeze to clean off your body and sheets.

I recently enlisted the help of one of my male partners to see how this lube stacked up against other bedside go-tos. Since lube can be used in so many ways, we hatched a well-rounded plan of research that entailed a small vibe, a slow hand job, oral sex and intercourse. If anything, I’m thorough when it comes to exploring pleasure.

To warm things up, Josh* dabbed some Slippery Kitty on my clit and used a small vibe to gently play and tease my hot spot. Next, I slathered his length and started to slowly stroke him to attention. No friction! I then savored the strawberry flavor as I licked up and down before consuming him. Some flavored lubes taste like a Yankee Candle. This tasted like a fresh-picked strawberry without any fake synthetic flavor. I was into it. How we smell and taste down there can be an issue for some (I generally don’t mind) and this lube pleasantly overwhelms the senses with deliciousness.

It was my turn for oral fun and Josh quickly commented on how yummy I tasted. I don’t think it’s a coincidence he ended up going down on my longer than usual. After a leisurely stretch of slippery foreplay, we added a few more drops to his tip and my clit, before enjoying a smooth orgasmic ride.

One of the best features of Strawberry Slippery Kitty Lube is that despite extended play, I wasn’t sore the next day. I rarely have issues self-lubricating, but believe that wetter is always better. Lube steps up sensitivity, so I can slip, slide and enjoy sex, and all its beautiful variations, more. This one makes it taste unforgettable.

For pleasure on-the-go, there are TSA travel-friendly 2oz bottles available.

*Name has been changed to protect the privacy of the individual.

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My Secret Vibrating Lipstick

For a sweet, discreet “O” on-the-go, keep this stylish beauty in your purse! The ultrasoft silicone flex tip will caress your sweet spots, whenever – and where ever you like… BUY NOW

Dorcel Orgasmic Rabbit

Swiveling head for G-Spot orgasms, fluttering ears for clitoral delights and rotating beads for subtle internal pleasures… BUY NOW

Cosmo‘s Steamy Sex Games

Take foreplay to the next level with twelve sizzling couples only erotic card games. Share secrets and explore fantasies in steamy new bedroom scenarios with your lover. And in the end everyone scores… BUY NOW

Raspberry Turbo Glider

Indulge in this turbo delight that encases the motor at the vibe’s see-through ‘tip’ for precise vibration right where you want it… BUY NOW

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Anybody with a penis will likely come head to head with erectile dysfunction at some point in his life. Whether because of mechanical failure, emotional obstacles, relationship, or health factors, limpage challenges have a way of bringing a good man down.

Here are five common reasons your guy may go soft, and ways to keep him (and his spirits) up.

Whiskey Dick

If he’s acting sloppy drunk, his dick may be sloppy drunk too. Drinking too much whiskey (or alcohol, in general) is a sure fire way for a penis to go limpy on his lover. Alcohol impacts blood flow by dilating the vessels so that blood flows into the penis, and out again too quickly. There’s literally no time for an erection.

What You Can Do: Beyond kissing and cuddling, give your guy water and a rain check on your rocking good time. Have him write you an IOU and chalk it up to a night out. Or play a game of truth or dare and see what happens when he focuses on something else. If ED and drinking are regular problems, well, that’s another story.

Performance Anxiety

He’s nervous about your sexual rock star status, or if you’ll think his penis is too small. He’s concerned that he won’t make you orgasm from his magic wand and he really, really wants to be the best lay you’ve ever had. But because he can’t stop thinking and thinking and thinking, he’s totally unable to get his member into your exclusive hole.

What You Can Do: Help manage performance anxiety by assuring your partner that sex is a work in progress. Ease his worrying mind by taking the lead with passionate kissing and outercourse play. When you make sex feel less like an oral-intercourse show, you’ll also be showing your partner just how fun, adaptable and non-judgmental you are. You can even tell him ‘no going inside’ – and play away.

Depression

He might be sad and soft, and not in the mood to have sex. And if he’s taking an antidepressant (especially one known as an SSRI), sexual side effects are as common as flipping on E! and seeing something Kardashian. These side effects include an inability to get, or maintain, an erection along with an even tougher and more frustrating time ejaculating.

What You Can Do: Indulge in other activities that bring bring you both pleasure. That could mean pleasing you in all the ways you love, and you can be sweet and intimate with him too. Try erotic massage, BDSM, or even strap-on sex. A change of scenery can work too – get adventurous and take him in the car, or spend a night at a hotel. And if SSRI’s are the culprit, encourage him to talk with his psychiatrist about the side effects of the meds.

Stress

It’s a real boner bummer when stress gets you down. When he’s in the high anxiety zone, sex may be the last thing on his mind. Sometimes it’s hard to get out of the stress zone, but other types of sex can be a great way to help him de-stress.

What You Can Do: Talk dirty to him and and tell him that you want to suck his dick. Then give his dick a suck. Even if he doesn’t get hard, or even if he doesn’t get off, it’s nice to feel wanted and devoured. You can also turn on some of his favorite porn, do a strip tease, masturbate in front of him… you know his triggers! You might even consider investing in a male strap-on harness. He can wear it above his penis, or get a thigh harness to wear on his quad.

Porn

Porn isn’t all bad, and if a person enjoys porn in moderation, that’s great. However, young men these days have access to, and often times, consume a lot more porn. This can make it harder for him to get harder, especially if they’re handling their business without you a little too often. Not to mention, when you’re watching things you can’t possibly do in your own sex life, it can create an illusion as to what a satisfying sex life entails.

What You Can Do: If porn seems like a problem in his life, talking about ways to stop, reduce, or limit, his use would be helpful. You guys could also make your own porn and see if that turns him on (Before you do this, discuss what to do with the porn after you’ve both watched it).  If porn is a real problem in his life, he may want to speak to a therapist who specializes in these issues. (Check out AASECT.org for a list of reputable professionals).

Erection resurrection problems happen to the best of dicks. It may take time, medical help, or a therapist to help him get back to hard, and as a partner your interest and involvement in changing things up is super helpful. So go out there and carpe dickum!

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His Enlargement Kit

For any occasion, give your boo the gift of you—bigger and better than ever! His Enlargement Kit comes with enhancement three ways: two slip-on supports, a pump and two stretchy c-rings… BUY NOW

 The Screaming O

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Mood Thrill

Tickle Kitty’s #1 stroker sleeve— open-ended for easy clean up, and triple textured for varied experiences with with soft massage beads, thick ribbing and stimulating pleasure nubs… BUY NOW

 ‘Orny Couples Vibrator

This powerful ring’s stretchy, comfortable silicone will fit like a dream, and its soft precision points will rumble her pleasure button to orgasmic bliss… BUY NOW
 
 

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Let’s talk about the elusive G-spot. Unlike unicorns, Bigfoot, and your chances of winning the lottery, the G-spot is 100% real. Every woman on earth is graced with a G-spot—a powerful epicenter of deep, satisfying, body-pulsing orgasms—yet none can experience its profound pleasures without the secret of its magic touch. Hello, guys, are you listening?

We’ll start with the what, where and how to begin your orgasmic G-spot adventures…

What And Where Is The G-spot?

The G-spot is a small, ridged, oval-ish area of spongy tissue that’s 2-to-3 inches inside the vagina, on its upper wall, just behind the pubic hairline.

The right touch can be pleasurable beyond belief, but the G-spot also serves an important biological purpose. During sexual excitement, it swells with blood to cushion the urethral cord it surrounds, protecting the woman’s delicate urinary passageway from her lover’s rapid-fire pleasure-pounding.

The G-spot is easier to locate than you might imagine. Slide a lubricated finger or two inside the vagina, along the upper wall, with fingertips facing up so you can curve your fingers toward the belly. At 2-to-3 inches inside, when the vagina’s sensual soft ness turns to sensational ridgy-ness—eureka—you’ve found it!

To the touch, the G-spot feels a little bulgy, about the area of a quarter, with ridges that feel much like those along the roof of your mouth (run the tip of your tongue up top now for a free demo). If you have trouble finding it, try exploring after some heated foreplay, when it swells from stimulation and excitement.

Learning the G-Spot Magic Touch

Touching the G-spot with the same gentle caressing that excites the clitoris probably won’t create the erotic heat you seek. Here’s why.

While the clitoris is super-packed with millions of touch-sensitive pleasure receptors, the G-spot is not. However, the G-spot does respond in a big way to a different type of erotic stimulation: pressure.

If you’re ready to experience explosive G-spot orgasms, just stroke it firmly and directly with a finger, a G-spot sex toy, and of course, the head of a heat-seeking penis.

For more tips and techniques to get your (or your lady’s) G-spot rocking, don’t forget to check out Dr. Sadie’s bestselling guide, Tickle Your Fancy: A Woman’s Guide To Sexual Self-Pleasure.

Your G-spot Homework

For Her: Get acquainted with your G-spot solo – so you won’t have the pressure of an overeager lover distracting you from the fab new sensations you’re feeling. Try to find the position that gives you the most G-spot joy (and it’s different for every woman.) Then give your partner a nice long demonstration to really work him up before he gets any hands-on practice.

For Him: Show her G-spot some TLC. Remember to start with plenty of foreplay, so her G-spot will be bigger and easier to find. Then touch your fingertip directly to her G-spot, and gently bend and unbend your knuckle as if to gesture “come here.” Don’t worry, she will. Gradually increase the pressure of your touch. Try new rhythms. Stroke in small circles. Tap rapidly. Add in a second finger. You get the idea….

Extra Credit: Pick out a G-spot toy for yourself or your lover. Choose wisely, as they come in all shapes and sizes—from attachments to your favorite power wand, to handheld vibes both big and small.

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It just so happens that Tickle Kitty is your one-stop shop for all your G-spot lovin’ needs. Whether you’re looking for plush, full round heads or precision pleasure tips, we’ve got everything you need in our G-spot Vibrators collection. Here are just a few of our faves:

MOODY G-spot and Prostate Pleasure Vibe

German engineering, unique design and powerful motor. For him or her, delivering mind-blowing G-spot or P-spot orgasms like you never thought possible… BUY NOW

Aria Hug G

Leave no craving unsatisfied with this vibe’s full, luxurious head and soft flexible shaft. 5 speeds and 5 rhythms of this beauty will rocket you to G-spot heaven… BUY NOW

G-Spot Magic Wand Attachment

We know you love your Magic Wand. Now you can feel that legendary power inside and out, with an attachment that will bring those sensational vibes to your most orgasmic pleasure center… BUY NOW

 TRYST Couples Vibrating Massager

A cock-ring, a G-spot massager, a clitoral vibe and so much more. A unique toy with something for all your erogenous zones… BUY NOW

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Casual sex is a lot like going to your friend’s house for the first time. You sit up straight, feel a little tense, and have to ask permission for things. But having sex with someone you’re in a relationship with feels like coming home. You know where everything is, what it all looks like, and how to maneuver around tricky parts in the dark. Relationship sex is safe, comfortable and pretty damn awesome for a plethora of reasons. Here are a few that explain why doing the deed is better with someone you care about, instead of your latest prize from Tinder roulette.

When having sex with a longtime partner, there’s a higher chance of orgasm.

Science confirms this. Harvard University’s Department of Psychiatry surveyed 13,484 heterosexual college women on their orgasmic frequencies and linked it with the number of times they’d been with the same partner. They found that even outside committed relationships, the more a woman had sex with the same partner, the more likely it was that she would have an orgasm during sex.

These results probably stem from two important things in a relationship: trust and comfort. You know each other’s bodies, and how to push one another’s buttons so you’ll be more likely to have an orgasm. Relationship sex is a lot like playing Twister. You direct your partner where to go because you’re comfortable communicating that. So there’s a lot more of “left hand on clit,” or “right hand on blue (balls.)”

Making eye contact also increases your chance of reaching climax. When you’re having casual sex, there’s usually not a lot of that going on, it’s more of just going through the motions. In and out, and up and down. Yawn. But the lover you trust knows exactly what you like, when you like it, and the drawer in the nightstand where you keep your favorite vibe.

You can have more adventurous sex in a relationship.

You might have a go-to restaurant for first dates. The food’s great but not amazing – guaranteed to satisfy, and not too crazy. You don’t know your potential partner’s tastes or preferences yet, so it makes sense that you go for the safe option. Once you’re together and have both learned each others’ likes and dislikes, you can explore new things. Now you can both go to that exciting new fusion joint to try something extra spicy.

Sex with your partner is a lot like that too. When you’re with someone you’ve known for a while, all kinds of sex are game. Rough, loving, fast, slow or silly. Just like you grow old with your partner, you can also grow freaky with them. You can feel absolutely comfortable trying some role play, or bringing out the toys. It’s fun to sexually evolve together, to try new things, and make new, naughty memories with your lover. Just like you remember your first kiss together, you can also add the first time you tapped his P-spot, or the time you climaxed simultaneously twice in a row to the relationship scrapbook.

There are no STD surprises with a trusted lover.

If you’ve been dating someone long term, chances are you got tested together either before or after you both made it official, and both fully understand each others’ sexual histories. If you’re both being monogamous, you know for sure you’re safe. If your relationship is open, you and your partner are probably getting tested frequently, and communicating often.

One or both of you may be living with an STD already. And that’s ok too! In that case, you’ve probably both had some time to learn and feel comfortable adjusting your sexy time to the other’s needs. You got through those awkward conversations a long time ago, and now  you can fully enjoy the moment. Where your head is at your body will follow, so if you’re focusing on pleasure without nervousness or distraction, you’ll feel it in your body as well.

The person you’re f*cking actually gives a f*ck about you.

Sex is also better with someone you know well because you know that person is not going to try anything you’re not cool with. There is less pressure to do certain things because if the person you’re sleeping with really cares, he or she won’t want to make you feel uneasy in any way. Your pleasure is their top concern, and they’ll care if you come or not.

You can expect extra effort to go into whatever it is that gets you off from your doting significant other. Compare that to the last call rando who may fall asleep five minutes in, and then not even stay for breakfast the next morning. Your special someone will be careful with you, cuddle you without fear, and might even help rinse off your stroker sleeve.

Afterwards, you can talk it through, and keep working toward even more amazing love-making. The best part is that this is sex you know will just keep getting better as your relationship grows deeper.

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You’re fully invested in amazing sexy times with your partner; why not give it a little boost with some of Tickle Kitty’s favorite couples’ toys?

TRYST Multi Erogenous Zone Couples Vibrating Massager

It’s a cock ring, a G-spot vibe, a clit massager, it’s unbelievable! TRYST is a versatile couples toy that offers exciting sensations right where you love them… BUY NOW

The Fleshlight Quickshot

Up your oral expertise with your partner, or give your solo experience a boost with this see-through wonder. Easy-to-use, amazing-to-feel, the Quickshot is the new best friend for the dick in your life… BUY NOW

 Anal Explorer Kit for Newcomers

Admit it—you’ve always been curious about a switcheroo. With this all-inclusive kit, she’ll saddle up, and you’ll experience the ride of your life, stud… BUY NOW

The Amazing Vibroman!

Be your lover’s hero! A mini tongue vibe, a stretchy c-ring and handy fingertip vibe are everything you need to buzzz your boo to an unforgettable orgasm… BUY NOW

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When I got my hands on the TRYST Multi Erogenous Zone Massager, I was immediately fascinated by this sleek little toy. I was a little in love with it just for its packaging alone. The magnet-sealed box is black and classy with just a touch of gold. I’m a sucker for shiny things.

The actual toy was smaller and lighter than I thought it would be. It’s about the length of my hand (though I do have long, much-appreciated fingers.) And the two little arms are stiff, not flexible. It’s amazingly smooth and silky to touch, and with the Tryst’s simple two-button control, you’ll have one to all of its three powerful motors buzzing between your fingers in no time.

I’ll admit, the U-shaped design was intimidating at first glance. Then I discovered how versatile this vibe really is.

This gadget is a multitasker for sure. I’ve looked at many pleasure products on the market, and there aren’t many that can claim to be a cock ring, G-spot vibe, and clit massager all in one. And it comes with two motors in the arms and one in the base – and offers seven different functions to customize the sex toy experience. I was spoiled for choice.

In terms of uses and speeds, it’s no one buzz wonder.

A lot of toys are designed with one gender in mind, so the fact that this appeals to both men and women is rather revolutionary. People can be picky about their sex toys—one person doesn’t want anything too pink and sparkly, while another may not like scary industrial looking contraptions… the TRYST is a nice middle ground of being elegant and easy on the eyes, but not too feminine. This amazing toy is also USB rechargeable, which means never having to dig for batteries during a sexy romp.

Now, let’s get down to business.

For solo sex, use the Tryst’s silky tips to tease your clit before slipping it into the vagina for targeted G-Spot play. For me personally, I like this much better than dong-shaped toys.

The curved design of the Tryst’s arms reach the magical, pleasure-producing G-Spot with minimal effort. (If we could only teach our partners the same…)

My boyfriend gave it a solid five stars too. When I was with him, I started off by wrapping the Tryst around his erection like a cock ring. He, like me, was a little skeptical of this toy’s unusual shape at first, but after I watched his eyes close tight while he enjoyed the TRYST stimulating his balls, I knew he was hooked. Not that I had much time notice, since I was enjoying the tickling arms on my clit at the exact same time.

The cool thing about this sex toy is that although there are tried and true ways to play with it, you’re only limited by your imagination. (I’m partial to using it to gently pinch nipples.) It’s also water resistant, which opens it up to all sorts of hot and sweaty scenarios.

It’s no wonder the Tryst sexy couples’ massager was named Cosmopolitan’s “Sex Toy of the Month” in June 2016.

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If you’re looking for more versatile toys, try some of Tickle Kitty’s other multipurpose pleasers. Some for topical temptation, some for internal bliss, some for when both at the same time. There’s no limit to the ways you can receive pleasure!

Flexibelle Arielle

Tease your body with tempting vibration. Or enjoy mind-blowing G-spot pleasure in harmony with clitoral bliss. Or simply flip around for exotic anal pleasures with your G-spot delights. The possibilities are endless… BUY NOW

Callie Vibrating Mini-Wand

Get down glamorously with Callie. Available in 4 or 6 inch lengths, she’s a satiny smooth, whisper-quiet addition to your collection when you’re in the mood for some decadent me-time… BUY NOW
 
FingO Fun Fingertip Vibe

This wireless fingertip vibe is worn comfortably around your finger and features a 3-function powerful bullet and silicone pleasure ticklers… BUY NOW
 
 
Mystic Wand Rechargeable
A whole lotta’ vibration in one light, ergonomic power wand. 3 intensities, 1 vibrating head, unlimited orgasmic potential… BUY NOW

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Before there were sex toys, there were nothing but everyday items found around the house and Old MacDonald’s produce stand—plus lots of people with vivid imaginations. Today, these items still work their magic. The best thing about sex play with ordinary household objects is that you can really go creatively wild. Just make sure to keep in mind a few safety rules: make sure your object is clean before use, you’re clean, and you give everything involved a good scrub down afterwards.

Now are you ready to get started?

1. Niagara Falls

Dim the lights. Draw the bath. Light the candles. Pour the wine. Add bubbles. It’s your time away from the pressures of daily life. Set the water temperature and flow just the way you like it. Then lay beneath it and let it stream deliciously down on your clitoris. If you’ve got a suction cup dildo, attach it to the porcelain just under the faucet, and let it penetrate you as the water teases you. Your buoyancy in the water will help you glide it in and out. Use your hands and fingers to caress your beasts, clitoris and other body parts—or get a waterproof vibrating sponge. The vibes are inconspicuous, so the kids will never know!

2. Washday Fun

Do you see laundry day as chore day? If it came with a whopping orgasm, would that change your outlook? Make women have discovered the simplicity of spin-cycle pleasure by sitting on a corner of their washing machine – or dryer – while the machines do the rocking and rolling for you. Next to the wand in your bedside drawer, this may the best source of vibration around your house. Recommended for home use only—hidden cameras in laundromats could make you a star!

3. The Wonders of Indoor Plumbing

If you’ve got a hand-held shower head, adjust the water temperature and pressure to your liking, and direct the flow onto your clitoral area. It’ll be easier if you place one foot up on the side of the rub or onto a shower seat, but be sure to keep your balance! Start out with lower pressure and increase it as you become aroused. If your shower head has a massage feature, adjust the pulsations to your liking, too. Please be aware that highly pressurized streams of water into your vagina can cause irritation, so position yourself carefully. If you don’t feel like using the shower head or bath tap, there’s lots of other fun you can have to make your steamy me-time sexier! Who knows, you may love it so much, next time you’ll want to bring a friend.

4. Furniture Orgy

Here’s something you won’t see in any furniture catalog: armchair sex! Pick a soft chair or sofa with padded arms. Place a towel over one of the arms, then sit and carefully position yourself on the arm. Arch your back, spread your legs and let your vulva directly press against the arm. Roll your hips in small circles, or rub agains the arm in quick back and forth motions. Wiggle around ’til you find that perfect position. When your clitoris is rockin’ and you feel the blood flowin’, that’s Armchair Sex!

5. Tied up in Tights

These next two are for couples who want to get their kink on. 50 Shades of Grey may have familiarized you with using a neck tie to bind your lover in a pinch, but ladies can get in on the action too. A pair of tights or stockings can make tight, silky restraints. Grab a sexy (and cheap!) pair to tie wrists together or to bedposts. If you’re trying to keep the neighbors from waking up, you can use stockings as a handy gag as well. Make sure it’s not her favorite pair of stockings or tights, as enthusiastic loving might take its toll.

6. Serve Up A Spanking

Imagine: you’re in the kitchen with your honey. Your lover drops a fork. They bend over to pick it up, displaying their tantalizing tush. You just need to give it a good smack as a token of your appreciation, but your favorite crop is in the bedroom. Don’t worry, there are lots of objects all around you that make perfect impromptu paddles – let us especially recommend a plastic spatula. It’s light, flat and easy to grip. Make sure there’s a little oomph in your swing. Feels great over jeans, or on bare butts too!

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MacGyver-ing up a sex toy from around the house is fun, but who are we kidding? You can’t beat the real things. Take a look at some of Tickle Kitty’s favorite toys when you’re done seducing your shower head or riding the arm of your chair.

Mystic Wand Rechargeable
A whole washing machine’s worth of vibration in one light, ergonomic power wand. 3 intensities, 1 vibrating head, unlimited orgasmic potential… BUY NOW

LUVIT A Delicious Plaything
For an inviting twist and twirl inside, try this unique rabbit. Gyrating shaft, 4 milt-to-wild vibrations and clitoral ticklers for irresistible pinpoint stimulation… BUY NOW

The Head Honcho
If he loves oral action, this sleeve may be the next best thing. Extra thick, easy to grasp and simulates the feel of your own lovely and passionate lips… BUY NOW

Pinkies – Soft Neoprene Cuffs
Total surrender at an economical price. Plush, comfy wrist cuffs to bind arms behind your back, over your head, or right to the bedframe… BUY NOW

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How well do you know your handjobs? For a lot of us, it was the first time we ever involved another person in our sex lives. It was a gateway to steamier sex acts, and for that it will always have a special place in our hearts. But you don’t have to think of them as relics from your high school hook-ups!

We believe in all kinds of manual stimulation appreciation! Whether you’re a seasoned pro with your favorite keep-him-coming grip, or you’ve only dabbled in the fine, underrated art of handjobs, you’ll want to check out some of our favorite techniques. We go from simple and reliable strokes to wrist-twisting, finger-sliding, two-handed showstoppers.

Before we start, let us give you the basics.

For a real holy-smokes handjob, always grab the lube! Use silicone-based lube for maximum slipperiness, or your favorite water-based lube if you’re going to bring in toys.

Once you’re ready to get your manual massaging on, start with teasing to get him all worked up. When you’re driving, you don’t go from 0-60 right out of your garage, right? Start with slow strokes that build up for an unforgettable ride to pleasure.

And for any technique, you can always use both hands. Start with one, then bring in the other… or switch off to mix it up. Your less-dominant hand can be for teasing, while you can use your dominant one for power-stroking. Then go at it simultaneously the grand finale!

Now let’s move on to the fancy stuff…

1. Knob Polisher

Place your open palm on the top of the head of his penis, enclose him in your fingers, and begin twisting around like you’re polishing a knob.

2. Upside-Down Sausage Wrap

Add a little something extra to an old favorite by  repositioning your wrist. Have your thumb face the bottom oh his shaft, and then go to town!

Dr. Sadie Sez: It doesn’t always have to be a quickie. Stroke him slowly for a few minutes, then speed up for 10 seconds. As soon as he’s ready to explode, back off his head and work just the shaft. You’ll see him get rock-hard and beet-red. When you’re ready, give him some relief with his favorite technique.

3. Double Twister

Now it’s time for the two-handed moves! Place one hand, then the other along his shaft. Now twist together in one direction, then back again. Just glide smoothly over his skin. Now try twisting your wrists in opposite directions. Be careful of “rope burns”!

4. Two Thumbs Up

Straddling yourself over his legs, wrap both hands around his shaft, placing the fingerprints from both your thumbs directly on his V-spot. Now massage that V-spot in small circular motions ’til it stands for Victory!

Dr. Sadie Sez: Aside from a sensual thumb massage, you can also try tapping! Lightly tap up and down his penis–and on his V-spot–to drive him insane. Or try this to wake up a penis that’s playing hard to get!

5. Human Cock Ring

The silicone version is wonderful, but you can get the same effect with your own hand. While you’re stroking him with one hand, grasp him tightly at the base with your thumb and middle finger of the other. This will keep the blood in his dick and give him an explosive orgasm!

Dr. Sadie Sez: With your stroking hand, create a slippery twisting rhythm. Each time you reach the head, add in a little extra swirly motion to make sure you light up every single nerve ending he’s got.

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For more tried-and-true hands-on pleasure techniques, pick up a copy of Dr. Sadie’s bestseller, Tickle His Pickle: Your Hands-On Guide to Penis Pleasing. You’ll have him begging for more in no time!

Ready to take it to the next level? Here are a few of Tickle Kitty’s favorite toys to make your stroking even more out-of-this-world aah-mazing… Or get him something that’ll be almost as good as your loving touch for when you’re out of town.

The Head Honcho
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When it comes to having sex, would you be surprised to know that men and women’s bodies are way more alike than they are different?

Take her clitoris, for example. It is a mini-penis. There’s a head, and a shaft and when you stroke her clit, you can use the same techniques to get her off that you use to give him a hand job. Or look at her vaginal lips. The outer lips have the same feel, flexibility and functions as the sac that protects his balls.

When you understand just how similar our pleasure spots function, you will better satisfy your partner. Let us help you get on the right track.

1. Boners are Universal

While a clitoral erection can sometimes be subtle, there’s no denying that clitorises get swelled heads too. That’s because boners are a universal salute. If you look closely at a clitoris when she is getting aroused, you’ll see what I’m taking about. And, just like a penis, as the erectile tissue of the clitoris fills with blood, more nerve endings feel the love. Next time you’re making friends with a clitoris, find the right rhythm and stroke the shaft. You can try placing your thumb and pointer finger on either side of the clitoral shaft (you can use the hood for easier movements) and rub-a-dub-dub. Play with friction and wetness to find the perfect grip and glide. After you’ve done the clit job with your hand, try it with your mouth.

Does she like it fast or slow? Does she like to use toys? Does she want you to stop or continue to go? Where do you place your other hand? Do what you like when you get a hand job (or give yourself one) and see how her clitoris responds to your touch. Try different stroking styles to see what she responds to. There’s dozens of ideas in Dr. Sadie’s illustrated bestseller The Mystery of the Undercover Clitoris.

2. Lips and Sacs Need Love

When it comes to blowjob tips, I often say “mind the stepchildren”—don’t forget to play with his balls! You can lightly brush your fingertips up against them, or experiment with a flick or cusping them in your hands. The same moves could be tried on her vaginal lips. You can also stretch the outer lips and the sac. Massage her vulva and see how far you can (gently) pull on her labia majora. Same thing can be said about the super stretchy sac. Next time you’re masturbating, try stretching your bits.

See how your partner responds when you gently massage her outer lips. Everyone loves good sensual caressing. Try massaging the sac and balls together and then gently apart. It may be his very first time he had this kind of massage! Use some warming massage oil or try a cooling one. Then of course, we all know how good a warm, wet tongue feels…

The more intimately you know your partner’s skin, the more likely you are to discover more specific erogenous zones.

3. We Can All Visit Uranus

No matter the planetary body, we all have one superstar love spot in common. Our butt levels the playing field when it comes to options for out of this world sex. Whether it’s a finger, tongue, toys or dick, anal play lets any body experience experience prostate and G-spot pleasure in a whole new way. To begin any anal adventure, ask first. Choose your lube. Start slowly. As you begin to experiment with anal play, you will likely feel your sphincter muscles tighten up. It’s normal and it’s a good reminder to keep breathing. When you’re ready, start with an external anal massage. Then move to the tip of the finger, or a smaller butt plug, and graduate up in size when you’re ready. If you keep focusing on your breath, you can really get into it.

Once you get inside, you can experiment with how shallow or deep in you need to go. If you’re new at this, stay near the entrance and explore all around with your fingertip. If you’re giving him a whirl from the backdoor, use a “Go Forth” motion to find his HE-spot treasure.

4. Ejaculation is for Everyone

Unless you have a specific medical condition, almost everybody can ejaculate. That being said, there are all different ways one can ejaculate. For guys there are long shots and dribbles. For women there is squirting and ejaculating. Squirting is more like sport ejaculating and not the kind of ejaculation that most women actually experience. So how can ladies learn to ejaculate? It starts with awareness. Educate yourself on where ejaculate comes from and how to feel the fluid building up in your body.

Guys, use two fingers to gently – but swiftly – stroke her G-spot (found 2-3 inches inside against her upper vaginal wall).  Stroking in “Come Hither” motions usually works best. When she tells you it feels like  fluid is filling her bladder and you feel her vaginal lips engorging to the max, you may soon discover how to stop at ejaculation station.

Trust us, the packaging might look different, but when you unwrap what’s underneath, you will find plenty of sexy similarities and endless ways to get off.

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Now you know your lover’s pleasure parts inside and out. You’re a goodies guru, and a genital jedi. Congrats! Now check out some of Tickle Kitty’s favorite toys to take you both to the next level:

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Sexting. It’s a fine art. With as few words as possible, you want to convey just how badly you want to suck on it, slide it in, or rub it down. Your goal is to make your partner stand at attention, or put her panties in a bunch. You want them to be anticipating what it will be like when you see them, feel them and taste them. Your words should pave the way, not get in the way. The very thought of writing and sending a sexy message can get your libidos going… and maybe your anxiety.

Don’t worry. None of us were born sexters, not even those of us who can talk a good game. But it’s a worthwhile skill to learn. Flexing your sexting muscles can improve your relationship. Research shows that higher levels of sexting correlate with greater sexual satisfaction. Plus, it’s a great opportunity to go beyond your comfort zone, and explore your nasty side.

Still feeling at a loss for words? I’ve got you covered with a pre-written list of lusty one-liners. You can send these exactly as they are, or modify them to your liking. They’re divided into three categories—Mild, Wild, and Instant Pants-Dropper. This way, you can start out with a tame little tease, and then ramp it up to let’s get it on…NOW.

I promise, you’ll have your boo tingling in their pants in no time. And I mean that literally! Tell them to put the phone in his or her pocket on vibrate, and then blow it up with ten texts in a row to give them an explosive minute of lust-note loving.

Warm up those fingers, because it’s about to get hot in here.

Mild

• I want to get really naughty with you.
• I can’t wait to play with your _______.
• I want to kiss your…
• Tonight’s Password: Pheromoans!
• I want you—NOW!
• Pick up C batteries. I’ve got a new toy…
• I’m bringing massage oil. What flavor?
• I love how you touch my _________. Best I’ve ever had, baby.
• Just had the dirtiest thought about you. Too dirty to text- I’ll tell you about it later.
• How about we spend all day in bed together?
• Really miss you. And I’m super horny! Wish we were together right now.
• Come over and help me undress.
• I’m dying to please you tonight.
• Your wish is my command.
• A big smile crosses my face when I picture you naked, next to me.
• Can’t wait to see you later, got a sexy little surprise for you!
• What shall I wear later? Let’s get creative…

Wild 

• I’m about to slip into a bubble bath. I’ll be thinking of you as I touch myself.
• The door’s unlocked. I’m in bed. Come inside…
• You know that ‘spot’ you like? I’m touching it.
• I’ve been a bad, bad girl… and probably deserve a spanking…
• Crotchless panties tonight? Or nothing…?
• I want to feel your soft lips against mine, your inner thighs against my cheeks… My only purpose tonight is to be a servant to your body.
• There’s a blindfold on the pillow. Slip it on and wait.
• I want you in my mouth.
• I can’t stop thinking about what you’re going to do to me tonight.
• Can’t wait to wrap my arms around you and smell your sweet skin. 
I’ve got some new naughty things I’m going to do to you tonight.
• Can’t wait to make out with you later.
• Thinking about kissing you… Everywhere…
• I’m going to leave you exhausted tonight, baby.
• What do you think about getting it on in a public place?

Instant Pants-Dropper

• I’m wet just thinking about you. What will you do when you get here?
• There’s a blindfold on the pillow. Slip it on and wait.
• I’m ready to try anal, baby.
• I want to be your sex slave.
• I’m going to give you a 5-star BJ like never before.
• Can’t wait to throw you down of the bed, rip off your shirt, and lick and bite your nipples…
• I’m fantasizing about your ass in those tight jeans you’ll be wearing tonight…
• I’m so ready to get on top of you and let you guide me in.
• [Growl] I just grabbed myself thinking of you!
• Had a really steamy dream about you last night…got me all wet.

Give ours a try, and then tell us all the details about your steamy encounter afterwards in the comments below!

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You’ve both just come home from work. You’ve been sexting all day, you’re all riled up and ready to go… Do you have what you need for a steamy sext-inspired all nighter? Tickle Kitty does!

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For some women, toys are the most comfortable way to find their G-spot. Whether it comes to solo or partnered orgasmic pleasure, The G-Spot Rabbit from The Rabbit Company is one of my go-tos. I’ll admit—I never bought into the whole Sex In the City rabbit vibe craze. I just didn’t get the hype. Then the G-Spot Rabbit made me a convert.

First, let’s talk about the G-spot. For many, its exact erogenous location is an elusive mystery, a below-the-belt landscape of unexplored territory. It’s tucked away about two inches inside the vagina, on the top side of the vaginal wall (toward the bellybutton), just past the pubic bone. It’s a web of glands that swell and become sensitive when stimulated. The more turned on you are, the more blood flows to the G-spot, therefore making it easier to find. No GPS necessary.

And I can say I was already pretty turned on before I even unwrapped my new toy.

The first thing I thought was that I wanted to high five whoever packaged this rabbit. Its elegant box is protective but easy to open. Trust me, nothing kills a lady boner faster than having to fight with layer upon layer of sharp plastic.

The toy itself is a dream. For me, size really does matter, and the G-Spot Rabbit measures a generous 8” in length. My vagina fit it like a glove. As for texture, the toy’s silky body-safe silicone feels ah-mazing. I’ve played with this toy multiple times now and have fallen hard and fast for the fluttering “rabbit ear” feature. The cool thing about this vibe is that the internal shaft-and-head stimulator operates separately from the clitoral “rabbit ear” vibrator. Both offer six super-intense vibration options and speeds via one button.

It took some experimenting to figure out how to switch between the various modes and find the perfect combo to stimulate my clit and G-spot.

Once I got the hang of it, I found the “Ascend” and “Oscillate” rhythms to be pure climax gold.

The angled head on this toy, slightly larger than the tip of a penis, teased out powerful orgasms, even more over-the-top than my usual vaginal vibrators. It’s a quiet vibe and I felt quite comfortable introducing it to a brand new-to-me partner. This purple powerhouse is also USB rechargeable and comes with a travel lock to avoid any awkward moments at TSA.

Before I jumped into my sexy time fun, I lubed up my rabbit with some water based, silicone compatible lube. As a long time fan, I suggest Slippery Kitty Lube to decrease friction and step up sensitivity. The delightful thing about this vibrator is that it strokes your G-spot, stimulates your clit and gets your vagina all worked up for the best of all worlds. I adjusted the level of vibration as I went and trust me, this vibe feels great with a soft or hard touch.

Some women may require additional clitoral stimulation, whether it’s via fingers, toys or a tongue to get the job done. I fall into the camp of needing penetration plus clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. In Dr. Sadie’s book, Toygasms! The Insider’s Guide to Sex Toys and Techniques, she writes that for maximum stimulation, many women swear by this dual-action vibrator. Why? “Just imagine pleasuring yourself with a shaft that vibrates and rotates—as well as presses a small vibrating rubber animal on your clitoris,” she writes.

These could be the most intense orgasms you’ve ever had.

This is exactly what the G-Spot Rabbit does.

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Are you a g-expert? Or want to keep exploring your orgasmic G-spot potential? Let us introduce you to these jewels—some of Tickle Kitty’s favorite rabbits to add to your collection.

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The Jack Rabbit One Touch

Not too big, and not too small. 10 can’t-get-enough settings of pulsation and escalation, and a shaft that bends with you. This bunny will have you jumping for joy… BUY NOW

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When it comes to reaching climax, the sexes just aren’t hard-wired the same way. In fact, many women have trouble reaching orgasm, period, when having sex with a partner.

But what if women could master their below-the-belt domain and learn how to orgasm whenever they wanted to? Understanding how your body works, learning new sex techniques and knowing what’s available to support your pleasure is essential for satisfying sex.

Meet the Star of the Big O

You know it, you love it, your guy might have struggled to find it: yes, I’m talking about the clitoris!

The clitoris is the key to providing all the pleasure you deserve. It’s the hooded little nub located at the top of the vulva, just above the urethra and vaginal canal. It forms a wishbone-like structure with the glans visible above the surface and two internal crura, or legs. When aroused, the clitoris gets hard and erect just like a penis and is the epicenter of your orgasm.

Position Yourself for Climactic Sex-cess

One of best tried and true positions that she can come in is Cowgirl, or when a woman rides her partner. Cowgirl can offer the perfect landscape for clitoral friction by tilting her pelvis forward and gently flattening her blooming flower for full contact against him as she moves and gyrates. Think of it as her masturbating, by rubbing her clitoris against him. Tip: in this easy-access position, with the flip a thumb (or two!), her lover can easily take over the clitoral stroking reigns.

Indulge in Pleasure With Clitoral Vibes

Nearly 85% of women require some form of clitoral stimulation—whether it’s the right angled position, fingertips or tongue—to reach climax. And then of course there’s sheet-grabbing, eye-rolling, scrape-us-off-the-ceiling vibrators! There’s a wide range of amazing vibrators designed to use while making love. They’re small, powerful, and very effective. Here’s a few Dr. Sadie recommended picks made especially for the clitoris and that are easy to use during sex.

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You are a creative genius! Yes, you. Self-pleasure through masturbation can be a key ingredient in opening yourself up to your inspired creativity. You will have greater access to the insights that make creative connections, and imaginative solutions to everyday problems, making your home and work life more successful and enjoyable.

Keep in mind, your creativity comes from habits such as being open-minded and observant, and having the confidence and energy to follow through by taking action. To develop these habits, you need the support of your mental and physical well-being.

Where does your creativity lie? Your first answer might be your physical brain, but let’s consider the ancient Vedic system of chakras, or the body’s energy centers. The second chakra, Svadhisthana, is known as the creativity and sexual chakra.  Many experts say you can open this chakra with creative expression and by honoring your body. The energy of this chakra is feminine, passive, and lunar.

The second chakra is situated between the pubic bone and the navel, encompassing the genitals and lower abdomen.  An important aspect of health for all parts of this area of the body is sexual function, which needs to be exercised to work well.  The sensual nature of this area requires you to personally spend time getting to know how your own arousal occurs, what it feels like and how to make it happen. By doing this, you will know what to expect and how to relax into the experience. You can focus on the whole act, rather than achieving orgasm for its own sake.

It is equally important to feel the entire area, getting to know yourself intimately, yes…even sliding your fingers into your vagina. Feel the muscles. Feel the lubrication. Feel the difference between aroused and non-aroused states. Accept yourself as you are, and give yourself permission to feel good. Explore new techniques to create new sensations. For 30 self-pleasure technique ideas, take a look at Dr. Sadie’s book Tickle Your Fancy.

Self-love helps you relax, and know yourself better. There is no part of your body that is off limits to you. It is your responsibility to care for and love your body, mind and spirit. Being comfortable with yourself will help you guide a partner in a shared experience. Hopefully they too will celebrate your wonderful, unique qualities and increase your confidence even more. With confidence comes your willingness to try new things and to share new ideas, and thus become more creative.

By balancing your second chakra, you can become more open to creativity in your daily life. And the best way to grow a good future is to be open to the most creative ideas for all the issues affecting our lives. We must be our most creative and loving selves, and masturbation is an important piece of the support system we can use.

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Where are you on your self-love journey to creativity? Manual play with a drizzle of female body-safe lube is always a pure delight. If you’re interested in vibrators and are just beginning your solo-satisfaction journey, try the Callie, Eva or Tickle Kitty Silver Bullet. Or, the Masturbation Jumpstart Kit has everything you’ll need for the perfect first date with yourself. If you’re an experienced self-lovers, the LUVIT, MOODY G-spot Vibe or the Waterproof Jack Rabbit can help you bring your personal pleasure practice to the next level!

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